FabSwingers.com forum: Private pics. Why no faces ??

By *iss_Behaving OP Woman
over a year ago

manchester

There seems to be a big lack of faces in people's private pics..

Are there some people out there who just 'don't understand private ?'

Only friends can see those pics, if you invite friends then surely you trust them to see what you look like 'n vica versa....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If people don't want face pictures in friends that's up to them I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private pics are different from friends pics tho

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Private pics are different from friends pics tho"

Not even friends can see them I guessed perhaps wrongly that the op meant friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

We have so much to hide that even when we meet we wear masks, usually animal ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

Only the hubby lol

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By *iss_Behaving OP Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes. We have the public pics ( usually blacked out/covered faces etc) but then if you chat to someone or are interested in meeting, you add them as friends to take it a step further.. There by showing a more than interest...

Kinda hard to arrange to meet someone when you haven't a bloody clue what they look like ! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

We have so much to hide that even when we meet we wear masks, usually animal ones

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lol yes like the one on the ch4 program about dogin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

Only the hubby lol

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Yes good point there lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, private means they don't want to show themselves

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Guess we must come into that category.

Beside it being our choice the reason is simple although we try to only accept invites from those we plan to meet or have met occasionally somebody gets through who turns out to be fake/timewaster.

Our face pics are private and are sent when arranging an actual meet.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and if you don't like their private, friends only or public pics, click next.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

We have so much to hide that even when we meet we wear masks, usually animal ones

lol yes like the one on the ch4 program about dogin

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais keep it to all to _iew, unless you got something to hide lol

We have so much to hide that even when we meet we wear masks, usually animal ones

lol yes like the one on the ch4 program about dogin

Yep

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes. We have the public pics ( usually blacked out/covered faces etc) but then if you chat to someone or are interested in meeting, you add them as friends to take it a step further.. There by showing a more than interest...

Kinda hard to arrange to meet someone when you haven't a bloody clue what they look like ! Lol x"

We keep ours in private and send them if we think we might meet.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

If no face pics in private it's a delete from us unless we have met befor hand

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By *iss_Behaving OP Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Our face pics are private and are sent when arranging an actual meet."

K, but at what point share 'face pics'

The banter coulda been fabulous, the chemistry fuzzing away....

Then all of a sudden you realise you've arranged to meet shrek !

Lol

Just find it so much easier to say straight off, "your actually not quite who I'm looking for but wish you loads 'o fun on the way

So much time saved instead of passing emails back 'n forth ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If no face pics in private it's a delete from us unless we have met befor hand"

How do you know what they have in private? We send ours, from our private gallery when we're ready

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"Guess we must come into that category.

Beside it being our choice the reason is simple although we try to only accept invites from those we plan to meet or have met occasionally somebody gets through who turns out to be fake/timewaster.

^^^^ Exactly this. We send face pics when we are ready.

Our face pics are private and are sent when arranging an actual meet."

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Then all of a sudden you realise you've arranged to meet shrek !

Its a risk but so far it has worked for us and we have not met shrek,

Having our face pics set to private is just another layer of security.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Our private pic's are for our more hardcore shots and for sharing with new friends once we are sure we are interested in them, our face pic is kept for meets only, not everyone wants to share face pics that quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as a face pic is shown to me at some point I don't care where they keep them. I don't wank over a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the internet I want control over who sees my face. Friends or not. If someone sends me a message with a face pic and I think we may meet I will save the message so I know who I'm meeting. Demanding that all my friends have face pics set - not my style. Even with the memory of a goldfish I can remember what my friends look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a big lack of faces in people's private pics..

Are there some people out there who just 'don't understand private ?'

Only friends can see those pics, if you invite friends then surely you trust them to see what you look like 'n vica versa...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a big lack of faces in people's private pics..

Are there some people out there who just 'don't understand private ?'

Only friends can see those pics, if you invite friends then surely you trust them to see what you look like 'n vica versa...."

Are there some people out there that think everyone should do things the way they do?

Face pics in private, only sent when arranging a meet. Usually within 2 or 3 mails. No point chatting for ages if there's no attraction. No need for face pics in friends gallery though.

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin

I don't want my face pics to have a fab logo printed across them so for that reason I send by kik x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pics are available for all to see.

I really don't see the point in keeping them hidden.

If people don't like the look of my face then fair enough, but I'd rather be unsuccessful in getting a meet from someone having seen what I look like (and not being to their taste) than because my face wasn't available to _iew.

I find it quite funny actually considering how important physical attraction is here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a big lack of faces in people's private pics.."

I have not uploaded a face pic on this profile, never gave it a thought really, but would have been handy as I had a social meet last week and had to clench a carnation between my butt cheeks so she could recognise me

And I can tell you them tins are hard to hold

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Seems like a lot of people want to tell others what to do/how to behave/ which label to use etc...

Does it matter if people show their face? some of the best sex i have had has been totally anonymous...blind folded or gloryhole action..If i were dating someone,perhaps the face is more relevant..

live and let live..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once photos are uploaded to the site, they can potentially go anywhere, be they private or not, the fact is, anything you upload to the internet can be hacked/stolen, so yeah I guess I'd rather not everyone know that I'm on a swing site thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pix are not in my friends pix.this is because friends can save pix..and I only send face to people in def meeting!

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm that category, no face pic in friend gallery. I welcome friend invite from most people I can chat nicely and friendly, not necessary to be future meet. So I only send my face pic to who I'd like to meet.

...And sometimes rejected, ha

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I prefer seeing faces..Cath and myself are not concerned about your faces being out there on display,its understandable though why people keep em private.I wouldn't meet anyone though without a pic.don't fancy meeting up with sloths body double!..

I imagine us having our pis up does act as a filter,and those that message already know what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't show our faces in friends pics but would never expect to arrange a meet without sending them privately first. We have nothing to hide but keep this side of our lives very private so prefer to limit how many people see our faces x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my faces in private. Not always public for friends to see.

..if anybody wants to see me. I'd show it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though it may yet bite me on the bum in future I just prefer to let everyone know exactly what they're getting straight away! I'm not perfect but my pics look like me - other than my face looks far better in real life as i'm not photogenic. I prefer people to have enough information to decide if they're interested before they message me! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will put whatever pics they want in public, friends or private.

Even if pics are in private, you still cannot be sure that the person you send then to will not show someone else. I've seen many posts where people do not practise discretion and log into their fab profile whilst on a meet to share their messages and the pics attached with someone else.

Now if we are were uber sensitive about it, we'd never see anyone's face pic before a meet, but the decision on what to share lies with the profile owner and I find it pointless querying why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show my faces in private. Not always public for friends to see.

..if anybody wants to see me. I'd show it.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

We fall into this caregory, we have no face pics in the friends only section. Our face pics are set to private and are sent in a PM when we feel comfortable. Our face pics are normal ones too, there are no x-rated face pics online, that way if any are stolen we wont be compromised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine are private to only be sent... to many people I know on here that tbh I cba knowing!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"There seems to be a big lack of faces in people's private pics..

Are there some people out there who just 'don't understand private ?'

Only friends can see those pics, if you invite friends then surely you trust them to see what you look like 'n vica versa...."

what you are talking about is the friends only gallery, the private gallery is another thing altogether that friends and foe will never be able to see unless you choose to send them to them on a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics in my friends only album but I only add those I've chatted to at length and agreed to meet. My friends list consists of only six men. Three of whom I've met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a big lack of faces in people's private pics..

Are there some people out there who just 'don't understand private ?'

Only friends can see those pics, if you invite friends then surely you trust them to see what you look like 'n vica versa....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the confusion here is that your friends only pictures is actually called a Private Gallery on the desktop website and Friends Only Pictures on the mobile version.

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