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Why do us mixed race and Asians get knocked back by women ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most women wont meet because of race why is that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, hardly no women on fab wants a white lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

Because it's their choice. Pretty simples really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my choice who i meet

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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

No idea..think its literally just a taste thing. .nothing sinister.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Affirmative action should be implemented in swinging anyone disagree?

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

I do find especially around London, a strong preference for bbc.

Bad luck for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here a year and not met anyone. And in white . Not sure its anything to do with colour chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find especially around London, a strong preference for bbc.

Bad luck for me"
Yes I am in London too and your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get knocked back for something if its not your colour it's something else, just accept not every bodies going to want to met you

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By *on1Man
over a year ago

spain

Close your eyes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not race its simple attraction. A woman who likes men who are blonde with blue eyes are not going to like a Asian man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own an all, not whinging but I just don't understand how someone can say an entire ethnicity is not their type.

Now I might just not be able to understand it because I don't have that preference, I'm am equal opportunities perv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not race its simple attraction. A woman who likes men who are blonde with blue eyes are not going to like a Asian man "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist statement but used by a lot of people in FAB

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No its not racist unless they are saying no because of a personality stereotype. If its purely physical like in our case its no different from saying nobody over 18 stone, nobody with blonde hair or nobody over 6 foot tall. If you know your not attracted to somebody why waste everybodies time letting them message you? We are NOT racist and have plenty of black and asian friends who would tell you that but the simple fact is we dont find them physically attractive. I think its daft you can choose race in a search (oh my god how racist NOT) yet you cant filter it which would remove the need to make that statement??

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

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Some people really need to look up what the definition of the word racism means. Far too often is the racist case played in totally the wrong situations. This is one of them! Fyi here is such a definition:

The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.

I don't see how stating a preference to only want to meet white folk is trying to be superior over any other race it is merely a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

Most women? I must have missed that fab survey then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to take a look at how Asian men have been stereotyped in the U.K. to find the answer !

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes people do not realise it is not the way a comment is meant that determines it is a racist remark, or not, but the way it is perceived by the person reading or receiving the comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people do not realise it is not the way a comment is meant that determines it is a racist remark, or not, but the way it is perceived by the person reading or receiving the comment."

I disagree it is very much how its meant. If a comment is not racist and somebody reads it and takes it as racist thats their problem. It does NOT make the person innocently making a non racist comment a racist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

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what a load of crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you need to take a look at how Asian men have been stereotyped in the U.K. to find the answer !"

Although you may be right about some people I think the vast majority of people choosing by race do so through pure physical attraction, or lack of it, not stereotype.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

[Removed by poster at 07/12/14 07:19:49]

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Yes people do not realise it is not the way a comment is meant that determines it is a racist remark, or not, but the way it is perceived by the person reading or receiving the comment.

I disagree it is very much how its meant. If a comment is not racist and somebody reads it and takes it as racist thats their problem. It does NOT make the person innocently making a non racist comment a racist!!"

Try telling that to a judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people do not realise it is not the way a comment is meant that determines it is a racist remark, or not, but the way it is perceived by the person reading or receiving the comment.

I disagree it is very much how its meant. If a comment is not racist and somebody reads it and takes it as racist thats their problem. It does NOT make the person innocently making a non racist comment a racist!!

Try telling that to a judge"

Tell a judge you dont want to sleep with black or asian men because you dont find them attractive and see if you get locked up? Ok I will because last I heard there was no law saying refusing to have interacial sex is illegal or racist! Its that crap that proves political correctness has gone to far and people are way to over sensitive!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

It would be your ethnicity wouldn't it. Nothing At all to do with your nonexistent profile. Easy to take the easy, lazy option and use the race card!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

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Utter bollocks

I have been to bed with many an asian and I have a real soft spot for mixed race guys.

J on the other hand does not find anything other than white guys sexually attractive.

Yet we have had many a discussion over him not liking the terms I will sometimes use in a conversation which he calls 'casual racism'

So within 1 couple you have 1 who does sleep with asians who is (sometimes) seen by his own partner as racist and the the other, who would never sleep with an asian or a mixed race guy actively defending them in a private conversation.

So, to me, that kinda fucks your theory.

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"Yes people do not realise it is not the way a comment is meant that determines it is a racist remark, or not, but the way it is perceived by the person reading or receiving the comment.

I disagree it is very much how its meant. If a comment is not racist and somebody reads it and takes it as racist thats their problem. It does NOT make the person innocently making a non racist comment a racist!!

Try telling that to a judge

Tell a judge you dont want to sleep with black or asian men because you dont find them attractive and see if you get locked up? Ok I will because last I heard there was no law saying refusing to have interacial sex is illegal or racist! Its that crap that proves political correctness has gone to far and people are way to over sensitive!!"

Bloody world is going barmy these days

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By *owiththefloguyMan
over a year ago

Lancashire & York

On serious note, spare a thought for us ginger males! We get even less attention. Well gingers males are the social outcasts in the UK! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On serious note, spare a thought for us ginger males! We get even less attention. Well gingers males are the social outcasts in the UK! LOL "

Oh on the contrary, bring em on

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ?

It would be your ethnicity wouldn't it. Nothing At all to do with your nonexistent profile. Easy to take the easy, lazy option and use the race card! "

I have lots of black , Asian and orantel friends . But have just found out I am a racist because I don't fancy them !

I would just like to point out that means all guys that wouldn't fuck an other man are sexest !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ?

It would be your ethnicity wouldn't it. Nothing At all to do with your nonexistent profile. Easy to take the easy, lazy option and use the race card!

I have lots of black , Asian and orantel friends . But have just found out I am a racist because I don't fancy them !

I would just like to point out that means all guys that wouldn't fuck an other man are sexest !!! "

Lmao well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try writing a profile to attract people and if your straight why have you a username that suggests your a gay submissive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God now your racist on here now if you don't want to meet someone with a different colour skin ........ Well we are ageist as we don't want to meet people of our kids age . Grow up for gods sake

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

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Am I right in thinking you a drawing a comparison between someone not jumping in bed with an asian guy as treating him less favourably ?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement "

I don't understand why you posted the above then.

The section of law you quote from does not extend to the bedroom.

It applies to everyday life.

It is contextual.

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

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This may be the case if no Asians, blacks etc was written on a job advertisement but when it comes to swinging, dating, fucking it is not the case. Individuals have the right to see whom they'd like for sexual encounters, discrimination doesn't even come into it in my opinion. It's just someone's own choice and writing it on their profile is simply a filter.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ?

It would be your ethnicity wouldn't it. Nothing At all to do with your nonexistent profile. Easy to take the easy, lazy option and use the race card! "

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Brilliantly put.

Although it is a little unfair to put a blanket 'no' to the whole certain community or group, it is still a matter of personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about choice at least there honist puting on profile what they like , is it descrimnation against single men to post couples or woman only etc no just means they don't want meet single men and saving everyone hastle off sending wasted messages .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I interview two people for a job one is whit the other Asian the White person has better qualifications and experience then the Asian so I take the White person on , can the Asian say I'm racist ???? It's gone mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I realise this isn't a 'why can't I get meets' post ( although I feel its a loosley veiled one) op I'd look at your profile... You could be George clooneys better looking buff kitten saving fireman brother and I would click on with that profile!!

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

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Me having sex with someone is not a provision !! It's not a service I am offering and refusing to give someone or an other race !!!

Sorry but useing the race card In this case is really perthetic !! There are people out there who are racially attact and killed over the colour or there skin !!

Put some effort in to your prof , stop wining and put some effort in !!! Useing the " every white person hates me because there races " is making you look worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op don't think you've done yourself any favours !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

"

That's OK, so what about all the women on here that won't meet white men? And there are a lot of them, are they racist too?

Yet know what, we don't meet black or Asian men because Mrs l doesn't find the attractive, if that makes us racist then so be it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

This may be the case if no Asians, blacks etc was written on a job advertisement but when it comes to swinging, dating, fucking it is not the case. Individuals have the right to see whom they'd like for sexual encounters, discrimination doesn't even come into it in my opinion. It's just someone's own choice and writing it on their profile is simply a filter."

Not for some it would appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's about choice at least there honist puting on profile what they like , is it descrimnation against single men to post couples or woman only etc no just means they don't want meet single men and saving everyone hastle off sending wasted messages . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

"

What about people who say they only want BBC and no one else? Is this discriminatory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all get knocked back for something if its not your colour it's something else, just accept not every bodies going to want to met you "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So if I interview two people for a job one is whit the other Asian the White person has better qualifications and experience then the Asian so I take the White person on , can the Asian say I'm racist ???? It's gone mad "

What's the correlation between this post and what's being discussed here?

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Think chip on your shoulder x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Think chip on your shoulder x"

No...entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just choose not to meet them. I don't meet everyone's criteria on here - not all men like fat women

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central


"I just choose not to meet them. I don't meet everyone's criteria on here - not all men like fat women "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

Maybe your lack of success had more to do with having a 10 word profile not your race.

It's been said time and time again - preferences doesn't make some one rascist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just choose not to meet them. I don't meet everyone's criteria on here - not all men like fat women "

Well I'm not meeting you because you live down south lol what does that make me , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement "

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again because some asians dont get meets the race card comes out and then you wonder why.

Fact is people have the choice to meet whom they wish.

Plenty white folk on here say black or asian only do you hear many white folk moan no because its not a racial thing just choice which most accept.

I never invite muslims to parties simply because women are not looked upon as nothing more than cooks etc.

They are not allowed in same room as men.

I have invited asians to parties but not muslims because my choice as we are all equal in my eyes I know i may get stick for this but i do not care.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just choose not to meet them. I don't meet everyone's criteria on here - not all men like fat women "

Some of us realise we will never appeal to all. Some of us move onto the next profile if we're excluded. Unfortunately some join thinking nsa means saying yes to everyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just choose not to meet them. I don't meet everyone's criteria on here - not all men like fat women

Well I'm not meeting you because you live down south lol what does that make me , lol "

Sensible because I don't meet couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

Some people really need to look up what the definition of the word racism means. Far too often is the racist case played in totally the wrong situations. This is one of them! Fyi here is such a definition:

The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.

I don't see how stating a preference to only want to meet white folk is trying to be superior over any other race it is merely a preference."

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again because some asians dont get meets the race card comes out and then you wonder why.

Fact is people have the choice to meet whom they wish.

Plenty white folk on here say black or asian only do you hear many white folk moan no because its not a racial thing

just choice which most accept.

I never invite muslims to parties simply because women are not looked upon as nothing more than cooks etc.

They are not allowed in same room as men.

I have invited asians to parties but not muslims because my choice as we are all equal in my eyes I know i may get stick for this but i do not care."

Go you right behind you there .... I'll hold your coat when the fight starts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again because some asians dont get meets the race card comes out and then you wonder why.

Fact is people have the choice to meet whom they wish.

Plenty white folk on here say black or asian only do you hear many white folk moan no because its not a racial thing

just choice which most accept.

I never invite muslims to parties simply because women are not looked upon as nothing more than cooks etc.

They are not allowed in same room as men.

I have invited asians to parties but not muslims because my choice as we are all equal in my eyes I know i may get stick for this but i do not care.

Go you right behind you there .... I'll hold your coat when the fight starts lol "

I speak from first hand knowledge on this as my daughters fella is muslim and a real nice chap two kids together the shit she has had because she is white and non muslim is quite apoalling thankfully she does not takr crap.

I have looked at the english version of koran as his dad on effort to try get daughter to convert brought it up i read the bit about women and was as i yjought.

My daughter will not convert because it wikl not benefit or enhance hrr life one bit when asked if her fella would convert to christianity he said no we left it at that because of respecting his choice.

They have been together long time and skin colour makes no difference at all its about women being looked upon and treated equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it simply. . Each to thier own preferences. .. if u don't fall in that category find another that u do. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple.

Most women don't like to race. They prefer it slow sensuous and relaxed. And alot of them wouldn't be fast enough to even consider entering a race in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

"

Not applicable here. People are not providing a service but meeting socially.

Though I must say that I wonder what is behind those 'preferences' that so many people on fab have. Their profiles always remind me of those 'no blacks/no Jews/no Irish' signs, regardless of their 'not racist' intention...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

It's not the skin colour, it's the twattish things they say that don't get them meets.

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over a year ago

funny old site...you refuse to meet people you have no interest in sexually and they tar you with the racist brush

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over a year ago


"Yes people do not realise it is not the way a comment is meant that determines it is a racist remark, or not, but the way it is perceived by the person reading or receiving the comment.

I disagree it is very much how its meant. If a comment is not racist and somebody reads it and takes it as racist thats their problem. It does NOT make the person innocently making a non racist comment a racist!!

Try telling that to a judge

Tell a judge you dont want to sleep with black or asian men because you dont find them attractive and see if you get locked up? Ok I will because last I heard there was no law saying refusing to have interacial sex is illegal or racist! Its that crap that proves political correctness has gone to far and people are way to over sensitive!!"

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over a year ago

Here you go, we wouldn't meet the OP for a number of reasons to do with things like an half-arsed profile, s shitty attitude but most of all because he is Asian. Now form your judgements of us as really we don't care, we know our preferences and won't / don't have to justify them to anyone. To all the people who put "no blacks or Asians" on their profile then feel the need to say "but we're not Racist" don't! You don't have to justify your preferences to anyone.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"

Though I must say that I wonder what is behind those 'preferences' that so many people on fab have. Their profiles always remind me of those 'no blacks/no Jews/no Irish' signs, regardless of their 'not racist' intention..."

For us it's a few bad experiences. One time as Frisky was getting out of a hot tub an Asian guy, who we had never seen or spoken to grabbed her between the legs. An other time we were sitting in a club with a friend having a little fumble, the friend left the table and an Asian guy just sat down and tried to stick his hand down Frisky's knickers. Again never met him before.

Last night talking to an Asian guy at a club, he said that people were racist as he wasn't getting any action. It was his first time at a club and his white and black friends had told him that they had loads of sex at clubs.

He did say that maybe some asians had problems in clubs due to to cultural differences as we had told him of our experiences. He asked what Frisky liked in a guy and she told him. He didn't match her preferences but then kept on saying that she should try something different...

He was a nice guy but spoilt the positive image by not accepting a polite no thank you.

I realise that you cannot judge a whole race off a few incidents, however what we have experienced has put us off playing with asian guys...

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over a year ago


"Here you go, we wouldn't meet the OP for a number of reasons to do with things like an half-arsed profile, s shitty attitude but most of all because he is Asian. Now form your judgements of us as really we don't care, we know our preferences and won't / don't have to justify them to anyone. To all the people who put "no blacks or Asians" on their profile then feel the need to say "but we're not Racist" don't! You don't have to justify your preferences to anyone."

Well said.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!"

No it would be less racist to consider each person as an individual rather than block or putting such racists remarks on ones profile.

A meet does not necessarily involve having sex with the person.

Such phrases on a profile and blocking put an end to any type of involvement with people in the said race and is by definition racist.

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

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over a year ago


"

Though I must say that I wonder what is behind those 'preferences' that so many people on fab have. Their profiles always remind me of those 'no blacks/no Jews/no Irish' signs, regardless of their 'not racist' intention...

For us it's a few bad experiences. One time as Frisky was getting out of a hot tub an Asian guy, who we had never seen or spoken to grabbed her between the legs. An other time we were sitting in a club with a friend having a little fumble, the friend left the table and an Asian guy just sat down and tried to stick his hand down Frisky's knickers. Again never met him before.

Last night talking to an Asian guy at a club, he said that people were racist as he wasn't getting any action. It was his first time at a club and his white and black friends had told him that they had loads of sex at clubs.

He did say that maybe some asians had problems in clubs due to to cultural differences as we had told him of our experiences. He asked what Frisky liked in a guy and she told him. He didn't match her preferences but then kept on saying that she should try something different...

He was a nice guy but spoilt the positive image by not accepting a polite no thank you.

I realise that you cannot judge a whole race off a few incidents, however what we have experienced has put us off playing with asian guys..."

A few years ago, I was out at a night club with a friend, girls night out, not man hunting, just for dancing and drinks, quite a few asian guys in the club, would not leave us alone, one particular guy kept pestering me, in the end, my friend saw I was getting quite stressed by it, shes a big girl, height as well as size, basically, she told him to ffn. do one, and bugger off back to his wife. lets just say he made a hasty exit.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford


"Here you go, we wouldn't meet the OP for a number of reasons to do with things like an half-arsed profile, s shitty attitude but most of all because he is Asian. Now form your judgements of us as really we don't care, we know our preferences and won't / don't have to justify them to anyone. To all the people who put "no blacks or Asians" on their profile then feel the need to say "but we're not Racist" don't! You don't have to justify your preferences to anyone."

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By *uilty pleasurersCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I am Asian and Mrs is white, had a few knock backs on fab, however once we meet people they always say 'your not what we thought' personality is counts

We try and look behind the looks if the minds click then it's so worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an Asian fwb who I met on here who has no trouble meeting anyone. I've seen mixed race profiles and met someone mixed race men who have no problems either. I'd like to know how you came to your conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

You have a lot of people on your friends list? Will they not meet?

Although the majority of them have a profile as long as yours, there must be a mutual attraction there.

I notice one of the ladies specifies no black guys? And she is on your list?

How can you possibly live with that?

Bottom line bud, the chicks ain't diggin ya, skin tone has nowt to do with it.

A sense of expectation surrounds this one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me laugh, the op never even mentions racism he just asked why mixed race and Asian people get knocked back, it's all white people getting offended on behalf of black people,

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over a year ago


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!

No it would be less racist to consider each person as an individual rather than block or putting such racists remarks on ones profile.

A meet does not necessarily involve having sex with the person.

Such phrases on a profile and blocking put an end to any type of involvement with people in the said race and is by definition racist.

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

"

What would be the point in us having even a social meet with a black or Asian guy because we would never play with them so it's a waste of everyone's time,

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Im asian, partner is white - and yes meets are trickier as lots of profiles say 'no asians'.

BUT!

Thats the persons choice and i dont find it racist in the slightest.

Sometimes we look at a profile see the pic and think 'nope' ... whats the difference to someone saying they dont find asian/black/white attractive.

BTW - my partner still looks at asian guys and says 'nope... dont fancy them at all' and still cant figure out why she loves me still after 3 1/2 yrs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aahh give him a break.

Handbags at dawn.

And obviously nuthin good on tv

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By *uilty pleasurersCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

With you on that

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We are not talking about a law that says who you have to sleep with but whether you can legally discriminate against a group of people by race or colour.

That is what a lot do not realise here.

A blank statement barring everyone of a certain race or colour is discrimination.

Read what the law states.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1976/74

Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons

Not applicable here. People are not providing a service but meeting socially.

Though I must say that I wonder what is behind those 'preferences' that so many people on fab have. Their profiles always remind me of those 'no blacks/no Jews/no Irish' signs, regardless of their 'not racist' intention..."

I'm black and don't meet black men. Nothing sinister: my ex-husband is black, ergo my children. I meet men, single, tall, straight men. Doesn't mean I'm looking down on bi, married, short or black men: they simply don't meet my play needs.

People shouldn't have to justify their sexual preferences.

Some men wouldn't touch me with someone elses: I've managed not to be indignant and get my panties in a bunch at such outrage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "
You mustn't assume it's race based. People have the right to choose who they meet and to reject those that don't excite or have no attraction for them.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

It's called choice, people have every right to exercise it.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I like black,white and Indian girls..I don't find the oriental look attractive though..unless they are mixed..now I don't hate em or anything...I don't find obese women attractive either..does this make me a fat hating and limited racist in our politically correct times?....people are complicated so this makes sex so.To call someone racist because they have physical preferences is too bloody simplistic, and an easy way not to think of the complexity that is out there.

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!

No it would be less racist to consider each person as an individual rather than block or putting such racists remarks on ones profile.

A meet does not necessarily involve having sex with the person.

Such phrases on a profile and blocking put an end to any type of involvement with people in the said race and is by definition racist.

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

"

So by that Standed you meet EVERYONE who asks to meet as if you say no because they are

A) to fat

B) to ugly

C) to old

D) wrong sex

You will be discriminating that person and any way it's only meeting them not sex !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts get so ridiculously boring each time!!

People are too quick to drop the racism card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find crap profiles with no content, and no photos do far less for getting meets than skin tone.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ?

It's called choice, people have every right to exercise it. "

thats it in a nutshell lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if i am racist, sizeist, ageist, sexist, and homophobic because I decide who I play with.... then so be it...

let them police come and take me away!!! guilty as charged!!!

I am not here to provide a service, I am here for fun and for pleasure..... and my body is mine alone to do what i decide to do

its took easy to blame ever other factor that leaves you blameless.... oh its those other nasty pasties!!!!! oh woe is me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!

No it would be less racist to consider each person as an individual rather than block or putting such racists remarks on ones profile.

A meet does not necessarily involve having sex with the person.

Such phrases on a profile and blocking put an end to any type of involvement with people in the said race and is by definition racist.

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

"

Why do we need to consider each one as an individual when Emily has never in her 35 years on this planet found a black or asian guy attractive. Personality has fuck all to do with it. She does not find them attractive and almost definately never will so why in gods name should we allow them to waste their time and ours asking for a meet when we can simply say sorry not gonna happen. Its NOT racist its a visual preference DEAL WITH IT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im asian, partner is white - and yes meets are trickier as lots of profiles say 'no asians'.

BUT!

Thats the persons choice and i dont find it racist in the slightest.

Sometimes we look at a profile see the pic and think 'nope' ... whats the difference to someone saying they dont find asian/black/white attractive.

BTW - my partner still looks at asian guys and says 'nope... dont fancy them at all' and still cant figure out why she loves me still after 3 1/2 yrs!"

Thank you much respect to you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short, it's not racist to have sexual preferences relating to anything physical, including race. Why would anyone have sex with someone they don't find attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!

No it would be less racist to consider each person as an individual rather than block or putting such racists remarks on ones profile.

A meet does not necessarily involve having sex with the person.

Such phrases on a profile and blocking put an end to any type of involvement with people in the said race and is by definition racist.

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

Why do we need to consider each one as an individual when Emily has never in her 35 years on this planet found a black or asian guy attractive. Personality has fuck all to do with it. She does not find them attractive and almost definately never will so why in gods name should we allow them to waste their time and ours asking for a meet when we can simply say sorry not gonna happen. Its NOT racist its a visual preference DEAL WITH IT!"
well said we have the choice who we want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short, it's not racist to have sexual preferences relating to anything physical, including race. Why would anyone have sex with someone they don't find attractive? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

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What a silly PC thing to say. OF COURSE race will come into given there are some very obvious phenotypes with racial groups. If you don't like that physical aspect of a racial group then why not put it on your profile to circumvent all the messages from that group of people and the inevitable let down.

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

We don't mind Asian guys but some do tend to be a bit too rough which can put people off

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I can choose who I do or do not want to have sex with. The equality legislation does not extend to private individuals, only to businesses

So if I decide that I do not want any guests in my home who are Asians or Gay, then that is just fine. However, if a couple running a B&B do the same then they are breaking the law as they provide a service

Don't know if a prostitute can be charged for breaching equality legislation since she is providing a service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, hardly no women on fab wants a white lol "

I know mine got jungle fever bad.

It's usually the male half that abject to Asians or blacks not the ladies. But that's just our experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, hardly no women on fab wants a white lol

I know mine got jungle fever bad.

It's usually the male half that abject to Asians or blacks not the ladies. But that's just our experience. "

Strange. Pretty much every Indian/Pakistani lady i have meet is into White cocks. Shame she's not. She looks stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like any guys with a nice big cock x

Samantha x

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It's not race its simple attraction. A woman who likes men who are blonde with blue eyes are not going to like a Asian man

Exactly!!"

I disagree. Men of colour do not attract me. Neither do gingers or blondes. Or men shorter than me.

I really must amend our profile

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met both BBC and Asians. For us, it's not just the looks, but personality, maturity, respectiveness and attitude. I will say from personal exprerience outside swinging though, that I do find some cultural differences towards women a bit discourteous at times, which makes me a little warey. Although I am aware this can be from any person regardless of their ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

To be honest, I wouldn't meet anyone based on a profile such as yours.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Why does a person with a lazy half a sentence profile without any pics, think that his race is an issue. I imagine all those who knocked him back were quite unaware of his race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's bull shit mate its nothing to do with the colour of you skin don't try the whole rasisum thing please

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why does a person with a lazy half a sentence profile without any pics, think that his race is an issue. I imagine all those who knocked him back were quite unaware of his race. "

This is probably a good point, a lot f people I meet compliment me on my profile and the fact that it is well written.

Having said that, quite a few people, single women and couples have said no Asian men. The general impression I get is that experience has made them think Asian men, especially from the Indian sub continent will be pushy, rude and treat them badly.

A lot of these women have no problem with black guys. Being honest I don't think it's a problem with skin colour, more attitudes.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"that's bull shit mate its nothing to do with the colour of you skin don't try the whole rasisum thing please "

At least spell 'racism' correctly please if you don't you come across as an idiot whichever side of the goal posts you are standing.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

To add perhaps a different view on this. I have chatted here, plus other chat medium to a female from here.Now for over three years. Both have changed profile names over time. She has always said she would never meet me even for social. Couple of weeks back during our chat, realised something wrong, asked if she had problem. She said could not find right meet type person. Then in her words, said. Wish you were *****, would be perfect. I asked why. She said well in everyway you fit what i want, get me hot etc, age also. But your not the right colour. What do people think of that.

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By *ollardFoxandHoundCouple
over a year ago

Ourous Chester rightnow.

Jeez an un - ending debate ... can I pull up the ageism card and whinge then = NO. The answer to it write an honest profile about yourself and to quote biblical..'those that seek shall find' and trust me we have found plenty like minded on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op instead off posting negative post why not post , something like which woman or couples etc like Asian or mixed race men !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so the op didn't comment again after starting the thread, wonder if he took note of peoples opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op instead off posting negative post why not post , something like which woman or couples etc like Asian or mixed race men ! "

But don't assume everyone who answers in the positive wants to meet you. They are just answering a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op instead off posting negative post why not post , something like which woman or couples etc like Asian or mixed race men !

But don't assume everyone who answers in the positive wants to meet you. They are just answering a question "
very true !

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over a year ago

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

For me race isn't an issue - I love all men!! However they still have to meet certain criteria..

Also black men are no more skilled then white guys - just different.

And I will add that people seem to think once you've been with one bbc you take them all!! Ah no!!

And I do think it's racist to judge someone on skin colour - and how a girl could not find the likes of Tyson beckford, amongst others, just because he's black is beyond me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Asian work colleague was saying to me he thinks it's racist when he hears that government bodies insist there has to be more ethnic diversity in higher management positions ( ie in the police force etc).

He said that its positive discrimination and just as wrong in principle as normal discrimination.

I tend to agree, people should get these roles based on merit everytime and not just to find a token minority to appear to tick a diversity box in an organization.

Not an easy issue to resolve but the solution has yet to be found.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I strongly suspect the OP wanted to stir up a hornet's nest just to attract some attention...

He succeeded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is getting a bit of an unnecessary discussion. I'm an Asian and most of my friends and who I play are white and blacks.

I have many white friends who I found from here both singles and couples.

For me it's about respect to one another.

I respect when I see profiles state "no asians". As many people mentioned in here that's just their preference and we all are entitled for own preferences.

This may be a problem for some people who aren't successful on getting attention and that shouldn't be passed to people who aren't willing to meet you based on their preference.

This is something as simple as Marmite

Some people need to grow up. Be happy with who you meet and respect others preferences.....

Don't just bring racial side to your own failures. It actually might be you who has racial issues.

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By *ivente clubCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

I wasn't impressed that a new single male member (Arabian) joined the club then upon leaving threw the racist card at me because he hadn't had sex!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too easy for the race card to be thrown if theyre rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some knob heads about

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

When I host for GBs the two types of people I normally get asked to exclude are Asian and fat guys. I have no problem with either group as long as they are are clean, polite, good company and not time wasters. However it's any person's right not to have sex with someone if they don't want to and I'd rather minimise the chances of people being turned down on the night. The main reason I get regarding Asian men is they're too 'pushy,' it's just what I hear so can't say whether it's true or not.

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By *iking.beardMan
over a year ago

wsm


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

you think u got it hard try been a ginger!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"No one has to sleep with any person they do not want to that is not the arguement

Yes it IS the argument because this thread is about people choosing not to have sex with members of other races whom they do not see as inferior but just dont find attractive.

Would it be any less racist to say nothing on your profile but then block every single black or asian who wastes there time messaging you because some politically correct guy says its racist to tell them they would be wasting their time?? Not putting it on your profile would change NOTHING they would still be turned down by the same people and unless you say its illegal to sleep with only 1 race they are doing NOTHING wrong and NOT being discriminative only exercising their right to choose who they have sex with!!!!

No it would be less racist to consider each person as an individual rather than block or putting such racists remarks on ones profile.

A meet does not necessarily involve having sex with the person.

Such phrases on a profile and blocking put an end to any type of involvement with people in the said race and is by definition racist.

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

So by that Standed you meet EVERYONE who asks to meet as if you say no because they are

A) to fat

B) to ugly

C) to old

D) wrong sex

You will be discriminating that person and any way it's only meeting them not sex ! "

I think the point being made was that, when it comes to sex, we all discriminate. And that it is right that we do. It's no more wrong, when it comes to personal preferences in the bedroom, to discriminate on the colour of a persons skin than it is on the colour of their eyes, their height, their sexual orientation, size of their cock or anything else.

I'd also say that if you are showing a preference for a particular race then, by the strict definition of the words, that is race discrimination. Does that make you a racist?

I don't think so; any more than choosing a person by their sexual orientation would make you sexist.

The only other thing I would say is that when ever I read a statement like 'I'm not a raciest but....', 'I'm not sexist but...', 'I'm not anti Muslim but...' or 'I'm not [what ever] but...' I start to wonder why the person feels the need to justify what they are saying. The very fact that you've brought it up razes the suspicion that it might be what you are.

Don't try and justify your preferences, you don't have to. Just make them and accept that, in this very personal area, you are discriminating on a whole load of criteria of which skin tone, eye colour or anything else might be one and that you are right to discriminate by what ever criteria you feel you want to when it comes to who you want to have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Some people really need to look up what the definition of the word racism means. Far too often is the racist case played in totally the wrong situations. This is one of them! Fyi here is such a definition:

The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races. "

But aren't those who say NO Asians or NO Blacks, Whites OR only white/black etc. guilty of thinking one (or more) of these races has specific characteristics making them attractive/unattractive (thereby better/worse)? So, by the definition you have quoted, anyone who says I will only sleep with one colour IS guilty of racism!

Using preference to hide this doesn't work: my PREFERENCE (my emphasis) is for Caucasian women. That is not to say I would not sleep with black or Asian women though. If I saw one I was attracted to, then I would (given half a chance)!

Some, however, preclude the chance they can or will ever find someone of a certain ethnic group attractive. That is racist. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

i dont know your race but i think you are wrong to say that - i would think more are put off by moaning types

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

"

Totally and utterly berserk comment.

People should be able to put no asian or black,without the apology on the end. If you're not attracted,you're not attracted.

I'm not attracted to skinny or Yorkshire women and I make no apology for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Some people really need to look up what the definition of the word racism means. Far too often is the racist case played in totally the wrong situations. This is one of them! Fyi here is such a definition:

The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.

But aren't those who say NO Asians or NO Blacks, Whites OR only white/black etc. guilty of thinking one (or more) of these races has specific characteristics making them attractive/unattractive (thereby better/worse)? So, by the definition you have quoted, anyone who says I will only sleep with one colour IS guilty of racism!

Using preference to hide this doesn't work: my PREFERENCE (my emphasis) is for Caucasian women. That is not to say I would not sleep with black or Asian women though. If I saw one I was attracted to, then I would (given half a chance)!

Some, however, preclude the chance they can or will ever find someone of a certain ethnic group attractive. That is racist. Simple"

A swinger friend of mine likes white women whiter paler the better doesn't even like suntans, their choice, he likes bbw, I would love to play with a black woman tess however doesn't like....mind a couple we met recently blew that away.....people that like bbc should I be offended at their requirements.. Of course not it's their choice.

Alot of playing is about physical attraction....what you see is visual, you like what you like.... forget all this race crap....your not looking to set up home have kids and a washing machine together.

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By *he_batmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham


"Whats worse is people who state on their profile no asian or no black we are not racist its just our thing "

Very racist syatement but used by a lot of people in FAB

We all have preferences race should not even figure ever !!!

"

What about those who put Bbc only, no white guys etc, is that therefore racist? Or is that acceptable because its white people they don't wanna meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".......rasisum........"

LOL, thats hilarious.....

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

not in our world, we like to meet all, variety is the spice of life..connie xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ?

i dont know your race but i think you are wrong to say that - i would think more are put off by moaning types "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i once messaged a beautiful lady on here and I had a reply back saying 'sorry I only date black guys..thanks but no thanks' which was fair enough..you have to respect other peoples prefrences and not bring politic correctness and race cards into the arena just cos your not included in the mix..black or white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women might not want to meet me because they don't think I'm attractive..... Maybe it's the same for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fed up of hearing the 'race card'

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

I don't know what race you are and neither do I care as long as you:

- don't stink

- don't have a sleazy and pushy attitude

- can string a whole sentence in English

I am not a racist; I am a heightist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's bull shit mate its nothing to do with the colour of you skin don't try the whole rasisum thing please "
Your obviously not a raysist

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

this isnt a race thing but maybe a culture thing, as in my experience in the clubs the asian guys can be assholes to the ladies i know all people can be like that,and its about individual people but thats what ive seen on a whole

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

"

So why pick that definition of Discriminate? That is not the definition that the act is based upon.

make an unjust or prejudicial distinction in the treatment of different categories of people, especially on the grounds of race, sex, or age.

THAT is the definition of the act! And the act doesn't cover personal preferences, so you are wrong on all counts! Now stop being offended for other people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this isnt a race thing but maybe a culture thing, as in my experience in the clubs the asian guys can be assholes to the ladies i know all people can be like that,and its about individual people but thats what ive seen on a whole "

Is it in our culture to be "assholes" to our women or to "white women"

How obtuse.

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By *ancblue28Man
over a year ago

manchester

Everybody has a preference so...C'est la vie

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"this isnt a race thing but maybe a culture thing, as in my experience in the clubs the asian guys can be assholes to the ladies i know all people can be like that,and its about individual people but thats what ive seen on a whole "

I have to go off the thoughts of ladies I've met. They think certain people from certain racial / cultural backgrounds tend to be arrogant, pushy and rude. I know quite few escorts, a fair percentage of them have similar views and won't see the seem the same men, even though they are turning down £100 to £200 for a hour. Surely there must be some reason, they have no problem with black, Chinese etc guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those how say it's racist to put no Asians or black. What about people only asking for big black clock. Is that racist too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those how say it's racist to put no Asians or black. What about people only asking for big black clock. Is that racist too!!!"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

York

I think you need to take a look at how Asian men have been stereotyped in the U.K. to find the answer !

Not all Asisn men are the same there is good and bad in all races!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else think that there will be a similar thread with similar answers started before this 1 ends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"York

I think you need to take a look at how Asian men have been stereotyped in the U.K. to find the answer !

Not all Asisn men are the same there is good and bad in all races!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hope for fake Asians couples like us. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cos a lot of women don't find Asian/mixed race men attractive.

Just like a lot of women don't like bald men

Or fat men some don't like white men.

Most people are going to be attracted to people who are similar to them selves, be that level of attractiveness age race the list goes on.

Britain is predominantly a white anglosaxon nation, people of other ethnicities will be in the minority.

So what this means is a good percentage of women might not find Asian men attractive.

Is this wrong, maybe but it's human nature and whining about it on a web forum isn't going to change things.

The good news is that not everyone is the same and there are millions of people in this country, some of them will like Asian men, some of them might even like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asians, well muslims, get a lot of bad press. There's the stereotypical image of smelling like curry.

I'm sure this plays into people's preferences as I just can't fathom people being able to discount an entire ethnic minority and say none of them are attractive.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

how do you know its because of race ?

lots of white guys get no where on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whatever colour...poseing in front of a sports car might be a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asians, well muslims, get a lot of bad press. There's the stereotypical image of smelling like curry.

I'm sure this plays into people's preferences as I just can't fathom people being able to discount an entire ethnic minority and say none of them are attractive."

Curry lol try terrorism and acts of barbarism it will take a generation to rectify this unfortunate opinion of Muslims but it is the reality we re so sorry to point out

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

[Removed by poster at 11/12/14 17:39:21]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and smelling of curry ? when its the favourite dish of white brits ?....keep trying its nothing personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own an all, not whinging but I just don't understand how someone can say an entire ethnicity is not their type.

Now I might just not be able to understand it because I don't have that preference, I'm am equal opportunities perv."

"Equal opportunities perv" Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer tall tanned and handsome but that's not going to happen

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Most women wont meet because of race why is that ? "

your 15 friends seem to not mind your race or are they all false profiles ?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"

It seems people do not understand the meaning of the good old word discriminate which basically means distinguish between.

So why pick that definition of Discriminate? That is not the definition that the act is based upon.

make an unjust or prejudicial distinction in the treatment of different categories of people, especially on the grounds of race, sex, or age.

THAT is the definition of the act! And the act doesn't cover personal preferences, so you are wrong on all counts! Now stop being offended for other people! "

Seems you cannot read the words of the Act

Part I Discrimination To Which Act Applies

"1 Racial discrimination.

(1)A person discriminates against another in any circumstances relevant for the purposes of any provision of this Act if—

(a)on racial grounds he treats that other less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons;"

I a person refuses to meet another person because of their race they are treating that person less favourably than he treats or would treat other persons. Therefore according to the Race Relations Act 1975 they are racist.

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