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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen a few threads recently expousing the opinion that anal play with strap ons or even finger play from a woman is considered to be an indicator of being bi. I always thought that being sexually attracted to men was the indicator. Is it just naivety on my part or are people just not as broadminded when it comes to this sort of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a few threads recently expousing the opinion that anal play with strap ons or even finger play from a woman is considered to be an indicator of being bi. I always thought that being sexually attracted to men was the indicator. Is it just naivety on my part or are people just not as broadminded when it comes to this sort of thing?"
I agree with you. A woman's finger or an inanimate object up a male's bum doesn't make him bi. As far as I'm concerned - bisexuality means you engage sexually with both sexes

S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a few threads recently expousing the opinion that anal play with strap ons or even finger play from a woman is considered to be an indicator of being bi. I always thought that being sexually attracted to men was the indicator. Is it just naivety on my part or are people just not as broadminded when it comes to this sort of thing?I agree with you. A woman's finger or an inanimate object up a male's bum doesn't make him bi. As far as I'm concerned - bisexuality means you engage sexually with both sexes

S x "

My thoughts exactly but I've seen several people saying otherwise recently

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I agree with you and Sarah.

If a male enjoying botty play with a woman makes him bi then what on earth makes a woman bi?

It's ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sexual contact with people of both sexes makes you bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having sexual contact with people of both sexes makes you bi."

Exactly, anything else is just having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have great pleasure in having objects inserted into my back door... I also like the taste of cum...I don't actually find the male physique attractive in anyway. In fact i would see a hairy 'masculine' male quite a turn off...

But i would consider anal sex and oral sex purely for a bit of fun if it was part of a group or 3 sum with females...

Does that make me Bi?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Until recently I wouldn't have considered myself fully bi as I like to play with women but don't want a relationship with a woman.

But I fancy women as well as men - I'm bi, lol

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy men but am happy to soft play with the right guys, which why I list myself as bi rather than straight. I don't think the OH inserting fingers into me made me like that though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic"

Its that kind of thing that im talking about and don't get. By that thought process any form of anal play makes you bi and a blowjob is questionable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic

Its that kind of thing that im talking about and don't get. By that thought process any form of anal play makes you bi and a blowjob is questionable"

They say they don't like it but when your giving them a blow job and your tongue starts working it's way back they soon lift their legs higher for easy access

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love feeling a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fancy men but am happy to soft play with the right guys, which why I list myself as bi rather than straight. I don't think the OH inserting fingers into me made me like that though! "
Just out of interest - what makes one guy 'the right guy' for you, as opposed to another?

S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't fancy men but am happy to soft play with the right guys, which why I list myself as bi rather than straight. I don't think the OH inserting fingers into me made me like that though! Just out of interest - what makes one guy 'the right guy' for you, as opposed to another?

S x"

For me I'm much the same, I'm yet to find a guy that I go wow fancy you with but I like to play with cock and love cum in my mouth but I much prefer it with a lady present. I just enjoy the dynamic

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

the trouble with labels is sometimes they fall off..

respect that on sites like this one has to be a 'something'..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I have great pleasure in having objects inserted into my back door... I also like the taste of cum...I don't actually find the male physique attractive in anyway. In fact i would see a hairy 'masculine' male quite a turn off...

But i would consider anal sex and oral sex purely for a bit of fun if it was part of a group or 3 sum with females...

Does that make me Bi?"

Bi curious i would say if you haven't tried it yet.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Reserch the Kinsley scale

to be a straight maile for instance you only really have to be 80% straight.

http://www.mojvideo.com/video-the-sex-researchers-2013-am-i-normal-ii-del/423943f75499cfe1fe40

The channel 4 programme called the sex researcher explains all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic"

that's some serious issue's if someone cant disassociate the ghey and something very erotic between a guy and a gal..

nowt so strange as folk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have great pleasure in having objects inserted into my back door... I also like the taste of cum...I don't actually find the male physique attractive in anyway. In fact i would see a hairy 'masculine' male quite a turn off...

But i would consider anal sex and oral sex purely for a bit of fun if it was part of a group or 3 sum with females...

Does that make me Bi?"

Most definatly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love feeling a cock"

Then why are you listed as straight???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bi sex he will be bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it nature or is it nurture, oh I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic

Its that kind of thing that im talking about and don't get. By that thought process any form of anal play makes you bi and a blowjob is questionable

They say they don't like it but when your giving them a blow job and your tongue starts working it's way back they soon lift their legs higher for easy access "
i like this, but not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed"

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality "

This!

The shape of a sex toy is irrelevant, the person attached to the toy IS relevant. No sex act between a man and a woman can be seen as gay or bi. Only when another man is introduced can it then become so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

This!

The shape of a sex toy is irrelevant, the person attached to the toy IS relevant. No sex act between a man and a woman can be seen as gay or bi. Only when another man is introduced can it then become so"

I dread to think what people who use rabbits have a hidden tendency for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality "

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fancy men but am happy to soft play with the right guys, which why I list myself as bi rather than straight. I don't think the OH inserting fingers into me made me like that though! Just out of interest - what makes one guy 'the right guy' for you, as opposed to another?

S x"

Honestly I'm still trying to work that one out! At the moment I would say one that i feel comfortable with, not just any guy that can suck dick. I have a preference for fit and healthy as I keep myself fit - not for any attraction to ripped muscles.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love a soft furnishing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fancy men but am happy to soft play with the right guys, which why I list myself as bi rather than straight. I don't think the OH inserting fingers into me made me like that though! Just out of interest - what makes one guy 'the right guy' for you, as opposed to another?

S x

For me I'm much the same, I'm yet to find a guy that I go wow fancy you with but I like to play with cock and love cum in my mouth but I much prefer it with a lady present. I just enjoy the dynamic "

Same here. Definitely prefer to the feel of a woman but happy to play with both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wound say being bi would be having fully engaged in sexual activity with the same sex

Liking anal play could be construed as being bi curious tho imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo... What does it mean then if a woman likes a cock or toys up her arse?

I personally don't think liking a finger up your arse as a guy makes you gay. Most of us here like to explore sex and the pleasure it gives us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i like kissing, fucking, sucking, n being fucked but prefer bi couples as its more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight "

i just can't see how a man who has never played with another guy or ever has any intentions of can be classed as anything but straight, it's like saying a lesbian is not a lesbian if she likes her partner to use toys on her, surely bisexuality is the act of having sexual contact with both sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until recently I wouldn't have considered myself fully bi as I like to play with women but don't want a relationship with a woman.

But I fancy women as well as men - I'm bi, lol

B "

This, except I consider myself straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight

i just can't see how a man who has never played with another guy or ever has any intentions of can be classed as anything but straight, it's like saying a lesbian is not a lesbian if she likes her partner to use toys on her, surely bisexuality is the act of having sexual contact with both sex"

Ok but I think a finger is a lil different to being bent over and fucked in the ass with a strap on even if you are playing with a woman..... genetically a woman cant bend U over and fuck u unless she is wearing a cock so surely subconciously the man being bent over must be bi curious

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

In my _iew, just because a man enjoys anal stimulation does not necessarily make him bi.

It's sexually interacting with (and enjoying, I might add!) another guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight

i just can't see how a man who has never played with another guy or ever has any intentions of can be classed as anything but straight, it's like saying a lesbian is not a lesbian if she likes her partner to use toys on her, surely bisexuality is the act of having sexual contact with both sex

Ok but I think a finger is a lil different to being bent over and fucked in the ass with a strap on even if you are playing with a woman..... genetically a woman cant bend U over and fuck u unless she is wearing a cock so surely subconciously the man being bent over must be bi curious "

You seem to be getting hung up on the shape of the toy and the action. A man involved in a sex act with a woman is straight, no matter the act. A man receiving a strap on is about being dominated and losing control. Its not about wanting to be fucked by a pseudo man. Its about the sex of the people not the act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight

i just can't see how a man who has never played with another guy or ever has any intentions of can be classed as anything but straight, it's like saying a lesbian is not a lesbian if she likes her partner to use toys on her, surely bisexuality is the act of having sexual contact with both sex

Ok but I think a finger is a lil different to being bent over and fucked in the ass with a strap on even if you are playing with a woman..... genetically a woman cant bend U over and fuck u unless she is wearing a cock so surely subconciously the man being bent over must be bi curious "

So is a lesbian who is bent over and fucked with a strap on subconsciously bi?

I don't see the connection with anal and bi, loads of different sexuality like anal, men and women, men use toys on women, women use toys on women and just as some lesbians like a strap on in them but wouldnt want to fuck a guy some men feels the same, anal is only a bi/gay act if performed with another guy and lots of bi guys don't even do anal

I guess we all see things different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely bisexual is self explanatory, being sexually attracted to and indulging in sexual activity with both genders.

I don't see that a man being penetrated by a woman with a strap on in any way indicates that he has a sexual attraction to men ...... if he did he wouldn't be being fucked by a woman with a strap on but by a man!!

Anal stimulation and penetration are sexual acts and can be performed by either sex, it is who is performing them and who with that determines sexuality not the act itself.

The bottom line (no pun intended) is that we all play the way we want to play and with whom we want to, what difference does a label really make and what does it matter? People will be honest about it or they won't, it all comes down to choice. Their's to play as they choose and ours to choose whether we want to play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic"

Naughtynymphos...you could do me...and I'm dead straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a few threads recently expousing the opinion that anal play with strap ons or even finger play from a woman is considered to be an indicator of being bi. I always thought that being sexually attracted to men was the indicator. Is it just naivety on my part or are people just not as broadminded when it comes to this sort of thing?I agree with you. A woman's finger or an inanimate object up a male's bum doesn't make him bi. As far as I'm concerned - bisexuality means you engage sexually with both sexes

S x "

This

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

What a weird discussion!

Seems to me its quite simple really if we put aside the narrow thinking.

A guy who gets off on being stimulated only by women is straight. A guy who gets off only by men is gay. And a guy who gets off on both is bi, some more straight and some more gay. And it probably changes over time but lets leave that

A guy who is relaxed enough to explore anal pleasuring is simply less uptight than a guy who is too narrow minded for that. He could be straight, gay or bi.

Folks who confuse holes with sexuality should chill and or get out more!

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

What makes you bi? The decision to class yourself as bi, or not at all because who says we should all fit into categories?

I've played with men and women, so according to some posts, I'm bi. But I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial "

I would have to disagree with that!

If anal sex happens in between M/F couple does that have bi inclinations too?

We have a habit to try and put labels on things!

There's things out there in fetish land that would scare the hell out of me or you!

Does not make you or I correct.

Best not to judge although it's fun to be a little curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely bisexual is self explanatory, being sexually attracted to and indulging in sexual activity with both genders.

I don't see that a man being penetrated by a woman with a strap on in any way indicates that he has a sexual attraction to men ...... if he did he wouldn't be being fucked by a woman with a strap on but by a man!!

Anal stimulation and penetration are sexual acts and can be performed by either sex, it is who is performing them and who with that determines sexuality not the act itself.

The bottom line (no pun intended) is that we all play the way we want to play and with whom we want to, what difference does a label really make and what does it matter? People will be honest about it or they won't, it all comes down to choice. Their's to play as they choose and ours to choose whether we want to play with them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy strapon fun both ways

What does that make us ?

Bisexual lesbians?

Bisexual gays?

Or just a couple having fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight

i just can't see how a man who has never played with another guy or ever has any intentions of can be classed as anything but straight, it's like saying a lesbian is not a lesbian if she likes her partner to use toys on her, surely bisexuality is the act of having sexual contact with both sex

Ok but I think a finger is a lil different to being bent over and fucked in the ass with a strap on even if you are playing with a woman..... genetically a woman cant bend U over and fuck u unless she is wearing a cock so surely subconciously the man being bent over must be bi curious

You seem to be getting hung up on the shape of the toy and the action. A man involved in a sex act with a woman is straight, no matter the act. A man receiving a strap on is about being dominated and losing control. Its not about wanting to be fucked by a pseudo man. Its about the sex of the people not the act"

Agree to disagree on that one I think

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know why I'm bi. It was by accident. It's like being dyed purple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight "

So - by that statement - as you show an interest in Anal on your profile, your male half is gay, not straight as claimed....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until recently I wouldn't have considered myself fully bi as I like to play with women but don't want a relationship with a woman.

But I fancy women as well as men - I'm bi, lol

B "
Your definition works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found contact mag for tvts an arrange meet with shemale(sorry if tvts dont like the frase) she kissed an had oral we tried anal but her 8in cock/clitty was too big but her 44DD tits were heaven

hence why am bi that was 1997

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By *umperukMan
over a year ago

manchester

I enjoy being sucked off by younger guys and I like being rimmed. However, I am not attracted to men except for this. My Mrs and I love to fuck and have fun. I also enjoy the cuck scene. If I were to post something I would probably say bi curious.

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By *umperukMan
over a year ago

manchester

Onegirloneboy, spot on. Each to their own so long as everyone is happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

If a man is being bent over by whoever man or woman thrusting a rubber cock into his ass then in my opinion that's not straight "

What other act will 'not make him straight' what about a wank, he is playing with a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a bloke who likes to give anal sex to a women, is he gay, bi after all she has the 'normal' entery ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as bi.

I am not sexually attracted to men. I do not find them attractive. I don't kiss men and all I find I am attracted to is there cock.

Sex with Vicky is out of this world but sex with a guy is different. It is the act of what you are doing and the taboo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

W is so straight he would snap if he went slightly off - if i were to go near his arse with a finger this would no way make him any way shape or form slghtly bi or curiously interested - i can assure you of this and would hate to be there if anybody every suggested otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread problem brings us back to:

Biplayful

Biselfish

Bisocial

Bifortheteam

Bifun

Binotfussy

Me, I don't fancy men, but mmf with some bi play is fine, if that's what is agreed, is fine as I'm conserned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered why you rarely see 'bi-curious' women. Is it because women are just expected to be bisexual by default, because obviously(!) they'd be silly not to find men attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered why you rarely see 'bi-curious' women. Is it because women are just expected to be bisexual by default, because obviously(!) they'd be silly not to find men attractive?"

there are loads of bi-curious fems - ????

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

See I have my self listed as straight but on more than one time in clubs I have been playing with groups and found out that the oral I am getting is from a girl and have even been fucked with strap on . Now the Thort of haveing to give oral or fuck an other girl my self leave my blood cold and I have never been attracted to a girl . So am I bi ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find both woman and men very sexually attractive, so love engaging with both.

I could not see myself in a relationship with a woman though, imagine that every calender month but dear god they are beautiful

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just enjoy good sex whether it is with a girl or guy or part of a group. I can be pretty masculine and controlling with a woman but love the submissive side with guys. I just dont feel the need to stick a label on my sexuality I just enjoy sex in all forms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until recently I wouldn't have considered myself fully bi as I like to play with women but don't want a relationship with a woman.

But I fancy women as well as men - I'm bi, lol

B "

Yes I agree with u....I have a physical attraction to women but don't want an emotional one with one whereas I could with a man!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"See I have my self listed as straight but on more than one time in clubs I have been playing with groups and found out that the oral I am getting is from a girl and have even been fucked with strap on . Now the Thort of haveing to give oral or fuck an other girl my self leave my blood cold and I have never been attracted to a girl . So am I bi ? "

Depends. If, once you found out who was doing what to you, you found it sexually exciting and wanted to carry on ? You dont have to give to be bi.

If I found out a guy was sucking my cock, I'd go down faster than my soufflés do when I take them out the oven so I know I am straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I have my self listed as straight but on more than one time in clubs I have been playing with groups and found out that the oral I am getting is from a girl and have even been fucked with strap on . Now the Thort of haveing to give oral or fuck an other girl my self leave my blood cold and I have never been attracted to a girl . So am I bi ?

Depends. If, once you found out who was doing what to you, you found it sexually exciting and wanted to carry on ? You dont have to give to be bi.

If I found out a guy was sucking my cock, I'd go down faster than my soufflés do when I take them out the oven so I know I am straight.

"

Ooooohh souffles? Naked chef??

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

For my 'two-penneth' it would be useful if there were an 'orally-bi' tick-box on the Fab profile options.

I enjoy mmf play where the guy sucks cock but I'm not attracted to guys at all and don't consider myself 'bi-curious'.

I'm not curious or bi but I know what I like.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For my 'two-penneth' it would be useful if there were an 'orally-bi' tick-box on the Fab profile options.

I enjoy mmf play where the guy sucks cock but I'm not attracted to guys at all and don't consider myself 'bi-curious'.

I'm not curious or bi but I know what I like."

Labels smables....good attitude

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"For my 'two-penneth' it would be useful if there were an 'orally-bi' tick-box on the Fab profile options.

I enjoy mmf play where the guy sucks cock but I'm not attracted to guys at all and don't consider myself 'bi-curious'.

I'm not curious or bi but I know what I like."

But you are asking to be labelled 'Orally Bi' and want to tick a box to do so. You like a guy giving you O...that is bi.

Would you say a lady is not straight because she only likes O from her husband ? Or because she is a virgin and hasnt got round to anything else yet ?

A sexual act from a member of the same sex is a homosexual act. If you enjoy it..as well as with the opposite sex...you are bi sexual.

End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my 'two-penneth' it would be useful if there were an 'orally-bi' tick-box on the Fab profile options.

I enjoy mmf play where the guy sucks cock but I'm not attracted to guys at all and don't consider myself 'bi-curious'.

I'm not curious or bi but I know what I like.

But you are asking to be labelled 'Orally Bi' and want to tick a box to do so. You like a guy giving you O...that is bi.

Would you say a lady is not straight because she only likes O from her husband ? Or because she is a virgin and hasnt got round to anything else yet ?

A sexual act from a member of the same sex is a homosexual act. If you enjoy it..as well as with the opposite sex...you are bi sexual.

End of."
I have to agree with this. I sometimes think (not in all cases) that people don't like to be labelled, as they're not yet fully accepting of what they may or may not be themselves

S x

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Surely if a man is being shagged in the bum with a strap on which at the end of the day is an imitation cock then Im guessing there's some sort of bi tendency in there somewhere think maybe a lil in denial

Agreed

So do lesbians who use toys have straight tendencies?

I see anal as a sexual act not a sexuality

This!

The shape of a sex toy is irrelevant, the person attached to the toy IS relevant. No sex act between a man and a woman can be seen as gay or bi. Only when another man is introduced can it then become so

I dread to think what people who use rabbits have a hidden tendency for "

Rabbit Pie? !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just done the Kinsey scale as previously mentioned and I'm -----

Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual.

Thought so !!!

Frankie

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"For my 'two-penneth' it would be useful if there were an 'orally-bi' tick-box on the Fab profile options.

I enjoy mmf play where the guy sucks cock but I'm not attracted to guys at all and don't consider myself 'bi-curious'.

I'm not curious or bi but I know what I like.

But you are asking to be labelled 'Orally Bi' and want to tick a box to do so. You like a guy giving you O...that is bi.

Would you say a lady is not straight because she only likes O from her husband ? Or because she is a virgin and hasnt got round to anything else yet ?

A sexual act from a member of the same sex is a homosexual act. If you enjoy it..as well as with the opposite sex...you are bi sexual.

End of."

What on earth are you talking about?

... and as for 'End of.'

End of what?

Are you high?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

For the record: I never said I had a problem with profile labelling per se.

Clearly, on an online profile there needs to be some form of labelling or it would be chaos.

I digress.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Nope...just factual. So many make excuses as they try to assuage their own perception of their sexuality. If you enjoy homosexual and heterosexual acts you are by definition bi sexual.

As organic and flexible the sliding scale is...you are not straight.

It is a sad reflection of a person's perception of how admitting this to others makes them look. Particularly on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone's unsure about bi or not bi it's worth a go - be truthfully honest with your answers tho ! I

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

High

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

[Removed by poster at 10/12/14 09:02:24]

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

To be honest I don't really care if other people think I'm Bi, Gay or straight for what I choose to do or not do in the bedroom (or lounge, staircase, kitchen, front garden, car, bus top or public park). I class myself as straight and if others don't like it or agree with it that's their problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bum play with a lass does not make you bi. I like sucking cock that makes me bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orally bi here not interested in bum play at all doubt that will change but who knows 10 Yrs ago I wouldn't have admitted to wanting a cock to play with.

I don't walk down a street and fancy a guy as I would a woman in the same circumstances, but if we arrange a meet or at a club and cocks on off then yep no probs.

Tess however will often point out fems when we're out.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Bum play with a lass does not make you bi. I like sucking cock that makes me bi.

"

Well said that man

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Orally bi here not interested in bum play at all doubt that will change but who knows 10 Yrs ago I wouldn't have admitted to wanting a cock to play with.

I don't walk down a street and fancy a guy as I would a woman in the same circumstances, but if we arrange a meet or at a club and cocks on off then yep no probs.

Tess however will often point out fems when we're out."

Thats's similiar to how I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope...just factual. So many make excuses as they try to assuage their own perception of their sexuality. If you enjoy homosexual and heterosexual acts you are by definition bi sexual.

As organic and flexible the sliding scale is...you are not straight.

It is a sad reflection of a person's perception of how admitting this to others makes them look. Particularly on here..."
He was asking for his preference to be recognised so that he could then be open so give him a break at least. We agree with you though about how people worry about others. We were messaged by a guy who admitted he was bi but that didn't put it on his profile because 70% of women on here say won't meet bi guys. We sent a reply back saying weren't comfortable with that as just admitted u'd lie to get a meet.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am sorry if I appear to be hard on the op....nothing personal.

But if 'Orally Bi' is just 'Bi' and you dont want to put women off, then dont tick the box.

Say sonething in your text but leave it til further down the line.

As long as you are honest at message stage, it doesnt matter too much.

Also, if a woman is put off by Bi guys, how likely is she to believe he is ONLY orally bi when looking at a profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just orally bi and yes its still a bi-sexual act but not in the same way as giving/receiving anal. If they've done it 20 times not exactly curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mr loves to be played about with But by me... But, Doesn't make him bi in any way he's certainly very straight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a 3-some once with a guy who was "very straight" turned out to be the last time to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy being bi. I came to it later on in life and wished I'd embraced it when I was younger

I'm very into oral sex and the desire to fellate a nice guy got too strong for me. I love the tactility of bi sex, th caressing and kissing in a bi mfm is such a turn on. I now like men and women equally. Tv's are particularly appealing. The best of both worlds. Jim

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire


"I've seen a few threads recently expousing the opinion that anal play with strap ons or even finger play from a woman is considered to be an indicator of being bi. I always thought that being sexually attracted to men was the indicator. Is it just naivety on my part or are people just not as broadminded when it comes to this sort of thing?"

What makes a man bi???........when there are no women on cam to direct, so all of a sudden they direct men!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like cock, simple really.

you can't be bi if your a man having sex and she is playing with your bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bisexual just love the way another woman kisses mmmm

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By *uilty pleasurersCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"im bisexual just love the way another woman kisses mmmm"

Mmmmmmmmm

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I'd like to find out what makes you Bi

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes me bi?

Other women being gorgeous!

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By *uilty pleasurersCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"What makes me bi?

Other women being gorgeous!"

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I've had loads of men tell me they don't like being rimmed because it's gay

last time i looked i was female

i don't get some people's logic"

I am definitely NOT gay. I fancy girls but don't fancy guys. I am quite happy giving and receiving rimming. Love to take a big cock in my ass and the more loads I can swallow the better. I assume that others would say I was bi: I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I class myself as bi.

I am not sexually attracted to men. I do not find them attractive. I don't kiss men and all I find I am attracted to is there cock.

Sex with Vicky is out of this world but sex with a guy is different. It is the act of what you are doing and the taboo. "

This is me too.

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