FabSwingers.com forum: Messages from single guys

By *aidtobespanked OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

As will be the case with most couples, and even more so with single females, we get a lot of messages from single guys. Although its rare that any are of interest.

As the male half of the couple, the last thing I want to see first thing in a morning when I log on, is a picture of another guys cock. I'm pretty sure not many females are interested in cock pics either!

Also, messages from guys along the lines of 'are you interested in my profile' will probably be immediately deleted.

We have been pretty open with our interests, both on our profile and in forum posts. When messaging us, we would like to hear about where you feel you could fit in and what interests you have. What sort of thing you'd like to happen.

Does anyone else have these issues?

Rant over!

Seb

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Prefer to see one in person in the morning myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages come through in stages on here.

At a reasonable time you get some relatively lovely messages that are well thought out and fit nicely in with your profile.

During the early hours and after last orders you get some corkers!!!!!!

This applies to both singles and couples though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Use twattish messages as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some will read your profile and message accordingly others just message en masse hoping to get a random response.

This applies to all tho not just the men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree single men do tend to send there cock pics to couples and single females without been asked too. Its rude to be honest its like flashing and completly uncalled for unless a couple or female asks to see. A cock is a cock and i feel its personality that makes the difference. I personally read the persons profile to see what there looking for..see if im attracted to them and try relate to them. I rarely get replies back but thats simply because they dont like the look of me or are just not interested but i dont dwell on it i move on. I understand People have different tastes. An example is i messaged this female yesterday, i read her profile and it said she liked pickled onion monster munch so i mailed her saying i prefer flaming hot monster munch and it created that funny debate where we had a conversation about whats best and that got the conversation flowing which could lead to more or not but its about being respectful. So all in all i feel you should read about the people your going to mail and be respectful to them without sending cock photos unless asked too.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Use the filters the site provides and search for the elusive single male yourselves, control the controllable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a polite message, trying to find something in the profile to relate to and only send a face pic.

Though I would say when I was on a couple's profile within 15 minutes of setting it up we got 3 messages from couples asking to meet that night and we hadnt even had chance to put any pics on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put an ad in a local free newspaper a little while ago: Lovely Sofa, free to anyone who can collect. We even added a couple of clear pics of the item. We still had a ton of responses asking if we could deliver it. Cheeky feckers.

Point being, poor messages are not a swinger site, or even a single male issue, it's just the way some people are. As someone has already said, just ignore the poor messages and concentrate on the good ones.

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