FabSwingers.com forum: Club meet or private meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you prefer?

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By *ltraglideCouple
over a year ago

mansfield

Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club for me Mrs d x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private. I've only been to a club once plus I'm too far away from any club here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer private meets ....roll on this morning

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Club or private .. Private is more .. Private lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do clubs, so private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs all the way

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Prefer club meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private. I've only been to a club once plus I'm too far away from any club here."

Same goes for me and private meets can be a bit more flexible time wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like both but prefer club...

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Private meet. Much more intimate and more time.

I find the noise in a club too off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time

this^^ and also it gives time to have a chat and a drink to see if you all get on face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets every time

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Private meet. Much more intimate and more time.

I find the noise in a club too off putting.

Sue's looking for her first Fem meet and suspect, from talking to her, the intimacy is important due to inexperience.

However needs must and it looks like we are going to a club shortly, well when her back is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a prearranged meet for a long time since I had a bad run of disastrous private meets (including one chap who spent the evening showing me pics on his phone of his mother going about her daily life, shopping for coats etc!!!). So all my encounters tend to be with men met by chance at clubs. Not sure how I would feel if I arranged a meet at a club and when they turned up I didn't fancy them? Isn't that embarrassing? Is it ok to turn them down at a club? I don't think I could have fun with other people if my "date" was still lurking, so would be a wasted journey and entrance fee etc

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time

this^^ and also it gives time to have a chat and a drink to see if you all get on face to face

Agree this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club, less pressure and more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meet coz even if they do show you can go off and have mindless sex with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will let you know after our first club session tonight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private meet. Much more intimate and more time.

I find the noise in a club too off putting.

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though a private meet with you would be worth looking forward to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enjoy both - think if i had to choose id say private but then thinking about the good times at club hmmmmmm -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club first then private once known filters out the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find clubs boring so private meets for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be private. Cant do clubs anyway and none near me even if I wanted to.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Only meet in clubs.

Did do private a couple of years ago, but don't enjoy the whole shagging on the lounge floor thing

So clubs it is. Don't go on socials as we can chat in the club and see if we click

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

I prefer private meet.it enable me to express my sexual desire and my kinky attitude. In club I ve to restrict myself.

In fact I doubt if many people can express their sexual desire in public lounge. E,g some women can't do anal in public or water sport. Hence most people prefer to private meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do both but prefer club meets as you can see who you want to play with before you start anything, also private meets can leave you high and dry if they don't show up as in a club you can still have fun regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like clubs but prefer private meets, i find men are more attentive on private meets men in clubs just seem to be in a hurry off to see who they can find next

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

Club ..is safer plus if get let down can find someone else have fun with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs - I like the atmosphere, the variety of people, lots of people to chat to, different areas to walk around, clothing can be more elaborate. The actual sex is not the most important for me and I don't want a deep level of intimacy as I have my partner for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what we fancy and how much time we have...We like to host for more private fun times with people we know, but we don't have a hot tub, sauna or large groups of people to call on if that's what we're in the mood for, so then it's a club or a party...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had both....currently prefer private meets (time, intimacy, distractions) although takes more time / effort to organise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club always. V rarely do private meets these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like private meets if you've already met but club meets all the way ...lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs. Most clubs have private rooms anyway. .. and are much safer for single women xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been to a club

then its time you did , your missing out,

they are great fun even if you don't have any sex its just nice to mix with open minded sexy peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alwais a home meet cos I don't wanna waste money to get in a club lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais a home meet cos I don't wanna waste money to get in a club lol."
Tight wad

Her

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By *aughtydesiresCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Club meet. So if they don't show it's not a waste of time

this^^ and also it gives time to have a chat and a drink to see if you all get on face to face

Agree this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might start going to clubs, as trying to meet private is a ball ache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais a home meet cos I don't wanna waste money to get in a club lol.Tight wad

Her"
I know lol, its ressesion after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alwais a home meet cos I don't wanna waste money to get in a club lol.Tight wad

HerI know lol, its ressesion after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their advantages. I love the social aspect of clubs - but the best sex i've ever had has always been in private meets. Xx

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