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"5'4 and with a beard. They love it! .....no. they don't lol "Haha made me laugh! I reckon you'd be surprised how many do though. | |||
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"I'm sort of average. " I like sorta average..not rugby not athletic but slim to medim build. | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of women go for rugby player types, then others go for athletic types. I know everybody is different and everybody has different tastes. I just want to know what is the ideal body for a man? Hairy/Nonhairy athletic/muscly? It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Just curious, these forums are quite useful when I'm bored and got some spare time "There is no ideal, different women have different preferences, sooner you accept that and just be yourself then you won't give a toss about trying to be something for someone else 
You're still going to have quite a high metabolism at your age and if you're training then to get that rugby player body you will have to stack in the calories, 4000+ a day I'd expect. Once you get past 30 you'll start to naturally fill a bit more I'd think too
Anyway as said stop worrying, you'll appeal to many women with an athletic physique you're just getting a case of wanting what you probably won't get with the ones after the chunkier rugby player look | |||
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"One of the bodies I have to play with regularly is lovely. It's fairly muscular but not overly so,and hairy-ish. Slightly taller than me and strong arms " You say "I have to play with" as if somebody is holding a gun to your head  Haha just messing. I just want to know peoples opinions, I knew it would be a mix of opinions same as everyday life. | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of women go for rugby player types, then others go for athletic types. I know everybody is different and everybody has different tastes. I just want to know what is the ideal body for a man? Hairy/Nonhairy athletic/muscly? It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Just curious, these forums are quite useful when I'm bored and got some spare time
There is no ideal, different women have different preferences, sooner you accept that and just be yourself then you won't give a toss about trying to be something for someone else
You're still going to have quite a high metabolism at your age and if you're training then to get that rugby player body you will have to stack in the calories, 4000+ a day I'd expect. Once you get past 30 you'll start to naturally fill a bit more I'd think too
Anyway as said stop worrying, you'll appeal to many women with an athletic physique you're just getting a case of wanting what you probably won't get with the ones after the chunkier rugby player look "Wow, chill your beef trev I'm happy the way I am, just curious of peoples opinions that's all. I am not trying to be anything but me  | |||
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" Wow, chill your beef trev I'm happy the way I am, just curious of peoples opinions that's all. I am not trying to be anything but me "I'm totally chilled here  You asked a question as to what the 'ideal' body is. Answer is...erm...there isn't one  Sorry if my post came across as a bit direct but it came across like you wanted the rugby player look but wouldn't be able to achieve it
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"One of the bodies I have to play with regularly is lovely. It's fairly muscular but not overly so,and hairy-ish. Slightly taller than me and strong arms You say "I have to play with" as if somebody is holding a gun to your head Haha just messing. I just want to know peoples opinions, I knew it would be a mix of opinions same as everyday life."Lol to have as in in my hands | |||
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" the chunkier rugby player look "Not all Rygbi players are chunky  Gareth Thomas, Mike Phillips and Liam Williams are just three Welsh players that spring to mind and not one of then have an ounce of fat between them! | |||
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" I'm totally chilled here You asked a question as to what the 'ideal' body is. Answer is...erm...there isn't one Sorry if my post came across as a bit direct but it came across like you wanted the rugby player look but wouldn't be able to achieve it
Based on your last sentence "Haha it's sound I didn't mean it like that. I knew there would be a variety of opinions and wanted to hear them. I appreciate your first answer though fair play | |||
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"I'm not too fussy, tall and slim, tall and fat, tall and athletic, tall and...you get the picture. Tbh if a guy has the personality i will enjoy him whatever his body, but if i'm looking for a quick fuck then i'm gonna go off looks alone." Your 5"2 everybody is tall to you :P | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of women go for rugby player types, then others go for athletic types. I know everybody is different and everybody has different tastes. I just want to know what is the ideal body for a man? Hairy/Nonhairy athletic/muscly? It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Just curious, these forums are quite useful when I'm bored and got some spare time "Are you happy with your body? | |||
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"Are you happy with your body? " Yes I am Just curious of peoples opinions that's all x | |||
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"Are you happy with your body? Yes I am Just curious of peoples opinions that's all x"that's all that matters, your not going to change for anyone else if you like yourself are you personally I don't like really skinny men or obese but anything in between if fine slim/athletic/average/a few extra pounds is fine with me | |||
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"that's all that matters, your not going to change for anyone else if you like yourself are you personally I don't like really skinny men or obese but anything in between if fine slim/athletic/average/a few extra pounds is fine with me" I've been there in the past, trying to be something I'm just not.. Fuck that take me as I am or don't take me | |||
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"I'm sort of average. I like sorta average..not rugby not athletic but slim to medim build. " Oh good. I always look at people like shagtonight and think 'oh my, I'm never gonna get a 6 pack like his and van dammes so I'm never gonna get a meet based on fab abs' | |||
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Shall probably work out a little more to have more success, but hopefully somebody I chat with will get along with me regardless. | |||
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"I'm not too fussy, tall and slim, tall and fat, tall and athletic, tall and...you get the picture. Tbh if a guy has the personality i will enjoy him whatever his body, but if i'm looking for a quick fuck then i'm gonna go off looks alone. Your 5"2 everybody is tall to you :P" Haha true. Ok, i like giant and etc etc. Like 6ft 3 or above is a huge turn on for me, but smaller than that is ok as well. | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol." Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept. | |||
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"To be honest OP you have good body, not to thin and plenty of definition, I can't see what your worried about " Thanks!! I'm not worrying about anything though Just wanted to know peoples opinions that's all x | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept." Depends as well how the diet is, you need to push the envelope to get thru the plateau, so add 500 calories aweek, in the bulk phase. | |||
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"I like tall strong black men love strong shoulders and broad chests not really in to facial hair just my preference Mrs d x" And thats my least favorite word, tall. 5"10 im no giant | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept.Depends as well how the diet is, you need to push the envelope to get thru the plateau, so add 500 calories aweek, in the bulk phase." And then you'll most likely burn those calories up as fuel, or you'll get fat - not everyone has the genetics to build masses of muscle. | |||
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"I'm not too concerned about hair but not keen on hairy backs! Though a size 10 i'm quite tall and far from skinny - so I like a guy to be taller (or as tall) and bigger built than me - though definitely not fat. Flab is a huge turnoff for me. A gym fit body with a six pack is lovely - but a guy who clearly exercises regularly in any field is fine as long as he isn't really slim - as that makes me feel fat and ungainly! Goes without saying he has to have a great personality to go with the nice body too! Xx " hi Paula I agree and I am very fit play squash to a high standard big thighs  | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept.Depends as well how the diet is, you need to push the envelope to get thru the plateau, so add 500 calories aweek, in the bulk phase. And then you'll most likely burn those calories up as fuel, or you'll get fat - not everyone has the genetics to build masses of muscle." Yes your right and do loads of cardio, they say also depends what size ur wrist are, if it 6" u wont get massive, if its 8" u will have big bones and have an easier time to get huge muscles. | |||
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"Goes without saying he has to have a great personality to go with the nice body too! Xx " Your right enough that does go without saying | |||
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"Is rugby player build the male equivalent of BBW? I ask because I see it so often on men's profiles, blokes in their 40's/50's. One chap wrote a very condescending message to me including his height and weight and the fact he USED to play a lot of sport in his thirties. He described himself as rugby player build but when calculating his BMI he was in fact morbidly obese with a BMI of 40. Replied that I wasn't interested in overweight men and he went ballistic, the air turned blue and I magically turned into a fat old slag despite being a gorgeous girl in his first mail "Lol! No. Look at the Welsh rugby players, they are fine specimens of men! Leigh Halfpenny though, was tiny compared to now before he got into the welsh squad, now he's a tank lol.. It isn't the male equivalent of a bbw because they have hardly any body fat, obviously some to help get the weight up but they're also solid! Although, I have mates who are bigger lumps who envy my metabolism Don't listen to that guy though, turned sour because he wanted something he can't have. Seems very childish though for a bloke in their 40s/50s! | |||
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"I'm sort of average. I like sorta average..not rugby not athletic but slim to medim build. " im your man then  | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept.Depends as well how the diet is, you need to push the envelope to get thru the plateau, so add 500 calories aweek, in the bulk phase. And then you'll most likely burn those calories up as fuel, or you'll get fat - not everyone has the genetics to build masses of muscle.Yes your right and do loads of cardio, they say also depends what size ur wrist are, if it 6" u wont get massive, if its 8" u will have big bones and have an easier time to get huge muscles." I very much agree with you about the wrists, but don't see the point in eating additional calories if your intention is to then spend more time on the treadmill. This is fine if you specifically want to improve your cardiovascular endurance, but serves little purpose for building muscle. | |||
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"Makes me laugh these little dudes that get beefed up on steroids and wear the tightest t shirts. I'd rather stick to pumping girls not pills haha" Hahaha! I tried it once when I was 17, all my mates were filling out and I ate more than the lot of them put together and being a bricklayer at the time used a lot more muscle than any of them but still stayed slim! It got annoying so started training with a typical roid head, who talked me into it. Done it for a month and seen incredible changes in strength and size, but they also made me real cocky and that's not me! They don't just change you physically, mentally to! Fuck that shit! Not just that, as soon as I stopped taking them the gains I seen also fucked off with them haha, so all these juice heads as soon as they stop will be devastated, all that hard work for nothing! | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept.Depends as well how the diet is, you need to push the envelope to get thru the plateau, so add 500 calories aweek, in the bulk phase. And then you'll most likely burn those calories up as fuel, or you'll get fat - not everyone has the genetics to build masses of muscle.Yes your right and do loads of cardio, they say also depends what size ur wrist are, if it 6" u wont get massive, if its 8" u will have big bones and have an easier time to get huge muscles. I very much agree with you about the wrists, but don't see the point in eating additional calories if your intention is to then spend more time on the treadmill. This is fine if you specifically want to improve your cardiovascular endurance, but serves little purpose for building muscle." well the cardio is only there to help. a lot of people bulk up and have no regards to cardio so they just end up looking fat. i think cardio should always be apart of the work out but varies if you bulking cutting or losing weight | |||
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"oooooooooooh the OP's body looks pretty good to me. fit athletic n toned that's what I like "I agree that's kinda my ideal, maybe a bit broader, but that might just be the pics. But sexy as hell | |||
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"oooooooooooh the OP's body looks pretty good to me. fit athletic n toned that's what I like
I agree that's kinda my ideal, maybe a bit broader, but that might just be the pics. But sexy as hell "Wow thanks! Doing this thread has actually boosted my confidence and I'm already a confident guy! Really appreciate all the replies I've had guys I'll work on my shoulders a bit more | |||
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"ok is that it,is the thread over? can I now tell everyone bout my new dress I bought "There won't be enough memory or time to discuss your dress | |||
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"ok is that it,is the thread over? can I now tell everyone bout my new dress I bought
There won't be enough memory or time to discuss your dress "ha! | |||
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"Some advice boys...spend more time working on your personality than working on your six packs...it will work wonders. "Haha I don't need to, if you got to know you you'd see for yourself | |||
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"It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Congratulations on having a brain in your head, it never ceases to amaze me just how few guys can wrap their heads around this concept.Depends as well how the diet is, you need to push the envelope to get thru the plateau, so add 500 calories aweek, in the bulk phase. And then you'll most likely burn those calories up as fuel, or you'll get fat - not everyone has the genetics to build masses of muscle.Yes your right and do loads of cardio, they say also depends what size ur wrist are, if it 6" u wont get massive, if its 8" u will have big bones and have an easier time to get huge muscles. I very much agree with you about the wrists, but don't see the point in eating additional calories if your intention is to then spend more time on the treadmill. This is fine if you specifically want to improve your cardiovascular endurance, but serves little purpose for building muscle. well the cardio is only there to help. a lot of people bulk up and have no regards to cardio so they just end up looking fat. i think cardio should always be apart of the work out but varies if you bulking cutting or losing weight " People end up getting fat when they eat more calories than they're burning, hence it makes little sense to eat more calories then do cardio to burn them off as ultimately, what was the point of eating an excess that you THEN have to exercise off, when you could have simply ate as you would normally whilst continuing to push yourself on the weights? Personally I've found I'm at my hungriest when I'm at my strongest, I see no point in force feeding. | |||
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"I don't like the huge shoulder/small waist build. Reminds me of Johnny Wotsisname " Lol Jonny Bravo? | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of women go for rugby player types, then others go for athletic types. I know everybody is different and everybody has different tastes. I just want to know what is the ideal body for a man? Hairy/Nonhairy athletic/muscly? It is impossible for me to be "a rugby players build" as my genetics simply won't let me unless I go on steroids which isn't happening lol. Just curious, these forums are quite useful when I'm bored and got some spare time "I prefer a more athletic than bulky appearance, tall, and quite strong as I'm a big strapping girlie myself! A good natural shoulder to hip ratio is what trips my trigger - slim hips just wow me (maybe 'cos mine are not wide). | |||
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"I don't like the huge shoulder/small waist build. Reminds me of Johnny Wotsisname Lol Jonny Bravo? "That's him! All swagger and shmooze | |||
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"I don't like the huge shoulder/small waist build. Reminds me of Johnny Wotsisname Lol Jonny Bravo?
That's him! All swagger and shmooze "You do know it's a cartoon don't you? | |||
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"Then body is only a vessel , it's the mans mind we are more interested in . Again is all down to taste and a connection . " I know that of course it is.. But, there has to be an attraction | |||
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"I don't like the huge shoulder/small waist build. Reminds me of Johnny Wotsisname Lol Jonny Bravo?
That's him! All swagger and shmooze
You do know it's a cartoon don't you? "no? Really?? | |||
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"Then body is only a vessel , it's the mans mind we are more interested in . Again is all down to taste and a connection . " oh get real,,i don't give shit if hes a total fuckwit with the brain of a goldfish,,,,,,,,,,,,he looks yummy,,give him to me | |||
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"Then body is only a vessel , it's the mans mind we are more interested in . Again is all down to taste and a connection . oh get real,,i don't give shit if hes a total fuckwit with the brain of a goldfish,,,,,,,,,,,,he looks yummy,,give him to me "admittedly,,gagged,,i don't wanna hear him talk | |||
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