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By *exybbw_69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

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By *exybbw_69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Gah!

Anyone got any tips or tricks to get a man to cum through a BJ? It's on his wish list so would love to do it.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it and don't try to make him cum. That's what I do and it usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make noise while you do it. The vibration feels ace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi!

I am told I'm pretty good at this! first you must enjoy what you are doing. You need to use your hands as well as your mouth.. all that deep throat stuff is pretty tricky stuff and best left in porn films unless you have no gag reflex. You can create the sensation of deep throat by licking your hand and getting it nice and wet.. you can't give a good blow job if you are dehydrated. Now slide your hand with your mouth up and over, use plenty of saliva. keep your hand to your mouth as you move.. imagine you are creating a warm wet pussy with your hand and mouth. spin your tongue around the tip as you withdraw.. keep a steady rhythm, its not a race and you can be gentle. stroke his balls (gently) ..every man is different and likes it different.. try different pressures and speeds till you figure it out..let him know at the start if you want to swallow or not this will help him relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why's he not cum already? Just asking because some people find it hard to cum through oral sex, not because they aren't enjoying it but because they just don't feel able to.

If this was the case you could just let him wank in your face kind of thing and do little bit of oral on him (like lick the tip or pop it in his mouth a little bit) so he comes in your mouth or lips and gets used to coming with some oral play.

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By *zeye73Man
over a year ago

Amersham


"Why's he not cum already? Just asking because some people find it hard to cum through oral sex, not because they aren't enjoying it but because they just don't feel able to.

If this was the case you could just let him wank in your face kind of thing and do little bit of oral on him (like lick the tip or pop it in his mouth a little bit) so he comes in your mouth or lips and gets used to coming with some oral play."

Sound advice in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The softer, the wetter, the deeper the better. A pussy feeling is the ideal turn on, and honestly, this is where most women get it wrong in my opinion is that a pussy doesn't suck and a pussy doesnt have teeth. Sucking while giving a bj and teeth contact spoil the joy every time for me. Make sure you're hydrated, you are enjoying doing it and try to avoid teeth contact as much as u can. Strockimg the balls softly while u do it helps as well.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

First and foremost you need to listen to what your partner likes.

Don't listen to vladimpaler as that is just his preferences.

I've sucked a guy that loved being sucked hard like you were quite literally trying to drain him dry. Guys that liked the feel of teeth gently scraping their shaft. Everyone is just different and I have my own secret technique that never fails. Well except one guy I've been with that never has and probably never will cum via oral.

If you want to deep throat the key is to yawn as you take the length of him. This widens the back of the throat and reduces the gag reflex. Just remember to pull back as the yawn ends. I didn't one time, mainly because he was holding my head, and I got sick. So when you do make sure you let him know so he doesn't do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't listen to _adygarden. Listen what men like lol

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"Don't listen to _adygarden. Listen what men like lol"

Huummmm funny as that is what my first sentence does say.

First and foremost listen to your partner. You state what you didn't like but the man next door may like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gah!

Anyone got any tips or tricks to get a man to cum through a BJ? It's on his wish list so would love to do it.

Thanks"

I rarely cum from a blow job, no idea why.

I did play with a girl in a club once who made me cum in seconds which was completely unexpected. I came away almost bemused by what had happened.

Basically what she did was put the for want of a better term "bell end" in her mouth and then wanked the rest of me into her mouth. The combination of mouth and hand made me loose all control.

She certainly knew how to make a guy cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't listen to _adygarden. Listen what men like lol

Huummmm funny as that is what my first sentence does say.

First and foremost listen to your partner. You state what you didn't like but the man next door may like it"

It made me laugh indeed. I still think that most men agree with me though. I have met women who are very confident on their bj skills and they do it just as I described it without me giving any preference on how they should do it.

My argument is, if as you say the sucking and teeth feeling is desirable, may be the pussy designer should have added some teeth to it and longs to suck lol. Or may be the men toy designers should have chosen to add teeth like objects and simulate a sucking mouth instead of simulating a pussy in men's toys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gah!

Anyone got any tips or tricks to get a man to cum through a BJ? It's on his wish list so would love to do it.

Thanks"

Yeah,

Send him to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The softer, the wetter, the deeper the better. A pussy feeling is the ideal turn on, and honestly, this is where most women get it wrong in my opinion is that a pussy doesn't suck and a pussy doesnt have teeth. Sucking while giving a bj and teeth contact spoil the joy every time for me. Make sure you're hydrated, you are enjoying doing it and try to avoid teeth contact as much as u can. Strockimg the balls softly while u do it helps as well. "

This I've found works the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The softer, the wetter, the deeper the better. A pussy feeling is the ideal turn on, and honestly, this is where most women get it wrong in my opinion is that a pussy doesn't suck and a pussy doesnt have teeth. Sucking while giving a bj and teeth contact spoil the joy every time for me. Make sure you're hydrated, you are enjoying doing it and try to avoid teeth contact as much as u can. Strockimg the balls softly while u do it helps as well.

This I've found works the best! "

No need for bj skills at all. Put those yummy boobs on my face and I'll come instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The softer, the wetter, the deeper the better. A pussy feeling is the ideal turn on, and honestly, this is where most women get it wrong in my opinion is that a pussy doesn't suck and a pussy doesnt have teeth. Sucking while giving a bj and teeth contact spoil the joy every time for me. Make sure you're hydrated, you are enjoying doing it and try to avoid teeth contact as much as u can. Strockimg the balls softly while u do it helps as well.

This I've found works the best!

No need for bj skills at all. Put those yummy boobs on my face and I'll come instantly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooo teeth !!!!!! None at all nope nay never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number one rule ..enjoy what your doing

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"Don't listen to _adygarden. Listen what men like lol

Huummmm funny as that is what my first sentence does say.

First and foremost listen to your partner. You state what you didn't like but the man next door may like it

It made me laugh indeed. I still think that most men agree with me though. I have met women who are very confident on their bj skills and they do it just as I described it without me giving any preference on how they should do it.

My argument is, if as you say the sucking and teeth feeling is desirable, may be the pussy designer should have added some teeth to it and longs to suck lol. Or may be the men toy designers should have chosen to add teeth like objects and simulate a sucking mouth instead of simulating a pussy in men's toys? "

I'm not disagreeing with you so no idea why you feel a need to strike up an argument. Teeth are not something I use unless instructed to. Plus there are toys out there that suck and toys that spike the cock and have no stimulation like a womans pussy. Sex toys are not always designed to replicate more so to offer a sensation you can not get from sex.

Clearly you know nothing of the sex yoy industry

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Add in a twist or two, instead of just stroking up and down with you hand while sucking, throw your elbow forwards causing your hand to turn, brings lots of sensitive areas on the head of his cock into contact with your mouth, be gentle though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how people can fall out about the daftest things on forums like these.

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I find it hard to cum from a blow job too. Did have one amazing bj once when met a lady on the net, picked her up in car and she sucked me off doing 70mph on the motorway. Not long before i shot a big load in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take forever to cum from blowjobs but I've found that if the girl 69's me then I cum quicker, a lot of men react to visuals, a nice pussy in his face as well as hearing you moan while he licks you might do the trick. Also he may relax a bit more if he's got something to keep him occupied rather than concentrating on his bj. If he's worrying about cumming for you then there's not much chance he will, give him something to take his mind off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add in a twist or two, instead of just stroking up and down with you hand while sucking, throw your elbow forwards causing your hand to turn, brings lots of sensitive areas on the head of his cock into contact with your mouth, be gentle though."

Exactly misty !

Twisting your hand one way and your head the other blows my socks off

Also squeezing the base of a guys cock keeping the blood in it makes it throb like fook whilst teasing it with your tounge !

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to cum from a blow job too. Did have one amazing bj once when met a lady on the net, picked her up in car and she sucked me off doing 70mph on the motorway. Not long before i shot a big load in her mouth "

& I thought the distraction of a mobile phone was bad

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Alternate what your doing change from fast to slow of vice versa.... work on his balls and shaft not just his bellend/cock. ....... tease him,maybe ride his cock have a little suck. .... STOP!!!! Then start again..... blindfold him,it'll heighten his senses. listen to his breathing or his body,tell him to let you know what feels good. I love it when my girl gives me a few little sucks while watching the TV etc,just getting me hard then stopping... then when she's working on my cock and balls,I'll be getting ready to blow and she'll stop. we'll have a snog or I'll tease her....... then back to me etc etc...... Then we'll just explode....... take your time

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Personally I love when women bite. The blow job tends to go from,she does it because I like it, to she does it because she is loving it.

It's rather fun having a woman suck, nible, bite and growl. Who simply won't let go till you cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite lol. I wish I didn't cum so quick from a bj!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't listen to _adygarden. Listen what men like lol

Huummmm funny as that is what my first sentence does say.

First and foremost listen to your partner. You state what you didn't like but the man next door may like it

It made me laugh indeed. I still think that most men agree with me though. I have met women who are very confident on their bj skills and they do it just as I described it without me giving any preference on how they should do it.

My argument is, if as you say the sucking and teeth feeling is desirable, may be the pussy designer should have added some teeth to it and longs to suck lol. Or may be the men toy designers should have chosen to add teeth like objects and simulate a sucking mouth instead of simulating a pussy in men's toys?

I'm not disagreeing with you so no idea why you feel a need to strike up an argument. Teeth are not something I use unless instructed to. Plus there are toys out there that suck and toys that spike the cock and have no stimulation like a womans pussy. Sex toys are not always designed to replicate more so to offer a sensation you can not get from sex.

Clearly you know nothing of the sex yoy industry"

We r just giving opinions about the best way to give a bj .

Dont get upset and offensive about such a small matter please.

You can bite cocks as much as u like as long as the cocks owners are happy with it. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a post in the fantasy thread to Google 'klixen' handjob. Might be worth a look.

Does look impressive.

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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago

not far from Brighton

I often get told i give amazing blow jobs.. i dont think i do anything overly spectacular i just follow my gut instinct and do what feels right. Most of the men ive met seem to prefer a combination of licking sucking stroking and twisting.. nothing to extreme is the key and dont do the same thing for to long.. mix it uo abit so he doesnt get to used to the same sensation.

Like post of the other people have said the most important factors are that both u and the guy ur performing the oral sex on are relaxed and in the zone.. if your not horny or enjoying it the chances are it will be rubbish for both of you.

Some men also find if you stroke their inner thighs and the back of their balls this will drive them wild.. one of the guys i play with loves his balls gently sucked while i wank his shaft..

My advice is try and relax and get into the mood b4 u start.. dont expect him to cum.. but agree on what should happen if that does occur.. i.e. can he cum in ur mouth or will he have to pull out.. this will help him enjoy it more if he does cum x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I have never cum from a blow job. I think that's because it might take quite a long time.

I suspect from reading the comments above that there is no 'perfect' blow job.

That's because everyone is different and gets turned on by different things. As is always the key with great sex, it's about communication and experimentation.

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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago

not far from Brighton


"I have never cum from a blow job. I think that's because it might take quite a long time. "

How long would u hazard a guess at?

My longest bj was 3 hours haha but he had only just cum when i started haha

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I seem to do ok, as a few people have said enjoy it, spend a bit of time feeling and licking and sucking. If you are not getting the result you wanted let him do some of the work while you play with his balls and other things. When he is ready to go then take over oh and savour it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol


"I have never cum from a blow job. I think that's because it might take quite a long time.

How long would u hazard a guess at?

My longest bj was 3 hours haha but he had only just cum when i started haha"

I would have thought between 10 and 20 mins. 3hrs is above and beyond the call of duty. You should have got a medal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from a blow job. I think that's because it might take quite a long time.

How long would u hazard a guess at?

My longest bj was 3 hours haha but he had only just cum when i started haha"

With that booty ad never last 3 hours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a post in the fantasy thread to Google 'klixen' handjob. Might be worth a look.

Does look impressive. "

I'm responsible for that post !

She's fookin amazing lol

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By *exykinkyfuncplCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

a wet finger or lubed finger up the arse will def make him cum works for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grip it tight and bang his head with the palm of your hand should do the trick

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Pffff I've never had a problem with this - it's just wiping up the spunk that's been my problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets me going when the women is loving sucking it.....like really enjoying it....over enjoying it id say and teasing it from shaft to head, also when the women is looking directly into my eyes while i cum loads in her pretty lil mouth and she swallows....mmmmmm thats what gets me going haha

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


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. Sucking head and sliding hands up and down shaft of cock. Helps having balls massaged at the same time ..Skin pulleb back tightly to display maximum cock head. .

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"[Removed by poster at 02/12/14 22:27:20]. Sucking head and sliding hands up and down shaft of cock. Helps having balls massaged at the same time ..Skin pulleb back tightly to display maximum cock head. . "
. As you are local to me you can have a demonstration session if you like

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"Don't listen to _adygarden. Listen what men like lol

Huummmm funny as that is what my first sentence does say.

First and foremost listen to your partner. You state what you didn't like but the man next door may like it

It made me laugh indeed. I still think that most men agree with me though. I have met women who are very confident on their bj skills and they do it just as I described it without me giving any preference on how they should do it.

My argument is, if as you say the sucking and teeth feeling is desirable, may be the pussy designer should have added some teeth to it and longs to suck lol. Or may be the men toy designers should have chosen to add teeth like objects and simulate a sucking mouth instead of simulating a pussy in men's toys?

I'm not disagreeing with you so no idea why you feel a need to strike up an argument. Teeth are not something I use unless instructed to. Plus there are toys out there that suck and toys that spike the cock and have no stimulation like a womans pussy. Sex toys are not always designed to replicate more so to offer a sensation you can not get from sex.

Clearly you know nothing of the sex yoy industry

We r just giving opinions about the best way to give a bj .

Dont get upset and offensive about such a small matter please.

You can bite cocks as much as u like as long as the cocks owners are happy with it. lol

"

I'm not at all upset and I haven't been offensive

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