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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why? Just why? Now I'm not complaining as I fall into this category and I'm very happy to, but I've just done a forum search and you guys are obsessed! So what's the reason to seek out an older lady rather than a young hottie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why? Just why? Now I'm not complaining as I fall into this category and I'm very happy to, but I've just done a forum search and you guys are obsessed! So what's the reason to seek out an older lady rather than a young hottie?"

If you read the threads you'll get a hint as to why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmm yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy porn stereotypes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine it's something about older women (generalising here) being perceived to be more comfortable in their sexuality, having a bit more experience and knowing what they want and so on.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is a more sensual energy, for me, about experience, a more openness.

I tend to generalise younger as more "raw" energy.

Both brilliant, both fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine it's something about older women (generalising here) being perceived to be more comfortable in their sexuality, having a bit more experience and knowing what they want and so on. "

bang on.......x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I used to wonder, then I realised that for some men it was about stereotypes but for lots it's a genuine preference for older women. They say our bodies are softer and often our attitudes are different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of older woman look hot these days and find them attractive., so getting it on with an older woman is the fantasy/dream come true :D Alot of older men have a thing for younger girls.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

Hot^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me....a young hottie for me over a older women

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

Never, that would be patronising. Lots of people assume there's a whiff of whatever the opposite of Oedipus complex is when really it's just sex.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

Never, that would be patronising. Lots of people assume there's a whiff of whatever the opposite of Oedipus complex is when really it's just sex."

Electra complex , damn I'm going to have to get a life.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

Never, that would be patronising. Lots of people assume there's a whiff of whatever the opposite of Oedipus complex is when really it's just sex.

Electra complex , damn I'm going to have to get a life.

Electra complex, thats it thank you

No life required you are part of the fab collective now.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

Never, that would be patronising. Lots of people assume there's a whiff of whatever the opposite of Oedipus complex is when really it's just sex.

Electra complex , damn I'm going to have to get a life.

Electra complex, thats it thank you

No life required you are part of the fab collective now.

That mean I can meet 7 of 9?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

Never, that would be patronising. Lots of people assume there's a whiff of whatever the opposite of Oedipus complex is when really it's just sex.

Electra complex , damn I'm going to have to get a life.

Electra complex, thats it thank you

No life required you are part of the fab collective now.

That mean I can meet 7 of 9?

If it's for the good of the hive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly. For me, it's because they come with no drama. They know where we stand if we do meet or when we start talking. No complications and no drama - just annoying that i'm usually out the age range for almost everyone of them who really gets me going and are my cup of tea.

My experience with those around my age or younger has never been good. I've always found them to be too clingy, wasting my time with bullshit and the questions after questions if i do anything on fab or if i've met anyone.

I just get along with those who are older. Just seem to click. And i've always found older women sexy as fuck. And i don't meet them for experience, never have and never will - i'd like to think i don't need that.

(Apologies for the mini rant - that's what has been happening lately and it just ruins it for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess it's mostly about pragmatism. Young guys soon find out that the majority of women on fab are older than them, and some will promote themselves as lovers of 'older women' in a bid to improve their chances of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine it's something about older women (generalising here) being perceived to be more comfortable in their sexuality, having a bit more experience and knowing what they want and so on. "

I love older women but your booty has just changed my mind lol

WOW !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would guess it's mostly about pragmatism. Young guys soon find out that the majority of women on fab are older than them, and some will promote themselves as lovers of 'older women' in a bid to improve their chances of a meet."

Yep! There will be a definite element of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zimmer fetish. 'nuff said.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Zimmer fetish. 'nuff said.

Can you buy them with anchor points?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zimmer fetish. 'nuff said.

Can you buy them with anchor points?

Oh yes. Just don't get your hairnet caught in them. A 'friend' told me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Zimmer fetish. 'nuff said.

Can you buy them with anchor points?

Oh yes. Just don't get your hairnet caught in them. A 'friend' told me.

Love it when you talk dirty to me.

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By *horshiperMan
over a year ago

London

Personally to me it doesnt matter whether they are younger or older as long as there is a mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you next see a post from a young guy purporting to prefer older women, take a peek at their profile. Chances are, the minimum age they're looking for will be 18, and they will have neglected to mention anything in their profile text about their strong desire to meet older women.

Bless em. Can't blame them for trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flipside what do older women see in younger men ?

Not a criticism as I'm someone who does love an older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some have suggested maybe older women are perceived to be more confident and less clingy. Although I'm sure this is true of many, some may be insecure as there body and looks change and perhaps for some there is the urge to find a man and settle down before "its too late". I feel sexier than I did when I was young and certainly don't want a man, but just playing devils advocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an older woman who loves the attention. I love young fit bodies and long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i have asked young guys who mail me why? their reply usually is because girls my age fall for you to easy they think because I want to fuck them i want to be with them where as older women tend to just be after sex too and aren't clingy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"On the flipside what do older women see in younger men ?

Not a criticism as I'm someone who does love an older woman"

Personally I don't go for an age if a man can make me laugh, treat me as an equal and doesn't patronise me with false compliments it'll do the trick.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"On the flipside what do older women see in younger men ?

Not a criticism as I'm someone who does love an older woman

Personally I don't go for an age if a man can make me laugh, treat me as an equal and doesn't patronise me with false compliments it'll do the trick. "

Anyone know where I can buy a sense of humour from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's to do with the "milf" thing !

As a kid growing up you used to see loads of fit mothers/teachers at school etc and you'd allways think oh ad like to fuck her even tho they where Probobly only mid 20s

And as you get older obviously so does that "milf" you allways perved at , at school - hence the fascination of the older lady

That's just my opinion

So if there's any "milfs" up north give me a shout

Xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"On the flipside what do older women see in younger men ?

Not a criticism as I'm someone who does love an older woman

Personally I don't go for an age if a man can make me laugh, treat me as an equal and doesn't patronise me with false compliments it'll do the trick.

Anyone know where I can buy a sense of humour from

you are dry witted according to your profile, no purchase necessary

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"On the flipside what do older women see in younger men ?

Not a criticism as I'm someone who does love an older woman

Personally I don't go for an age if a man can make me laugh, treat me as an equal and doesn't patronise me with false compliments it'll do the trick.

Anyone know where I can buy a sense of humour from

you are dry witted according to your profile, no purchase necessary

Flip, I knew I shouldn't have trusted the predictive text - oh hum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like to meet older women on here as it's just something a bit different. I meet women my own age in bars, clubs etc. On here I tend to look for sexual experiences that I don't tend to get much offline. For me, older women fall into that category.

Often older women can tend to have a bit more confidence and know what they want more when it comes to sex than women my age or younger.

I could never see myself having a relationship with a much older woman, but for a casual encounter or two, it's great fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personally I like to meet older women on here as it's just something a bit different. I meet women my own age in bars, clubs etc. On here I tend to look for sexual experiences that I don't tend to get much offline. For me, older women fall into that category.

Often older women can tend to have a bit more confidence and know what they want more when it comes to sex than women my age or younger.

I could never see myself having a relationship with a much older woman, but for a casual encounter or two, it's great fun."

Your last paragraph is honest and refreshing to read.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Often older women can tend to have a bit more confidence and know what they want more when it comes to sex than women my age or younger.

I could never see myself having a relationship with a much older woman, but for a casual encounter or two, it's great fun."

I agree with your last sentence,I could never have a relationship with someone much younger,but for a bit of fun,why not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think young men want older women to teach them so they are better for the young women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often older women can tend to have a bit more confidence and know what they want more when it comes to sex than women my age or younger.

I could never see myself having a relationship with a much older woman, but for a casual encounter or two, it's great fun."

A guy I met once said that to me, he'd text saying he loved me and wanted babies, but that people would laugh at him for being with an older women!! I didn't want him but was put out by his comment....there was only 12 years between us and with him looking older and me younger than my years, there didn't appear an age difference anyway. Guess it was just an insecurity he had

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Most of the young guys I meet say they find us more interesting, and less work!

And a tiny bit maternal towards them?

Not one teeny weeny scrap - I never had kids and I'm certainly not looking for any now!! I don't want to teach them anything, and I don't chase them - I like my men to be men whatever age they are! If I am looking for nsa it could not be easier - they are fun, they are keen as mustard, they have fabulous bodies and loads of stamina, what's not to like??

I don't want a relationship with a much younger man, so there's zero chance of me getting involved - so it's not going to 'cost' me anything either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think on here guys might say they like older women cos there seems to be more on here, they think it will increase their chances of finding a link, same as guys who say they like the bbws, they think it will get them a grateful fuck.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

most guys have a mother complex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older women and would choose one everytime over a younger one, cos they turn me on more sexually and as well they know to seduce you and pamper you as well whilst playing out mother for son role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like older women and would choose one everytime over a younger one, cos they turn me on more sexually and as well they know to seduce you and pamper you as well whilst playing out mother for son role play

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Noooo shaggio - that's just plain wrong! hah

S x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Really? I didn't know that about you. Why next you'll be telling us you have a six pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo shaggio - that's just plain wrong! hah

S x"
lol its abit kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I didn't know that about you. Why next you'll be telling us you have a six pack

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O yes I did forgot to mention that one and yes I got a 6pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I didn't know that about you. Why next you'll be telling us you have a six pack

Ha knew who wrote the first post from your response before even scrolling up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought I would my two penneth worth, I have read all , and I am the oldest of those who have put messages on here , and just as slim ,as when I got married ,and had 3kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason us older guys do I guess, experience, know how to use your bodies to best effect, happy in your own skin etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am an older woman who loves the attention. I love young fit bodies and long may it continue."

I'm with you on this one ....cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think on here guys might say they like older women cos there seems to be more on here, they think it will increase their chances of finding a link, same as guys who say they like the bbws, they think it will get them a grateful fuck. "

That would be right as I can remember a guy saying he'd stopped messaging and chatting up slim women as he never got anywhere so now only meets bbw's

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

I've found them to be a lot more fun and experimental and embrace being with a younger man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be right as I can remember a guy saying he'd stopped messaging and chatting up slim women as he never got anywhere so now only meets bbw's

That couldn't be further from the truth , I love bbws but I find them the hardest to get meets with

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm fascinated by older women.. I am an older man .. But I do like younger ones too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Older women have such a huge choice of men their own age and so many of us prefer men of around our own age that this isn't likely.

We could meet most nights of the week with guys in their fifties if we had the time.

I think anyone thinking they'll get gratitude from an older woman will soon be disabused of that idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often older women can tend to have a bit more confidence and know what they want more when it comes to sex than women my age or younger.

I could never see myself having a relationship with a much older woman, but for a casual encounter or two, it's great fun."

Yup I can get that !

Well I can't say it was because you younger guys were bought up watching 'Mrs Robinson' ! But long may it continue

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