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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have noticed a few Cpls profiles that have lots of nice sexy pictures of the females, (none at all, of the males) profiles that appear to be written by the females, mentioning the females interests and what she likes and expects from meets, yet finishes with "Address us both or be deleted"

Now we never wanna exclude anyone from a Cpl, male or female, and we agree that if you are mailing a Cpl it should be addressed accordingly, but maybe a little more effort from the gents, may see a little more effort from the potential meets?

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

It's like jumping through hoops,one liners delete,no face pic delete,no tx speak delete etc etc lol

Performing seals honk honk..... throw me a fish pmsl

I can understand why some people copy and paste.

I'm polite when sending messages. .... but I won't beg,I'd rather do without....... Most on here are ego polishers,then there's the fakers and single men posing as couples,straight men wanting to suck cock ffs lala land

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have noticed a few Cpls profiles that have lots of nice sexy pictures of the females, (none at all, of the males) profiles that appear to be written by the females, mentioning the females interests and what she likes and expects from meets, yet finishes with "Address us both or be deleted"

Now we never wanna exclude anyone from a Cpl, male or female, and we agree that if you are mailing a Cpl it should be addressed accordingly, but maybe a little more effort from the gents, may see a little more effort from the potential meets? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always message them and say since your profile says or shows nothing about the male.. we're not going to address him.. perhaps they might get the idea?

Personally we dont bother with couple profiles of that ilk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have noticed a few Cpls profiles that have lots of nice sexy pictures of the females, (none at all, of the males) profiles that appear to be written by the females, mentioning the females interests and what she likes and expects from meets, yet finishes with "Address us both or be deleted"

Now we never wanna exclude anyone from a Cpl, male or female, and we agree that if you are mailing a Cpl it should be addressed accordingly, but maybe a little more effort from the gents, may see a little more effort from the potential meets? "
It's interesting; We have public pictures of us both, all our pics show our faces, we don't go in for "cock pics" and we certainly don't hide anything about ourselves, least of all the fact that I'm a fat bastard and occasional cross-dresser...

We get maybe 1 or 2 messages a week, on a good week.

Certainly it means, for us, that we don't have to deal with loads of people who are never going to be interested in us!

G

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could always message them and say since your profile says or shows nothing about the male.. we're not going to address him.. perhaps they might get the idea?

Personally we dont bother with couple profiles of that ilk.. "

Yeah, that's probably the best answer, just don't bother with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like jumping through hoops,one liners delete,no face pic delete,no tx speak delete etc etc lol

Performing seals honk honk..... throw me a fish pmsl

I can understand why some people copy and paste.

I'm polite when sending messages. .... but I won't beg,I'd rather do without....... Most on here are ego polishers,then there's the fakers and single men posing as couples,straight men wanting to suck cock ffs lala land

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack "

I don't really think that addressing both people in a couple is jumping through hoops... surely its basic politeness?

I always delete messages that are only directed at me (f) because I think its extremely rude!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We like to be addressed as a couple, we also find it a little rude when it doesn't happen. Had one guy constantly talk to Me (Mrs)when we were both present which he knew, I made gentle references, such as "we and us" but he continued to overlook any of that. At one point he suggested phoning Mr N to reassure him that it was okay to bypass "our" don'ts on a meet so we could "do as we pleased" (his words). Found that very disrespectful indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's like jumping through hoops,one liners delete,no face pic delete,no tx speak delete etc etc lol

Performing seals honk honk..... throw me a fish pmsl

I can understand why some people copy and paste.

I'm polite when sending messages. .... but I won't beg,I'd rather do without....... Most on here are ego polishers,then there's the fakers and single men posing as couples,straight men wanting to suck cock ffs lala land

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack

I don't really think that addressing both people in a couple is jumping through hoops... surely its basic politeness?

I always delete messages that are only directed at me (f) because I think its extremely rude!"

Yes we totally agree, and we too delete messages that are just directed at one of us, however our point being that if the male put a little more into the profile, maybe had some of his photos and stuff then it would be harder to disregard him in correspondence!

Let's be honest a lot of the pics on Cpls profiles you could mistake for a single females profile!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Oh, just to add. We don't have the male on our profile as he doesn't play at all, however, we always send pics of us both when a meet is agreed.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"It's like jumping through hoops,one liners delete,no face pic delete,no tx speak delete etc etc lol

Performing seals honk honk..... throw me a fish pmsl

I can understand why some people copy and paste.

I'm polite when sending messages. .... but I won't beg,I'd rather do without....... Most on here are ego polishers,then there's the fakers and single men posing as couples,straight men wanting to suck cock ffs lala land

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Well said. It's nice to come across a guy who has self respect and know what he's worth.

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