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By *ilthythanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Hi all,

I used to use this site as a single male swinger (boo, hiss) but am now in a relationship with a bi curious girl who's very keen to try soft swinging, girl on girl etc (basically anything that doesn't involve either of us playing with members of the opposite sex).

Anyway, since we didn't want to waste anyone's time, we made the choice on our profile not to accept messages from single guys (sorry lads).

So, was expecting quite a few messages from couples where the guy is happy to meet without his partner (I think we all know the ones), but no, not a sausage, no pun intended.

Just a handful of messages, no hassle, no fuss, no time consuming replies.

So why don't the people who don't want to be messaged by single males, just tick the box? That way the single guys won't have their time wasted either.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I've read this twice now and still don't know what it's about! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya me, had to read it twice

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think they are saying instead of people complaining of single men mailing them, use the mail options that are provided and hey presto, you don't get the mails

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I think they are saying instead of people complaining of single men mailing them, use the mail options that are provided and hey presto, you don't get the mails "

Crikey, who'd have thought! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was easy to understand.

what school did you people go to?.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I thought it was easy to understand.

what school did you people go to?. "

i was going to vote for you for mod - not now! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief - don't encourage anyone else to block single males...

Whoever will I send my target of 200 messages to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was easy to understand.

what school did you people go to?.

i was going to vote for you for mod - not now! Z"

I only asked what school you went to.

Obviously you aren't well taught in waffle like I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's one alternative and a good one at that.

We personally don't block single males though we only play with them at clubs and don't arrange meets with them from the internet (same rule applies to single women for us).

We have many single male friends and don't want to stop them from contacting us.

Our profile says we will block any single males we don't know who ignore our wishes and contact us.

That's what we do, wink us, mail us, send us a friends invite and we block them, after all if they cannot be bothered reading our profile they are not really what we are looking for as they have no respect for what we want and perhaps even what they want.

Worse some read it and choose to ignore our wishes, we do however get some mails from guys and women which are not about meeting and we have chatted to those people, since it has not been discussions about ever meeting.

The OP is right, if anyone bothers you use the message filters, if it's someone you can't block like couples when your seeking couples etc just block those that cannot show respect.

Moan about it, it's just going to make people see you in a negative light.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I thought it was easy to understand.

what school did you people go to?.

i was going to vote for you for mod - not now! Z

I only asked what school you went to.

Obviously you aren't well taught in waffle like I am. "

lol - i need lessons in the art of waffling obviously! Z

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I thought it was easy to understand.

what school did you people go to?.

i was going to vote for you for mod - not now! Z

I only asked what school you went to.

Obviously you aren't well taught in waffle like I am.

lol - i need lessons in the art of waffling obviously! Z"

the art of blue waffling??!!

sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was easy to understand.

what school did you people go to?.

i was going to vote for you for mod - not now! Z

I only asked what school you went to.

Obviously you aren't well taught in waffle like I am.

lol - i need lessons in the art of waffling obviously! Z

the art of blue waffling??!!

sorry "

Now that stopped me waffling, for a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was pretty straightforward I think.

"Not a sausage"- love it!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Went out for dinner - miss anything? Blue waffle? That's just sick! Z

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