FabSwingers.com forum: Bitchy women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that some women get so bitchy towards other women. I had this last night because i met a guy a couple of times recently. She messaged him saying i was big trouble blah blah blah. And that she wont meet him as he has met me. It is absolutly stupid. We are all on here for fun and to make new friends not make enemies. So why all the bitching and backstabbing. May i add she has now left the site

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the site reflects life......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had someone do something similar (they were a couple though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why perpetuate it by posting about it ....ignore bad behaviour and focus on good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had people we have never met do similar to us.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse."

we menfolk get the blame for everything

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse.

we menfolk get the blame for everything"

yep!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse.

we menfolk get the blame for everything

yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse."

She was probably a she with insecurity issues with a touch of jealousy maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse."

She was definitly a she

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

they jelous that they met u first n not them ,,,

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Seems to be a bit of it going on at the moment. Luckily not with myself, but others I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know a woman who wants men to be exclusive to her even though she is married. The men are not allowed to see others. Where does that come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We know a woman who wants men to be exclusive to her even though she is married. The men are not allowed to see others. Where does that come from?

what's her number?

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Oh I have had that! But then again I've found in most jobs ive had women have been bitchy and nasty to me!

Apparently having a personalith, intelligence and god forbid a pretty face isnt allowed!!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Lol at exclusiveness and jealosy on a swinging site

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It happens, people get jealous and some cannot keep that emotion to themselves, at the end of the day it's up to us as individuals to meet who we want and when we want, unless there is an exclusive agreement then it's no one else's business but your own

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

"It happens, people get jealous and some cannot keep that emotion to themselves, at the end of the day it's up to us as individuals to meet who we want and when we want, unless there is an exclusive agreement then it's no one else's business but your own

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's because some people really do seem to find it very difficult to make the shift in their thought processes that enables them to distinguish between casual, purely recreational sex and something deeper and more emotional...This then leads to feelings of jealousy and possessiveness and the perceived rejection that comes from a sexual partner moving on to another..

It really does take a particular mind set to swing...not as many people have it as they would like to think...and I have been very careful not to be gender specific in any way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never had it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys can be just as bitchy not just the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I have had that! But then again I've found in most jobs ive had women have been bitchy and nasty to me!

Apparently having a personalith, intelligence and god forbid a pretty face isnt allowed!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing stranger than folk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I have had that! But then again I've found in most jobs ive had women have been bitchy and nasty to me!

Apparently having a personalith, intelligence and god forbid a pretty face isnt allowed!!

lol sounds like jealousy,,some women cant stand other women that look good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some interesting events due to jealousy involving single guys, single women and couples...god only knows why! I do find women are that bit nastier with it than guys though. I personally don't understand what they gain from it as they ultimately end up missing out on meeting/continuing to meet the person they are so desperate to have control over so it's just self destructive ultimately. Does baffle me though how many jealous types seem to thing that swinging is a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

green with envy is not a good look..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the receiving end of it once when a woman messaged me and tried to put me off a man we'd both met. I just blocked them both.

I don't allow women to message me now, don't need that kind of drama diolch yn fawr

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've never had any issues. "

Me either. Although I did have a female friend who left the site because she realised she couldn't not get emotionally involved with one guy she met on here and swinging wasn't for her as a result (he told her he wanted her as a regular fuck buddy and she felt hurt when he met someone else). She didn't get bitchy about it, however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

" it's all just silly drama and jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just add this type of message does not only come from women!! I've had similar messages off men saying they won't meet me as I met so and so it's all just silly drama and jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that some women get so bitchy towards other women. I had this last night because i met a guy a couple of times recently. She messaged him saying i was big trouble blah blah blah. And that she wont meet him as he has met me. It is absolutly stupid. We are all on here for fun and to make new friends not make enemies. So why all the bitching and backstabbing. May i add she has now left the site"
it's just life some people can handle this lifestyle some in fact most can't ,imagine many couples who swing don't have the longest relationships (not saying all )just have fun and try and be respectful to others no one can say a thing that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some see it as a competition. I suck the best,have the tightest pussy,squirt furthest. It's utter bollicks. I do men because I like doing men,not to be the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some see it as a competition. I suck the best,have the tightest pussy,squirt furthest. It's utter bollicks. I do men because I like doing men,not to be the best "

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

People that do things like this have no understanding of swinging, it really is as simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why I left last time,my ex fb got back with her previous partner so they thought it be a good idea to message everyone on verifications with no idea to what had said...within a week people stopped talking to me definite odd balls to say the least

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

This place is like an episode of eastenders at times.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

A few of the ladies I know check the veries. If they dont like who the guy has met they wouldnt meet him.

I notice one will meet only when they new here. There fore they are always the first.

there is however no need to be bitchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is why I left last time,my ex fb got back with her previous partner so they thought it be a good idea to message everyone on verifications with no idea to what had said...within a week people stopped talking to me definite odd balls to say the least"

I had a bloke I decided not to see anymore do exactly the same and also messaged everyone on my friends list just for good measure

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have read a profile with the words ' if you have met one of Fabswinger's bikes, then you are not for me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like there isn't enough guys on here to go round without women having to resort to such measures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read a profile with the words ' if you have met one of Fabswinger's bikes, then you are not for me'

Really? I never come across anything like this, I must live a sheltered life here down south

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I have read a profile with the words ' if you have met one of Fabswinger's bikes, then you are not for me'

I have seen similar. Have been hanging around the back of the sheds ever since...to no avail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any issues like that, there really is nowt as queer as folk. I think Some people just like drama and have the green eyed monster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey some women are just bitches fulstop came across two recently myself it's not a redeeming feature but when you are on demand as much as women are here you can just move on to the next guy and do it to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I find interesting is that some seem to come across this behaviour a lot where as many of us have never encountered it or maybe only had it once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its took me a year to come on after all the shit those too caused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some women just hate ts/tvs,,most don't,,most are super cool but boy some are sooooooooooooo bitchty,hey ho I can out bitch most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its took me a year to come on after all the shit those too caused

I must say that's a lovely torso,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I find interesting is that some seem to come across this behaviour a lot where as many of us have never encountered it or maybe only had it once or twice"
love that bow scarlet ,unfortunately some women just enjoy being nasty almost for the sake of it ,it's a woman to man thing and in my case am always polite and respectful but you got to move on coz you're blocked and nothing else to be done ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some cant stand not being number 1 ......And hate to think others on there turf so get nasty and jealous .. Its silly but some find it hard to control as see sex and meeting as more them swinging .. Men can make them feel like the only ones too .. but really one of a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is like an episode of eastenders at times.

Yes, what she said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had any issues. "
Have some of ours..they are kleenex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was information on a new show replacing that "Loose women!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'She' was probably a 'he' and had no intention of meeting the guy and was using you as an excuse."

Why does so much that goes wrong on here have to be a guy pretending to be a woman???

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had the exact same happen to me mre than once (on my last account, reason I left) met a woman, all was well had a couple of great meets....then when I met someone else, she kept messaging saying how she noticed my new veri and why don't you go meet her instead....got all bitchy and jealous, noticed women do this a lot

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I had a bloke I decided not to see anymore do exactly the same and also messaged everyone on my friends list just for good measure"

Can I on behalf of many blokes on here say what a complete arsehole your bloke was and many of us are actually normal. The internet seems to attract spiteful behaviour ..trolls being the worst of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I find interesting is that some seem to come across this behaviour a lot where as many of us have never encountered it or maybe only had it once or twice"

I wonder why..........................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the site reflects life......"

This. I love women, I'm a real girl's girl, but some of us can be absolute bitches sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the site reflects life......

This. I love women, I'm a real girl's girl, but some of us can be absolute bitches sometimes.

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Your right ...... men are not like it are they ? if they are not meet them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had the exact same happen to me mre than once (on my last account, reason I left) met a woman, all was well had a couple of great meets....then when I met someone else, she kept messaging saying how she noticed my new veri and why don't you go meet her instead....got all bitchy and jealous, noticed women do this a lot

*Ahem* men do it too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Ahem* men do it too!!

Actually yes some of them do...one reason I hide my veris is I got loads of "you met him, why won't you meet me" type messages. I think it's more frequent with women though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just set your lasers to stun

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

*Ahem* men do it too!!

Yes they do, I have had people say they won't meet if I meet so and so, thing is I want to meet so and so and won't be dictated to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever find out why women get bitchy I will be happy. Had it happen a few times with other women and it gets tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I ever find out why women get bitchy I will be happy. Had it happen a few times with other women and it gets tedious

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I think some meet here and think there is more going on then just no string sex and cant stand not being number 1 as feel it was special. And some men love doing that to woman too ... its all a game really just like to keep them hanging on in hope .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone who I thought was a great person to have sex with I'd want others to share the joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bloke I decided not to see anymore do exactly the same and also messaged everyone on my friends list just for good measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone who I thought was a great person to have sex with I'd want others to share the joy

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Yes your right xx ... But some are looking to run off into the sunset and be happy together for the rest of their lives and really under cover swingers here.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

You get bitchy women everywhere, mostly women anyway, I can't tolerate them and usually people that know me know not to bitch in front of or to me cos they get slapped in the face by my very honest but sarcastic replies...focus on the positive people on here OP as there are plenty and it's easy to dwell on the negative, bitchy twats that have nowt better to do with their time...don't give em the time of day and they'll soon move on to someone else, I'd like to say they'll give up bitching but small minded, insecure cunts will always be just that...I've been bitched about on here and have even had fake profiles made by some loser dedicated to hating me because of my choice of lifestyle and the fact that I actually meet people...heaven forbid, a swinger that meets other swingers...I'm not stone hearted and immune to it, not at all, I mean we all have feelings don't we...but I tend to just completely ignore them now and not let bitches get to me...let them waste their own useless time and you be productive with yours by focussing on the positives...last couple of words...fuck em!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I could have understood it had ahe met him but she handnt. He said she was very polite and spoke fine with him till he showed the verification. And then the slating started. But what gets me is how can she say all these nasty things about me when she dont know me. And to be fair i dont as a rule i very rarely meet anyone from the lincolnshire area. Most of my meets are from further afeild. So where she got her information from lord knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You get bitchy women everywhere, mostly women anyway, I can't tolerate them and usually people that know me know not to bitch in front of or to me cos they get slapped in the face by my very honest but sarcastic replies...focus on the positive people on here OP as there are plenty and it's easy to dwell on the negative, bitchy twats that have nowt better to do with their time...don't give em the time of day and they'll soon move on to someone else, I'd like to say they'll give up bitching but small minded, insecure cunts will always be just that...I've been bitched about on here and have even had fake profiles made by some loser dedicated to hating me because of my choice of lifestyle and the fact that I actually meet people...heaven forbid, a swinger that meets other swingers...I'm not stone hearted and immune to it, not at all, I mean we all have feelings don't we...but I tend to just completely ignore them now and not let bitches get to me...let them waste their own useless time and you be productive with yours by focussing on the positives...last couple of words...fuck em!

I like you have encountered this and had one woman who thought it was funny to set up a profile using my pics posing as me. She was cruel enough to set up a meet and sent him to mine one morning, poor guy travelled from nottingham to. Long story as to how she knew my adress etc. now that was cruel on the other guy as well as me. I to dont tolerate bitchy,nasty, sly people and i like you soon bring them down. But there is far to many nasty jealous bitch people on this site. We are all here for one thing and thats to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont try to understand her OP, she is a woman after all! Could work out a quantum physics easier than trying to work out what goes on inside the female mind.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"Some cant stand not being number 1 ......And hate to think others on there turf so get nasty and jealous .. Its silly but some find it hard to control as see sex and meeting as more them swinging .. Men can make them feel like the only ones too .. but really one of a number."

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

*Ahem* men do it too!!

Actually yes some of them do...one reason I hide my veris is I got loads of "you met him, why won't you meet me" type messages. I think it's more frequent with women though "

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

There are too many nasty people in the world unfortunately not just the on the site...I wouldn't take it personally if I was you as it usually boils down to insecurities and like you said in your previous comment, she doesn't know you which is why it's probably easy for her to do...don't take it personally and continue having fun...it's easy to bitch and cause aggro behind a screen and is done far too many times...jealousy and insecurity can make people do horrendous things and turn into monsters...there's nothing like live and let live is there?! Just be careful of how much trust you put in to people on here and how soon...it's clear that not all of us are here for the same reasons, we wouldn't have threads about bitchy fuckwits like these if we were! Happy swinging honey, hope you don't encounter anymore twats on here as it seems like you've had your fair share of em already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could have understood it had ahe met him but she handnt. He said she was very polite and spoke fine with him till he showed the verification. And then the slating started. But what gets me is how can she say all these nasty things about me when she dont know me. And to be fair i dont as a rule i very rarely meet anyone from the lincolnshire area. Most of my meets are from further afeild. So where she got her information from lord knows"
Had all that over the years on sites like this too .. And then grouping together with their so called friends to put the boot in when I would go into chat rooms and a lot of the time never meet me face to face .. and even singling me out so I could not go to partys as did not wish me there as I may get their men friends chatting all sorts over the years I have had ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy and possesiveness seem to indicate that those people cannot separate casual sex for pleasure from the sort of emotional ties found in real monogamous relationships.

It seems to me that a swingers' site where such possesive beliefs should be in the minority, if not non-existent, is not for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we havent really had that here - but in the past in the work place i founf i prefer to work with guys - love the banter and the straight forward approach they have- if they pissed off with you they tell you - and then its dealt with - the women are all sweetness and light to your face and witches behind your back - not all i might add but they tend to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we havent really had that here - but in the past in the work place i founf i prefer to work with guys - love the banter and the straight forward approach they have- if they pissed off with you they tell you - and then its dealt with - the women are all sweetness and light to your face and witches behind your back - not all i

might add but they tend to be "

totally agree with you i prefer working with guys to i dont think we have had any problems on here as of yet with bitchy women but saying that i do tend to have vurtual blinkers on most of the time so wouldn't notice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could have understood it had ahe met him but she handnt. He said she was very polite and spoke fine with him till he showed the verification. And then the slating started. But what gets me is how can she say all these nasty things about me when she dont know me. And to be fair i dont as a rule i very rarely meet anyone from the lincolnshire area. Most of my meets are from further afeild. So where she got her information from lord knows"
unfortunately that's what verification causes I don't read them what you don't know doesn't hurt you but theirs always one or two women who take it one step further ,they may take a compliment for example from one person but not another no consistency but just move on and enjoy your time here even though it colours your judgement of the place and restricts you from the full freedom that you had

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