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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is and why do some people on here get owned?

Don't really understand the benefits of this so that's why I'm asking.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"What is and why do some people on here get owned?

Don't really understand the benefits of this so that's why I'm asking. "

I would explain but I really cannot be arsed as a lot of people just don't get it, have a peek at a BDSM site they are usually the best.

Oh and because it floats their boat.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I saw yesterday a female say how she wont even reply to messages unless her 'boss' (whatever the pet name is) allows her.

Thats the furthest Ive seen it being taken to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's why I ask as I just seen a same message.

One day this female was single and looking then today you can't expect to meet her if her owner dosnt like you?

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

It's a BDSM thing and means many different things, to differing degrees, depending on the people involved. Plenty of stuff on-line, plenty of it is crap though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many people been reading the shifty fades crap......but an "owned" sub cannot play without permission from her Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots have tried to explain it to me but will never get my head round it. Each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good excuse to use if you don't want to meet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I ask as I just seen a same message.

One day this female was single and looking then today you can't expect to meet her if her owner dosnt like you?

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Well he's not gonna let her meet someone he doesn't like, he has to like the person as well

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"It's a good excuse to use if you don't want to meet too "

Haha nice one... Are you owned?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 'owned' part time. My Mistress has total control of me when I'm in her presence. It's a bdsm thing.

We don't do the 24/7 thing so when I'm not with her I'm free to be me. That includes serving other Dom/Dommes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good excuse to use if you don't want to meet too

Haha nice one... Are you owned?? Lol"

Hell no I do want I want when I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married to a woman, so technically I'm more than owned.......at least whe your playing at it you can stop when you want!

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"It's a good excuse to use if you don't want to meet too

Haha nice one... Are you owned?? Lol

Hell no I do want I want when I want "

Ok...do you want it this weekend??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as anything it's to do with teasing the sub. Starving her of sex rewarding her, setting tasks etc

There is a lot of fun to be had. it's a very personal thing also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Control, boundaries, mental stimulation... Etc etc..

Avatar can control me anytime

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

It's fun and a huge turn on knowing you're in full control of someone's actions.

Take it as far as you feel comfortable. You just need to remember it should be as enjoying to own and as your partner to enjoy being owned

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm 'owned' part time. My Mistress has total control of me when I'm in her presence. It's a bdsm thing.

We don't do the 24/7 thing so when I'm not with her I'm free to be me. That includes serving other Dom/Dommes. "

she is a kind mistress,is she not a keyholder on some days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good excuse to use if you don't want to meet too

Haha nice one... Are you owned?? Lol

Hell no I do want I want when I want

Ok...do you want it this weekend?? "

Now there's an offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 'owned' part time. My Mistress has total control of me when I'm in her presence. It's a bdsm thing.

We don't do the 24/7 thing so when I'm not with her I'm free to be me. That includes serving other Dom/Dommes. she is a kind mistress,is she not a keyholder on some days? "

No. What we have is non sexual. I have offered chastity but she has no interest in what goes on 'down there'. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fun and a huge turn on knowing you're in full control of someone's actions.

Take it as far as you feel comfortable. You just need to remember it should be as enjoying to own and as your partner to enjoy being owned "

Everyone is different. As long as they are happy it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

each to their own but I just don't understand it.

enjoy if it is your thing

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"each to their own but I just don't understand it.

enjoy if it is your thing "

Different strokes for different blokes (or girls), however having been married twice i was 'owned' without having the collar to signify it, i just had the gold band....

Good luck to those who enjoy it, for me it's never going to be a goer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like marriage but without the financial benefits or tax breaks.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

In relation to single fems if a fem is owned BDSM style or by a Dom that is one thing.

There are also alot of fems that use the phrase in relation to only meeting one male. They consider themselves owned by him but usually just means they meet a guy that doesn't want them to meet others.

There's owned and there's owned, make sense ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In relation to single fems if a fem is owned BDSM style or by a Dom that is one thing.

There are also alot of fems that use the phrase in relation to only meeting one male. They consider themselves owned by him but usually just means they meet a guy that doesn't want them to meet others.

There's owned and there's owned, make sense ?

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And there's a third type.

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