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By *odie5300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

dublin

Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "
jobs a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if she wants to do that fine and have meet a few even some on here meet for money why you looking to start?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

if they're doing it without coercion yes.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its sad that its illegal unlike many countries ive visited.i think its up to the person in question..they are after all "providing a service",would be so much healthier for all concerned if legalised....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the question. It is alright to be a carpenter, a teacher, a priest, a lawyer, a banker. Why is a prostitute any different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please

if they're doing it without coercion yes.

What do you think?"

^ this. Provided it's entirely her choice then I have no problem with it

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By *odie5300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

dublin


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please

if they're doing it without coercion yes.

What do you think?"

What's coercion??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its sad that its illegal unlike many countries ive visited.i think its up to the person in question..they are after all "providing a service",would be so much healthier for all concerned if legalised...."

It isn't actually illegal to be paid for sex

Did you not see the program on TV the other night ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persons choice to do as they please with there life and bodies !!

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By *aughty grease monkeyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Oldest profession in the world read the bible where there a need there be people to sort it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

Job is a job I think sex is sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please

if they're doing it without coercion yes.

What do you think?

What's coercion??"

using force or intimidation to get someone to do something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not illegal, never has been, wake up!

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit to it being a fantasy...

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Yes surely its OK as a self employed person. Dead against any form violence.

Supply and demand puts the current charges too high for most men tho -did someone tell me £300 for a sensible time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs why not, most girls charge for sex, hard to find the free ones lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's ok, autonomy is your human right.

Of course those with less choices might feel they have to sell themselves when they don't want to- just to survive, and then the job centre might force you to apply for jobs in that field or cut your benefits. These are the shit options right here.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

Women are prime minsters, chancellors, doctors, engineers; so why should it not be okay for women to be prostitutes? Or does that require a higher level of intelligence and/or education?

Or did you ask because it is a male dominated industry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not realy but its better than cleaning toilets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time i think it's wrong is when a 3rd party is involved and taking money off the women, so long as the women, or man, is doing it off their own back and keeping the money themselves what business is it of anybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it at all.

It's about time brothels were legalized and properly regulated to get the scummy pimps out of the equation and make it safer for the women....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is their own choice and not coerced in anyway I have no issues with it. And fail to see why anyone would

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please jobs a job "

Exactly what I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please

Job is a job I think sex is sex"
Sex is an industry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No purely because it results in exploitation of one party or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wouldn't want to earn money laying on their backs counting ceiling tiles

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x "

There might not be many; that I cannot comment on. But there is atleast one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x "

I think the majority would be offended and smack him in the mouth

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x

I think the majority would be offended and smack him in the mouth "

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

We are all open minded here and I agree with the comments but........

If my offspring came home and said meet ???? - oh hello what to you do for a living? I would not be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No purely because it results in exploitation of one party or the other."

Does it? Seller providing a service to a buyer at a price the buyer is prepared to pay?

Provided the caveats about no coercion and it being totally the ladies choice are in place, is this any different to hiring a clown for a children's party or hairdresser to cut your hair?

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

It's not illegal to be paid for sex or pay for sex in uk

Just pimping and running brothel s...

As everyone says a jobs a job.... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x "

Seriously?! Does that include your partner or is it just the single ladies that are desparate for cash on here?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"YEs why not, most girls charge for sex, hard to find the free ones lol."

Really?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x "

Are you for real?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And Ive removed posts btw. Please dont turn the thread into touting for business...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YEs why not, most girls charge for sex, hard to find the free ones lol.

Really? "
No I was joking abit for banter you know lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own is my opinion. If a woman wants to charge for sex rather than claim benifits then why not. If you have the ability and desire to di it then why not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx"

What ever makes you say that?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"And Ive removed posts btw. Please dont turn the thread into touting for business..."

can you pm me a quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time i think it's wrong is when a 3rd party is involved and taking money off the women, so long as the women, or man, is doing it off their own back and keeping the money themselves what business is it of anybody else "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

anyway as I asked earlier, what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x "

I am not against it , someone once iffered me my days wage to meet with him and have the day off work , I was very affended , I meet and play because I want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own is my opinion. If a woman wants to charge for sex rather than claim benifits then why not. If you have the ability and desire to di it then why not"

I think claiming benefit would be better somehow.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x

I am not against it , someone once iffered me my days wage to meet with him and have the day off work , I was very affended , I meet and play because I want to "

Exactly, if a man thinks I need paying as an incentive on here then it says a great deal about his attitude to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x "

Really?? I'd be pretty offended by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit it's a huge fantasy for me to meet a guy and him just slipping me a bit of money and a thanks.. But I daresay I'll only ever keep it as a fantasy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person is doing it for them no issue and they know what they are doing cool

End of the day we all need money to live and if you can sleep at night with a clear conscious then great

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

This is the oldest profession on earth. Who are we to judge others.

What disturb me most is sex slavery. Forcing someone to prostitute. Is time the government take action to prosecute these who engage in the sex slavery business. Also pims as well.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

This is the oldest profession on earth. Who are we to judge others.

What disturb me most is sex slavery. Forcing someone to prostitute. Is time the government take action to prosecute these who engage in the sex slavery business. Also pims as well.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

This is the oldest profession on earth. Who are we to judge others.

What disturb me most is sex slavery. Forcing someone to prostitute. Is time the government take action to prosecute these who engage in the sex slavery business. Also pims as well.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

This is the oldest profession on earth. Who are we to judge others.

What disturb me most is sex slavery. Forcing someone to prostitute. Is time the government take action to prosecute these who engage in the sex slavery business. Also pims as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Midwifery is a fairly old profession too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx"

Why would there be more rape? Prostitutes get attacked even if they are selling sex, it just goes unreported as they are prostitutes.

Besides a person is going to commit a crime no matter what. And I say person as there are female sex offenders as well. Sooner we get rid of the stereotype men aren't responsible for their actions during sex the better, does no favours to men or women

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

It's one way to get cash fast if you need it! I did it a long while ago for a week and earned my weekly wage for each half hour client, of which there were five.

For the record: I did not use this site for that purpose.

I didn't like their attitude towards me though, so I'm back in the office, working two legal, boring jobs again.

It paid the rent when we needed it to. I'd never do it again.

I never felt I was doing anything wrong. Is no worse than doing their cleaning tbh. Soliciting is illegal, as is running a brothel, but there's nothing to stop any woman going round to the punters' houses for an hour or so by prior arrangement.

It's not so very different from swinging, only it's very impersonal and business-like. It's not for me.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Huge fantasy of mine xxx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


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Why would there be more rape? Prostitutes get attacked even if they are selling sex, it just goes unreported as they are prostitutes.

Besides a person is going to commit a crime no matter what. And I say person as there are female sex offenders as well. Sooner we get rid of the stereotype men aren't responsible for their actions during sex the better, does no favours to men or women ..."

Yeah, I read about her too; that woman with a strap-on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx"

Please explain

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

Please explain "

I asked that yesterday....no response.

Lots of people don't realise that rape is rarely only about the need for sex and more often about power, punishment, attitude to women and mental ill health. No ordinary, normal man who feels the need for sex uses rape as a way of getting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

Please explain

I asked that yesterday....no response.

Lots of people don't realise that rape is rarely only about the need for sex and more often about power, punishment, attitude to women and mental ill health. No ordinary, normal man who feels the need for sex uses rape as a way of getting it."

No most normal men wouldn't I agree but some men who are normaly nice can turn aggressive when they want sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

Please explain

I asked that yesterday....no response.

Lots of people don't realise that rape is rarely only about the need for sex and more often about power, punishment, attitude to women and mental ill health. No ordinary, normal man who feels the need for sex uses rape as a way of getting it.

No most normal men wouldn't I agree but some men who are normaly nice can turn aggressive when they want sex."

Then they are not nice men. I know the type you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x

There might not be many; that I cannot comment on. But there is atleast one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im all for it being legalised then tescos can negotiate the same rates it does for milk so under a fiver for a shag 2 for 1 offers and clubcard points. Win win i think, let us know when your working ill book at tescos online and have you delivered to my door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes fine so long as it is her choice and she isn't controlled by a pimp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

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Yes, its perfectly ok. Why wouldn't it be?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Ya got it, ya sell it, ya still got it!!

Sounds a pretty good business plan to me!!

(If anyone takes that statement in any way other than the light hearted manner it was intended, I will hunt you down and beat you with a piece of 2x4)

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...

(If anyone takes that statement in any way other than the light hearted manner it was intended, I will hunt you down and beat you with a piece of 2x4) "

Inches or centimetres? A lot of guys here get confused between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its sad that its illegal unlike many countries ive visited.i think its up to the person in question..they are after all "providing a service",would be so much healthier for all concerned if legalised...."

Prostitution is not illegal in this country what is illegal is loitering and soliciting for the purpose of prostitution on the streets and a number of other things but a single female in her own property performing sexual acts for money is not illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman will make loads more by offering bareback to the punter

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Think its sad that its illegal unlike many countries ive visited.i think its up to the person in question..they are after all "providing a service",would be so much healthier for all concerned if legalised....

Prostitution is not illegal in this country what is illegal is loitering and soliciting for the purpose of prostitution on the streets and a number of other things but a single female in her own property performing sexual acts for money is not illegal."

Really???

How about shares in Duracell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have paid for sex but I have a friend who is openly a an escort, she is one of the most intelligent people I have met, it's a business for her , very successful as well, so in my option as long as no exploitation is involved, then it's all ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was listening to a programme on radio 4 some time ago and a prostitute was on there explaining that nearly all are forced into it from an early age and are trapped in a very violent and seedy world where most don't have control over their lives. Made very difficult listening indeed.

Someone would always be looking to exploit you in some way and my guess is that you would need to spend most of the time looking over your shoulder (figuratively not literally). Am sure there must be some who are happy and successful but would guess they are in minority.

Still good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

Why not, oldest profession and all that, as long as everyone is safe and there's no exploitation. Personally, I've never paid for sex, I want the pleasure to be a two way thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was listening to a programme on radio 4 some time ago and a prostitute was on there explaining that nearly all are forced into it from an early age and are trapped in a very violent and seedy world where most don't have control over their lives. Made very difficult listening indeed.

Someone would always be looking to exploit you in some way and my guess is that you would need to spend most of the time looking over your shoulder (figuratively not literally). Am sure there must be some who are happy and successful but would guess they are in minority.

Still good luck with it. "

no prostitute is forced into sex, a prostitute is someone who willingly sells their body for sex someone who is forced to have sex for others financial gain is a victim of abuse and what is now called modern day slavery, the two should not be confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fine, it's the oldest profession in the world, each to there own I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate it ....... Having sex with people I did not like or know . Having to have there hands on me and cock inside me . Them poor people who are made too for pimps .

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I think it's fine, it's the oldest profession in the world, each to there own I say "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

Don't see anything wrong in that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive."

Totally agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see the point of paying for sex either. Its degrading for me and degrading for a woman to sell her body. There are plenty of degnifying trades and skills out there for earning a living. and there plenty of women out there who r looking for a honest male partner to share more than just their body with. Prostitution is a social epidemy that destroys societies and civilisations collectively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive.

Totally agree with you. "

We all have our opinions and that's find but surely what is degrading is a personal thing, for example some people would never let others piss on them as they would find that degrading while others love it, surely you can't speak for every prostitute when you say it's degrading? I'm sure lots feel empowered by the fact they get men paying them for sex and feel far from degraded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive.

Totally agree with you.

We all have our opinions and that's find but surely what is degrading is a personal thing, for example some people would never let others piss on them as they would find that degrading while others love it, surely you can't speak for every prostitute when you say it's degrading? I'm sure lots feel empowered by the fact they get men paying them for sex and feel far from degraded "

Depends from what scale and angle you look at things. For the minorities its an individual personal choice. From a larger scale and how the society perceives it, its degrading and immoral.

You'll find many on fab for example who get turned on by being pissed on, or by being called names or by being beatten, or even pood on. Some even get turned by eating a warm poo lol. Its all about being degraded and I understand that there are ppl who finds this a turn om and that it is a personal choice. Does that make it OK? No. If the basis of whats ok and whats not is the personal choice, no society or civilisation will stand the caotic anarchy and degradation that will result from this false moral. The collective standards of morals are more sustainable and healthier for the whole society. If an individual is turned on by fucking a goat and scientifically its proven that goat have had an orgasm out of it and therefore opened its legs willingly, it doesnt make it ok just because both have consent to the action.

Prostitution is by all norms, in all societies, in all religions and all conventional morals a degrading immoral epidemy. My opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who is a high class prostitute she also has another everyday business ,she has horses and is an accomplished rider and she loves sex so yes wouldnt say it suits all women but she's good with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the point in paying for sex. I have no idea what the person paying would get from it other than a "power" thing, and/or they are just too ugly/incompetent to meet someone who actually wants to Fuck them! Think it says more about the buyer than the seller...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see the point in paying for sex. I have no idea what the person paying would get from it other than a "power" thing, and/or they are just too ugly/incompetent to meet someone who actually wants to Fuck them! Think it says more about the buyer than the seller... "

Degrading for both parties in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was listening to a programme on radio 4 some time ago and a prostitute was on there explaining that nearly all are forced into it from an early age and are trapped in a very violent and seedy world where most don't have control over their lives. Made very difficult listening indeed.

Someone would always be looking to exploit you in some way and my guess is that you would need to spend most of the time looking over your shoulder (figuratively not literally). Am sure there must be some who are happy and successful but would guess they are in minority.

Still good luck with it.

no prostitute is forced into sex, a prostitute is someone who willingly sells their body for sex someone who is forced to have sex for others financial gain is a victim of abuse and what is now called modern day slavery, the two should not be confused "

I've worked with lots of women who've been 'prostitutes'....they've all had heroin addictions. They're forced into prostitution, and all the risks that come with that, by their addiction. Let's not kid ourselves that most women who sell sex are making a choice that circumstances haven't driven them into. Plus, what does it say about a society where men think they can buy sex from women? That all we women need is to be offered cash to open our legs (ref. an earlier post)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow what a thread.

To the man above, you really mean what you say; and lord the church be with you in 'your choices and decisions.'

(sorry my spelling not as good as your neither the choice of words.) however,,, if you broke down what the rightous path status what is correct and what is not correct, what happens when you heat a Rustlers burger to someone for 80 seconds as a pose to someone elses 90 seconds.

Ah ha. We all like it differnt.

Think thats why god made us.

So. After all that crap its not your choice, my choice or the choice below,

If.....and if postitution is done in the manor of legit then why knock it.

I dont like mushrooms so i dont eat them.

I dont tweet their rank.

All im saying is after these few beers i hope my input lost you all and one final thought!!!

Vote conser'a'bloody'tive

vote labour

vote ukip

or vote in glass display windows in my local town after the watershed, with honeys showing off their boobs and inviting me in.

Ticked,licked and in the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit to it being a fantasy..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

i think its a great job escorting if your mentally strong enough to handle it, i have done security work and got to know some girls who escort, sadly they seem a bit tapped some of them, but if you can differentiate between that and life then, £100 an hour, hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its sad that its illegal unlike many countries ive visited.i think its up to the person in question..they are after all "providing a service",would be so much healthier for all concerned if legalised....

It isn't actually illegal to be paid for sex

Did you not see the program on TV the other night ??? "

I saw this. I always thought it was illegal. Its legal if done indoors but illegal if your a kerb crawler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner works on and off in the adult industry prostitution and adult films she likes the work and gets a kick out of doing it .we had been seeing each other for some time before she told me but it cool and we have been together for 15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive."

Definitely agree that if a woman is forced into it by Pimps or to fund an addiction then it is degrading and destructive.

But what I find just a distasteful is women trying to impose their feminist will on women who do it because they enjoy it and make a nice living out of it, you are just as bad as the pimps who use them.

Just because some women find it degrading, others do not, leave them to make their own decisions.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Well said x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"...

I bet there wouldn't be many girls on here that after meeting a guy for a swinging meet he offered her £150 for such an enjoyable time she would decline x

There might not be many; that I cannot comment on. But there is atleast one "

...two!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We are all open minded here and I agree with the comments but........

If my offspring came home and said meet ???? - oh hello what to you do for a living? I would not be happy "

This...or if any of my daughters came home and said they were prostitutes: I'd be devastated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive.

Totally agree with you.

We all have our opinions and that's find but surely what is degrading is a personal thing, for example some people would never let others piss on them as they would find that degrading while others love it, surely you can't speak for every prostitute when you say it's degrading? I'm sure lots feel empowered by the fact they get men paying them for sex and feel far from degraded "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive."

Pretty much sums up my opinion too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

(If anyone takes that statement in any way other than the light hearted manner it was intended, I will hunt you down and beat you with a piece of 2x4)

Inches or centimetres? A lot of guys here get confused between the two "

Feet! Ha.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive.

Pretty much sums up my opinion too! "

If we disregard prostitutes who are working for a pimp or to feed a habit in what way is it degrading or destructive as both of these have little option in their lifestyles.

No one forces a prostitute to go with a particular client (male or female) it is their choice.

Much of vanilla society look on swingers in the same way as they regard prostitutes, but I cannot imagine anyone here thinking that swinging is degrading or destructive.

One could argue that the whole dating game is a type of prostitution unless the couple go dutch on everything.

However the man paying is part of society’s etiquette and for a woman to refuse to allow a man to pay may be looked on as an insult unless other arrangements had been made in advance.

Many think they are taking a high feminist stance in condemning prostitution but in reality they are simply displaying their old fashioned Victorian hang-ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YEs why not, most girls charge for sex, hard to find the free ones lol."

What? Or are you counting the bar of chocolate and the bottle of wine which would be shared anyway....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was alot younger I used to do video and photo shoots for money. No different and I needed the money as you do when you are 19! Proud of it and I miss they way I looked! As long as theres people willing to pay I dont see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit to it being a fantasy...

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Us too!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Loos like Nick has been sitting on a fortune for years.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all open minded here and I agree with the comments but........

If my offspring came home and said meet ???? - oh hello what to you do for a living? I would not be happy

This...or if any of my daughters came home and said they were prostitutes: I'd be devastated!"
Me too ........ Your bodys not your own when your doing that as a job ..... Men think they can pay and its not just sex they may be getting at times .......... Some mad person who hates woman really and out to hurt in some way ... There is a very dark side to all this ......... In my book its not fine its not safe. And I have seen the dark side when doing care work as a samaritan Some woman black and blue .. loads of nasty things done to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no problem at all as long as she is happy, if a women enjoys sex and happy to swing with different partners , then why not make some money at the same time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see the point in paying for sex. I have no idea what the person paying would get from it other than a "power" thing, and/or they are just too ugly/incompetent to meet someone who actually wants to Fuck them! Think it says more about the buyer than the seller... "
it's a right here right now thing for most guys that do it ,not my thing but we are all different bit like swinging its an unpaid version

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "
why did you ask anyway not thinking of doing it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "

My opinion on this issue counts for nothing. Unfortunately society judges unfairly, and lets be honest, the majority of this site are condemned for swinging, being "perverts" for a few kinks.

Society should not judge, a woman can be whatever she wishes. Except an axe murderer. That is just not cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I'd be surprised if many genuine swingers were against it as we are fairly open minded when it comes to sex.

"

I think these forums prove on a daily basis that swingers can as judgemental, prejudiced and narrow minded as everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest cliche in the world is 'each to their own'.

No, it's not 'OK' for a woman to be a prostitute. It's degrading and ultimately destructive.

Totally agree with you.

We all have our opinions and that's find but surely what is degrading is a personal thing, for example some people would never let others piss on them as they would find that degrading while others love it, surely you can't speak for every prostitute when you say it's degrading? I'm sure lots feel empowered by the fact they get men paying them for sex and feel far from degraded

Depends from what scale and angle you look at things. For the minorities its an individual personal choice. From a larger scale and how the society perceives it, its degrading and immoral.

You'll find many on fab for example who get turned on by being pissed on, or by being called names or by being beatten, or even pood on. Some even get turned by eating a warm poo lol. Its all about being degraded and I understand that there are ppl who finds this a turn om and that it is a personal choice. Does that make it OK? No. If the basis of whats ok and whats not is the personal choice, no society or civilisation will stand the caotic anarchy and degradation that will result from this false moral. The collective standards of morals are more sustainable and healthier for the whole society. If an individual is turned on by fucking a goat and scientifically its proven that goat have had an orgasm out of it and therefore opened its legs willingly, it doesnt make it ok just because both have consent to the action.

Prostitution is by all norms, in all societies, in all religions and all conventional morals a degrading immoral epidemy. My opinion. "

Do your research...

In eight European countries (The Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Greece, Turkey, Hungary, and Latvia) prostitution is legal and regulated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I'd at least earnt some money from previous pity shags where I didn't actually fancy the guy, just thought he was a nice person! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you all go and try it then come back and tell us all how you got on.

We can both offer you help getting over the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all open minded here and I agree with the comments but........

If my offspring came home and said meet ???? - oh hello what to you do for a living? I would not be happy

This...or if any of my daughters came home and said they were prostitutes: I'd be devastated!Me too ........ Your bodys not your own when your doing that as a job ..... Men think they can pay and its not just sex they may be getting at times .......... Some mad person who hates woman really and out to hurt in some way ... There is a very dark side to all this ......... In my book its not fine its not safe. And I have seen the dark side when doing care work as a samaritan Some woman black and blue .. loads of nasty things done to them ."

that's why it needs legalising if it was legal women wouldn't have to meet down dark ally ways with iffy guys, lots of escort agency's will only take booking via credit card so they know exactly who is meeting their girls, I work in sex clubs and have done for many years, i have never done one on one meets as they can be dangerous but clubs are a controlled environment where guys have to show Id to prove who they are and there are staff there watching over us, the club I'm working at the moment are very good, all the guys are told no means no and any problems they are asked to leave, guys don't come to me and tell me what to do, if they try to do something I don't like or get to rough I tell them, if I have to tell them twice I report them and they are asked to leave, I don't do this because I need the money I have a good job and if I packed up the club's tomorrow my bills would still get paid and no one in my house would go hungry I do it because believe it or not i actually enjoy it and I like the extra money it provides, not all prostitution is bad, by bad I mean women being exploited, women getting hurt, and I have never felt like my body is not my own or felt degraded, in fact I feel the opposite, I walk out of the club after 2 hours with more money than a lot of people earn in a week, who's the sap

prostitution is a big world and there are lots of little sub divisions it's upto you which road you take and how well you protect yourself, but I still stand by my earlier comment that women who are being exploited by others are not prostitutes they are victims of abuse and the problem is a lot can't diffirenciate between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all open minded here and I agree with the comments but........

If my offspring came home and said meet ???? - oh hello what to you do for a living? I would not be happy

This...or if any of my daughters came home and said they were prostitutes: I'd be devastated!Me too ........ Your bodys not your own when your doing that as a job ..... Men think they can pay and its not just sex they may be getting at times .......... Some mad person who hates woman really and out to hurt in some way ... There is a very dark side to all this ......... In my book its not fine its not safe. And I have seen the dark side when doing care work as a samaritan Some woman black and blue .. loads of nasty things done to them .

that's why it needs legalising if it was legal women wouldn't have to meet down dark ally ways with iffy guys, lots of escort agency's will only take booking via credit card so they know exactly who is meeting their girls, I work in sex clubs and have done for many years, i have never done one on one meets as they can be dangerous but clubs are a controlled environment where guys have to show Id to prove who they are and there are staff there watching over us, the club I'm working at the moment are very good, all the guys are told no means no and any problems they are asked to leave, guys don't come to me and tell me what to do, if they try to do something I don't like or get to rough I tell them, if I have to tell them twice I report them and they are asked to leave, I don't do this because I need the money I have a good job and if I packed up the club's tomorrow my bills would still get paid and no one in my house would go hungry I do it because believe it or not i actually enjoy it and I like the extra money it provides, not all prostitution is bad, by bad I mean women being exploited, women getting hurt, and I have never felt like my body is not my own or felt degraded, in fact I feel the opposite, I walk out of the club after 2 hours with more money than a lot of people earn in a week, who's the sap

prostitution is a big world and there are lots of little sub divisions it's upto you which road you take and how well you protect yourself, but I still stand by my earlier comment that women who are being exploited by others are not prostitutes they are victims of abuse and the problem is a lot can't diffirenciate between the two "

S x

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please

if they're doing it without coercion yes.

What do you think?

What's coercion??"

Its an abreviation for cock..erse..in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen first hand the dark side of this and stories that would really make your skin crawl from woman .. Who had no place to go .. And if they never made the money for the pimps would get beaten up and all sorts done to them ...... Yes its the uk and yes it go on here And that's why it needs legalising if it was legal women wouldn't have to meet down dark ally ways with iffy guys they could be safe ... yes I know the score as seen them black and blue and asked me not to call the police .. And when I ask is there other ways to get money to live a lot are high on all sorts and some have kids .. They say its a way of making a lot of money fast ... So some sex is not a joy its a way of feeding kids or there needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a great fem friend who escorts etc she makes a bit of money every now and then when she wants to works for herself so does what she wants when she wants have even been with her a few times when she gets guy's wanting a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my fantasy to go to a guys hotel room as a escort.knock on door.he pays me first tells me what he wants stay for the hour then leave.just a one off.mmmmm

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Sadly, many people choose prostitution as they feel that they have no real other choice. In that sense I feel it is wrong and that people should be more supported to avoid such a risky way of making ends meet.

Prostitution is a well known high risk activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much would you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my fantasy to go to a guys hotel room as a escort.knock on door.he pays me first tells me what he wants stay for the hour then leave.just a one off.mmmmm"
how much would you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my fantasy to go to a guys hotel room as a escort.knock on door.he pays me first tells me what he wants stay for the hour then leave.just a one off.mmmmmhow much would you want"

The mods might not like this post??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please read the word FANTASY that's what it is.and that's where it stays.thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are doing it to earn money. Some most likely to feed and clothe their kids. A job is a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please read the word FANTASY that's what it is.and that's where it stays.thank you."

We were onabout the offer of 'how much' from the poster below you

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By *ave HighlandMan
over a year ago

Inverness

I've been with quite a few prostitutes and most of them were just ordinary women trying to make a bit of money. why shouldn't they do it if they want to.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Please read the word FANTASY that's what it is.and that's where it stays.thank you."

Someone will always jump if they think they can get sex out of it

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Why should they not , if it's their choice?

Probably a lot more honest and sensitive than other so-called professionals.....

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I've been with quite a few prostitutes and most of them were just ordinary women trying to make a bit of money. why shouldn't they do it if they want to."

If they want to. Yes. I agree.

Many don't want to and do it as they think they have no other choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx"

I would argue the opposite. A society which accepts the degrading of women into sexual objects/commodities is likely to have attitudes contributing to sexual violence.

In a more equal society - equal numbers of women in top paid or leadership roles, same number of male prostitutes as female prostitutes then I would support it. Currently, I think it is just another symptom of gender inequality.

But then I am being a hypocrite by being on this site

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over a year ago

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

I would argue the opposite. A society which accepts the degrading of women into sexual objects/commodities is likely to have attitudes contributing to sexual violence.

In a more equal society - equal numbers of women in top paid or leadership roles, same number of male prostitutes as female prostitutes then I would support it. Currently, I think it is just another symptom of gender inequality.

But then I am being a hypocrite by being on this site "

Thats a load of bollocks in my opinion.

Freedom of choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

I would argue the opposite. A society which accepts the degrading of women into sexual objects/commodities is likely to have attitudes contributing to sexual violence.

In a more equal society - equal numbers of women in top paid or leadership roles, same number of male prostitutes as female prostitutes then I would support it. Currently, I think it is just another symptom of gender inequality.

But then I am being a hypocrite by being on this site

Thats a load of bollocks in my opinion.

Freedom of choice"

Only works when there is a level playing field. Some have more choices/options than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

porn stars, girls and guys get paid for sex on films but they don't call them prostitutes or escorts but yet they do the same thing in a way,, just a thought,

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"As long as they're open about who they are and what they do - not touting for business on here - then I have no problem at all with it. Without prostitution i'm guessing there'd be a lot more rape! Xx

I would argue the opposite. A society which accepts the degrading of women into sexual objects/commodities is likely to have attitudes contributing to sexual violence.

In a more equal society - equal numbers of women in top paid or leadership roles, same number of male prostitutes as female prostitutes then I would support it. Currently, I think it is just another symptom of gender inequality.

But then I am being a hypocrite by being on this site

Thats a load of bollocks in my opinion.

Freedom of choice

Only works when there is a level playing field. Some have more choices/options than others."

Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"porn stars, girls and guys get paid for sex on films but they don't call them prostitutes or escorts but yet they do the same thing in a way,, just a thought, "

they are less likely to meet weirdos and perverts, not have to have sex with so many and get paid more.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"porn stars, girls and guys get paid for sex on films but they don't call them prostitutes or escorts but yet they do the same thing in a way,, just a thought,

they are less likely to meet weirdos and perverts, not have to have sex with so many and get paid more."

I think that's a good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until it is legal, they basically have no rights. If it were legalized, as it is abroad, they would have the ability to more easily bring criminal charges and file lawsuits against Men who abused them or didn't pay or anything. Until the religious fanatics stop legislating morality, the safety issue and other issues with this won't go away. Some will think they could do this job as a swinger, But as a swinger you can say no and report. If there is money and your job its not so easy. Not all people are nice ..Some looking for very weird sex until it starts you don't know as not always told . A woman who hated anal ripped inside had to go to AE stitches was months before she was right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condemn me or not, if there was no other source, and my child was starving i would do it.

Her

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Is it useful to invert the question?

Why is the current "establishment" relation to prostitution (sex in return for money) deprecating / illegal, in contrast to the general feeling in the population that selling sex in return for money is no particularly special thing and certainly overall beneficial in a society for it to exist?

How is the legal framework at odds with the prevailing reality and sentiments of society as a whole?

- is it right that most people take the view that prostitution is inherently a non-issue and part of the overall tapestry of human society?

- is it right that it is inherently effortless for a woman to sell sex for money and there is no problem with that (probably beneficial effects - women have responsibilities and men often have money through not choosing to take on responsibilities (and that in itself is a lifestyle choice) - the "trade" serves all parties well)

Then my own view (male) - the laws and projected deprecation of the act of a woman selling sex for money are "little boys laws".

The same "overgrown little boys" which has a government launching "minimum alcohol pricing" when the economy is not doing so well and an election is in sight, going into silly wars when everyone is doing the "broken record" saying "don't do it, don't do it, ...", proclaiming vehemently on continued criminalisation of narcotics whenever anyone points out the clear-as-daylight obviousness that maintenance prescription to those in trouble and general legalisation would solve many overall problems and avert many personal tragedies, etc, etc.

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condemn me or not, if there was no other source, and my child was starving i would do it.

Her"
And that's why a lot do it to feed the family and give them nice things... Or Drugs its rear people do it as love sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condemn me or not, if there was no other source, and my child was starving i would do it.

HerAnd that's why a lot do it to feed the family and give them nice things... Or Drugs its rear people do it as love sex."
yes if any mothers back was up against a wall they would.

Her

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Prostitution is a career choice for many women, not because of poverty or because they're forced into doing it, but because they like providing the service. Many men rely on prostitutes for sex, for various reasons that prevent them from having sexual relationships (disability, old age and so on). It's the oldest profession for a reason.

Suggestions about criminalizing men who use prostitutes is just another example of the Nanny State trying to rule our lives. It should be officially legalized so the women can work in licenced brothels and they and the punters can be protected. Germany and Australia seem to have coped with legalized prostitution without total moral collapse, but the British kill-joy establishment will never take the same step.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Prostitution is a career choice for many women, not because of poverty or because they're forced into doing it, but because they like providing the service. Many men rely on prostitutes for sex, for various reasons that prevent them from having sexual relationships (disability, old age and so on). It's the oldest profession for a reason.

Suggestions about criminalizing men who use prostitutes is just another example of the Nanny State trying to rule our lives. It should be officially legalized so the women can work in licenced brothels and they and the punters can be protected. Germany and Australia seem to have coped with legalized prostitution without total moral collapse, but the British kill-joy establishment will never take the same step. "

I have to agree 100% with the above post, a lot of the sites i do are for escorts who pay their taxes,have regular health checks, have safe sex and do an honest days work.

As swingers we are not above them in morality as we have illicit sex with variable partners ourselves, private house parties that charge a fee are committing prostitution themselves so we are not poles apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them "

Because women aren't the same as men, its diferent for men, always will be.

and it was a woman asking the question, not a man.

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over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

Because women aren't the same as men, its diferent for men, always will be.

and it was a woman asking the question, not a man."

Why is it different for men?

Prostitution is prostitution why does what sex you are make any difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prostitution is a career choice for many women, not because of poverty or because they're forced into doing it, but because they like providing the service. Many men rely on prostitutes for sex, for various reasons that prevent them from having sexual relationships (disability, old age and so on). It's the oldest profession for a reason.

Suggestions about criminalizing men who use prostitutes is just another example of the Nanny State trying to rule our lives. It should be officially legalized so the women can work in licensed brothels and they and the punters can be protected. Germany and Australia seem to have coped with legalized prostitution without total moral collapse, but the British kill-joy establishment will never take the same step.

I have to agree 100% with the above post, a lot of the sites i do are for escorts who pay their taxes,have regular health checks, have safe sex and do an honest days work.

As swingers we are not above them in morality as we have illicit sex with variable partners ourselves, private house parties that charge a fee are committing prostitution themselves so we are not poles apart."

And I agree with both of these posts.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

It's perfectly acceptable, provided appropriate safeguards are in place to protect the people involved.

I would hardly call it degrading either. I don't call on prostitutes (don't need to pay for it ) but I have been in quite a few of their homes, and my God some of them live well!

The people who cast down the profession just don't understand the mindset of the people that do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

Because women aren't the same as men, its diferent for men, always will be.

and it was a woman asking the question, not a man.

Why is it different for men?

Prostitution is prostitution why does what sex you are make any difference "

I don't know, because women are supposed to be lady like, they have children and are expected to be good role models, they are expected to be better than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's perfectly acceptable, provided appropriate safeguards are in place to protect the people involved.

I would hardly call it degrading either. I don't call on prostitutes (don't need to pay for it ) but I have been in quite a few of their homes, and my God some of them live well!

The people who cast down the profession just don't understand the mindset of the people that do it. "

It is a myth that the majority of sex workers make a lot of money. Only a small proportion will "live well". There is a high prevalence of people from broken/abusive homes with substance misuse problems. There are a lot of brothel owners and pimps who make a lot of money from this profession. I am not being moralistic, just failing to turn a blind eye to justify something. How many will genuinely say they would encourage their daughters, mothers, sisters etc to become prostitutes because they will "live well"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's perfectly acceptable, provided appropriate safeguards are in place to protect the people involved.

I would hardly call it degrading either. I don't call on prostitutes (don't need to pay for it ) but I have been in quite a few of their homes, and my God some of them live well!

The people who cast down the profession just don't understand the mindset of the people that do it.

It is a myth that the majority of sex workers make a lot of money. Only a small proportion will "live well". There is a high prevalence of people from broken/abusive homes with substance misuse problems. There are a lot of brothel owners and pimps who make a lot of money from this profession. I am not being moralistic, just failing to turn a blind eye to justify something. How many will genuinely say they would encourage their daughters, mothers, sisters etc to become prostitutes because they will "live well"?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's perfectly acceptable, provided appropriate safeguards are in place to protect the people involved.

I would hardly call it degrading either. I don't call on prostitutes (don't need to pay for it ) but I have been in quite a few of their homes, and my God some of them live well!

The people who cast down the profession just don't understand the mindset of the people that do it.

It is a myth that the majority of sex workers make a lot of money. Only a small proportion will "live well". There is a high prevalence of people from broken/abusive homes with substance misuse problems. There are a lot of brothel owners and pimps who make a lot of money from this profession. I am not being moralistic, just failing to turn a blind eye to justify something. How many will genuinely say they would encourage their daughters, mothers, sisters etc to become prostitutes because they will "live well"?"

I'm going to say something now that goes against everything I have already said

as i have already said I work in sex clubs, I have a good job but I have two daughters in their 20 both at uni and since Cameron got in and stopped the capping of university fees uni places do not come cheap, I get no financial support from their dad and I also have a 13 year old to provide for, so I work in the club to top up my money to pay for their fees and provide them enough money so as not to get themselves into debt with uni loans,

Why do I sell my body simple answer is so my girls can get a good education so they never have to

and anyone on here can judge me for that but my kids come first

having said that I genuinely do not hate what I do, I choose a way of doing this that I thought I would enjoy, I couldn't meet one on one that's just not for me so looked into clubs and they work well for me

but I'd just like to add there is a lot of money to be made doing this it depends what your offering

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Someone who became a friend of mine met a guy through the net and their first date was at a well known swinging club in the Midlands. Shetold me when she left she thought 'Waow, I can fuck lots of perfect strangers and enjoy it'. She did some research, set up a website, gave up her job as a college IT lecturer and started escorting. I know some escorts who do a bit of swinging on the side and vice versa. I've also known some escorts who've retired but started swinging as they've missed th variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them "

I reckon people view male and female escorts differently...

Crap as that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's perfectly acceptable, provided appropriate safeguards are in place to protect the people involved.

I would hardly call it degrading either. I don't call on prostitutes (don't need to pay for it ) but I have been in quite a few of their homes, and my God some of them live well!

The people who cast down the profession just don't understand the mindset of the people that do it.

It is a myth that the majority of sex workers make a lot of money. Only a small proportion will "live well". There is a high prevalence of people from broken/abusive homes with substance misuse problems. There are a lot of brothel owners and pimps who make a lot of money from this profession. I am not being moralistic, just failing to turn a blind eye to justify something. How many will genuinely say they would encourage their daughters, mothers, sisters etc to become prostitutes because they will "live well"?

I'm going to say something now that goes against everything I have already said

as i have already said I work in sex clubs, I have a good job but I have two daughters in their 20 both at uni and since Cameron got in and stopped the capping of university fees uni places do not come cheap, I get no financial support from their dad and I also have a 13 year old to provide for, so I work in the club to top up my money to pay for their fees and provide them enough money so as not to get themselves into debt with uni loans,

Why do I sell my body simple answer is so my girls can get a good education so they never have to

and anyone on here can judge me for that but my kids come first

having said that I genuinely do not hate what I do, I choose a way of doing this that I thought I would enjoy, I couldn't meet one on one that's just not for me so looked into clubs and they work well for me

but I'd just like to add there is a lot of money to be made doing this it depends what your offering "

I have a great deal of respect for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

I reckon people view male and female escorts differently...

Crap as that is.

"

Exactly

a man who gets paid to fuck women is just a lucky bastard

a woman must be being exploited in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

I reckon people view male and female escorts differently...

Crap as that is.

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I think men and woman if doing this job need some sort of support as it can be very dangerous . And until that happens I think a lot are at risk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time i think it's wrong is when a 3rd party is involved and taking money off the women, so long as the women, or man, is doing it off their own back and keeping the money themselves what business is it of anybody else "

Except for the taxman of course! Let's face it, we all sell our bodies on a daily basis because we are forced to. At the end of a busy day, my legs are knackered, my back aches, my head aches and my eyes are tired. I'm forced to do this by the taxman, the utility companies, the supermarkets that won't give me food for free, the bank or they'll take me house and so on. I sell my body because I am forced to. How am I different to a prostitute? I'm not - I just sell different parts of my body, as pretty much everyone does, prostitutes included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

I reckon people view male and female escorts differently...

Crap as that is.

Exactly

a man who gets paid to fuck women is just a lucky bastard

a woman must be being exploited in some way "

And boys who left/kicked out of home due to sexuality and become rent boys to survive, are they lucky bastards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody think its okay for a woman to be a prostitute? Opinions please "
its weather she feels ok selling her body to guys an gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

I reckon people view male and female escorts differently...

Crap as that is.

Exactly

a man who gets paid to fuck women is just a lucky bastard

a woman must be being exploited in some way

And boys who left/kicked out of home due to sexuality and become rent boys to survive, are they lucky bastards?"

My comment wasn't my opinion it was ment tongue in cheak

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over a year ago


"The only time i think it's wrong is when a 3rd party is involved and taking money off the women, so long as the women, or man, is doing it off their own back and keeping the money themselves what business is it of anybody else

Except for the taxman of course! Let's face it, we all sell our bodies on a daily basis because we are forced to. At the end of a busy day, my legs are knackered, my back aches, my head aches and my eyes are tired. I'm forced to do this by the taxman, the utility companies, the supermarkets that won't give me food for free, the bank or they'll take me house and so on. I sell my body because I am forced to. How am I different to a prostitute? I'm not - I just sell different parts of my body, as pretty much everyone does, prostitutes included."
Your different .. Lets say you was abused you would go to police and they would Sort it your the victim ........ now if a sex worker had this they would see things different and that's if she even go to police and there pimp would too if taken her from job and got the police in .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What suprises me the most about this thread is how so many keep going on about how prostitution degrades women, turns them into sex objects etc but not a single person has mentioned male escorts, there are many men in this country (ok not as many as there arw women but still a lot) who sell their body for sex, gay and straight yet not a single person has mentioned them

I reckon people view male and female escorts differently...

Crap as that is.

Exactly

a man who gets paid to fuck women is just a lucky bastard

a woman must be being exploited in some way

And boys who left/kicked out of home due to sexuality and become rent boys to survive, are they lucky bastards?

My comment wasn't my opinion it was ment tongue in cheak "

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Prostitution and escorting are theoretically the same thing - it's just that most people would prefer to be known as an escort rather than a prostitute, or have seen an escort rather than a prostitute. Being an escort isn't illegal, however soliciting sex is. As an escort you are paid by a consenting adult for your time. What happens in that time is between the two of you. You do not have to have sex, nor is it 'selling your body'.

There's nothing wrong with being a escort. I personally dislike the word prostitute as it comes with a negative mental image of women standing on street corners. Escorting sounds more high class.

If you want to be an escort, go for it. The money is good, and as long as you are comfortable doing it and you're safe about it then it's not really a bad thing. Make sure somebody always knows where you are, and you always have a means of escape. Avoid drinking with the client unless you have opened the bottle yourself. Make sure you take condoms with you. Go with your gut. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it! Say no. Don't feel that because the client has booked you that you need to follow through with the booking if you feel as though something isn't right.

Sorry if somebody else has already said this, I haven't read the whole thread.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts


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It is a myth that the majority of sex workers make a lot of money. Only a small proportion will "live well". There is a high prevalence of people from broken/abusive homes with substance misuse problems. There are a lot of brothel owners and pimps who make a lot of money from this profession. I am not being moralistic, just failing to turn a blind eye to justify something. How many will genuinely say they would encourage their daughters, mothers, sisters etc to become prostitutes because they will "live well"?"

Which is precisely why I said

"It's perfectly acceptable, provided appropriate safeguards are in place to protect the people involved".

People who are in such vulnerable circumstances shouldn't be drawn to it.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

You've only got to look at the preferred victims of many serial killers to see just exactly how vulnerable some prostitutes are.

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