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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

are single males good for swinging scene or just a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gothic will be appearing from the coffin any mo to answer that lol and I'm sure this shold raise a number of comments. For myself I would say we are just a pain in the ass lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our meets are with single guys so no definatly not a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only want to meet single guys so hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are single males good for swinging scene or just a pain"

Some are AMAZING..Some are a Pain..as you put it...they are people...good and bad...and some single men are an asset to the scene ..yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love young single guys that need some lessons as they are fun to treat mean and play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some r nice an some r like

anal..a pain in the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We love single guys ................some of em that is

They're no more a pain in the arse than couples and single females theres just more of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are no more a pain than some couples we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gothic will be appearing from the coffin any mo to answer that lol and I'm sure this shold raise a number of comments. For myself I would say we are just a pain in the ass lol."
....Oiii what ya saying lol. Single guys well as I has 3 of them plus my hubby Saturday night I'd say they are more than welcome oh ya slaps johng1957 lol

*sits on smokin coffin *

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Single men are our fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males are a pain - but some are fantastic people

Couples are a pain - but some are fantastic people

Single women are a pain - but some are fantastic people

Cricket bats used for sex are a pain, and they are not even fantastic people.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"i only want to meet single guys so hell no!

"

I'm with you on that one!!

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

A pain? You're doing them wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single men are like midgies - need i say more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gothic will be appearing from the coffin any mo to answer that lol and I'm sure this shold raise a number of comments. For myself I would say we are just a pain in the ass lol.....Oiii what ya saying lol. Single guys well as I has 3 of them plus my hubby Saturday night I'd say they are more than welcome oh ya slaps johng1957 lol

*sits on smokin coffin *

"

Ah ha thought that would get you out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some r nice an some r like

anal..a pain in the arse "

Single men...pain in the arse?!! Hmmmm, sounds like a fun meet around at mine!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

some single guys can be great... some single guys can be arses...

the problem is the latter spoiling it for the former........

if the nice ones get there 1st... life is good..... if the arses get there 1st, thats A lot of damage us nice guys have to try and repair.....

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We are here to meet single guys but the odd few who obviously do not read our profile befor messaging us. Are a real pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i only want to meet single guys so hell no!

"

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Same here.

However, some single gents really do not do themselves any favour by sending one line message with a cock pic as an opener!

The shortest message I received today was a single "Hi"!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"

Cricket bats used for sex are a pain, and they are not even fantastic people."

Damn it, you were on our hotlist to talk to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Cricket bats used for sex are a pain, and they are not even fantastic people.

Damn it, you were on our hotlist to talk to!"

But we are outside your age criteria and for once it is Sasha who fails to make the grade being too young

Yipppppppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i only want to meet single guys so hell no!

I'm with you on that one!! "

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only meet single guys so if there was no men on here there would be no point me being here

Some single guys are a pain but so are some couples and woman, but over all i have found the single guys on here to be ok

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing."

DUH!!!

Couples don't - the husband does.

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By *nothercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing."

But it does say you are looking for 'men women'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males are grrreat!

Not that I'm at all biased...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males are like a bar of chocolate in your local newsagent.

There's one hell of a lot of chocolate types, some make you puke, some are just what you need, some taste funny and others look weird.

Sometimes you'll grab one and take your chances, but sometimes you know exactly what you want.

But, the thing is that at the end of the day the other 6999 bars of chocolate don't whine about not being eaten!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Single males are like a bar of chocolate in your local newsagent.

There's one hell of a lot of chocolate types, some make you puke, some are just what you need, some taste funny and others look weird.

Sometimes you'll grab one and take your chances, but sometimes you know exactly what you want.

But, the thing is that at the end of the day the other 6999 bars of chocolate don't whine about not being eaten!"

You counted them, didnt you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single males are like a bar of chocolate in your local newsagent.

There's one hell of a lot of chocolate types, some make you puke, some are just what you need, some taste funny and others look weird.

Sometimes you'll grab one and take your chances, but sometimes you know exactly what you want.

But, the thing is that at the end of the day the other 6999 bars of chocolate don't whine about not being eaten!"

Eat a single man a day......... helps you work rest and play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You counted them, didnt you?"

No,just noticed that after I recieved 6999 emails, they stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a singel male i have had some fab meets off hear tho i have been talking to some of the cupples and they dosay some the cupples or "singel women"are just as bad

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing.

But it does say you are looking for 'men women'"

Correct. But if i was looking for cpls it would say.. Couples(MF) But it doesn't!!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

singles,couples of any persuasion I'm sure we can all be a pain to someone some where at some point...just hope I'm never tared with that brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing."

many couples are led to believe that they have "ze power" on sites like this and the rules do not have to apply to them - the viewpoint that "everyone welcomes attention from couples", regardless of the contactees prefs is seemingly a common one.

We get a lot of mails from couples who smoke, outside our age range, uncaring of our preferences and so on.

Actually, thinking seriously, we've never ever been contacted by a single couple (for anything other than a chat about fetish or similar) who showed any real respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are Great...Everyone should have one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are single males good for swinging scene or just a pain"
We chat and your one of the sweet lovely men on here xxx and if you was a pain would tell you ..... some here get fed-up with singles as looking for couples only and get them mailing even when thay tell them not too ...... But some of us here like singles.. we like the ones we can chat too and not just having cock pics in profile ,, lol but then some like cock only dont care about face or looks ,, oooo so theres room for everyone here xx kisses jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing."

Im with you on this

what makes me laugh the most is when a couple mails me looking for a meet and i read their profile and they have one of the typical couples profiles that states in capitals several times

NO SINGLE MEN

SINGLE MEN WILL BE IGNORED

etc

when my profile states quite clearing im not bi and im only looking for single guys

before they moan about single guys being chancers and no reading profiles a lot need to look at the way they go about things on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are great, but I couldn't eat a whole one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you jo , but always the case nice guys come last lol x

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"are single males good for swinging scene or just a pain"

..."the swinging scene"...I'm sure swingers club owners think that single guys are good for the scene. If it wasn't for the single guy "subsidy", a lot of clubs would go out of business. I wonder how many couples realise how much more it would cost them if single guys were taken out of the club "scene".

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By *ilthythanetCouple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Depends on the single guy.

Some are without doubt a benefit whereas others give the rest a bad name.

Sadly it does seem a majority give a minority a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find couples more of a pain TBH. Nowhere on my profile does it say im looking for them.. So why do they mail me.. wink at me.. try and add me as a friend??? In fact, it really annoys me when they slate single guys for not reading when they do exactly the same thing.

Im with you on this

what makes me laugh the most is when a couple mails me looking for a meet and i read their profile and they have one of the typical couples profiles that states in capitals several times

NO SINGLE MEN

SINGLE MEN WILL BE IGNORED

etc

when my profile states quite clearing im not bi and im only looking for single guys

before they moan about single guys being chancers and no reading profiles a lot need to look at the way they go about things on here "

yeah i don't get it either. i'm not looking to play with a couple solo, and i have no bi inclinations so i never get why a couple would message me, friends request or wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you jo , but always the case nice guys come last lol x"
Wille thay do not come last ,, lol I do and make them do it all over again ,, lol OK AND AGAIN ,, LOLOL XXX JO

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By *1pantiesCouple
over a year ago

worthing

we dont mind single guys at all, but we do mind when single guys say they're bi (but they're not and just after the wife) or when they say they're Str8 in their profiles but claim to be bi in the emails. I know why they do it, but we respect / expect honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously single guys are needed - and I have met some nice guys but unfortunately my experiences is that the arseholes outnumber the good guys 3-1.

I have only been to clubs so i can only give my view on the single guys that go to clubs. Most of them sit in the jacuzzi and stare at me, they dont smile, they dont look like their having fun, they just stare. They sit really close to me in the jacuzzi when theres loads of room up the other end, and it just absolutely irritates the fuck out of me. So does following me around the club constantly, im not the pied piper!!

One guy last week really really annoyed me to the point where i was gonna be downright nasty and tell him to f'off, something I dont usually do (i just cuddle up to my guy and he tells them im not interested). This guy had seen me and my guy in the jacuzzi, my guy had been servicing me from behind and another guy was in front of me playing wtih my boobs (and i was leaning on his thighs for good support). When i got out of the jacuzzi this single guy follwed me out and said to me, you looked like you were having fun and i was gonna come over and join in. I said well i dont play with any more than 2 guys as i feel threatened with more than 2 guys. he asked if he could play with us later and i said we dont go into rooms with single men and smiled and hopefully that gave him the message without being blunt.

He later spent the whole time following me, waiting outside the loo for me, stroking my arm as i walked past, stroking my back, i felt like me and my guy had to run around the club away from him. I just tried ignoring him and me and my guy carried on enjoying ourselves but it was annoying.

Eventually we went to the couples room where we played with another couple. this single guy followed us and stood in the doorway of the couples room, refusing to go, and trying to beckon me over to him to go to another room with him. Me and my guy just got on the bed and stayed playing with each other and eventually he went (though i imagine he was looking through the viewing window). It was so obvious i wasnt interested, i dont like being rude but a few more minutes and i would have told him to f'off or got one of the staff to sort it.

Some single men in the clubs are desperate and will hassle women - they give the good guys a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally, when I say no to a gent, he leaves me alone and does not bother to try again. I must be doing something right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are like buses, loads come along but you may only go for a ride on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that are successful are the non-pushy ones that do not come across as desparate IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh well i better keep trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh well i better keep trying lol"
yes willie xx lol xx when willies ready xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally, when I say no to a gent, he leaves me alone and does not bother to try again. I must be doing something right! "

Yes I agree - you just need 'that look' usually says it all.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Stories like iconic make us wary of clubs

They all advertise no means no.. Why wasn't this bloke thrown out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that."

and whats wrong with that, swinging is all about choice, if people want a certain type of single guy that is their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that."

Im sure some people do that but a lot of people on here meet single guys only.

Most of our meets are with guys and we dont meet them because we cant get a meet with a couple or female,we meet them because we want to.

Also agree with other poster about the glasses its about choice,if someone does not find someone else attractive because they wear glasses thats up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that."

what an utter load of shite! i meet single men cos i'm a single woman. i don't use them. bloody generalising again. you're really quite bitter aren't u! seen quite a few of your posts, maybe you need to stop having such high expectations and enjoy what you do get on here

and turned down cos u didnt wear glasses - let me see, me thinks she wanted a polite way of saying she or they werent interested that you couldn't argue with!

rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that.

what an utter load of shite! i meet single men cos i'm a single woman. i don't use them. bloody generalising again. you're really quite bitter aren't u! seen quite a few of your posts, maybe you need to stop having such high expectations and enjoy what you do get on here

and turned down cos u didnt wear glasses - let me see, me thinks she wanted a polite way of saying she or they werent interested that you couldn't argue with!

rant over!"

.

Concur about that being a load of tosh!

Single men are 2 a penny on here, and one can be as choosey/picky as one likes, knowing there are plenty more when they come from.

That is life, accept it and move on! Please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that."

Glasses! I had a similar things, the couple were not interested because I was over 5ft 6 and under 50, suffice to say they had no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that.

what an utter load of shite! i meet single men cos i'm a single woman. i don't use them. bloody generalising again. you're really quite bitter aren't u! seen quite a few of your posts, maybe you need to stop having such high expectations and enjoy what you do get on here

and turned down cos u didnt wear glasses - let me see, me thinks she wanted a polite way of saying she or they werent interested that you couldn't argue with!

rant over!

.

Concur about that being a load of tosh!

Single men are 2 a penny on here, and one can be as choosey/picky as one likes, knowing there are plenty more when they come from.

That is life, accept it and move on! Please! "

Thats very true, and thats often why soke single men get treated badly, allthough some deserve it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always ready jo

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

"

sorry that is utter rubbish..... complete pish

if you think single guys are here just to be used then why on earth are you here????? that is a serious question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly some people will never understand why others swing, they do it for themselves, every last one of us, be they couples or singles.

OK if it's done right everyone present has a lot of fun but nobody should kid themselves about the reasons for doing it.

If we invite someone to our home tonight we are doing it cos we both fancy them, we don't do it cos we think they might not get a shag unless we invite them, we don't do it because we think we owe it to them.

So to that end, we are picky, it doesn't matter what our criteria is, that is the type of person we want to meet and thats our perogative same as everyone else.

Some people like larger folk that they can "get a grip of" some like them slim, some like old, young, average, male, female, transexual, long haired, short haired, with glasses, without glasses, bald, muscular, W/E, big boobed, small boobed, dressed in pink.

No matter what your preference it is your right to seek out that kind of person/people.

Me, I am often too old for most, but sometimes people choose me because of my age, some like older guys some don't, I ain't going to waste a second thinking about why everyone doesn't want older guys.

Most people on here find that the less they think about the negative side and the more they think about the positive side the more fun they have.

No replies to mails, cool concentrate on the mails you do get, doesn't want you cos you don't have a moustache, find someone who likes a smooth face ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope for me they are most definitely not as long as they are my age group and not too far, and that there is a mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single men are just used on here.if a couple or single girl cant get a single girl or couple to join them,then they look for the single male.

but even then they have to perfect in every way,shape & form.

i was turned down because i did not wear glasses...........how sad is that."

Sorry: I have to disagree with you too!

I'm straight so only meet single men, but not all single men appeal to me, and vice versa.

My preference is for TALL, SUB, LOCAL men over 45. I get messages from men outside my criteria, even though I state on my profile if they don't meet MY criteria I won't respond! It has nothing to do with being perfect, there ARE some gorgeous men that contact me, but they don't meet what I'm looking for, so they get ignored too: and therein is the problem!

Some men are horrified you say no! It's as if by virtue of them contacting you you're obliged to respond!

Bad attitude is ugly: accept you won't appeal to all and accept a "no" with good grace and contact those that are looking for you, not the ones you have the hots for but whose criteria you don't meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met lots of guys and have rarely found any that are a "pain", most are courteous and respectful. M xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stories like iconic make us wary of clubs

They all advertise no means no.. Why wasn't this bloke thrown out?"

To be fair I was trying to be nice and not be rude by my refusal, just wanted to keep it all friendly so that he wouldnt be offended by that he got the message. Sadly he just wouldnt stop following me. I guess I could have reported him and he would have been either thrown out or warned to keep away from me, but i didnt particularly want him to get thrown out, just leave me alone and for him to go elsewhere and have a good time.

I dont know about meeting up with guys from a site, i would imagine that most are courteous and nice guys and if youve arranged a meet then you all want the same thing, but it has to be said there are always a number of single males in the clubs who are extremely irritating and dont even speak to you, just expect to stick their fingers up you, and it happens every time i go so its not a one off thing - and i lots of other women say the same thing.

A little thing like getting in and out of the jacuzzi is a pain, they stick their legs out and wont move, hoping you will fall against them - its a damn bloody cheeky at times.

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