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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've been very lucky and never had anyone fail to turn up for a meet, but we always have a plan b ready to go, just in case. This could be anything from going out for dinner to popping to a swingers club.

Do you have a plan b, or do you just hope for the best?

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ugh, the number of times a meet has been arranged then hours before shock horror they've had something crop up, or maybe next week.

Plan B? A desperate search through Fab, and then usually porn and a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to always have a back up plan... It is however normally just diverting to a club... But as we tend to mostly meet at clubs now it happens less x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we don't have a plan B as such but as there's the two of us we could make our own entertainment . Never been let down yet though

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

We only meet in clubs so it doesn't matter if the people we had hoped to meet don't turn up, we still have the potential for a good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only meet in clubs so it doesn't matter if the people we had hoped to meet don't turn up, we still have the potential for a good night."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll always have an alternative plan if they don't show. Even if it's as simple as just going to the local or going to dinner instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to meet in clubs for the first time which negates the need for a plan b.

On the rare occasions we meet away from clubs it tends to be more spontaneous and when we have no other plans so we'll just have a night in if it goes wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugh, the number of times a meet has been arranged then hours before shock horror they've had something crop up, or maybe next week.

Plan B? A desperate search through Fab, and then usually porn and a wank "

works for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my plan b is a wank, you can always trust ur hand to perform lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been very lucky and never had anyone fail to turn up for a meet, but we always have a plan b ready to go, just in case. This could be anything from going out for dinner to popping to a swingers club.

Do you have a plan b, or do you just hope for the best?"

It takes a bit of arranging to get overnight babysitters so we wouldn't want to waste them. If we had sorted a hotel and then the meet cancelled we would ideally like to ask others we had been in contact if they fancied it. So how would you feel if asked under these circumstances, would you feel like 2nd best or would it not bother you?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Depends on how it was done.

If it was before hand, a we have a meet planned but if it falls through would you be interested kind of thing, then my answer is no.

But if after your evening had been cancelled you messaged and said we have unexpectedly got a free evening would you fancy meeting up? That would be more likely to work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been stood up twice having taken days off work. Sat in a cafe waiting. They just disappeared off the site. Frustrating but a fact of life on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down many times but as we only meet at home plan B is simply put the kettle on and watch tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally expect to be let down and plan our own night of fun.....If they turn up it's a bonus.

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

There is no plan b - only that "worst" case scenario is we always have each other and that fab is only a bonus anyway xxx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find most guys fantasize about meeting TG then bottle it, no matter how much they assure you that out of the 100s of guys messaging you, they are the one. So I meet in clubs, at TG events or dogging, where it doesn't matter a jot if they don't show. My record, is 20 guys who were 'definite' to meet dogging and none turning up. Luckily plenty of other people were out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve been let down once,had a no show an it pissed us off lol. so she got undressed put her pjs on and we ended up stayin in..child free!. could have gone out up town but wasnt in mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two no shows here and no plan b. just took myself home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan b normally involves feeling sorry for myself, sulk for a while then back to fab for a whine.

I'll relegate that to Plan C in December.

The new plan B will be to say sod it and go for a bag of chips!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My plan b is to only meet near Christmas so if a meet doesn't turn up I can do some Xmas shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we don't have a plan B as such but as there's the two of us we could make our own entertainment . Never been let down yet though "

We're the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have made big arrangements,travelling,hotels etc then yes we'll usually have a plan B

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Always, always have a plan B. If the meet doesn't happen it's not the end of the world. We can and do have a great time if ever that happens and it has once, made a very hardcore porno never to be viewed by another living soul, oh the shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet in clubs so that's my plan B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugh, the number of times a meet has been arranged then hours before shock horror they've had something crop up, or maybe next week.

Plan B? A desperate search through Fab, and then usually porn and a wank "

At least they let you know a few hours before - I just hear - nothing!! Plan B for me involves a club if i'm likely to know people there - or my rabbit and porn! I won't try to arrange a last minute replacement unless it's someone I've already met or chatted to a lot - as I cant just 'meet and fuck'! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugh, the number of times a meet has been arranged then hours before shock horror they've had something crop up, or maybe next week.

Plan B? A desperate search through Fab, and then usually porn and a wank "
lol couldn't have put it better myself ... High five

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We love doing it in our car, our fab meets tend to be dogging style ... plan B for us is go ahead and play anyway, if no one is there watching we still cum with each other anyway and the night is fun, if others do turn up, it just adds another spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most guys fantasize about meeting TG then bottle it, no matter how much they assure you that out of the 100s of guys messaging you, they are the one. So I meet in clubs, at TG events or dogging, where it doesn't matter a jot if they don't show. My record, is 20 guys who were 'definite' to meet dogging and none turning up. Luckily plenty of other people were out. "

This isn't exclusive to TG's Tina - if it's any consolation! I've lost count of the number of guys who've 'chased' me on here for months then bottled it and dissappeared when I've arranged to meet them! Wish they'd all just bugger off and leave fab to the swingers! If people just want to use fab for the forums/chat then fine - but I wish they'd just stop asking for meets!! ( sorry - rant over! )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some interesting posts. Cancellations with some notice are one thing, but it must be really annoying if someone just fails to turn up, without a word. Only meeting at clubs is a good solution and something we may consider doing ourselves in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have a plan B

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By *ockman and ThrobbinCouple
over a year ago

Ilford


"We've been very lucky and never had anyone fail to turn up for a meet, but we always have a plan b ready to go, just in case. This could be anything from going out for dinner to popping to a swingers club.

Do you have a plan b, or do you just hope for the best?

It takes a bit of arranging to get overnight babysitters so we wouldn't want to waste them. If we had sorted a hotel and then the meet cancelled we would ideally like to ask others we had been in contact if they fancied it. So how would you feel if asked under these circumstances, would you feel like 2nd best or would it not bother you?"

Wouldn't bother us as long as we felt that the original couple were sincere and open.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It seems that couples and ladies can have plans B onwards in case their meet doesn't show. What I don't understand on a site where men far outnumber ladies is why do they choose the timewasters?

I wonder if its that thing about if it (or he) looks too good to be true the chances are that it(he) is excactly that? - Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet that many people on a 1-1, we attend parties and clubs mainly.

If it ever happened we'd just go to s club, wouldn't be a problem at all

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