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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I posted a tread about being sad.

What is your opinion? Is it acceptable for people to state their feelings on here?

Or is the forums not the place for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums have areas for all types of thread. If your sad and need a cheer me up then crack on. Nobody should dictate to another, the content of their contributions provided they don't contravene rules. Rant at the ranters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just as you feel low or happy shouldn't make it right for anyone to have a go at you

Forums have all kinds of shit on here and sometimes reminds me of Facebook lol

dont worry chick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid threads like that as they come across as attention seeking. Though due to the nature of instant gratification, I can see why people do it I guess.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

post as you wish but be prepared for others to do the same even though it might not be to your taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People rant on here?? Surely not,it's a sex site not Jeremy Kyle

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I personally think people post too much about their vulnerabilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes been ranted at a few times. Just encourages me more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its whatever for whoever - if you dont like some of it take no flippin notice -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think people post too much about their vulnerabilities"

I have to agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post whatever you like. It's up to each individual which threads they read. I'm assuming the title gave an indication of the content? If so then tell them to jog on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me post what you like, I have the amazing ability to read something and think that's guff; and then wait for it...........

Ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me post what you like, I have the amazing ability to read something and think that's guff; and then wait for it...........

Ignore it. "

Perhaps you should run a course on that, a lot of people don't seem to know how it's done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me post what you like, I have the amazing ability to read something and think that's guff; and then wait for it...........

Ignore it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I posted a tread about being sad.

What is your opinion? Is it acceptable for people to state their feelings on here?

Or is the forums not the place for it? "

Like others have said its an open forum and post whatever you like as long as its within the rules.

However be aware that others can respond how they want as long as its within the site rules and sometimes this may not be to your liking but its part and parcel of posting on here.

We often see rants from OP's who hate people critiscising their posts and only want posts from people who dupport their topic, this isnt the way forums work thankfully i like the fact it provides people different perspectives on things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't really pay attention to negative posts but it just surprised me how very very angry he was. Can't really see what got him in that state. Never spoken to him before.

Then he say the forums should only be about sex not about personal issues.

Obviously he's not had a proper look on here.

Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people deliberately look to upset others in any way they can.

It's a sad state of affairs when one can't state how one is truly feeling.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't really pay attention to negative posts but it just surprised me how very very angry he was. Can't really see what got him in that state. Never spoken to him before.

Then he say the forums should only be about sex not about personal issues.

Obviously he's not had a proper look on here.

Oh well. "

Some people do feel that and maybe you highlighted something that touched a nerve with him.

His anger is as valid as your sadness but was possibly expressed in the wrong place at the wrong time.

I hope you feel ok about it now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm great, thanks for asking hun.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't really pay attention to negative posts but it just surprised me how very very angry he was. Can't really see what got him in that state. Never spoken to him before.

Then he say the forums should only be about sex not about personal issues.

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Sounds like frustration to me - someone who wants everyone to behave as if this is instashag so he can relieve himself without delay. There are a lot of broken people on here - everyone will have an achilles heel at least.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't really pay attention to negative posts but it just surprised me how very very angry he was. Can't really see what got him in that state. Never spoken to him before.

Then he say the forums should only be about sex not about personal issues.

Sounds like frustration to me - someone who wants everyone to behave as if this is instashag so he can relieve himself without delay. There are a lot of broken people on here - everyone will have an achilles heel at least."

That is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think people post too much about their vulnerabilities"

I agree but I also think that people are too quick to rant at others when it doesn't actually affect them in any way.

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