FabSwingers.com forum: Is it time we creat a sign to spot a swinger in public place

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

The reason I ask for a sign for swingers . in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.some swingers out there may be looking for a meet. Hence a sign will be better.

As for me .

Bring-out your handkerchief to wipe your face twice. This may sound funny. But very discreet sign

So what is your sign?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could end up looking a bit special. well maybe special is not the right word ok odd sat there wiping your face every time someone walks in the place. my mum love her wipes her face quite often

could be eventful if nothing else

all joking aside tho i suppose if the place was a known meeting place within the secret world of swingers it could be a good idea maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That could end up a bit of a tricky situation

Imagine a man or woman having the sniffles so using a tissue often then they get approached by a couple asking for a 3some, try explaining that 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl my mum would prolly say is it like vics is it menthol

or no i only ordered 1 cup of tea thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"pmsl my mum would prolly say is it like vics is it menthol

or no i only ordered 1 cup of tea thanks "

Haha Pmsl

Would probably make a funny scene to watch unless they got lucky and were actually swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks, if there was a sign I certainly wouldn't use it. I value my privacy in public when I go about my day to day business. I don't want to be having a coffi somewhere and worrying that I'm giving off a signal so everyone knows what I get up to.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Not a good idea at all. I like my private life to be kept just that way. If I want a meet I seek one out here nit when out and about.

Silly idea really

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

That's ok until the press find out about it and you end up plastered all over the sun/ mirror or mail, depending on who is doing the latest swinger expose.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Any 'secret' swingers sign wouldn't stay secret for very long once the media got to hear of it. Most swingers value discretion. Fab has the facility to see who is near or put a meet up for those who are out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose there is a similar kind risk at the well known clubs or at organised social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I like to keep the two areas ofymy life separate. If you want to meet swingers that's what socials are for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i suppose there is a similar kind risk at the well known clubs or at organised social meets "

Which is the reason some of us don't go to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wear a t-shirt with 'I like swinging' wrote on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, we value our privacy and prefer to keep the two very different lives we lead separate from each other.

There are plenty of other tools to find other swingers without having a 'sign' to say we are. And what if someone random was to innocently have said sign about their person without knowing its alternate meaning. They'd be in for a shock if you approached them in a swinging sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google swingers sign, there are some alreadyout there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a ridiculous idea.

Why would I want to speak to a random person in a vanilla environment just because they happen to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no interest in signs to indicate who swingers are,there is a massive majority that Id rather avoid than chat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never use it , you never know who is watching :-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a brilliant idea. We wouldn't use the sign ourselves, obviously, but we'd love to see everyone else using it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always seems to be men suggesting these type of things.... Why faf about, if you want the world to know your a swinger/swingle, get a T-shirt or Badge with Swinger or Swingle on it...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

As mentioned by people before me, this has been talked about many times and there is already a solution.

Its that little fish symbol you see on the back of cars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?"

Sad but true.

Unfortunately there are too many guys already on Fab who think every woman here will fuck anyone for the asking.

Can you imagine the reaction if Mrs J walked into a busy pub on a Saturday night with a tee shirt saying "I will fuck anyone. Just ask"!

That would be the reality sadly.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

They usually find me and Kim lol, we were at Butlins this weekend and spoke to 2 different swinging couples who said hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to walk around with a big pampas grass plant on my head and a t shirt that says 'i am fab' on it. I think that's gives off the right signal. I hope the irony in the sub text isnt lost heehee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As mentioned by people before me, this has been talked about many times and there is already a solution.

Its that little fish symbol you see on the back of cars. "

And there was me thinking it was the happy clappers brigade!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks, if there was a sign I certainly wouldn't use it. I value my privacy in public when I go about my day to day business. I don't want to be having a coffi somewhere and worrying that I'm giving off a signal so everyone knows what I get up to."

this

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By *horshiperMan
over a year ago

London

"The reason I ask for a sign for swingers . in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.some swingers out there may be looking for a meet. Hence a sign will be better.

As for me .

Bring-out your handkerchief to wipe your face twice. This may sound funny. But very discreet sign

So what is your sign?"

WHY are you assuming that every single swinger out there would wanna meet you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you could recognise swingers in public. A single sign wouldn't tell you what they liked and what they were looking for; if it was down to hankies you'd need to carry a whole load of them and display them in order like they do with the flags on ships.

Also, I pity the poor person who innocently wipes there nose twice because they have a cold

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By *omewhat_kinkyCouple
over a year ago

reigate

Don't think we need a sign

walked into our local charity shop and the woman behind the counter mentioned that we were kinky, shes not on this site she just guessed over the months we had been visiting the shop. without us mentioning our preferences I might add.

so if you are relaxed about your sexuality and preferences i think others pick up on this

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By *omewhat_kinkyCouple
over a year ago

reigate

"Even if you could recognise swingers in public. A single sign wouldn't tell you what they liked and what they were looking for; if it was down to hankies you'd need to carry a whole load of them and display them in order like they do with the flags on ships.

Also, I pity the poor person who innocently wipes there nose twice because they have a cold

erm is it not flu season #awkward

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

I am only suggesting. But don't turn it into act of desperation. Yes some people on fab do separate swinging from their daily routine. But others do like to meet up with someone apart from club and Internet.

Yes privacy is more paramount. The act of wearing a t-shirt suggesting you are a swinger is utterly ridiculous. I don't subscribe to it. eg

If you travel abroad you can see for yourself as a swinger any form of spotting a fellow swinger in public is vital .mostly when there's a language barrier. If you think this is a tacky suggestion. Think again

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

"It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?

Sad but true.

Unfortunately there are too many guys already on Fab who think every woman here will fuck anyone for the asking.

Can you imagine the reaction if Mrs J walked into a busy pub on a Saturday night with a tee shirt saying "I will fuck anyone. Just ask"!

That would be the reality sadly."

I am not surprise with your comment looking at your profile alone depict your opion about single guys

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

"in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.s"

god no way... you might find out great uncle Fred and aunt Mable are in to anal fisting at a weekend..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?

Sad but true.

Unfortunately there are too many guys already on Fab who think every woman here will fuck anyone for the asking.

Can you imagine the reaction if Mrs J walked into a busy pub on a Saturday night with a tee shirt saying "I will fuck anyone. Just ask"!

That would be the reality sadly.

I am not surprise with your comment looking at your profile alone depict your opion about single guys

Sadly I have to agree. Some (note some!) single guys on here assume you will fuck anything just because you are a swinger, and then have a hissy fit when you dare to turn them down. Imagine having to encounter that every time you popped to the shops just because you were giving off the sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The reason I ask for a sign for swingers . in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.some swingers out there may be looking for a meet. Hence a sign will be better.

As for me .

Bring-out your handkerchief to wipe your face twice. This may sound funny. But very discreet sign

So what is your sign?"

This may be a great idea but can't vouch for some of the more egregious elements that lurk in these forums.

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By *otnolongerwifeCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

god no way... you might find out great uncle Fred and aunt Mable are in to anal fisting at a weekend.."

I still worry about stumbling accross family members on here, to the degree I used to take the picture down off my wall when I cam...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I've always been able to spot swingers when abroad - they're the other people in the swingers club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find a simple "Quack Quack" does the trick... Most non swingers look at you as if you are mad (but never suspect you are into swinging!)...the odd smart arse answers with a "Quack Quack" (we just tell them to piss off!)...but fellow swingers... well they always answer with a "Cockle Doo Da Doo!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We find a simple "Quack Quack" does the trick... Most non swingers look at you as if you are mad (but never suspect you are into swinging!)...the odd smart arse answers with a "Quack Quack" (we just tell them to piss off!)...but fellow swingers... well they always answer with a "Cockle Doo Da Doo!"

I so wish this was true!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This comes up every so often and I always want to ask the people that think it's a good idea........

Why do you think we need ANOTHER sign?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This comes up every so often and I always want to ask the people that think it's a good idea........

Why do you think we need ANOTHER sign?

Some of us are having a laugh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldnt the reply be :

a cock or two will do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most here that it's probably not such a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldnt the reply be :

a cock or two will do? "

Shit...for all these years I've been thinking most swingers have a speech impediment.

But seriously...the women seem to mumble a lot and the men’s speech is somewhat muffled!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Could do something like a masonic handshake, or wear a T Shirt with "I'm not a Gynaecologist, but I'll have a good look"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do something like a masonic handshake, or wear a T Shirt with "I'm not a Gynaecologist, but I'll have a good look"

Don't like the Masonic link...I’ve heard they are into goat's...but shhhh....it’s a secret!

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