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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seeking views not advice.

Are all cuckold males voyeurs and/or can voyeurs of their female partner be that alone and not cuckold?

What other than voyeur do you have to do or not do to be cuckold?

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100% voyeuristic . No cuckold humiliation for me thanks . I just love watching my wife having fun

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I like to watch my partner play with a man, I find it a huge turn on. And I also very much participate, but in no way am I cuckold, as nor is she doing it to humiliate me!!!

And I certainly ain't cleaning up after him!!!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I 100% agree with the above posters, couldn't have put it better.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

There doesnt need to be humiliation for it to be cuckold, the simple difference is, if a man is watching others engage in sex he is voyeur, if a man is watching his wife engage in sex he is cuckold, humiliation, clean up, sub/dom etc can come in to it and does in many cuckold situations/relationships, but the basics of cuckolding is to watch or be aware that your wife is having sex with another man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The posted views are mine too. Not really into being humiliated and seeking my partner play with guys and gals is the buzz.

Guess my label as a voyeur is the right one for me but is it cuckold to invite a third party ie a guy to give pleasure to your female partner?

Would cuckold apply if your fem partner was playing with a fem?

Am I looking too deep into this and does any one care?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I can be a cuckold voyeur. Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 100% voyeuristic . No cuckold humiliation for me thanks . I just love watching my wife having fun "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby loves to watch me with other guys and he never joins in, but I pity anyone who tried to humiliate him lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first meet last Friday with a guy. I loved watching him please Lou and the moans she was making

I joined in every now and again and when I first suggested this to her she thought it was very strange. I'm glad I'm not the only guy who loves seeing his lady being pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the bdsm team has kind of taken over the cuckold term and changed the meaning for most people , but in old language any man who's wife is unfaithful is a cuck.

It doesn't have to include humiliation or clean up duties ( I would never do either or allow either to be done ) but I think the best thing we have learned is why worry about what others assume , as long as you communicate what you want with your other partners it works, and that's all that matters

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"The posted views are mine too. Not really into being humiliated and seeking my partner play with guys and gals is the buzz.

Guess my label as a voyeur is the right one for me but is it cuckold to invite a third party ie a guy to give pleasure to your female partner?

Would cuckold apply if your fem partner was playing with a fem?

Am I looking too deep into this and does any one care?"

no it wouldnt apply to fem/fem, cuckold is to watch or be aware that your wife is having sex with another man, humiliation and everything else came into it later and is now a very much accepted part of many cuckold relationships, but it is alsoa common misconception that is has to include humiliation, it doesnt, many things have been added to cuckolding since its original meaning but none of it changes the original meaning.

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By *istressdebssubCouple
over a year ago

cambridge


"The posted views are mine too. Not really into being humiliated and seeking my partner play with guys and gals is the buzz.

Guess my label as a voyeur is the right one for me but is it cuckold to invite a third party ie a guy to give pleasure to your female partner?

Would cuckold apply if your fem partner was playing with a fem?

Am I looking too deep into this and does any one care?"
the main thing that makes a cuckold is that the wife plays with others and the cuckold remains faithful . after that the list is endless

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

A cuckold is a husband who's wife has sexual intimacies (not just intercourse) with someone (usually a male) other than her husband with or without the husbands knowledge.

If you enjoy it and all parties are happy does it matter what it's called or what it makes you.

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Think cuckolds are voyeurs of course but it's more than that so voyeurs are not cuckolds ..... If that makes sense.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"My hubby loves to watch me with other guys and he never joins in, but I pity anyone who tried to humiliate him lol! "
a

and it always turns into a spit roast or DP ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 100% voyeuristic . No cuckold humiliation for me thanks . I just love watching my wife having fun "

yeah this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need someone to explain cuckold to me ?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

In the end the term does not matter. All that matters is that you both enjoy it.

I have always enjoyed watching the wife play, however she enjoys watching me too, so that's a bit tricky when you are both voyeurs.

Cuckold is a handy term to put you in a particular box for others to find, but it is such a large box, full of things like wives playing alone, going out on the pull, humiliation, punishment, degradation, sissification, denial, and wife watching, forced bi??? (have I missed anything)

So it's not really that useful a term, as there are so many people it can cover. Were as a few lines on a profile saying ...the husband would love to watch me having sex/making passionate love to another man or other men, but has no wish to join in....

It take so little space and time, that explaining your wants and desires in full, is so much more horny and descriptive, rather than he is a cuckold.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"I like to watch my partner play with a man, I find it a huge turn on. And I also very much participate, but in no way am I cuckold, as nor is she doing it to humiliate me!!!

And I certainly ain't cleaning up after him!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 100% voyeuristic . No cuckold humiliation for me thanks . I just love watching my wife having fun "
this

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"I need someone to explain cuckold to me ? "

read further up.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"A cuckold is a husband who's wife has sexual intimacies (not just intercourse) with someone (usually a male) other than her husband with or without the husbands knowledge.

If you enjoy it and all parties are happy does it matter what it's called or what it makes you. "

it can be just intercourse or can be more, but for it to be cuckold it has to be with the husbands knowledge, without it is just cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need someone to explain cuckold to me ?

read further up."

Duh... Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hubby loves to watch me with other guys and he never joins in, but I pity anyone who tried to humiliate him lol! a

and it always turns into a spit roast or DP .."

Nope, never!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly should have put that on our profile would have saved a lot of explaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to watch my partner play with a man, I find it a huge turn on. And I also very much participate, but in no way am I cuckold, as nor is she doing it to humiliate me!!!

And I certainly ain't cleaning up after him!!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 100% voyeuristic . No cuckold humiliation for me thanks . I just love watching my wife having fun "

Same here

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

voyeurism is just watching, not necessarily your partner ,cuckolding is your partner plus a dynamic, which is different for each cuckold

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Well the bdsm team has kind of taken over the cuckold term and changed the meaning for most people , but in old language any man who's wife is unfaithful is a cuck.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seeking views not advice.

Are all cuckold males voyeurs and/or can voyeurs of their female partner be that alone and not cuckold?

What other than voyeur do you have to do or not do to be cuckold?

Any thoughts?

"

Being Voyeur is NOT cuckold.

Cuckold, even though the male may OR may NOT be allowed to watch.

Despite the female having sex with another man in fron of him or not, she is actually dominating him (the cuck).

In a Cuckhold relationship the female is usually "Dominant"..in inverted brackets.

In actually fact, the sexual partner is usually Dominant with the female but SHE is Dominant to the Cuckold...

Unless the sexual partner is asked to be more involved with situation besides pure sex.

Voyeur and cuckold are 2 DIFFERENT things entirely.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Just seeking views not advice.

Are all cuckold males voyeurs and/or can voyeurs of their female partner be that alone and not cuckold?

What other than voyeur do you have to do or not do to be cuckold?

Any thoughts?

Being Voyeur is NOT cuckold.

Cuckold, even though the male may OR may NOT be allowed to watch.

Despite the female having sex with another man in fron of him or not, she is actually dominating him (the cuck).

In a Cuckhold relationship the female is usually "Dominant"..in inverted brackets.

In actually fact, the sexual partner is usually Dominant with the female but SHE is Dominant to the Cuckold...

Unless the sexual partner is asked to be more involved with situation besides pure sex.

Voyeur and cuckold are 2 DIFFERENT things entirely."

again that is something that can be involved in cuckolding but isnt necessary or usual, it is dependent on each situation, very rarely will 2 cuckold relationships be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seeking views not advice.

Are all cuckold males voyeurs and/or can voyeurs of their female partner be that alone and not cuckold?

What other than voyeur do you have to do or not do to be cuckold?

Any thoughts?

Being Voyeur is NOT cuckold.

Cuckold, even though the male may OR may NOT be allowed to watch.

Despite the female having sex with another man in fron of him or not, she is actually dominating him (the cuck).

In a Cuckhold relationship the female is usually "Dominant"..in inverted brackets.

In actually fact, the sexual partner is usually Dominant with the female but SHE is Dominant to the Cuckold...

Unless the sexual partner is asked to be more involved with situation besides pure sex.

Voyeur and cuckold are 2 DIFFERENT things entirely."

Wrong. The dictionary definition of a cuck is a man with an unfaithful wife. The domination part is a twist some couples choose to add to it. The domination does NOT make it cuckold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesnt need to be humiliation for it to be cuckold, the simple difference is, if a man is watching others engage in sex he is voyeur, if a man is watching his wife engage in sex he is cuckold, humiliation, clean up, sub/dom etc can come in to it and does in many cuckold situations/relationships, but the basics of cuckolding is to watch or be aware that your wife is having sex with another man."

Exactly and as a bull this is for me where the pleasure comes from.

Any humiliation etc would be discussed with the cuckolding couple to meet there needs and wishes.

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