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do winks actually mean anything ??? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

xxx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes they are extremely serious and not to be chucked about willy nilly.

or

You take a wink as you want to. I dont take any notice of them

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

They are a lightweight way of showing interest. I use them. Many don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , not to me I just delete them

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We take them to mean "you look nice, let us know if you're interested". We rarely wink at others but usually respond to winks. A message would be better.

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By *umpupCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Hi guys, just wondering if anyone knows of any clubs/meets that are open in the day time, say from 10.00 until 14.00 as we would love to have fun but are restricted by school runs, would really appreciate any help thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initial interest I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"xxx"

I forget they're there, like my nose then I can't stop noticing my nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_umpup cupids have a greedy party on this friday its up in the events foram hun

as for winks i usually delete them as if your really interested n have read a profile you would leave a message

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

I like winks...and always say thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"_umpup cupids have a greedy party on this friday its up in the events foram hun

as for winks i usually delete them as if your really interested n have read a profile you would leave a message"

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We tend to ignore winks much prefer a message !

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I'd say winks are pretty useful to show initial interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bulk delete unless your smoking hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wink to let a guy know i am interested

it can be a good starting point or if no wink back at least i know to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a winker and enjoy a nice wink off females.Its ok winking now and then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A non-committal ice breaker for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wink to break the ice only xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't look at mine, some people do and send a wink back and that say means it ok to message them, some will message you without winking back.

some people accidently wink though while on your page, especially if they have a touchscreen.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Me and Kim use them as an ice breaker and to say we fancy them etc...if they don't know that winks are for that purpose then we aint here to educate them on swinging etiquette lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are nice. We are always flattered when we get a wink and also like to send them. To us, it's a bit like making eye contact in a crowded bar. It may not amount to anything, it's just a bit of harmless flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks,

We are both winkers, anyone fancy exchanging winks with us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wink, so wink away

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm an optimist so always think a wink means 'steve we want an mmf with you'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind winks, either receiving or sending, just a nice way to show interest and breaking the ice a little

x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They're a low effort way to attempt contact that may be noticed, so worth a try, unless a user states a different preference.

I like them and understand how it's hard for many people to get responses from others. If I'm winked at, I wink it return if potentially interested.

A returned wink does not - of course - that a shag will follow. The balls still in the court of the initial instigator to follow through, via an appropriate message etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest I forget they are there, they never really catch my eye until I see a large number in the box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an optimist so always think a wink means 'steve we want an mmf with you' "

Ha..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I just winked at someone on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don't work lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No they don't work lol."
try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never check winks or friends requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see people who wink as being too nervous to actually message so in that case there's no point talking to them cuz they'd probably shit themselves if we actually meet.

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Winks are handy to show a little interest in someone's profile without the effort of typing a message. If they wink you back then it's worth the effort, if not then no time wasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they dThey work but not much geon't work lol. try "
They do work, but as you know many don't return one lol.

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By *urreyloverMan
over a year ago

Guildford

If I receive them, I consider it a compliment. Though I occasionally send one to show an interest, I prefer to send a personal message (even though it is just as likely to be ignored)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I don't really do winks, if I get them I think someone likes the profile but I would think if someone wanted to talk to me then they would message......I guess in my world they are like a profile 'fab'

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Love receiving them and like to give too...

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I give them to say I liked your profile, it saves sending a message that will get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely use them but will wink back if I've received one of someone who interests me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to get them we send them as a way of saying like what we see in profile only like a smile in a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use them to show initial interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks & will respond if we like the look of the profile

Unless its from people 200 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many I just see them as a show of interest and if I am interested I will wink back, if they follow up with a message fine if not it goes no further. I have had one or two great meets with guys where a wink got the ball rolling

I don't think they are necessarily lazy, so many messages get ignored I can understand why single guys get despondent and resort to winking instead!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We use them to show initial interest"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks are great. Good way to say im intrested

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We like winks & will respond if we like the look of the profile

Unless its from people 200 miles away "

110, 150+ driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to ignore them it says to us your not quite worth the effort of a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we send them occasionally - get a fair few - most get deleted some make us go oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink as its a light hearted way of saying "hey I looked, I liked....look at me". Some of my best meets have started with a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks... I think he's a bit dishy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink as its a light hearted way of saying "hey I looked, I liked....look at me". Some of my best meets have started with a wink "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink as its a light hearted way of saying "hey I looked, I liked....look at me". Some of my best meets have started with a wink "

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like winks & will respond if we like the look of the profile

Unless its from people 200 miles away

110, 150+ driving "

I suppose it's ok if they travelling but most of the time I can't help but think why wink if you have no intentions ?

We do look at London profiles because we like staying in London from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink as its a light hearted way of saying "hey I looked, I liked....look at me". Some of my best meets have started with a wink

Mwah "
bact at ya x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I like a wink as its a light hearted way of saying "hey I looked, I liked....look at me". Some of my best meets have started with a wink

Mwah bact at ya x"

Bacteria?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always appreciative of winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks? Never know how and when to use them so tend to avoid them particularly as so many people say 'winks will be blocked' ..

Always happy to receive them though ... (ha ha like that's happened about 5 times)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks, easy way of showing interest. Prefer a fab.

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