FabSwingers.com forum: Which are you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you prefer to dominate or be dominated?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

neither...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be submissive with the right partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally Sub,

Only with Tommy though, never for others, I love the feeling of being completely taken over by him, and letting him do exactly as he pleases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both with the right person

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am Dom...but can play sub if needed.

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By *penminded732Man
over a year ago

inverness

Depends on mood/partner/gender

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Both and neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm submissive with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on mood and who I'm with

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Both, depends on mood

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Both, depends on mood"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P is Dom and C is a switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally dominant. But would like to let myself go sometime...if my brain will let me.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Dominated.....always

I don't sub but I do like feeling overpowered

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By *urhamgentMan
over a year ago

durham

Both , totally dependant on who I am with or what mood we are in

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Both .. But tend to Dom or neither

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Do you prefer to dominate or be dominated? "

I appear to be slightly the dom side of vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

i do have a few dom tendencies and a few sub ones but i wouldn't really say i was either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slightly sub....I can't do Dom at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a girl, I sub.

I can happily announce, as of last Wednesday, I'm officially 'owned' by my new Mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am generally domme but can play sub for the right genuine domme female

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Mostly Dom but can be overpowered by a dominating personality and i guess it can happen to all dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither really, do you have to be one or the other, can't you just be lovers on a level playing field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I George take the lead and do all the work mildred just sits back and enjoys the ride, she does enjoy being sub but I wouldn't say were heavily into sub/dom

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

Stupid phone and auto correct...

I can switch depending on his or my mood.. Luckily we've never been Dom or Sub at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Switch, but only with the right people. Takes months to get me to Dominate someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both although apparently I make an excellent sub when I'm not being bratty and trying to Dom from below.

Both roles are sexy and need to appreciate both fully to excel in either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the man I'm with to take the lead but not necessarily in a Dom way...if that makes sense!

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

Not I hasten to add that, that means we are particularly into that, just who takes the lead or demands more......

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Neither

i do have a few dom tendencies and a few sub ones but i wouldn't really say i was either "

Am like her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get done I get Dom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree classy ladee I am not either but tend to lead

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I like a dominant guy. .. But I'm a bit of a switch with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally Sub,

Only with Tommy though, never for others, I love the feeling of being completely taken over by him, and letting him do exactly as he pleases

Tommy is a lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am Dom...but can play sub if needed."

You come across as such a pussy cat...how wrong I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither really, do you have to be one or the other, can't you just be lovers on a level playing field."

My sentiments exactly Mrs D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the man I'm with to take the lead but not necessarily in a Dom way...if that makes sense!"

Makes complete sense to me, that's the way I like to play as well

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I prefer the man I'm with to take the lead but not necessarily in a Dom way...if that makes sense!

Makes complete sense to me, that's the way I like to play as well

And me - but so many men sadly don't seem to grasp this concept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominate women,, dominated by men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% sub love everything of being told to do the housework give me a massage to taking a beating to being a sex slave to being cuckolded body worship my favourite xx

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Dominate women,, dominated by men "

Nice combination...i guess you must be winning everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dominate women,, dominated by men

Nice combination...i guess you must be winning everywhere

I try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Im the dominate one as he'll do anything I tell him to but with someone else I prefer equals x

Ginger x

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"neither..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom but have secret sub fantasies but doubt I'd ever try it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I am indomitable, but I like quite naturally dominant men.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I like to Switch, depending on my mood and which Fab lady I am playing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm too feisty to be fully submissive, My preference is for guys who take the lead though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think I'm too feisty to be fully submissive, My preference is for guys who take the lead though.

I'd take your lead and give you a little encouragement on your bum with it before attaching it to your collar and leading you to 3 eager men

I've played both Dom and sub but mainly just vanilla sex but with 3 or more people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the man I'm with to take the lead but not necessarily in a Dom way...if that makes sense!

Makes complete sense to me, that's the way I like to play as well

And me - but so many men sadly don't seem to grasp this concept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am beginning to learn that I am submissive, very

The thing is I'm not in life I hate being told what to do etc

I also push men to test and see what they will let me get away with and if I can take over in bed, if they make the mistake of letting me take over I lose interest rapidly.

I can happily do mutual lovemaking but to really switch me on then it's submission I seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm too feisty to be fully submissive, My preference is for guys who take the lead though.

I'd take your lead and give you a little encouragement on your bum with it before attaching it to your collar and leading you to 3 eager men

Now spanking - yes please !

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Mmmm let me think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am beginning to learn that I am submissive, very

The thing is I'm not in life I hate being told what to do etc

I also push men to test and see what they will let me get away with and if I can take over in bed, if they make the mistake of letting me take over I lose interest rapidly.

I can happily do mutual lovemaking but to really switch me on then it's submission I seek

Same here, I won't be told what to do in my day to day life but sexually I love being submissive with the right person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dominated

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

On fab, equal.

Away from fab with the right person, very sub - with a bratty side.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Naturally dominant. Can't switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual pleasuring. Sometimes I'm giving more,sometimes I'm taking more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who I am with - very happy to take the lead or to go with the flow - ideally switching from one to the other....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally more submissive, but like to switch. Best of both worlds!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Had a go at switch, just wasn't me at all.... never again.... just didn't like it....can't see the fun in it.... why go against the grain...damn stupid idea in the first place.... someone needs their bum spanking for suggesting it.....

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

Sub in so far as I like to be controlled rather than bullied or beaten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sub in so far as I like to be controlled rather than bullied or beaten "

Oh I like to be controlled. And beaten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being dominated. I think I make a great sub! Have got pics in private gallery if anyone wants to see! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to dominate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take control, call the shots so I guess I'm dominant

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I submit to my other half.....most the time

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By *horshiperMan
over a year ago

London

I switch depends on the dynamic between two people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit of both but neither to excess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be dominated totally a natural sub-

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Very sub x

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By *iGuy4U10Man
over a year ago

plymouth devon

Sub love to submit to a fem or couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither really, do you have to be one or the other, can't you just be lovers on a level playing field."

Yes you can be equal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither I dont think maybe i should ask some of the people ive played with lol

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

I am a total sub to hubby he is always pushing the limit which is sometime unexpected He is in total control of my body and mind Not all the time only sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a total sub to hubby he is always pushing the limit which is sometime unexpected He is in total control of my body and mind Not all the time only sexually "

Lucky hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I like a man who takes the lead but not in a dominant way. I much prefer mutual enjoyment.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I love to dominate women but adore being dominated by a man...

Fem x

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