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By *max17 OP   Man
over a year ago

rainham

Just a question how many people had a woman say No to oral / Cunnilingus but don't mind giving it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Love Love to give - really don't enjoy receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't stand it "

But will happily give (to men )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand receiving, but love giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question how many people had a woman say No to oral / Cunnilingus but don't mind giving it? "

Both giving and receiving here!

Love a tongue deep in me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give and receive but we can't all like the same things life would be Boring

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like receiving either but I enjoy giving.

What I do find astonishing are the people that assume that all women like it.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Won't meet ladies who don't want it x

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Absolutely love giving and receiving mmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had women to that don't like to give oral, its easy. I just fuck them once as I want oral too lol

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Have only met one lady who hated it. Well until she had no choice then she got so wet and came so hard she screamed.

Still said she didn't like it afterwards. Has a lot to do with feeling unworthy and self esteem issues in her case. Feeling dirty and unattractive is a bit of a theme according to Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like receiving either but I enjoy giving.

What I do find astonishing are the people that assume that all women like it."

Yep, we all have different likes and dislikes. I like both giving and receiving. I've shocked people when I've told them I never received oral during my whole marriage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both, prefer giving if I'm honest but there's nothing better than a guy who knows how to give good oral

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have only met one lady who hated it. Well until she had no choice then she got so wet and came so hard she screamed.

Still said she didn't like it afterwards. Has a lot to do with feeling unworthy and self esteem issues in her case. Feeling dirty and unattractive is a bit of a theme according to Google"

Not here it isn't it's down to a strong, independent woman who is entirely happy with her whole body not liking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have only met one lady who hated it. Well until she had no choice then she got so wet and came so hard she screamed.

Still said she didn't like it afterwards. Has a lot to do with feeling unworthy and self esteem issues in her case. Feeling dirty and unattractive is a bit of a theme according to Google"

So she was forced to do something she didn't want to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet "

You obviously know what you're doing so

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet "

Why are you shocked given your user name?

Why are you shocked that women don't like something sexually?

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I've only had one woman dislike receiving,I've told her I can't understand why..... I think she's embarrassed because she gushes,I've tried reassuring her. I love giving more than receiving but that's only because most don't know what they're doing

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to receive it if they know what they are doing and also how they do it - I know usually if they enjoy doing it. If men don't enjoy oral best not to bother. Love giving oral too its a real turn on for me x

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"Love to receive it if they know what they are doing and also how they do it - I know usually if they enjoy doing it. If men don't enjoy oral best not to bother. Love giving oral too its a real turn on for me x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never had a woman refuse either way

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ... "

Bet the women you've met are thrilled to read that

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I used to not be bothered... Then someone skilled hit the spot....

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Not into giving or receiving

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ...

Bet the women you've met are thrilled to read that "

I am always honest and always will be. However the woman I have met were or was amazing it doesn't always have to be about me it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to not be bothered... Then someone skilled hit the spot...."

That's it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I say I don't like it and the guy says "That's because you haven't had me do it yet!!"

Ffs cringe

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When I say I don't like it and the guy says "That's because you haven't had me do it yet!!"

Ffs cringe "

lol, when men say they don't like a 12 inch long 8 inch round strap on up their arse and I say "that's because you haven't had me do it yet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving and receiving. I like a woman who likes it more than sex itself. I find more pleasure in giving and receiving oral and nice sex to finish off with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right guy it can be amazing. ...I love to give too. For me sex without any oral wouldn't be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question how many people had a woman say No to oral / Cunnilingus but don't mind giving it?

Both giving and receiving here!

Love a tongue deep in me... "

Same here and I love my tongue deep up there too hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ...

Bet the women you've met are thrilled to read that

I am always honest and always will be. However the woman I have met were or was amazing it doesn't always have to be about me it is what it is "

Oh is it?

Thanks....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right? "

OH I am sure of it...

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Have to be in the mood to give .... but love receiving, is that selfish of me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that bothered for oral, I just rarely get off from it. I get bored and fed up with guys are insistent that they can make me cum with oral and eventually just get so bored that I'm turned off completely...

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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

I don't mind oral receiving but def low on my list of turn ons! Bugs me how every single blokes writes 'I give good oral' zzz

I do however love giving oral! Have met some blokes who aren't into bjs..fair enough

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just a question how many people had a woman say No to oral / Cunnilingus but don't mind giving it? "

I'm one of those women

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

OH I am sure of it... "

well that's a queue I won't be joining, if a guy isn't enjoying what I'm doing and hasn't got the common sense to nicely guide me into doing it how he does enjoy it he has no one to blame but himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ... "

Is there something wrong with your cock??!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ...

Is there something wrong with your cock??!"

no just his discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much rather giving, yet to find a woman that does give a good one ...

Is there something wrong with your cock??!

no just his discretion"

You're not kidding.

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By *awsex99Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Why have you got oral on your list of preferences...!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right? "

I've said pretty often I've had 2 women give me amazing bjs one was off fab. Most women just go through the motions,I call em nodding donkeys. I didn't make the above comment so that I got any offers,not that I wouldn't like number 3 someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

I've said pretty often I've had 2 women give me amazing bjs one was off fab. Most women just go through the motions,I call em nodding donkeys. I didn't make the above comment so that I got any offers,not that I wouldn't like number 3 someday "

Nodding donkeys?

You charming man.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

I've said pretty often I've had 2 women give me amazing bjs one was off fab. Most women just go through the motions,I call em nodding donkeys. I didn't make the above comment so that I got any offers,not that I wouldn't like number 3 someday "

so why do you allow them to "go through the motions" as you so charmingly term it? Why not do yourself and them a favour and call a halt or show them how you like it done. How disrespectful to call the women you've met nodding donkeys.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why have you got oral on your list of preferences...!"

who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

I've said pretty often I've had 2 women give me amazing bjs one was off fab. Most women just go through the motions,I call em nodding donkeys. I didn't make the above comment so that I got any offers,not that I wouldn't like number 3 someday

Nodding donkeys?

You charming man."

Eeyore ways says that...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

I've said pretty often I've had 2 women give me amazing bjs one was off fab. Most women just go through the motions,I call em nodding donkeys. I didn't make the above comment so that I got any offers,not that I wouldn't like number 3 someday

Nodding donkeys?

You charming man.

Eeyore ways says that..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not overly keen,

Tommy however enjoys eating my pussy so I enjoy letting him, but it doesn't do much for me apart from the feeling of pleasing my man, I need hard cock/cocks

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Absolutely love giving and receiving mmmm. "

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I love receiving - it's the only way I can orgasm. I enjoy giving a BJ but not as much as I enjoy giving a hand-job. As the saying goes though, it's very much horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

I've said pretty often I've had 2 women give me amazing bjs one was off fab. Most women just go through the motions,I call em nodding donkeys. I didn't make the above comment so that I got any offers,not that I wouldn't like number 3 someday

so why do you allow them to "go through the motions" as you so charmingly term it? Why not do yourself and them a favour and call a halt or show them how you like it done. How disrespectful to call the women you've met nodding donkeys."

He must be hung like one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never wish to get into a public slagging match on social media - but there are some comments in this thread that make uncomfortable reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet

Why are you shocked given your user name?

Why are you shocked that women don't like something sexually?"

I guess it's just that the women I've met absolutely love it.

The whole kissing my way down her belly or up her thighs, teasing and kissing all around her groin before caressing her clit with my lips and

tongue, pushing my tongue inside her. It's just so sensual and horny.

As I say, I've yet to meet a woman on a site like fab that didn't want those feelings.

Each to their own, but, yes I am still shocked

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet

Why are you shocked given your user name?

Why are you shocked that women don't like something sexually?

I guess it's just that the women I've met absolutely love it.

The whole kissing my way down her belly or up her thighs, teasing and kissing all around her groin before caressing her clit with my lips and

tongue, pushing my tongue inside her. It's just so sensual and horny.

As I say, I've yet to meet a woman on a site like fab that didn't want those feelings.

Each to their own, but, yes I am still shocked "

Well you're allowed to be shocked . I guess given your user name you'd be drawn to ladies that do like it rather than those that don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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As I say, I've yet to meet a woman on a site like fab that didn't want those feelings.

Each to their own, but, yes I am still shocked "

Hai! You've just met one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it...both ways, rarely have sex without oral

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


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As I say, I've yet to meet a woman on a site like fab that didn't want those feelings.

Each to their own, but, yes I am still shocked

Hai! You've just met one. "

In the virtual sense he's met two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it so much! Not all are good at it, but then I'm not shy giving directions and feedback in order to get what I need to orgasm.

Love giving too, very empowering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love receiving so long as its don't well other wise its very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love giving oral to a women so would be a deal breaker for me if the women I was with didn't enjoy receiving.

Luckily I've never been told not to and have mostly been complimented on my technique *not that I'm showing off*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been with a Woman who said yes to oral but don't use any fingers

And another who said she never gives oral,

But both might of had bad experiences in the past

Love giving and receiving myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving and receiving....funnily never met a man who said no to a BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate it. Now I'm ok with it but I need a man to use fingers too or it bores me. Much rather just fingers used on me though if I'm honest.

Love giving oral though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

genuine question. Why do people think that women don't like receiving or giving oral because of bad experiences or low self esteem? Can't it be just because they don't like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"genuine question. Why do people think that women don't like receiving or giving oral because of bad experiences or low self esteem? Can't it be just because they don't like it?"

That's why I said "might of" like you said they might of not liked giving or receiving

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By *idsTonyMan
over a year ago

RUGBY

Had one meet where I was gently kissing my way down for some oral but was stopped and told no.

And also had a meet where after oral I was told I not to kiss her. Previously had been kissing the night away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"genuine question. Why do people think that women don't like receiving or giving oral because of bad experiences or low self esteem? Can't it be just because they don't like it?"

Because it doesn't feel good.

I don't have self esteem issues and I've never had a bad experience with oral. I just don't think it feels very nice and therefore I find it boring.

You could ask 'why doesn't everyone like a hard caning' - and the answer is because it doesn't feel very nice to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"genuine question. Why do people think that women don't like receiving or giving oral because of bad experiences or low self esteem? Can't it be just because they don't like it?"

Because some people think the sun shines out of their arse. And they are the best in the world at oral and can make women squirt and scream the world down yada yada yada.

They are wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shocked that some women don't like to receive oral, I haven't met one yet

Why are you shocked given your user name?

Why are you shocked that women don't like something sexually?

I guess it's just that the women I've met absolutely love it.

The whole kissing my way down her belly or up her thighs, teasing and kissing all around her groin before caressing her clit with my lips and

tongue, pushing my tongue inside her. It's just so sensual and horny.

As I say, I've yet to meet a woman on a site like fab that didn't want those feelings.

Each to their own, but, yes I am still shocked "

You're shocked? Why?

I don't like it either. It's crap.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Love Love Love to give - really don't enjoy receiving "

Thats strange, people usually like receiving oral but not giving...for me, i like it both ways...

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I can't stand it

But will happily give (to men ) "

Just curious to know why you dont like receiving oral???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bores the arse off me. Love sucking cock though

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I love both, prefer giving if I'm honest but there's nothing better than a guy who knows how to give good oral "

There is a special oral skill for guys aswell... Guys who dont like it might have recieved from an unskilled guy...

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"With the right guy it can be amazing. ...I love to give too. For me sex without any oral wouldn't be the same. "

I agree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here's me breathing through my ears!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a giver but I love to receive too

Can't beat a good 69"!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"genuine question. Why do people think that women don't like receiving or giving oral because of bad experiences or low self esteem? Can't it be just because they don't like it?

Because it doesn't feel good.

I don't have self esteem issues and I've never had a bad experience with oral. I just don't think it feels very nice and therefore I find it boring.

You could ask 'why doesn't everyone like a hard caning' - and the answer is because it doesn't feel very nice to everyone."

Yes thats what I'm saying. Why do people think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both too but depends if the person knows what they are doing with oral cos ive had some not so good ones and some OH GOD ones lol . Ive never had any complaints from men when it comes to giving oral but then i love to please. Ive come across a few men that dont and wont give oral but think the woman should give it to them. We all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stand receiving, but love giving"

I thought it was just me, so glad I'm not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been with a Woman who said yes to oral but don't use any fingers "

I find a lot of guys are to rough with fingers, I love a nice gentle finger Iinserted while a guys down on me but gentle being the key word, if a guy starts ramming I'll tell him to stop

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Just a question how many people had a woman say No to oral / Cunnilingus but don't mind giving it? "

Not fussed on receiving (prefer fingers) but love giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to give, hate to receive.

Never had a 'bad experience' with it, I just really don't like it.

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By *ikeDeltaMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Love giving oral to a woman and will gladly receive the same pleasure back

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"love to give, hate to receive.

Never had a 'bad experience' with it, I just really don't like it."

Yup! I've never had a bad experience with turnips I just don't like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never enjoyed it for years so I didn't do it.

Then met a new partner who could make me cum in under a minute and I've never looked back

Love giving too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on my hit list (receiving) .. doesnt make me cum BUT recently tried some new tongues. One was really nice. Always ok to try..you never know..someone might hit the spot but you guys need to back off a little and stop trying to make me squirt. Squirting doesnt give me an orgasm! Id rather be lubed and horny before you do that.

LOVE LOVE LUUURRRVVVE giving.

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES


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Yep, we all have different likes and dislikes. I like both giving and receiving. I've shocked people when I've told them I never received oral during my whole marriage! "

I was never received during my whole marriage either, despite my love of giving

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


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Yep, we all have different likes and dislikes. I like both giving and receiving. I've shocked people when I've told them I never received oral during my whole marriage!

I was never received during my whole marriage either, despite my love of giving"

Grounds for divorce ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving but receiving does nothing for me.

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

I don't really rate it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it so much! Not all are good at it, but then I'm not shy giving directions and feedback in order to get what I need to orgasm.

Love giving too, very empowering. "

Isn't that the secret, always establishing what works, paying attention to reactions and listening to the moans/sighs.

Even when you know where someone's buttons are, mood/circumstances etc can change their response, but I guess that's not just oral, part of what makes sex so exciting and so damn horny.

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By *awsex99Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it so much! Not all are good at it, but then I'm not shy giving directions and feedback in order to get what I need to orgasm.

Love giving too, very empowering.

Isn't that the secret, always establishing what works, paying attention to reactions and listening to the moans/sighs.

Even when you know where someone's buttons are, mood/circumstances etc can change their response, but I guess that's not just oral, part of what makes sex so exciting and so damn horny.

"

I do like it when you hit the right spot and she grabs your head pulls you in and holds you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate it too, felt really self conscious and it didn't do much for me (the person clearly wasn't very good at it).

I now love it, any and everyway. Especially receiving it doggy and facials x

Also love to give x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

"

I know it's your personal opinion but with respect you are wrong. I don't like it and it has nothing to do with the way its done, its simply because I don't like it.

I have had turnips cooked many different ways, I didn't like them before, still don't and if a Michelin starred chef cooked them I wouldn't.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had.......

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had....... "

I'm sure she'll be pleased to read that

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

"

Thats your opinion but its bullshit.. I have a nerve by my clit that causes my leg to twitch PAINFULLY so doesnt matter done right or not I dont like receiving at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my ... I love love love it ... Straddling a mans face ..... Oh I've never had a bed word said about my giving either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a personal thing I never liked receiving oral till I met my hubby and boy oh boy can he lick pussy after 37 years of not coming now I gush like crazee so love giving oral too love to get the cock so hard method in my madness the harder it is the better the feeling in my pussy , as I say each to there own but long live ORAL. Lol xx

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By *exynurse111Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

I know it's your personal opinion but with respect you are wrong. I don't like it and it has nothing to do with the way its done, its simply because I don't like it.

I have had turnips cooked many different ways, I didn't like them before, still don't and if a Michelin starred chef cooked them I wouldn't."

Lol very well put. I don't like it much either, nothing to do with how hubby does it because he's given women multiple orgasms through it. Just my choice. Oh I don't like receiving oral much either..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had.......

I'm sure she'll be pleased to read that "

My mentioning this in public isn't going to change her personal preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral provided the recipient is hygienic! I'd be gutted if I couldn't dine at the Y on a meet, love the warm slippery feeling on my tongue as her juices flow

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had.......

I'm sure she'll be pleased to read that

My mentioning this in public isn't going to change her personal preferences "

of course it isn't, I was referring to you saying it wasn't the best meet you've had. Its probably not very nice to read that about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody love it!!...especially when some sexy bloke is looking at me while inbetween my legs..hot!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It's a personal thing I never liked receiving oral till I met my hubby and boy oh boy can he lick pussy after 37 years of not coming now I gush like crazee so love giving oral too love to get the cock so hard method in my madness the harder it is the better the feeling in my pussy , as I say each to there own but long live ORAL. Lol xx "

Hear hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

I know it's your personal opinion but with respect you are wrong. I don't like it and it has nothing to do with the way its done, its simply because I don't like it.

I have had turnips cooked many different ways, I didn't like them before, still don't and if a Michelin starred chef cooked them I wouldn't."

I guess for those that love it (and presumably the subsequent orgasm) it can be difficult to understand those who don't enjoy oral. Especially when they've experienced poor technique vs the amazing.

I see what you're saying about turnips .... But even my most favourite food in the world has never given me an orgasm

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By *awsex99Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

Thats your opinion but its bullshit.. I have a nerve by my clit that causes my leg to twitch PAINFULLY so doesnt matter done right or not I dont like receiving at all "

would it be good oral if that particular nerve was avoided...?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

I know it's your personal opinion but with respect you are wrong. I don't like it and it has nothing to do with the way its done, its simply because I don't like it.

I have had turnips cooked many different ways, I didn't like them before, still don't and if a Michelin starred chef cooked them I wouldn't.

I guess for those that love it (and presumably the subsequent orgasm) it can be difficult to understand those who don't enjoy oral. Especially when they've experienced poor technique vs the amazing.

I see what you're saying about turnips .... But even my most favourite food in the world has never given me an orgasm "

Yea its just an analogy but I did eat a chocolate fondant once that I described as orgasmic.

My point really is that I struggle to understand why just because someone loves something they can't at least accept that other people don't, just because one person feels a sensation from something in a particular way doesn't mean another person will feel the same sensation. I find it a bit disrespectful and lacking in empathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had....... "

Discretion?!

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER


"my personal opinion is if you dont love receiving oral you havent had it done right...man or woman..

Thats your opinion but its bullshit.. I have a nerve by my clit that causes my leg to twitch PAINFULLY so doesnt matter done right or not I dont like receiving at all

would it be good oral if that particular nerve was avoided...?"

Nope cos its slap bang in the middle even i catch it sometimes when playing and it knocks me sick!

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By *awsex99Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant..."

Will you behave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bloody love it!!...especially when some sexy bloke is looking at me while inbetween my legs..hot!!"

Yes to this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I know a guy won't give me oral, then I won't give him a BJ. Ironically it doesn't bother me to receive... I just want willingness.

I'm happy to be face fucked

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By *awsex99Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant...

Will you behave? "

im genuinely curious..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant...

Will you behave?

im genuinely curious.."

It'll be different for everyone and I don't really see why anybody should explain or justify why they don't like something sexually.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had.......

Discretion?!"

No, she was quite open about what she didn't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had.......

Discretion?!

No, she was quite open about what she didn't like "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've met a woman from here who didn't like giving oral, but was happy to receive. She also didn't like to kiss. Wasn't the best meet I've had.......

Discretion?!

No, she was quite open about what she didn't like

"

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By *awsex99Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant...

Will you behave?

im genuinely curious..

It'll be different for everyone and I don't really see why anybody should explain or justify why they don't like something sexually. "

i would never expect anyone to justify..we are all entiltled to our preferences...however...as someone who is interested in sex...and on a sex site..i just assumed people posting on a forum about oral sex would be willing to be open about their responses..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant...

Will you behave?

im genuinely curious..

It'll be different for everyone and I don't really see why anybody should explain or justify why they don't like something sexually.

i would never expect anyone to justify..we are all entiltled to our preferences...however...as someone who is interested in sex...and on a sex site..i just assumed people posting on a forum about oral sex would be willing to be open about their responses.."

I am being open about not liking it but continually seeing it implied that I should either try it with someone who knows how to do it or that I lack self esteem or I am embarrassed by my body. I know you haven't said these things but your question suggests that you are willing to accept that people like it without question but not that people don't. I'm not being argumentative for its own sake just putting it as I see it.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Me. I was at a club at the weekend....had 2 men down there .....had to just say "mate, I'm never gonna cum"

Oral (for me) is a way to get me wet quickly and get some cock in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so do people not like it because it doesnt make them cum....or is it actually unpleasant...

Will you behave?

im genuinely curious..

It'll be different for everyone and I don't really see why anybody should explain or justify why they don't like something sexually.

i would never expect anyone to justify..we are all entiltled to our preferences...however...as someone who is interested in sex...and on a sex site..i just assumed people posting on a forum about oral sex would be willing to be open about their responses.."

Oh jeez, you've had openness, much more than I would ever be.

Live and let live. Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, for those that do, do you like to have your pussy snogged, do you like your clit licked hard or gentle or sucked, do you like having a tongue pushed inside you or a bit of everything. I like to gently tease at first, but every woman is certainly different in my experience, I love it all

C'mon, spill the beans

Oh a do you like to have your pussy spat on before being licked, not sure about that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill be honest here

some people i have met thought they was the dogs bollox at oral and bored me into the point of pushing them away!! and some people who thought they was shit was actually really good

personal i like to 70/30 me giving but thats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, for those that do, do you like to have your pussy snogged, do you like your clit licked hard or gentle or sucked, do you like having a tongue pushed inside you or a bit of everything. I like to gently tease at first, but every woman is certainly different in my experience, I love it all

C'mon, spill the beans

Oh a do you like to have your pussy spat on before being licked, not sure about that one.

"

I like a combination of fingers and then tongue and then fingers, then just bloody dive in and go crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it! Really depends who's doing it tho, it's a fine art that a lot don't seem to have conquered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used no physical force though. It was a choice and she took it."

I haven't met you in person but from chatting with you, you strike me as a gentleman!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N and I have been together for 34 years, our sexual communication is pretty good and I find it quite insulting that anyone would think that I don't enjoy oral because either he doesn't know how to do it right or I am incapable of guiding him.

If it's vital to you that a woman enjoys oral please feel free to pass us by

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

If you look at his profile, he does come across as Dom... In in my experience as a sub, a good Dom will know what is good for you and push your boundaries... It may be that it happened in a D/s environment.....

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"If you look at his profile, he does come across as Dom... In in my experience as a sub, a good Dom will know what is good for you and push your boundaries... It may be that it happened in a D/s environment....."

Sorry, I thought I had replied and quoted that response!! Hopefully you know what I am talking about here!!

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"Not into giving or receiving"

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


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Nicecouple561:not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right? "

I wouldn't say I've never had a good BJ but I've also had some pretty bad ones to. Men tend not to complain about these things. I guess even a bad one is better than non. But, men like women, have erotic areas and a lot of women just don't seem to know where they are. It's such a shame for both.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Have to be in the mood to give .... but love receiving, is that selfish of me?? "

Just a little but hey, you can probably get away with it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I love it! Really depends who's doing it tho, it's a fine art that a lot don't seem to have conquered!"

It helps to guide a guy who's 'not doing it right'. If he thinks you're enjoying what he's doing, he'll keep on doing it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Nicecouple561:not referring to anyone in this thread but do some men think that if they say they've never had a good blow job some ladies will offer to put that right?

I wouldn't say I've never had a good BJ but I've also had some pretty bad ones to. Men tend not to complain about these things. I guess even a bad one is better than non. But, men like women, have erotic areas and a lot of women just don't seem to know where they are. It's such a shame for both.

"

How will they ever know if you sit there enduring their ministrations? Women are not born knowing how to give blow jobs, there is no secret class when the boys are playing football.

If I was with a man and he was doing something I didn't enjoy or something I knew I could enjoy if done a little differently I hope I could help guide him towards a better way of doing it and vice versa.

What is wrong if we are on a site seeking no strings attached sex but not able to tell our partners how we like it?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and Im closing this now sorry

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