FabSwingers.com forum: No profile pic , no meet ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies I need some advice , Can you get me and others to change their mind .

Is it a rule that you must have a profile pic for any thoughts of entertaining a possible meet.

Are you less interested when you see a profile with no pic ?

Whats the most important factor to arranging a meet , looks , physique, the size of pete the penis ( sorry pete lmao ) or personality .

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Can't understand why someone can't have a profile pic....it doesn't have to be a face pic, and preferably (in my opinion, not a cock pic either)....a nice chest pic/ shoulder pic/ bum pic would do. Of course there should always be a face pic to be kept private if you want, but available to send with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, ok a 6 pack helps, rugged good looks won't do you any harm but Personality can be the deal maker.

No pic no interest here, we won't even talk about meeting until we see pics (of both when it comes to couples)

A full body pic, clothed, semi clothed, naked with face blurred or blacked out seems to be acceptable with a face pic in private galleries to be sent when you feel comfortable enough to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a single man and one of many in this huge shop window, just guess which one are we going to choose from. Why don't you upload private pics and attach to messages?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If you don't have a pic, how can I possibly know whether I want to meet you or not??

As the others have said, have you seen the ratio of single guys on here???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't understand why someone can't have a profile pic....it doesn't have to be a face pic, and preferably (in my opinion, not a cock pic either)....a nice chest pic/ shoulder pic/ bum pic would do. Of course there should always be a face pic to be kept private if you want, but available to send with messages."

I have a private face pic. But no profile pic. I was once approached in my kids school playground by someone when I had a face pic up (on another site) that is the reason I dont have a profile pic be it a face one or other wise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're a single man and one of many in this huge shop window, just guess which one are we going to choose from. Why don't you upload private pics and attach to messages?"

I always send a pic with a message. Even I know I would have absolute zilch chance if I did nt do that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally we dont even reply to those that do not have a profile pic and delete those that invite us into their friends list where they only have a cock or pussy pic..I think all members should have at least a face pic in their private gallery after all they can choose who they wish to view it and can always remove those they dont

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

the question u should be asking is how is not having profile pics working for you ??? if your getting plenty of meets then obviously its not an issue and the post is a mute point ! if however youre not ...... well sure u can work it out!! .

yes suppling a pic when your messaging ppl is fine and they can see who u are . what about wanting ppl to message you though ? speaking from female point of view why would i message a profile with no pics on it( doesnt have to be face as ppl have said ) ??

your profile is ur introduction to ppl and the pics are basically the window dressing to get ppl to stop and read further about u . so if youre wanting meets and to stand out from the crowd on here why wouldnt you use pics ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a pulse

and hopefully a pulse at the end of the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your choice, but deffo affect your outcomes. :-I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic = blocked even if you have private face pics just add to message

*sits on coffin*

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Ladies I need some advice , Can you get me and others to change their mind .

Is it a rule that you must have a profile pic for any thoughts of entertaining a possible meet.

Are you less interested when you see a profile with no pic ?

Whats the most important factor to arranging a meet , looks , physique, the size of pete the penis ( sorry pete lmao ) or personality .

It is not a rule no, but everyone can decide what will attract them to a profile.

Most people won't meet anyone without seeing them first and although we like to show and see face on cam rather than a pic, it is still good to have some sort of picture on the profile.

We look for NSA sex, so attraction has to be a big part of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at profiles without any photos at all definately puts me off. It's not that looks or appearance are a huge showstopper with me but I just feel alot more comfortable chatting with someone when I have an idea of what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I might have to put my six pack infront of the cam , good idea .

Six pack . Not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was new on site like this i did meet 2 couples no pics as thay said there work , my god never again , lol no pics no date xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shits on coffin with goth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry SITS

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

omg sorry but had to giggle there !!! wheni first read message i though well thats abit forward !!! tehe!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol well one was in Law ... his wife was in local school ,, and yes i could see why thay maybe hiding .. but it put me of meeting people with out pics ,

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

ur quite right not to meet with out seeing a pic or person on cam . saves alsorts of issues !!!

the forward i refered to was the message above with the guy wrote wrote shits on goths coffin ..pmsl !!! omg what a great type o love it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it this way, If the Auto trader has 2 1972 Morris Marinas for sale both for 300 quid, one has a photo and the other has no photo - which Morris Marina would you show more interest in ???

Ok maybe it was an Austin Allegro, but the same principle applies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pic = blocked even if you have private face pics just add to message

*sits on coffin*"

Ooooh, your starting to sound just like Jed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is unlikely for me to engage a conversation with any gent who does not have a profile pic, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unanimously , a six pack coming up.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unanimously , a six pack coming up.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably hard enough for single guys with great profiles and pic's to get a meet on here.

Any single guy without pic's is surely pissing against the wind!

You won't do yourself any favours as a single male silhouette in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you ladies for all your comments , me and I hope fellow males have taken note .

However , there was a third part to my original thread which not many have commented on .

Looks , physique , pete the penis (sorry again pete lol) or personality and if i could throw one more into it colour ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you ladies for all your comments , me and I hope fellow males have taken note .

However , there was a third part to my original thread which not many have commented on .

Looks , physique , pete the penis (sorry again pete lol) or personality and if i could throw one more into it colour ?

When we look to meet someone it's looks that attract first naturally.

Then after contact we gauge personality,doesn't matter how hot they look if they have a crap personality it's no go,but the opposite is also true.

Colour doesn't matter,nor does cock size,as long as it gets hard.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

I'm a single bloke and EVEN I would not meet a female if I had not seen a face pic.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won’t chat or start to arrange a meet if there isn’t at least a face

Pic,, as me are not going to meet someone without knowing least what they

Look like, saying that it is nice if its resent not taken 15 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"........

Are you less interested when you see a profile with no pic ? yes

Whats the most important factor to arranging a meet , looks ... first impressions count ,

physique .. yes if yer tum sticks out more than yer shaft or tits it could be a problem

the size of pete the penis, no as long as it works and even then touch, play techniques and toys can overcome this

or personality, yes very important too cant have fun with boring people

hope this addresses the issues appropriately for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies I need some advice , Can you get me and others to change their mind .

Is it a rule that you must have a profile pic for any thoughts of entertaining a possible meet.

Are you less interested when you see a profile with no pic ?

Whats the most important factor to arranging a meet , looks , physique, the size of pete the penis ( sorry pete lmao ) or personality .

If you dont have a face pic on your profile, thats fine for us.

If you don't send one within 2 mails, no meet.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Ladies I need some advice , Can you get me and others to change their mind .

Is it a rule that you must have a profile pic for any thoughts of entertaining a possible meet.

Are you less interested when you see a profile with no pic ?

Whats the most important factor to arranging a meet , looks , physique, the size of pete the penis ( sorry pete lmao ) or personality .

there preference, there rules... so if they want to see a pic and you don't have one... you can move along to the next profile...

for example... I have face pics.... if they demand to see a cock pic, then I know to move onto the next profile...... simples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for example... I have face pics.... if they demand to see a cock pic, then I know to move onto the next profile...... simples..."

That's quite interesting, so you don't think it's ok to ask for cock shots (even after a face pic etc etc)?

Must admit, we've never thought about it, but then also never heard that POV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there should be a face pic at least in the private gallery, that allows you to send it to people you wish.

I wouldn't talk, let alone arrange a meet with someone without a face pic, and offering to send me a photo via msn/mobile is not an option either.

I've only done that once and couldn't get the pest to stop texting me after I decided not to meet him!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

for example... I have face pics.... if they demand to see a cock pic, then I know to move onto the next profile...... simples...

That's quite interesting, so you don't think it's ok to ask for cock shots (even after a face pic etc etc)?

Must admit, we've never thought about it, but then also never heard that POV."

depends on how far people what to go for a meet..

for me I can see why you would want to see a picture of a face for obvious reasons but don't see why a picture of a cock is some kind of dealbreaker...

that would be like me demanding to see boob/bum/pussy pics........ and when you put it like that doesn't it sound funny???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there should be a face pic at least in the private gallery, that allows you to send it to people you wish.

I wouldn't talk, let alone arrange a meet with someone without a face pic, and offering to send me a photo via msn/mobile is not an option either.

total agreement

I've only done that once and couldn't get the pest to stop texting me after I decided not to meet him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only arrange meets after seeing a face pic.....

I like to see who I'm talking to

And those who say dont have a face pic is bull !!!!

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By *e2youWoman
over a year ago

Rainham

Always frustrates the hell out of me, when in chat, the person with no profile picture becomes quite rude when I decline their offer to move over onto MSN to see a picture.

To me, if they have pictures on MSN, then why not upload them into their private gallery?

A profile picture does not have to be a face shot, or anything that can be recognised by anyone who knows you, but to leave it blank is, IMO, lazy. And telling me to move onto MSN to view pictures is just rude.

Perhaps something should be written into the setting up of profiles, no picture, no profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will only arrange meets after seeing a face pic.....

I like to see who I'm talking to

And those who say dont have a face pic is bull !!!!

yeah tell it like it is horny minx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always frustrates the hell out of me, when in chat, the person with no profile picture becomes quite rude when I decline their offer to move over onto MSN to see a picture.

To me, if they have pictures on MSN, then why not upload them into their private gallery?

Perhaps something should be written into the setting up of profiles, no picture, no profile

To me, asking to move to MSN, is a sign that that person/s has selfish tendencies

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By *e2youWoman
over a year ago

Rainham

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By *e2youWoman
over a year ago

Rainham

oopsie... gosh you were quick! lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pic = blocked even if you have private face pics just add to message

*sits on coffin*

Ooooh, your starting to sound just like Jed

Well you brought me up first in your previous post "comparing old cars" a bit like choosing to meet someone without pics or viewing my pics for a meet, oh hang on that analagy doesn't work as most women would prefer to meet someone they haven't seen than this old allegro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me I can see why you would want to see a picture of a face for obvious reasons but don't see why a picture of a cock is some kind of dealbreaker...

that would be like me demanding to see boob/bum/pussy pics........ and when you put it like that doesn't it sound funny???"

Yeah I guess that's true enough, just never occured to us. To be fair, we've never asked for a cock shot but also to be fair, we've never met anyone who didn't have one!

Also, most guys have ask something along the lines of "any good shots or her naked / etc" before we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, now to put the cat among the pigeons (I like pigeons but you have to keep the numbers down somehow)

How many of those reading this thread (especially those advocating pictures in private of public galleries and not on MSN or none existant) are couples who do NOT have pictures of thier partner in thier profile, ie couple = 2 people to meet

9 out of 10 couples who try Kit Kat (the 2 finger one) I mean 9 out of 10 couples who contact us only have a picture of the female ?

go on - own up

Hastens to add we have about 50 pics of Sasha and about 5 of me on our public photos. *sits smugly on top of a certain coffin waiting for the muffled cries of "let me comment let me comment" .... giggles

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It has on my profile that i dont respond to people without pictures on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, now to put the cat among the pigeons (I like pigeons but you have to keep the numbers down somehow)

9 out of 10 couples who try Kit Kat (the 2 finger one) I mean 9 out of 10 couples who contact us only have a picture of the female ?

go on - own up

Looks at profile pic.

/phew

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"You're a single man and one of many in this huge shop window, just guess which one are we going to choose from. Why don't you upload private pics and attach to messages?

I always send a pic with a message. Even I know I would have absolute zilch chance if I did nt do that ."

Just got to this post and stopped - will read more in a minute - how can you send a pic with a message - you haven't got any! Confused! Z

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

"Look at it this way, If the Auto trader has 2 1972 Morris Marinas for sale both for 300 quid, one has a photo and the other has no photo - which Morris Marina would you show more interest in ???

Ok maybe it was an Austin Allegro, but the same principle applies

we judge the 'old bangers' on here in the same way lmao

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"You're a single man and one of many in this huge shop window, just guess which one are we going to choose from. Why don't you upload private pics and attach to messages?

I always send a pic with a message. Even I know I would have absolute zilch chance if I did nt do that .

Just got to this post and stopped - will read more in a minute - how can you send a pic with a message - you haven't got any! Confused! Z"

You can have pics set to private only and they don't show on your profile at all but you can send them in mail.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"You're a single man and one of many in this huge shop window, just guess which one are we going to choose from. Why don't you upload private pics and attach to messages?

I always send a pic with a message. Even I know I would have absolute zilch chance if I did nt do that .

Just got to this post and stopped - will read more in a minute - how can you send a pic with a message - you haven't got any! Confused! Z

You can have pics set to private only and they don't show on your profile at all but you can send them in mail."

Ah! I see! Thanks, Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for example... I have face pics.... if they demand to see a cock pic, then I know to move onto the next profile...... simples...

That's quite interesting, so you don't think it's ok to ask for cock shots (even after a face pic etc etc)?

Must admit, we've never thought about it, but then also never heard that POV.

depends on how far people what to go for a meet..

for me I can see why you would want to see a picture of a face for obvious reasons but don't see why a picture of a cock is some kind of dealbreaker...

that would be like me demanding to see boob/bum/pussy pics........ and when you put it like that doesn't it sound funny???"

Couldnt agree more with you Fabio your spot on, its surprising how many people demand a cock pic though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shits on coffin with goth"
.... ioooo !!!

Slap !!

* pick up coffin * n run off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry SITS"
oh sits phewww

* sit on coffin *

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