FabSwingers.com forum: How far?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've been wondering how far people would travel for a meet? Initially for the first time and then if you were established friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to Scotland knew her for a couple of years chatting and she didn't turn up

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

If I have never met them before, half hour tops each way. I have travelled four hours to meet someone I had met before. Shamefully, it was only a two hour journey but I got a little bit lost.....

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Most far I travelled was to Hull from Manchester for first social meet. We've been constantly chatting a couple of month then finally met.

It was worth waiting and worth travelling even just a couple of hours meet over a coffee. This is it. We still in contact time to time and we are still good friend (without benefits)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most far I travelled was to Hull from Manchester for first social meet. We've been constantly chatting a couple of month then finally met.

It was worth waiting and worth travelling even just a couple of hours meet over a coffee. This is it. We still in contact time to time and we are still good friend (without benefits)

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jesus no benifits? That's obviously your choice as if it was his then he must be mad your bloody stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being where we live, we often travel for meets, but if overnight stay the furthest we would travel is 2 hours by car x

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By *mmuneSabreMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I travelled 2 hours to Birmingham for my very first meet. It was amazing

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

A few hours, we prefer to meet

"out of towners".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour is the furthest that I have travelled, would probably say 2 hours tops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only stay local for my first meet, I don't drive so im really not willing to be sitting on trains for hours on the off chance of liking someone only to have to get back on and wait around on trains stations an hour late if we don't

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

ive had a few that have come nearly a 100 miles ..no idea why anyone would travel that far but i was flattered and tried to make it worth their while

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By *horshiperMan
over a year ago

London

If I really liked the person and there was a connection I would drive the length of the country

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York

Initially for a first meet to socialise and chat and get to know each other if it was over 100 miles for me then i would hope to meet half way, so around 200 miles, but then if we've spent time chatting here and get on great, then i don't really see distance as an obstacle, although if i drove 4 hours for a social meet and they never showed up i would pretty pissed off to say the least

And anyone who travels to me, if they come a fair distance and we don't click, there is still a bed for the night, i would be able to cope if someone spent hours driving to me, and then was in an accident on their way home due to tiredness.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

used to regularly travel to london from manchester, however, I have gone as far as bedford, wales, SW coast and NE for meets - just depends.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

It would depend on the chemistry and the type of meet planned. I've said it b4 I and women have travelled 2000+ miles NON were a disappointment. The only disappointment I can recall was when I travelled to Wrexham to meet someone,she turned up and we did click...... But we didn't have fun and do the things we'd discussed

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York

"used to regularly travel to london from manchester, however, I have gone as far as bedford, wales, SW coast and NE for meets - just depends. "

a few years ago, i rode 150 miles on my Motorbike for a meet in deepest darkest February, the other person however, was replying to my texts each time i stopped at services to warm up my hands and feet, but on arrival at the destination the replies stopped

now, being very very cold i wandered around town in and out of shops for a while, still texting and getting no answer, and with darkness setting in, the heavens opened and so my long ride home saw me get soaked down to the skin and so cold that when i stopped for fuel i couldn't get my gloves off, and when i needed the loo after frantically struggling to get my gloves off, and finally succeeding, my hands were so numb i then couldn't get any buttons or zips undone, the only good thing to come out of the next few moments was the fact my lower region warmed up rapidly, if only for about 15 minutes.

when i got home i was very pissed off and decided to start taking driving lessons for the car!

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

If it is a very long way away I would normally suggest meeting halfway and getting a hotel room together....

A nice coffee or drink in the bar then off to the room for delightful fun!

And whenever I go for a meet......

always have a "Plan B" so that if things dont work out, your day has not been last, you still end up having a good day.

I always have my dancing shoes with me in the car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to meet a nurse in Florida last year but she bottled it god I have some sexy vids from her

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to travel from Cheshire to Northampton for a woman to wee on me well worth it.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I have traveled from north of scotland to liverpool to meet - but combined it with football.

I've also had someone who used to regularly travel over 150miles to meet me.

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"jesus no benifits? That's obviously your choice as if it was his then he must be mad your bloody stunning xx"

No, it's his choice. I still waiting for the day he changes his mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled over 100 miles before. Obviously that's to meet someone I knew was 100% genuine. Usually for first meets I keep it fairly local. That way if I'm let down I've not wasted fuel, money, breath etc.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

I have no problem traveling if the chemistry is right. Arranged to meet someone in Scotland and then no communication until the day we were supposed to meet, suddenly I get a message - I take it you are not coming - to which I said yes.

No rapport, effort, chemistry so why would I make the effort

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Max of half an hour for a first social (that's about 15 miles on our roads

)...people I've met before, I'll travel a bit further or invite them to mine. Fortunately, I travel a bit anyway for clubs, socials and the occasional work trip so I'm always able to find someone to pass a bit of time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have much choice but to travel living where I do. The nearest city is over and hour and a half away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have much choice but to travel living where I do. The nearest city is over and hour and a half away

Come on stop moaning..there's everything you need there like ermm mmm ...ice cream on the harbour ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have much choice but to travel living where I do. The nearest city is over and hour and a half away

Come on stop moaning..there's everything you need there like ermm mmm ...ice cream on the harbour ?

Exactly, but I need to work of all those ice creams somehow you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel an hour for a social meet and further for a proper meet. I love driving so a few hours in the car doesn't bother me at all xxx

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I don't have much choice but to travel living where I do. The nearest city is over and hour and a half away

Me too...Penrith is an hour and a half, Carlisle 2 hours...I tend to got to Blackpool and Manchester which are 90 mins to 2 hours...fortunately, I can also occasionally lure victims to mine, but they need lots of TLC after braving the roads to Arse End

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

London to Preston.

Very much worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hour is the furthest I've travelled so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have much choice but to travel living where I do. The nearest city is over and hour and a half away

Ha ha sounds like the roads to Arse End are very similar to those round here. I've managed to lure a few victims to the coast too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd either drive or take the train up. Distance wise I say 100 miles or more depending on the person and how long we've chatted and if I'm driving probably 1hr 30 or so.

Like I say all depends on the person tho.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

From near Blackpool..... To Potters Bar, south Mimms and Essex.... Wasn't really for a pacific meet.. But for Socials...but had a great time while there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gloucester to Stockton on Tees is the furthest I've travelled I think

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By *ananaPieCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Most we would travel for a first meet would be about 30min or so. If it was people we knew then distance is not an issue. Only the time off work lol. Most we have been was from Bracknell up to Bradford to meet some friends for a weekend of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been wondering how far people would travel for a meet? Initially for the first time and then if you were established friends?"

First meet, 20 miles, good friend, ends of the earth, providing I've got the petrol that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a new meet it would be up to an hour away.

A couple of years ago I was having an affair with a woman from the North East and we used to meet in Leeds once or twice a month.

That went on for 12 months.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"We've been wondering how far people would travel for a meet? Initially for the first time and then if you were established friends?

First meet, 20 miles, good friend, ends of the earth, providing I've got the petrol that is "

I'll lend you 20 quid, pop up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely go south of the river, certainly not after midnight!

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

First social meet is always a 5 min drive from me, on the basis that if we get on and have play meets, it will be me doing the driving to his from then on.

Won't drive more than 30mins to anyones and luckily with all the great gents up my way I don't have to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 miles radius - Have done further but not the norm for us

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