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"Depends really, if the other woman gave great oral to get hard. " helpful as ever shag | |||
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"Depends really, if the other woman gave great oral to get hard. helpful as ever shag " lol I know thanks, it plays a big factor tho | |||
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"Ps chellesterfem is this why he is the ex? !" Not really. I was very very understanding. I felt mortified for both him and them and did everything I could to try and help. He always thought swinging was wrong somehow so I think it just wasn't for him. He loved the fantasy but the reality was v different. Swinging did split us up tho but only cos he couldn't handle me fucking women. | |||
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"We have recently introduced a couple we know to the lifestyle after they expressed great interest in dipping their toes in. We have had 2 meets. Very very relaxed , flirty, fun, chilled. Really great. The only thing is that the male of the other couple can't get hard with my partner. He can fuck his own partner no problem though. I think it got to him after the second meeting last night and we both really felt for him. I told him it's normal and takes time to adjust. Any advice that anyone can give or has experienced themselves? X" I haven't read the other posts fully but it sounds to me rather like a take on the whole Madonna/whore thing...your wife was previously off limits, he could fancy her like hell, fantasise about her if he liked but social norms and his respect for your friendship dictated that he couldn't touch...now that has all changed. he's got absolute permission to touch her and consciously, he wants to...who wouldn't? But sub-consciously, his mind still has a big "no touch" sign... perhaps, if they're interested in fully embracing the lifestyle, they should see how he does with people with whom they don't have such an intimate non sexual relationship and then pick it back up again when he's feeling more confident? If it keeps happening with you, it could form a psychological block not only for other people but also start to affect him with his own partner... | |||
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"I'm getting the vibe that there's a little guilt or something nagging away behind this. Or perhaps he's still a bit unsure about it. These issues may emerge over time. Until then however you may want to try mixing things up a little... try letting him engage in intimacy with his wife whilst he has sex with you. Maybe let his wife ride your butt whilst you are in doggy position. He can then kiss and enjoy his wife, whilst fucking you. Alternatively, why don't you both seduce him, his wife sitting on his face, while you suck him hard and jump on him. Get creative. I'm sure there are all kinds of ways in which you can entice him into arousal via interaction with his wife and then take over from there. He will either enjoy it or those feelings of uncertainty or guilt will grow stronger... who knows? Good luck! Sounds lovely just thinking about it " This sounds perfect, and the kind of fun I love to share! | |||
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"Hmm Ok umm he isn't quite 'free' yet. Thinking about it now, this could be the problem...emotionally maybe he just isn't in the mind set to engage fully." Have you visited a club? Maybe go as a foursome, meet some other people, build up the horniness, then get a private room once you're all in the zone? | |||
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