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Why show some veris but not others?

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By *tlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

I absolutely respect that people can do whatever they like with their profiles so this is just a genuine curiosity thing...why do people show veris from some meets but not others?

(I understand the who straight guys with TV etc so don't mean that)

Opinions? Guesses?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Users have left site so their veris go. You pop on cam one night and wake up to 3 or 4 veris all saying pretty much the same thing. Some are a few years old and might not reflect what you're into/looking for now. Many reasons. The summary stays the same regardless of whether or not they're displayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show the bad ones, I am not one for boasting about my awesomeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have veris I don't show, some are because the same people have left me several so I only show one or two from that person, some I just don't put on because I don't see that person anymore or we don't chat anymore, I don't think everyone needs to see every single meet I've had, that's just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some veris are really specific and in turn you'll have people messaging you expecting you to do what it says you've done in your veris, which isn't always going to happen so it's easier to leave those one hidden, does that make sense??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people verify us again which is unnecessary but then we tend to display the more recent one...some while positive, can be a little too graphic for us to feel happy displaying, after all, they're a tool to verify someone is genuine not a performance review...

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By *tlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

I know I shouldn't care (and it isn't keeping me awake at night) but i gave someone a veri and he didn't show it (fair enough) but he is showing ones since. .now I think he must be bit embarrassed about meeting us...In which case he can forget the next meet he is asking for!

(Ooo could analyse fab all day long!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I showed them all people would think I was a right slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, we don't tend to show our veris from single men as that's not what we're looking for but have met at parties and socials and even gone outside of our preferences(shocker I know), but when we then get messages from single men and we turn them down because we're not looking for them, then we get the arguing that we do because we have veris from them...*yawn* it's just not worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I shouldn't care (and it isn't keeping me awake at night) but i gave someone a veri and he didn't show it (fair enough) but he is showing ones since. .now I think he must be bit embarrassed about meeting us...In which case he can forget the next meet he is asking for!

(Ooo could analyse fab all day long!) "

That would irk me too.......

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Not all of my veris are available to show, the user has since left the site.

And sometimes you get a double, maybe they pressed the send button twice I dunno. It counts a 2 veris but are identical.

Or they left a particularly graphic one, I personally dislike those that go into full on detail

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Some of our veris are from arranged dogging meets with other couples,and mention the actual location, which we don't want to disclose in public, sure other have reasons very similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show any....just easier that way.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I have lost some to UNLOS, and will not display if they are too graphic or badly written. And I definitely won't display if I wouldn't be willing to to meet again, because they deceived me or something.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We don't show ours, we don't want people knowing how fat, rude n disrespectful we are

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I show some but I do have a lot of repeat meets, in that case I will just show one from them. Some of them I don't show simply because I think people are only interested in a few and I don't want to list every person I have been with......

I have left veris for a couple of people who do not show them but they would show up on their summary and are always available should the decide to show.

It doesn't bother me if others decide not to show them, people run their profiles the way they choose which is cool with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some veris are really specific and in turn you'll have people messaging you expecting you to do what it says you've done in your veris, which isn't always going to happen so it's easier to leave those one hidden, does that make sense??! "

Yep totally agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some people don't want to show how many due to potential labelling etc too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my first veri now out of respect to the lady and the fact both she and I are in a different place to where we were at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I absolutely respect that people can do whatever they like with their profiles so this is just a genuine curiosity thing...why do people show veris from some meets but not others?

(I understand the who straight guys with TV etc so don't mean that)

Opinions? Guesses?"

Ashamed, didn't like the veri, didn't like the meet, didn't like the people. Or, if like us, it's just that we think showing one veri is enough to prove we're real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I shouldn't care (and it isn't keeping me awake at night) but i gave someone a veri and he didn't show it (fair enough) but he is showing ones since. .now I think he must be bit embarrassed about meeting us...In which case he can forget the next meet he is asking for!

(Ooo could analyse fab all day long!) "

I know some people do this because they want to keep you to themselves, or think you might get trouble from other people on this site (for whatever reason).

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