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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what i would say though from your post if your not happy with partner talking on msn arrainging meets ect and giving out your number then this should be boundery set right up frount . either he just messages through here where you can see all the messages or you can take alil more interest and go on msn and look at message history then youd know exactly what was disacussed so surprises or "in " jokes . if you swing together you gotta communicate together "
What is it really is that I prefer to chat face to face, I am quite an outgoing person and I dont find that particularly difficult. My guy is quieter than me so he doesnt mind chatting via msn.
He doesnt set up meets via msn (sorry i really didnt make that clear on my initial post did I), the meets are set up via message on here. if someone asks us to meet he will message, and then he asks me to message them too so they have had a chance to talk to the both of us, but if they then give him their msn address, he offers his in return and will add them and talk to them prior to the meet and then he deletes them off there. I just cant see the point in constantly adding and deleting people.
He never gives my telephone number out, he gives his own out on the day before prior to a meet etc, and noone has ever phoned or messaged him, its just for emergencies in case they cant find their way to chams etc. But again after a meet he just deletes it, I cant see the point in it.
He likes me to talk to people if he has spoken to them (a) to verify we are a couple and (b) to ensure that I like them too but I just think if we meet in Chams anyway, its not as if we have to play or have to stay with them all night, its easy to extract yourself out of a situation if you are not comfortable in it.
the 2 meets we have had have been successful and its been ok, and ive been ok, i havent overly felt left out, just that i am aware the two guys have been talking previously and some things are said that i havent had knowledge about, its almost like the guys have already bonded and i have to catch up to their level, which is a good thing in a way. My guy does say to me, log into msn and see if the lady is on from that couple so you can chat, but im tired after a days work and i dont want him or them to think im being miserable or anything, just ill click with them on the night if its right. The communication together is absolutely spot on, you're right.
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as if ive got the time!!!!