you see a profile that looks interesting you send a nice message paying attention to there likes and dislikes. There reply is a nasty cheap shot at you saying your not this that or the other and make you feel like crap. Why do they do this does it make them tough or clever I don't think so and no diss to couples but it usually comes from them but I'd think most of the time the woman will know nothing of it. Just the guy trying to be dominant. So why be on in the 1st place!!!