FabSwingers.com forum: friends list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

seeing a massive friends list on the profile, does it put you off at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not at all

i do wonder how they can all keep in touch though

i tend to clear mine out quite a bit - but then im a tidy freak apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does especially if they are unverified and if they have been on their a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me question it, if there's no veri's also then yes it does.

Unless there's boobies in the pics then I forget the long list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you wonder if they are real or not

if you chat & sus them to be actual earthly beings you also wonder how err selective they are lol - even as a single bloke I do have standards & expectations lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me question it, if there's no veri's also then yes it does.

Unless there's boobies in the pics then I forget the long list.

boobies or just tits hahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does make us wonder and yes if they are unverified and have been on a while it doesnt take sherlock holmes to work out whats going on lol

Although we never turn people down if they want to see our private pics and then find they dont want to speak so we have to sort through our friends regularly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im still tryin to suss it out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me question it, if there's no veri's also then yes it does.

Unless there's boobies in the pics then I forget the long list.

boobies or just tits hahahahahahaha

Either, if both then I forget what a friends list is.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

a little if there not verifide and have a whole page full of freinds. its eatch to there own though I only add people when we have spoken over message or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine, so that no one knows if I am a billy no mate!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Same as most of the posts above for me.

Raises a question when they have a long long list of friends but they have never met any of them, even socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seeing a massive friends list on the profile, does it put you off at all?

I never scroll that far. All I'm interested in is what they write and their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, a little, especially if they have no pics: says pic collector to me.

I don't really sweat it too much though: we live in an age of social networking where having a zillion friends is the norm.

Some people see it as an extension of that so no hidden agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me question it, if there's no veri's also then yes it does.

Unless there's boobies in the pics then I forget the long list.

pmsl

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Same as the others, id be dubious if they had a massive list of friends and no verifications. I have friends on my list but hardly use it, my friends know who they are and i know who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what gets me is when people send friends requests when i have'nt even spoke or emailed with them. Only got friends list who I actually speak to or meet.

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By *weetieCouple
over a year ago

hayes, middx

same here shaz, i have even put it on my profile, will only put friends on my list that are, friends !! still dont stop them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it puts me off, especially those asking about meeting, been on here a year, no validations but huge friends list.

We personally don't use the friends list, we use the HOTLIST to keep track of people we have met, friends and people we are interested in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no not at all

i do wonder how they can all keep in touch though

i tend to clear mine out quite a bit - but then im a tidy freak apparently

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yeah we know

* gets bk in coffin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah puts us off make us think maybe pic collector hmmmmmm

*gets bk in coffin*

yawnzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanna pic to put inside the lid of your coffin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah puts us off make us think maybe pic collector hmmmmmm

*gets bk in coffin*

yawnzzzzzzzzzz"

your coffin must be really tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanna pic to put inside the lid of your coffin

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... No point couldn't see it anyway it's to dark

*sits on coffin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanna pic to put inside the lid of your coffin

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... Or we could just peek @ your pics on your profile

* is sat on coffin smiling *

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Wanna pic to put inside the lid of your coffin

... Or we could just peek @ your pics on your profile

* is sat on coffin smiling *

Can you take the lid off, turn it upside down and sit on the cushioned bit for extra comfort?

*questions you never imagined you'd ask*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanna pic to put inside the lid of your coffin

... Or we could just peek @ your pics on your profile

* is sat on coffin smiling *

I was more thinking of a luminous picture of Lestat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt put us off but we do wonder why people have a large friends list we only usually add those that we are planning to meet with or have met up and have a clean up every cpl of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanna pic to put inside the lid of your coffin

... Or we could just peek @ your pics on your profile

* is sat on coffin smiling *

I was more thinking of a luminous picture of Lestat

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well

*sits on coffin *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not at all.most ppl ask to be on list to look at pics........ we keep ours short xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel special if I'm on a short friends list

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By *ensualguy10Man
over a year ago

north yorkshire

Trouble with friends list are that most of the peeps haven't even met them so how can they be friends?.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Trouble with friends list are that most of the peeps haven't even met them so how can they be friends?. "

That's a very sweeping statement, and is incorrect when applied to me.

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By *ensualguy10Man
over a year ago

north yorkshire

I have counted as many as 80 or 90 friends so are you saying that they have met them all! Don't think so! Just because you have doesn't mean that they all have|!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it puts me off alittle as does endles verifs- surely a few just to show you're genuine is sufficient..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot like facebook then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are really going to have to paintshop a pic of you sitting on a coffin.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"what gets me is when people send friends requests when i have'nt even spoke or emailed with them. Only got friends list who I actually speak to or meet."

hear hear!

like others It does make me wonder about some when they have a huge friends list, no pics themselves etc - though it does make it easier to see which ones to give a wide berth lol

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