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"To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying " I always pick guys of my choice...without paying lol | |||
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"To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying I always pick guys of my choice...without paying lol" my sights are to high all the guys i like turn me down down side to being a ugly twat I guess but if you were paying you wouldn't have that problem as escorts don't meet you based on looks that's all I ment | |||
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"Yes. It cost me my house. Half my pension. Weekend visiting rights and my car. " Know how you feel mate | |||
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"I would if I could afford it" would u with male or female | |||
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"To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying I always pick guys of my choice...without paying lol my sights are to high all the guys i like turn me down down side to being a ugly twat I guess but if you were paying you wouldn't have that problem as escorts don't meet you based on looks that's all I ment " Your not ugly at all. Well you wasn't last time I saw you.. So don't say things like that xx | |||
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"I would if I could afford it" This in theory.....although I like to feel as if the person I'm with is with me because they want to be and I don't know if I would like to feel like they were there because I had paid them to be If that makes sense lol | |||
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex. It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys ." Yes I have and worth every penny | |||
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"no and never want to" | |||
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex. It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys ." Still paying..... | |||
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"Well I for one have never but to be quite honest indirectly you do a hotel a meal drinks etc so at least the latter hopefully you get the sexy woman of your choice and some emotions " I'm shocked and appalled.... | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female " male | |||
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"Well I for one have never but to be quite honest indirectly you do a hotel a meal drinks etc so at least the latter hopefully you get the sexy woman of your choice and some emotions " In that respect,I have paid for sex on a regular basis | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male" Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x | |||
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"As a side question, would a ladys opinion of a potential meet be swayed differently if she knew the guy had previously paid for sex?" wouldn't mine no not all men are hard up for sex and desperate some just enjoy the no hassle sex you get from escorts | |||
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"Don't we all everytime we go to a club?" *passes tin hat* You can thank me later | |||
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"Don't we all everytime we go to a club?" Also if you are sit supporter too!... | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x" To get exactly what I wanted from a man | |||
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"As a side question, would a ladys opinion of a potential meet be swayed differently if she knew the guy had previously paid for sex?" Wouldn't make a difference to me | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x To get exactly what I wanted from a man" i have to be honest I'm with you on this | |||
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"I won't lie. Yes, I have. An independent English escort (no way risking anybody trafficked or forced into it). And it was excellent. " | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x To get exactly what I wanted from a man i have to be honest I'm with you on this " They have lists of what they provide and will do. I could pick the man I liked and what I fancied at the time without lengthy discussions | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x To get exactly what I wanted from a man i have to be honest I'm with you on this They have lists of what they provide and will do. I could pick the man I liked and what I fancied at the time without lengthy discussions " you've really looked into this haven't you | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x To get exactly what I wanted from a man i have to be honest I'm with you on this They have lists of what they provide and will do. I could pick the man I liked and what I fancied at the time without lengthy discussions you've really looked into this haven't you " Just research | |||
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy. I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed." Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. | |||
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy. I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed. Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. " Don't , how would it feel after a horny meet if you were told they/her felt dirty and cheep after ??? I'm pretty Damm sure I'd feel awful if that's how they felt but always tried to make things fun .... One really horny night me and a single guy who well adored the mrs( stalker lol )we aggreed £600 for him to come over for an hour or 2 pmsl never going to happen but horny as fuck | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay." Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? " I didn't state that. | |||
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy. I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed. Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. " No, it was a couple of times and it wasn't fun-too clinical and I felt bad at the time and couldn't enjoy it. I shouldn't have enjoyed it anyway - it was the wrong thing to do. I fought against it, but I was a shy guy back then who was a bit desperate really and my youthful urges got the better of me. | |||
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy. I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed. Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. No, it was a couple of times and it wasn't fun-too clinical and I felt bad at the time and couldn't enjoy it. I shouldn't have enjoyed it anyway - it was the wrong thing to do. I fought against it, but I was a shy guy back then who was a bit desperate really and my youthful urges got the better of me. " Maybe on the wrong site mate | |||
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"down the barras it was two for a pound" That's when a new car was only 300 though and a house was six grand.... | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? " Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different." Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying..... | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying....." I for one think he's talking pish. | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying....." Swinging clubs / sites making money through sex implied/supplied...no difference at all. Porn is an outlet as wankbank material and swing sites like these earn a profit from the average guy...am i getting it right... | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying..... Swinging clubs / sites making money through sex implied/supplied...no difference at all. Porn is an outlet as wankbank material and swing sites like these earn a profit from the average guy...am i getting it right..." I invited a few around to my house..we had a small party...no money ever exchanged hands(for everyone)...EVER. hardly an industry..so VASTLY different.... | |||
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"Both earn their money through sex or implied sex so yes they are in the same business, anyone thinking different is only kidding themselves." did the site earn anything from me?-honestly I think you are talking pish.I'm aware of how the both things can be linked..as in sex...but not for profit.I wouldnt even have to pay a membership fee and still attend/hold parties where no profit or even covering costs are asked for...so who makes money from that? | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying..... Swinging clubs / sites making money through sex implied/supplied...no difference at all. Porn is an outlet as wankbank material and swing sites like these earn a profit from the average guy...am i getting it right..." i don't think so.......but then i've never thought too much about it...initial thought's though are that no real swinger is willing to pay beyond say a club membership, maybe pay to join a website or two or whatever so there's not enough money in it to build an 'industry' as such. sure, a few webmasters make a few quid and club owners may make a living but that's not industry, not as can be compared to that of the sex industry! that has multi billion pound and more industry. your comparing two entirely different things with the sweeping generalisation that somewhere money changes hands. that in swinging is a very different dynamic to the change of hands in the sex trade to start with, the expectation for the money is very different too. and how about the 18yo paying to get into a nightclub in the hope of leaving with a lady? does that liken the nightclub industry to the sex trade? no, and it's a bigger industry and i'll bet more lads walk into clubs expecting sex than men walk into adult clubs expecting it..... i can see your link but it's frail and very tenuous to my eyes sorry | |||
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay. Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying..... I for one think he's talking pish." or this.....this was an easier way of saying it...cheers pad | |||
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"iv shagged loads of brasses n i dont care who knows it " shit!! i'm all out of blue peter badges.....you ok with a gold star? | |||
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy. I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed. Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. No, it was a couple of times and it wasn't fun-too clinical and I felt bad at the time and couldn't enjoy it. I shouldn't have enjoyed it anyway - it was the wrong thing to do. I fought against it, but I was a shy guy back then who was a bit desperate really and my youthful urges got the better of me. Maybe on the wrong site mate " That was over twenty years ago. I'm a different person these days - more comfortable with myself etc I just don't feel happy with the idea and it's not something I feel good about looking back. | |||
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female male Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x To get exactly what I wanted from a man" As good a reason as any! And the same one that many men have I am sure. I have to admit to rather lazily thinking that women could generally get whatever they wanted from a man on this site - but thinking about it again you can only choose from what is available, and quantity is not the same as quality. And finding the quality without the hassle is not easy. | |||
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex. It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys ." Did you steal the toys? | |||
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"Because of new laws the industry in the UK as been decimated, with the BBBFC teaming with ATVOD porn will be pushed underground here soon. Unlike the US we have the smallest sex industry in the world and yes the swinging industry is now earning millions compared to porn. From the 1st of Dec any adult video site not having the correct barriers e.g. credit card access will be closed down by the government, the good thing about this is that the FREE porn will be gone but with restrictions getting tighter we are the small industry out of the 2. When you look at Cap D'agde, Hedo etc swinging is now a multi million pound business while the porn industry here is being broken up. After us they will target the swinging industry, esort industry & web cam industry if we allow the government to go on its moral crusade. Swinging sites will be the next to have strict credit card entry so minors can't join as will any adult site showing explicit photo's which is right really. Things are changing for all who sell, earn money, advertise from implied or actual sex. " No free porn better get on with making our own lol | |||
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"Fantastic and bravo to all the men who have paid for it you are truly champions. Especially the gentleman who only goes with English escorts because he is very clever and wouldn't support trafficking. Now go and read a book called Slave Girl, it won't be such a turn on afterwards. " It does amaze me that no one aside from ourselves has mentioned this - may as well have provided free buckets of sand along with this thread. | |||
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex. It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys . Did you steal the toys?" no they were paid for , but I get to reuse them | |||
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"Every time !! Needs new clothes Needs new shoes Needs hair done Needs nails done Lmao costly xxx spot on lol " U know it too Tarzan lmao x | |||
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"2 together on my 50th birthday. They played with each other then me. I was determined to do it and it lives as an incredible memory. " good on ya man | |||
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"Every time !! Needs new clothes Needs new shoes Needs hair done Needs nails done Lmao costly xxx spot on lol U know it too Tarzan lmao x " high maintenance | |||
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