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By *S42010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this one of those posts where we are supposed to tell you what a fool he is and how he was lucky to get an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer your questions...no and no. Sounds like someone is playing 'silly beggars'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another thread bashing a single man

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

No to both questions, mail with address and time of meet would go into saved messages and condoms i always take my own and more than one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

If I was a single man I wouldn't do either and most of them on here don't.

The answer to the question in your mind is that he isn't a single guy and he can't afford for his partner to see a strange address or condoms.

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By *S42010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not at all naughtynympho, just thought I'd ask the question, maybe most would find that ok, curious oh and frustrated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS.

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

no to both I would also save address and take condoms

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not at all naughtynympho, just thought I'd ask the question, maybe most would find that ok, curious oh and frustrated lol "

given the content of your profile I'm left wondering why you've asked this question

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By *S42010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Legs that wasn't my intention!!!

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

1. - not generally - but I've been known to delete messages in error, so it's possible there's an innocent explanation.

2. Whether he brings any or not I'd provide them myself. Covers breakages (possible whilst putting on as well as whilst splitting whilst playing), taking them off for a bit more oral play in between penetration and then having to put another on - and maybe even a repeat performance!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Legs that wasn't my intention!!! "

reply+quote will show who you're answering

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

we supply our own condoms because I don't tolerate latex well and we can be sure they are in date and not tampered with. It's always reassuring that they bring their own too though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost an address before a meet. Vanished off the page x

We always ask about condoms as some like their own x it's also a good way to find out who is trying for bare x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. It's easier if you can just pick me up. Thanks.

2. Yes, thanks. I'd also love a glass of wine and maybe steak and chips if you've got the time.

PS. If it's cold can I keep my socks on?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'd store that address the best I could, bring two packs of condoms to make sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

Yes and yes, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

No and no ............. No wonder it can be difficult to meet couples I keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

I would definitely save & remember details and bring condoms.

I'd also ask if they wanted me to bring anything else but would always take wine or some beer as I would to anybody's house - never mind one where I was maybe going to get sex!

If it was fair away then I'd book accommodation locally to there so there would be no problem if things didn't work out (or else simply not drink).

I'd be quite happy to asked frankly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

could the same question be asked to couples or single women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can answer as a single woman. I've done both.....lost an address and forgotten condoms. You may all lynch me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can answer as a single woman. I've done both.....lost an address and forgotten condoms. You may all lynch me now "

Lol !

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I always bring my own condoms, but I have accidentally deleted an address before, or have done the dumb thing of saving the postcode to my GPS, but not the house number d'oh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet couples as I prefer single women lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

1 .. No

2 .. No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

No to both id bring the customary bottle too. Hes obviously an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't delete addresses.

The number of messages we receive is quite limited. Hardly enough bombardment to lose track...

You grab ahold of that address and etch it onto your soul

A lot of guys have (at least one) condom(s) on them in every day life. Just a precaution I take. A genuine, sensible guy isn't going to 'forget'.

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By *S42010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"1. It's easier if you can just pick me up. Thanks.

2. Yes, thanks. I'd also love a glass of wine and maybe steak and chips if you've got the time.

My oh my this had me in stitches so so funny xxx

PS. If it's cold can I keep my socks on?!"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can answer as a single woman. I've done both.....lost an address and forgotten condoms. You may all lynch me now "

lyyyynnnnncccchhhhh.

You single women are all the bloomin same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write the address down on a piece of paper with directions and save the message and put it in my phones one note app. I carry a pouch of condoms and lube in my bag at all times too.

Men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not children on here. Who would do things like that? Bring your own condoms, and what's the point in deleting the address? Why not just confirm it?

People need to grow up on this site. Too much childish behaviour lately.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm assuming you're talking about a reasonably sane bloke that is at least slightly more intelligent than a vegetable.

In which case I will doubt he deliberately deleted the address just so he could annoy you by asking for it again.

With regards to condoms, you should have some available anyway. There are a number of reasons why a bloke wouldn't have some, including expecting to play bareback. If you have your own supply at home, then you're covered for all eventualities if he turns up without some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

No 1 . Yes

No 2 . Yes . And no 3 . Would i have to bring my own viagra ? Lol x

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By *ynxMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"

If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

To your first question I wouldn't want to have the address to the day off the meet as I know some couples are iffy in that I know I am when giving out my address.

To your second question I would ask first what you would want me to do but again couples rather provide so they know they haven't been temptered with.

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By *S42010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm assuming you're talking about a reasonably sane bloke that is at least slightly more intelligent than a vegetable.

In which case I will doubt he deliberately deleted the address just so he could annoy you by asking for it again.

With regards to condoms, you should have some available anyway. There are a number of reasons why a bloke wouldn't have some, including expecting to play bareback. If you have your own supply at home, then you're covered for all eventualities if he turns up without some."

We always have a supply of condoms, his actual words were "if I were hosting Id supply condoms, it's like hosting a dinner party you supply the food and drink" !!!

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By *osmicsMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

NO and NO..

Though I wouldn't see why it would be a problem if I requested the address again.

I carry my own condoms but probably good practice for both parties to have them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

1) I have In the past accidentally deleted messages containing someone's address details.

2) I always have several condoms on me and always provide my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the sensible answers to both questions is NO and NO, if the guy was serious about meeting he wouldn't have forgotten either of those things, dickhead.

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By *irmbutfairMan
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Both myself and the wife have accidentally deleted address/phone numbers, easily done I'm afriad. Also if paige is playing we prefer her to take her own condoms as we then know they are to hand (nothing worse than stoping to dig them out) and in date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd turn up late, d*unk and with no condoms. Sound about right?

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm assuming you're talking about a reasonably sane bloke that is at least slightly more intelligent than a vegetable.

In which case I will doubt he deliberately deleted the address just so he could annoy you by asking for it again.

With regards to condoms, you should have some available anyway. There are a number of reasons why a bloke wouldn't have some, including expecting to play bareback. If you have your own supply at home, then you're covered for all eventualities if he turns up without some.

We always have a supply of condoms, his actual words were "if I were hosting Id supply condoms, it's like hosting a dinner party you supply the food and drink" !!!"

In this case I'd say you should fine tune your search methods because it appears you shouldn't have gotten as far as agreeing to meet and providing an address if that's his attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

Delete after not before and always use my own condoms the csa collect for 16 years so why bi a prick and trust someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are lucky enough to be invited around you would keep the address until after the meet and bring you own protection. Its not rocket science really but some must find it hard to comprehend it seems.

Happy Hunting.

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By *goodoneMan
over a year ago

chorley


"If you were invited to a couples home to play would you

1. Delete the address and time of meet and have to ask for it again the night before

2. Expect condoms to be provided

FFS

Thoughts very much appreciated ! "

Us singles probably are not single. Just have partners that will not play. So please no need to put us down because you are lucky enough to have an open relationship.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. It's easier if you can just pick me up. Thanks.

2. Yes, thanks. I'd also love a glass of wine and maybe steak and chips if you've got the time.

PS. If it's cold can I keep my socks on?!"

Ooooh a cheeky single man, whatever next....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to both questions OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what i'd expect from a married guy, not a single one.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I can answer as a single woman. I've done both.....lost an address and forgotten condoms. You may all lynch me now "

Ditto. Most embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can answer as a single woman. I've done both.....lost an address and forgotten condoms. You may all lynch me now

Ditto. Most embarrassing "

Luckily for us ladies men seem much more forgiving.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answers to both questions.

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleting information is easily done sometimes,I've done it myself

As for condoms,I find it a cheek if someone comes with none because I wonder what their motives are for that, but as I prefer a certain type I always have plenty anyway,I wouldn't rely on anyone else for them

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. It's easier if you can just pick me up. Thanks.

2. Yes, thanks. I'd also love a glass of wine and maybe steak and chips if you've got the time.

PS. If it's cold can I keep my socks on?!

Ooooh a cheeky single man, whatever next.... "

I'd hate to hazard a guess!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. It's easier if you can just pick me up. Thanks.

2. Yes, thanks. I'd also love a glass of wine and maybe steak and chips if you've got the time.

My oh my this had me in stitches so so funny xxx

PS. If it's cold can I keep my socks on?!"

Thank you!

Doesn't even have to be steak. I'm fine with a burger!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make a note of address and condoms, well _iew my profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey how could I forget time and place I was meeting you and always have condoms xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another thread bashing a single man "
. Couldn't agree more! !! I have just posted something similar on another posting

Mrs Dirrty2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another thread bashing a single man . Couldn't agree more! !! I have just posted something similar on another posting

Mrs Dirrty2 "

Sadly it happens I guess some see us as a target they can pick on without a backlash. The reality is moaning is moaning and never comes across as big or cleaver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd expect hubby to pick me up and drop me home. A champagne reception, some nibbles and of course condom provided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not exactly, but i've done plenty stupid shit before, had to get the postcode off one lady the first four or five times i visited until i eventually memorised it...the folk i tend to meet are kinda chill though and not the type to start a ranty thread about it so my stupidity has never been a real problem

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By *inky CyclerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

No to both Qs. The last meet I had with a couple was very short notice, 90 mins from messaging to disrobing so no chance of losing/deleting the address. I did take a pack of three with me but they had their own plentiful supply so mine stayed unused till the next meet I had.

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