FabSwingers.com forum: to go to a club or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi we have always had private meets but have been thinking about going to a club.We have tried to weigh up the pro's and con's but having not been to a club its a bit difficult so can you all help us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go,what have you got to lose...you may enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are not everyone's cup of tea but I really think everyone should try one at least once. As said, "what have you got to lose" it won't be a bad experience even if you decide that's it's not for you in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say...do it! I went to a club for the first time last week and have already been back since because I loved it so much. What's the worst that could happen....you don't enjoy it? If you don't then you don't go again...simples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we just wanted to know if there were any down sides to a club or anything we should know about clubbing

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Downsize to a club, er cant think of one. Maybe being very much in public.

I see it as a positive tho.

Try it and see how it goes x

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By *elleCouple
over a year ago

south-west corner of outer london

"Downsize to a club, er cant think of one. Maybe being very much in public.

I see it as a positive tho.

Try it and see how it goes x"

We see it as a positive too - having said that there are clubs with playrooms which you can shut and play in private too...

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We felt unsure about clubs but eventually decided to give it a go.

We really enjoy going, its a really good night even if you don't play.

It is worth trying, even if you decide it is not for you.

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By *asandmeCouple
over a year ago

camden town

The only problem we have ever had is being followed around by people who you don't wanna be followed by and those folk who really have no idea of the meaning of the word NO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to a club on the one occasion . It was a good night. I even got to play with a nice lady.

Still a bit unsure if it suits me though.

Maybe if I went as a couple, it would be better .

It can be a bit too much for a shy single .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down to how you feel surely?!!

I never play without meeting first so for me the thought of several sexual partners I'm not even on nodding acquaintances with wouldn't appeal.

Asking other strangers what they think I should do regarding playing with others seems bizzare to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you go for the social side? Most clubs have a bar area where no play takes place so it's good just to chat to others. If you decide not to play its all fine. No pressure. If nothing else it'll make you randy & you'll be pulling up for a go on the way home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love clubs, but then ive never had a private meet so I guess I am biased.

Clubs seem so laid back to me. They are whatever you want them to be. You can play and then sit at the bar afterwards, you dont have to be with the same people all night, there are lots of things going on, theres always something funny so its a good laugh and you meet lots of people. I get to strutt around in nice lingerie, to be its fantastic

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