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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok you arrange to meet a single guy and he asks `you supplying condoms` ????

Is this just us or anyone else have the same requests ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would tell him to take a hike......

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As I am latex intolerant I would say 'yes'. I don't mind taking care of my own sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may tamper with the ones he supplys. At least if you provide them you no 100%

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have never been asked that question, but I always have my own supply as well, though all my meets have had their as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time .even if I'm just messaging. I'm making the effort to go the the whole way across the city getting 2 different buses and they want me to supply condoms . Not a bloody chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesn't bother me too much as I get them free from GUM clinic. they usualy bring their own.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I take my own in my little shagbag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I said i was not a pharmacy ! he said neither was he !!!

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"Ok you arrange to meet a single guy and he asks `you supplying condoms` ?"

there is some cheeky shits out there.. fuck if you ain't worth £2!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I said i was not a pharmacy ! he said neither was he !!!"

You don't have any condoms?

I agree he should have some, but if I really wanted to shag a guy I would make sure I had some.

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"He may tamper with the ones he supplys. At least if you provide them you no 100% "

good point mate but jesus why would you ask? why would you wanna meet anyone after him asking that? he'd be binned here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously people discuss this??? I always take some anyway. It's not a big deal they are free!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if he did not have any, and expected me to supply, i would rather go without, it is taking people for granted and taking the piss.

Her

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ok you arrange to meet a single guy and he asks `you supplying condoms` ????

Is this just us or anyone else have the same requests ?"

He's probz hoping you'll say just don't use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG dear god noooooooo, how dare someone ask if you got a condom? lol

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Burnley

I always take my own but next time I will be getting late free ones just in case the lady I'm meeting is latex intolerant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may tamper with the ones he supplys. At least if you provide them you no 100%

good point mate but jesus why would you ask? why would you wanna meet anyone after him asking that? he'd be binned here."

Hes wife might find them on him before the meet. Or maybe hes scared to pop to the garage and ask for condoms.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I always take my own but next time I will be getting late free ones just in case the lady I'm meeting is latex intolerant xx"

Skyns do ones with extra lube. they're great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once did one man turn up and not have any condoms. He also turned up late, stinking of garlic, got too rough during the first kiss and got worse, so when he asked if I had any I said no and showed him the door

I was shaking like a leaf and couldn't lock it quick enough but you learn as you go along in this game.

Other than that everyone I've met have supplied their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some with me and the man has always had them as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own supply...

Hardly expensive - about £15-00 for a pack of 144, from http://www.freedoms-shop.com/ - thats about 10p each...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just not an issue if you're seriously considering meeting in my opinion. Of course you'll have some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own supply...

Hardly expensive - about £15-00 for a pack of 144, from http://www.freedoms-shop.com/ - thats about 10p each...!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should have some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell him to take a hike......"

I wouldn't use his anyway but that's not the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell him to take a hike......

I wouldn't use his anyway but that's not the point. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have a good supply of condoms in case we meet a couple. But i dont buy condoms for other guys!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

it wouldnt bother me that much ..we always have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had 1 meet; he had totally forgot lol he was rushing gettin to ours that he just wanted to look and smell nice he said lol luckily we have some as she gets them from docs. Wouldn't bother us if the guy hasn't got any as like others have said, he may tamper with them.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I have read on several different websites that non latex condoms only prevent pregnancy, not disease? As someone who prefers non latex, I would be interested to know if you know of any that do prevent disease, please?

Dx

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"We had 1 meet; he had totally forgot lol he was rushing gettin to ours that he just wanted to look and smell nice he said lol luckily we have some as she gets them from docs. Wouldn't bother us if the guy hasn't got any as like others have said, he may tamper with them."

Okay... Maybe a little naive here... But why would he tamper with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip: Make sure you take ur condom with you as the other party could still use it as sperm for her (for various reasons)

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I take my own in my little shagbag. "

You must have been in the Scouts to be so prepared!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I've always got some in my MeetBag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Dont think that they are always asking because they won't bring their own... more a way of asking if you prefer a certain type. I wouldn't let a guy use his own anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip: Make sure you take ur condom with you as the other party could still use it as sperm for her (for various reasons) "

most guys like to cum all over boobs these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had 1 meet; he had totally forgot lol he was rushing gettin to ours that he just wanted to look and smell nice he said lol luckily we have some as she gets them from docs. Wouldn't bother us if the guy hasn't got any as like others have said, he may tamper with them.

Okay... Maybe a little naive here... But why would he tamper with them? "

eg cum inside her in the condom, ooops its split, sorry luv' type thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a good supply of condoms in case we meet a couple. But i dont buy condoms for other guys!"

What difference does it make? Don't you pick up the free ones from the GUM ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theyre free from the docs anyway so no one has an excuse not to get any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could he not just have been asking if you or he should supply them. Why jump to conclusion he's being a tight arse just for asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a good supply of condoms in case we meet a couple. But i dont buy condoms for other guys!

What difference does it make? Don't you pick up the free ones from the GUM ?"

I do but give mine away as cant use the ones they give me at the clinic... So I have to buy Mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very good indicator of how seriously someone takes this lifestyle, if they are a regular at the GUM clinic they should have lots.......

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Ok you arrange to meet a single guy and he asks `you supplying condoms` ????

Is this just us or anyone else have the same requests ?"

More or less yes or they turn up without any at all. However thinking about it though, I think I'd actually like to provide my own as I always use Skyns anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a good supply of condoms in case we meet a couple. But i dont buy condoms for other guys!

What difference does it make? Don't you pick up the free ones from the GUM ?

I do but give mine away as cant use the ones they give me at the clinic... So I have to buy Mine x"

Thats fair enough you supply your own anyway,, my question was directed to the OP who don't mind supplying for couples but not single guys.....my point is they are free so what is the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms to a meet its the only safe thing to do.some men are just idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had anyone ask me this, I always take condoms on a meet its suprising how many men I meet don't though, not sure if this means they expected me to or they wasn't planning in using them, always best to be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip: Make sure you take ur condom with you as the other party could still use it as sperm for her (for various reasons)

most guys like to cum all over boobs these days "

Yes that's good to lol.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Always condoms wherever I go to a meet with some sexually transmitted dieases knocking its always better to be safe than sorry .. as the saying goes , don't be silly and put a condom on your willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had anyone ask me this, I always take condoms on a meet its suprising how many men I meet don't though, not sure if this means they expected me to or they wasn't planning in using them, always best to be prepared "

I've never had anyone ask me either and I've never met anyone that didn't have their own.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine in with my emergency sewing kit and associated pin collection.

You may think this strange, but as they're so past their use by date they snap almost as soon you take them out of the packet! Easy enough to sew back up again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do ask to make sure people know and have some, but we have a supply anyways and make sure that they know this. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep mine in with my emergency sewing kit and associated pin collection.

You may think this strange, but as they're so past their use by date they snap almost as soon you take them out of the packet! Easy enough to sew back up again! "

You can patch them up with sticky tape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vinegar and brown paper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep mine in with my emergency sewing kit and associated pin collection.

You may think this strange, but as they're so past their use by date they snap almost as soon you take them out of the packet! Easy enough to sew back up again!

You can patch them up with sticky tape "

Cling film works well too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all else fails, buy a bag of crisps

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always supply the condoms. I know that they are safe. I know where they come from and I know they have not been tampered with in anyway x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I always have condoms, lube, baby wipes, a nappy bag for rubbish and tissues in my bag, as well as mints and my camera for those outdoor shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep mine in with my emergency sewing kit and associated pin collection.

You may think this strange, but as they're so past their use by date they snap almost as soon you take them out of the packet! Easy enough to sew back up again!

You can patch them up with sticky tape "

Or just turn it inside out for recycling lol to next fuck meet.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"I keep mine in with my emergency sewing kit and associated pin collection.

You may think this strange, but as they're so past their use by date they snap almost as soon you take them out of the packet! Easy enough to sew back up again!

You can patch them up with sticky tape "

superglue might make a smoother finish, just make sure it's fully set before plugging in or you may need to visit A&E to get separated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe there are people out there who still actually pay for condoms. The mind boggles.

And I've always believed (and so far always found) that the host provides condoms and lube. If someone is going to the effort and probable expense of coming to you the least you can do is actually provide the necessities.

Haven't we got past the misogyny of, "The male always provides" yet?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Always provide my own, if the lady wants to provide that's fine

my preferred choice avanti ultima just a smidgen bigger and latex free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only comfortable using the ones I like which are also latex free,my closer friends know this and will come with those particular ones,Ill always have loads with me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always supply my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should bring their own party favors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect him to have them even though we wouldn't use his

We use latex free so we actually supply our own. We get them from the clinic when we have our quarterly check ups but they don't give you many latex free ones so we have to supplement and buy more but worth it for our sexual health.

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