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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I know that women have to set limits but using age as a arbitrary filter seems fairly crude.

There are plenty of fit looking 45 years olds (lets say !) and a fair few not so pleasant younger peoople.

Is this kind of ageism fair or should filter on body types, personalities me introduced..

Contentious I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?"

Well spotted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?"

Oh I get it

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Nothing wrong with being 45. We set our upper age limit to 45 but we have had older but we won't intentionally go younger than our lower age limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you filter a personality?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

it's not contentious, it's dull, boring and cliched.

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?"

I have age filters as I don't want men younger than my son's and I prefer men still able to get it up without help lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Gotta draw the line somewhere.

My age range is my preference but I haven't prevented people outside of it from messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ageist to have your own personal preferences though?

I don't see how it's ageist to exercise your freedom of choice.

If you are outside someone's age range but catch their eye then they can contact you. We do this if we someone we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've set mine for 90 plus so I can do the searching myself without getting messages from people that might not be for me. Everyone uses the various filters to their advantage depending on how they want to run their profile.

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

Charlie Chaplin's last child was conceived in 1961 when he was 72 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to some extent we are all agest to a point, I mean how many of us would have sex with a 99 year old? Many are not even interested in 18 year olds.

It is preference and we all have our preferances

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Perhaps we should judge by bum cuteness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol... Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've set mine for 90 plus so I can do the searching myself without getting messages from people that might not be for me. Everyone uses the various filters to their advantage depending on how they want to run their profile."

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?"

Of course he does. Everyone knows that filters are only a problem when they exclude you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for men 45 to 55 ish but my filters are open just on case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps we should judge by bum cuteness"
you go first

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Perhaps we should judge by bum cutenessyou go first "

Cute 10 out of 10 xx

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?"

Yes, I'm ageist, I set my age limit strictly and won't meet ANYONE outside of it

Alas, I'm OUTSIDE of OP's age range...

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Yet you have age filters yourself, OP?

I have age filters as I don't want men younger than my son's and I prefer men still able to get it up without help lol"

I see, so you think that anyone over 54 can't get it up without help? Get a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the fit 47 year olds that can't message you then OP?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What about the fit 47 year olds that can't message you then OP?

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Oi! That's my line!

*You forgot to use the word 'plethora' though!

A

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What about the fit 47 year olds that can't message you then OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps we should judge by bum cutenessyou go first

Cute 10 out of 10 xx "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about the fit 47 year olds that can't message you then OP?

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I'm convinced... Opened up the floodgates to all to message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps we should judge by bum cutenessyou go first

Cute 10 out of 10 xx thank you "

Awwww. Sweet..Thanks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age you have to accept people have their preferences and a 64 year old might not be among them. But why then put 99 on your profile when you have no intention of meeting mature people, it wastes everyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you filter a personality?

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i was thinking that, are we going to have misrible twat as an option and if we did who's going to tick it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

noone.. er how about self aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I know that women have to set limits but using age as a arbitrary filter seems fairly crude.

There are plenty of fit looking 45 years olds (lets say !) and a fair few not so pleasant younger peoople.

Is this kind of ageism fair or should filter on body types, personalities me introduced..

Contentious I know "

Its selective nothing else maybe when you let a 90yr old grandad have your arse other people will get adventurous with age experimentation but you will I am sure be leading the way.

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