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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just curious, some ladies can only cum through direct stimulation of their clit where as others can cum through penetration alone. I recently met a girl who cums through penetration and even through anal. So the million dollar question ladies ... What makes you cum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just curious, some ladies can only cum through direct stimulation of their clit where as others can cum through penetration alone. I recently met a girl who cums through penetration and even through anal. So the million dollar question ladies ... What makes you cum ?"

Everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky I cum so many ways and so many tines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one man has ever made me cum through oral, penetrative sex and fingers and that's my partner. Prior to meet him I had never ever cum while having sex and i. Weta only wasn't a squirter lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only one man has ever made me cum through oral, penetrative sex and fingers and that's my partner. Prior to meet him I had never ever cum while having sex and i. Weta only wasn't a squirter lol x"

Wow that must have been an amazing feeling first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one man has ever made me cum through oral, penetrative sex and fingers and that's my partner. Prior to meet him I had never ever cum while having sex and i. Weta only wasn't a squirter lol x

Wow that must have been an amazing feeling first time"

Sorry for the awful spelling on here it will teach me for looking through the forums when just waking up and replying with no glasses on pmsl.

It was an amazing feeling. Squirting for the first time was the strangest feeling ever but it is almost as though by him doing it that once he opened the flood gates. Having a partner where you are 100% satisfied is also an amazing thing. Just makes it a little hard for me when I try and arrange meets with men lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clitoral Stimulation or Penetration both work for me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Seeing £25 luxury Thorntons Chocolate Gateaux reduced to a quid at our local Asda!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clitoral Stimulation or Penetration both work for me "

Mmm sounding like ladies on this thread are not struggling on the orgasm side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clitoral Stimulation or Penetration both work for me

Mmm sounding like ladies on this thread are not struggling on the orgasm side "

Practise makes perfect

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Clitoral stimulation only for me.

Well.. so far, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasm? No I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Orgasm? No I don't. "

You Don't orgasm at all?

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Orgasms always depend on if the guy knows what he's doing. But yes I can orgasm in many ways and if the guy doesn't manage it for me then my magic wand does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never fail to make myself orgasm by clitoral stimulation and finger fucking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First orgasm has to be a toy on my clit. No finger or tongue has ever been enough. But after the first when Im really sensitive Stu can give me a second or third with his tongue especially with his fingers hitting my Gspot and knowing Im gonna squirt straight into his face drives me nuts to

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By *isa_bigtitsWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it depends on the woman. I have never had a problem cumming anyway I get it(even anal, which surprised me) but my friend didnt have her first orgasm until she was in her 20's and it wasn't for lack of trying from herself!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I can orgasm from all aspects of sex but oral usually takes the longest, fingering my gspot makes me cum the quickest though

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Its really nice to hear others views here, as sometimes we assume everyone can all the time which clearly isn't the case.

With us it seems to be the opposite to most Oral almost never; manual; sometimes; rabbits almost always; normal sex mostly and anal sex sometimes! So should be happy but more success oral/manual would be better for meets!

And one point, maybe two and thats it lol - and annoyingly if delaying at a meet, then its harder to complete. Its the body saying "you had your chance, but you didn't want it!"

Everyone is different, so we enjoy finding out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Orgasm? No I don't.

You Don't orgasm at all?"

Not to my knowledge

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Maria that really is a shame I am sure you would know if you had one, my wife has only begun to enjoy sex in the last year {a bit of a long story] but she is 60 years old now so still time to experience a lot of fun all I can say is relax and let it all happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you Susie. Not sure what went wrong really over the years but its not a new thing.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this female orgasm ye speak of? Is this witchcraft????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of me wonders whether this whole 'stimulate the female to orgasm' thing isn't a male way of looking at it all, It seems to me that Mrs P orgasms most when she is really unstressed in life, really relaxed and happy with who she is, and is really feeling a loving connection with me. When she's like this she can pretty much cum from anything and everything. When she's stressed or we're not really seeing eye to eye on stuff, I can pull out all the tricks in the book and it's unlikely to happen.

It just seems, as with most things female, that the female orgasm is so much more wrapped up in the total energetic field of emotional well being which runs through a woman... rather than just some body part that needs jiggling about. Perhaps that's why seduction and romance play such a big part in leading a woman to climax?

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% of the time I only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, the odd occasion I have cum from penetration and anal. I do gush/squirt but that is not the same orgasm I get in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont either. Well.. not to satisfaction. Alone, clitoral stimulation does it but with someone else i can sometimes get close, but never quite make it. I have even started, got halfway through and switched off soooo frustrating. However, i gush, squirt, ooze and dribble if my g spot is stimulated but its not an intense feeling. More all over.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


"Was just curious, some ladies can only cum through direct stimulation of their clit where as others can cum through penetration alone. I recently met a girl who cums through penetration and even through anal. So the million dollar question ladies ... What makes you cum ?

Everything.

"

Yep, me too.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it mate, I have it on GOOD authority women don't orgasm, it was invented feminists in suffragette era....those pesky schemers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need mental stimulation to have my most enjoyable and satisfying orgasms

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By *aymackCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Part of me wonders whether this whole 'stimulate the female to orgasm' thing isn't a male way of looking at it all, It seems to me that Mrs P orgasms most when she is really unstressed in life, really relaxed and happy with who she is, and is really feeling a loving connection with me. When she's like this she can pretty much cum from anything and everything. When she's stressed or we're not really seeing eye to eye on stuff, I can pull out all the tricks in the book and it's unlikely to happen.

It just seems, as with most things female, that the female orgasm is so much more wrapped up in the total energetic field of emotional well being which runs through a woman... rather than just some body part that needs jiggling about. Perhaps that's why seduction and romance play such a big part in leading a woman to climax?

Just a thought "

Sounds about right to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can in many ways, but i also need mental stimulation too.

Her

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By *rafty98Man
over a year ago

herts


"95% of the time I only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, the odd occasion I have cum from penetration and anal. I do gush/squirt but that is not the same orgasm I get in other ways "

Just making notes here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never cum through penatrive sex, clit stimulation alone will make me cum but it takes ages, the best way to make me cum is a good tongue and one finger gently massaging me inside, any more than one finger or to rough won't work

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By *angersgaloreCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire/Warwickshire border


"Part of me wonders whether this whole 'stimulate the female to orgasm' thing isn't a male way of looking at it all, It seems to me that Mrs P orgasms most when she is really unstressed in life, really relaxed and happy with who she is, and is really feeling a loving connection with me. When she's like this she can pretty much cum from anything and everything. When she's stressed or we're not really seeing eye to eye on stuff, I can pull out all the tricks in the book and it's unlikely to happen.

It just seems, as with most things female, that the female orgasm is so much more wrapped up in the total energetic field of emotional well being which runs through a woman... rather than just some body part that needs jiggling about. Perhaps that's why seduction and romance play such a big part in leading a woman to climax?

Just a thought "

Very well said, women are so much more complicated and it all starts in the mind. I certainly need to be relaxed and stress free, sometimes I take ages to cum, sometimes not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks.....always remember the biggest sex organ we all have is the brain......a lot depends on your state of mind and on expectations.

I've met women in all of the above situations (tho never left one in scorpios position) . I've even met 3 women who can come from sufficient kissing and/or breast stimulation.

Friend of mine was so gagging for it the other week she walked round to mine, bent over the bed and cum/squirted within 3 seconds....basically on first contact. (Normally takes her a few mins).

Basically OP.....there are no hard and fast rules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had both ways... i would describe the clit is the top of the flower and is a good orgasm, but if u manage to get in the right position through penetration involving clit n g spot, its like the whole fucking root of the plant is in connection with the flower lol! I find that pelvic floor exercises (pompoarism) will help to give the woman much better and longer orgasms...that feeling of squizing the pussy muscles inside during penetration makes all the difference for both man and women..mmmmm so good! .so penetration any time for me!

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll


"I can in many ways, but i also need mental stimulation too.

Her"

Interested to know what sorts of mental stimulation work for you - Brian Cox describing the wonders of the cosmos perhaps??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part of me wonders whether this whole 'stimulate the female to orgasm' thing isn't a male way of looking at it all, It seems to me that Mrs P orgasms most when she is really unstressed in life, really relaxed and happy with who she is, and is really feeling a loving connection with me. When she's like this she can pretty much cum from anything and everything. When she's stressed or we're not really seeing eye to eye on stuff, I can pull out all the tricks in the book and it's unlikely to happen.

It just seems, as with most things female, that the female orgasm is so much more wrapped up in the total energetic field of emotional well being which runs through a woman... rather than just some body part that needs jiggling about. Perhaps that's why seduction and romance play such a big part in leading a woman to climax?

Just a thought "

I agree and totally understand this...

To get me to orgasm you have to control my mind, which is why it has been done very rarely by a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can in many ways, but i also need mental stimulation too.

Her

Interested to know what sorts of mental stimulation work for you - Brian Cox describing the wonders of the cosmos perhaps??"
Simple really, just talking, and the same open mind

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can in many ways, but i also need mental stimulation too.

Her

Interested to know what sorts of mental stimulation work for you - Brian Cox describing the wonders of the cosmos perhaps??"

Brian Cox will do me not describing required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"95% of the time I only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, the odd occasion I have cum from penetration and anal. I do gush/squirt but that is not the same orgasm I get in other ways

Just making notes here "

Haha cheeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alway thought squirting was a myth for the porn industry. While I've never had it I'd like to believe one day I can. I can come by clit easily, penetration can only cum if I do it myself and takes a while.

I have hope though

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have helped a woman to many different types orgasm they have never had before.

I am no sexual guru but I like to think I am very sensual. I like to start with kissing and try and engage the mind as well as body.

A relaxed and sensual fun session is vital to fulfilment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tingle cums with my tongue, fingers and penetration and she squirts but recently she has been squirting through penetration too.... a very happy Tingle..who hasn't managed that before me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have helped a woman to many different types orgasm they have never had before.

I am no sexual guru but I like to think I am very sensual. I like to start with kissing and try and engage the mind as well as body.

A relaxed and sensual fun session is vital to fulfilment. "

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By *inkiepairCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Great million dollar question ha ha would you spend a million to know...?? Keep at it every1 different but main thing is that all is relaxed and respected right..

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