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By *riendly Fires OP   Couple
over a year ago

Beverley

Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

show me one person who can't say yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *rafty98Man
over a year ago

herts


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

Well we would have to meet for a coffee first but I would take one for the team with you two or have a misunderstood the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I'm open to offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I fuck because I want to not to do a favour for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

Once and it was bloody good once we got into it.

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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

I will fuck anyone my Master tells me to. Not sure if he feels sympathy for those he chooses to let fuck me lol

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Never. Not my style. I have to be attracted to someone to allow them to touch me.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and I hope no ones done it to me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I fuck because I want to not to do a favour for someone else."

A 'friend' on here made it sound as if he was doing me a favour once, I deleted and never spoke to him again.

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By *annameet6Man
over a year ago

chester mold flintshire

ha ha ha ha

too funny. i am not getting involved.

i do love fucking people though. who should be thankful i will. . . something disgusting sick about it. i sense of sexual power. . . Yea take that cos you know your lucky style sex. . .

ah shit. i got involved.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

Good lord! No!

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By *annameet6Man
over a year ago

chester mold flintshire

ha ha ha ha

too funny. i am not getting involved.

i do love fucking people though. who should be thankful i will. . . something disgustingly sick about it. yet enormously kinky. a sense of sexual power. . . Yea take that cos you know your lucky style sex. . .

also sometimes. you just dont want to get overly involved emotionly so its like. Yea ok. because you know your not gonna be sat there in the future twidling your thumbs thinking. am i falling in love here. instead its. great lets grab a mcdonalds and get the fuck home.

ah shit. i got involved.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"ha ha ha ha

too funny. i am not getting involved.

i do love fucking people though. who should be thankful i will. . . something disgusting sick about it. i sense of sexual power. . . Yea take that cos you know your lucky style sex. . .

ah shit. i got involved. "

i could just do we a shag, you can feel sorry for me after it if u want, i wont be there to care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has someone removed the nonsense filter this morning or are there a lot of d*unk people about. ... or have I lost the ability to understand English overnight???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never given anyone a sympathy shag. I wouldn't be so patronising

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"show me one person who can't say yes!!!!"

Was about to say me but just remembered i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When me and my husband visited clubs a lot there was a regular in one that if I'm honest when I first seen him my initial reaction was no chance.

He didn't get much action, but over the course if a few month we got to know him and he was the nicest most sincere guy. What he lacked in looks he made up for in his personality.

I let him join us a few times and he was great,made every effort to ensure iI got what I wanted.

I think sympathy shag could be renamed, don't judge a book by its cover x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ha ha ha ha

too funny. i am not getting involved.

i do love fucking people though. who should be thankful i will. . . something disgusting sick about it. i sense of sexual power. . . Yea take that cos you know your lucky style sex. . .

ah shit. i got involved. "

Did this make sense to anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I got sympthy sex from my first ex after getting dumped by my second ex 7 years ago.

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By *annameet6Man
over a year ago

chester mold flintshire


"ha ha ha ha

too funny. i am not getting involved.

i do love fucking people though. who should be thankful i will. . . something disgusting sick about it. i sense of sexual power. . . Yea take that cos you know your lucky style sex. . .

ah shit. i got involved.

Did this make sense to anyone else? "

Me. perfect sense. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has someone removed the nonsense filter this morning or are there a lot of d*unk people about. ... or have I lost the ability to understand English overnight???"

how do you think I feel, I have to translate things into Welsh fist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could just do with a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ha ha ha ha

too funny. i am not getting involved.

i do love fucking people though. who should be thankful i will. . . something disgustingly sick about it. yet enormously kinky. a sense of sexual power. . . Yea take that cos you know your lucky style sex. . .

also sometimes. you just dont want to get overly involved emotionly so its like. Yea ok. because you know your not gonna be sat there in the future twidling your thumbs thinking. am i falling in love here. instead its. great lets grab a mcdonalds and get the fuck home.

ah shit. i got involved. "

EHHHHHHHHHHHH

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By *annameet6Man
over a year ago

chester mold flintshire


"Has someone removed the nonsense filter this morning or are there a lot of d*unk people about. ... or have I lost the ability to understand English overnight???

how do you think I feel, I have to translate things into Welsh fist "

ha ha ha. brilliant reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit to the sympathy shag ~ but it was quite a while ago & I've learnt since it's a lot better for all concerned to say thanks but no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely.

Though wouldn't quite class as sympathy shag as I enjoy helping people, but have had sex with men to teach them how to do it properly, and have also helped a few men who were to old to still be virgins to lose their V and get over that first hurdle, ease their nerves and give them more confidence.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"I'll admit to the sympathy shag ~ but it was quite a while ago & I've learnt since it's a lot better for all concerned to say thanks but no..."
dont share this with all your friends, i might never get it

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By *annameet6Man
over a year ago

chester mold flintshire

a wank that went too far!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never given anyone a sympathy shag. I wouldn't be so patronising "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have never given a sympathy shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has someone removed the nonsense filter this morning or are there a lot of d*unk people about. ... or have I lost the ability to understand English overnight???

how do you think I feel, I have to translate things into Welsh fist "

ha. ... and then back into English so you can reply??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never given anyone a sympathy shag. I wouldn't be so patronising

This

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We have too much respect for ourselves to even contemplate doing that.

If its not right its not right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has someone removed the nonsense filter this morning or are there a lot of d*unk people about. ... or have I lost the ability to understand English overnight???

how do you think I feel, I have to translate things into Welsh fist

ha. ... and then back into English so you can reply?? "

yep. People just don't appreciate the length I go to when I post on here

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Has someone removed the nonsense filter this morning or are there a lot of d*unk people about. ... or have I lost the ability to understand English overnight???

how do you think I feel, I have to translate things into Welsh fist

ha. ... and then back into English so you can reply??

yep. People just don't appreciate the length I go to when I post on here "

bore da

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell. One guy travelled from Brighton and had booked a hotel room for the night, I'd only seen a few pictures of him and when I met him in the flesh I couldn't do anything. He was like can't you just suck me off I've travelled all this way, from the safety of my locked car with engine already running I said no sorry and drove off, could see him in my rear view mirror just standing in the car park of the hotel.

I couldn't have sex with anyone unless I was attracted to them and I hope no one has given me a sympathy shag either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say for sure I haven't received one or a better than nothing one

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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Took one for the team at a club recently. .my man liked the female..I didn't like the male but played anyway. .didn't feel good about it really.

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By *riendly Fires OP   Couple
over a year ago

Beverley


"Not a chance in hell. One guy travelled from Brighton and had booked a hotel room for the night, I'd only seen a few pictures of him and when I met him in the flesh I couldn't do anything. He was like can't you just suck me off I've travelled all this way, from the safety of my locked car with engine already running I said no sorry and drove off, could see him in my rear view mirror just standing in the car park of the hotel.

I couldn't have sex with anyone unless I was attracted to them and I hope no one has given me a sympathy shag either! "

Like it. Obviously a woman that won't be compromised on principles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and don't intend to

gotta be attracted to the guy !

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By *riendly Fires OP   Couple
over a year ago

Beverley


"Took one for the team at a club recently. .my man liked the female..I didn't like the male but played anyway. .didn't feel good about it really. "
Dream wifey. Make sure you get some compensation.

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

A good friend of mine told me in a txt that she hadn't been with anyone for over a year ... Being a good friend I offered to help her out, she agreed. BUT .. Is it still a sympathy shag when I secretly wanted to fick her for years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took one for the team at a club recently. .my man liked the female..I didn't like the male but played anyway. .didn't feel good about it really. "
. This happened to me at Ab Fabs a couple of months ago - so yes, I took one for the team !! Or FB at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short, no. It makes things awkward from time to time but I just couldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a team on here, but I wouldn't anyway

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

if anyone is inclined to do so then we are free next saturday night feel free to message us..... desperate cpl.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope. I think I was someone's sympathy snog back when I was a teenager and my ego took all of a week to recover so I'd never do that to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have plenty of times when I was younger although more so got into relationships cause I felt sorry for them than just a shag. Doesn't make it any better. It's morally wrong and I'd not do I again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have, and my ex wife did it twice, once when she was 16, and again after we been married 5yrs. only came out when she got pissed at a do we went to and he was there with his wife, got chapter and verse when i got home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it once or twice, it's not much fun. Got to really have a connection and be into the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past, someone turns up who I don't fancy but didn't like to say so.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Nope and I hope no ones done it to me either "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - couldn't fuck anyone - men and women with whom I'm not attracted to!!!

Personality counts too - got to have that connection and when I do it's all fireworks in the bedroom!!!! Chuckling now to some filthy meets had!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

worst thing i ever did.

i was a teenager and one of my friends wanted to lose his virginity (i didn't fancy him) so i thought it would be fun to do that for him, he ended up wanting a relationship and idk got really messy, i lost a friend that day. would never do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"show me one person who can't say yes!!!!"

Me I cant say yes. Never have nor will

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Never. Not my style. I have to be attracted to someone to allow them to touch me."

I'm the same.. never played with someone I did not want to. And the ones I didn't... I had my reasons.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Took one for the team at a club recently. .my man liked the female..I didn't like the male but played anyway. .didn't feel good about it really. "

See now as a single person that would never have happened. No one should EVER have to take one for the team.. just means the partner (male or female) is being selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has, I can confirm that, every time I'm on leave

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

never have, and never would...

I've been the sympathy shag and it wasn't nice - was described as his moped moment - fun to ride as long as his mates never knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never given one (no-one's been THAT desperate...)

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Nope

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

Most couples meeting for a foursome have had to do one for the team but that's life

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By *riendly Fires OP   Couple
over a year ago

Beverley


"never have, and never would...

I've been the sympathy shag and it wasn't nice - was described as his moped moment - fun to ride as long as his mates never knew "

Oh how Mopeds have evolved over the years. Def have one and hold no fears of seen in public. No doubt you have evolved too. x

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By *riendly Fires OP   Couple
over a year ago

Beverley


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

Helena gave me one last night. I gave her one this morning. 1-1 AET.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone admit to giving a sympathy shag or taking one for the team? "

Nope, never have, never will, isn't that tantamount to using someone, surely you sort the connection out before it goes too far

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