FabSwingers.com forum: Dating sites

By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

Any one off here also on dating sites

Pof etc

Pm me we may have more in common than just swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on pof for a little while, the folks on there might as well be on here.

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By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"Was on pof for a little while, the folks on there might as well be on here.

Yes I'm on there lol

Do u think meeting someone off here would work in a relationship ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was on pof for a little while, the folks on there might as well be on here.

Yes I'm on there lol

Do u think meeting someone off here would work in a relationship ? X "

OKC for me.

Yes, someone from Fabs - potentially. Someone from pof/OKC - maybe - but there is a big gap to bridge.

I am hoping it might work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on OKC, Pof and Match lol

Would rather meet someone here though tbh, seems those dating sites are full of people who want total monogamy.

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By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"I'm on OKC, Pof and Match lol

Would rather meet someone here though tbh, seems those dating sites are full of people who want total monogamy. "

Mm find me on Pof please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was on pof for a little while, the folks on there might as well be on here.

most of them/us are lol

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

There are a lot more people on here and pof than you think.

I once joined pof... And the amount of guys, single and married that I recognised on there from my area had mailed me with pics on here.

Needless to say I deleted my profile on pof lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a single fem friend who was on prof for months with no decent meets she even came to chams with us to get a bit lol she came on here and met a guy within week and they re still together 6 months on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF and had a couple of nice dates but nothing sexual.

I must admit if I found someone long term on POF, I think I would drop this lifestyle in 2 seconds.......sex is great but spooning every night with the same person sound better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on pof for a while and was catfished a couple of times. Met a couple of nice guys but I got bored with it fairly quickly.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm on a couple of sites still - I see a lot of the same faces on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is how many people on here would accept a monogamous lifestyle if they found someone on POF?

It is certainly one conversation I would not have with anyone I met off POF (what's your fab name!!!) and I think after a relationship started I would not be impressed if she was having bukkake events on the weekend we could not meet

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By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

Ok well feel free to find me on Pof

Be interesting to see who's on there

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?"

Match is a good site, not cheap, but you also don't get the time wasters on there.

Pof is just a sex site, the amount of women I met on there who were just after no strings sex was unbelievable!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok well feel free to find me on Pof

Be interesting to see who's on there "

Why do they need to go to the trouble of finding you on POF when they could PM you on here?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok well feel free to find me on Pof

Be interesting to see who's on there

Why do they need to go to the trouble of finding you on POF when they could PM you on here?! "

That's what I was going to ask...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think the site you met someone on would dictate the relationship, at least in it's earlier stages?

e.g. Fab means swinging, pof means monogamy etc?

I've never tried online dating, don't think it's for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think the site you met someone on would dictate the relationship, at least in it's earlier stages?

e.g. Fab means swinging, pof means monogamy etc?

I've never tried online dating, don't think it's for me."

Good point.

So even if the same people are on both sites ~ if you're looking for a relationship some would prefer to be able to say we met via POF.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I broke pof.

I put a profile on, stating what I was looking for, in 3 hours I had 700 odd messages, then my account got closed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on pof, forces penpals, military dating, adult friend finder, tinder. The only one I have left is this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?"

My friend met her hubby on e-harmony. A friend of a friend met her fiancé on there.

E-harmony refused my application tho lol

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By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"Ok well feel free to find me on Pof

Be interesting to see who's on there

Why do they need to go to the trouble of finding you on POF when they could PM you on here?! "

Quite nice to read there profile on three too see what other interests we share other than on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?

My friend met her hubby on e-harmony. A friend of a friend met her fiancé on there.

E-harmony refused my application tho lol"

Oh dear, I won't ask why! I kind of like the idea that you don't have to trawl through loads of profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is how many people on here would accept a monogamous lifestyle if they found someone on POF?

If I met someone I'd find it quite easy to be monogamous, even after this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?

Match is a good site, not cheap, but you also don't get the time wasters on there.

Pof is just a sex site, the amount of women I met on there who were just after no strings sex was unbelievable!!!!"

I found that on pof, got more offers of sex than on here!! I did consider match but kind of like the idea of e-harmony as they match you on compatibility, or so they say! I'll look into both I think, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is how many people on here would accept a monogamous lifestyle if they found someone on POF?

If I met someone I'd find it quite easy to be monogamous, even after this site"

Fancy a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've been on them all and just don't bother now... You have the playground that is Pof at one end, and match with seems like a forum for the undateables. Sadly I don't really feel I know how to behave on a vanilla date... I find the guys I meet on the scene are just far more nature and better company... But sadly the chances of meeting someone in the right frame of mind for more is slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up with online dating, having had one date that was late due to helping him mum arrange the church flowers, another who's photo was 15 years out of date or maybe a different person and a guy who expected me to pay for his meal as well as mine! I'm all for going dutch, but he suggested the meal ! So after three strikes I'm most definitely out !

I've decided it's just not my thing!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"I'm on a couple of sites still - I see a lot of the same faces on here.

Yup, it's amazing how different both their profiles can be as well!

Just deleted my POF account, I found it a complete waste of time, easier to talk to someone on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok well feel free to find me on Pof

Be interesting to see who's on there

Why do they need to go to the trouble of finding you on POF when they could PM you on here?!

Quite nice to read there profile on three too see what other interests we share other than on here "

But they could still make contact on here and then you could swap details regarding profiles on other sites if you felt so inclined!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner four years ago via a "regular" dating site (tho none of the aforementioned) and he introduced me to swinging - it is not something I would ever have considered otherwise.

We didn't need people who know nothing about us to determine how compatible we are by what we chose to write about ourselves!!

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I have been on and off pof. Once you get past the girls who just want to chat and chat and chat and never meet it's OK for what it is. A total meat market lol!

I have had my fair share of booty calla from pof, but I wouldn't use it as a serious dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted pof as its no different to being on this site.

Still on match and had one or two good dates. Although i feel im ready for a relationship after 4 and a half years im not sure if im ready to give this lifestyle up yet

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

GDFF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I should give POF a go, might get more luck getting a meet there than here! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on it as you know op lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?"

I don't think a 'good dating site' exists. Most of the guys on those sites just want a fuck while the women want flowers and romance crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I went on plenty of fish after I caught my husband had joined on while we were married,, he can up as my match, typical, my current bloke I met on plenty of fish , still going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother with dating sites. I joined one once and found men just wanted sex or a sexually exclusive relationship without commitment. I only do exclusive in a real relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?

My friend met her hubby on e-harmony. A friend of a friend met her fiancé on there.

E-harmony refused my application tho lol"

It refused mine too! I'm still on POF and have seen a fair few people that are in both!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I joined e harmony but there wasn't a compatibility box for pervy sex addict nympho swinger! Can't do vanilla so hoping I meet someone special through my swinging shenanigans x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined e harmony but there wasn't a compatibility box for pervy sex addict nympho swinger! Can't do vanilla so hoping I meet someone special through my swinging shenanigans x

lol damn! How did you find e-harmony other than that?!

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

The kinkiest woman i ever met was from POF, she got me into strap on's, dressing and being a sub. Sadly i moved away so it ended, but was a lot of fun while it lasted

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it useful to google usernames when people want a meet or who are a bit suspect. A lot of people keep the same usernames and it's amazing how one guy can claim to be a serving soldier on leave from Afghanistan on here, but on POF can be a mercenary and so on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use dating sites any more - too many liars. I find fab far more honest and fantastic for making friend and socialising!

I've been contacted by countless men who previously saw me on dating sites.

Re relationship with someone here - why not? I've had the best sex of my life on fab! Love the idea of finding someone who is open minded enough to enjoy the social and friendship side with me. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF and OKC. I find that men tend to be more up front here, whereas they tend to say what they think you wanna hear on conventional dating sites.

Oh give me an insatiable, irresistible dominant guy and I'll be happy. I don't mind exclusivity providing he's happy to role play swinging

, or happy to swing. I cannot go back to vanilla.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I joined e harmony but there wasn't a compatibility box for pervy sex addict nympho swinger! Can't do vanilla so hoping I meet someone special through my swinging shenanigans x

lol damn! How did you find e-harmony other than that?!"

I got matched with a few I thought might be ok but nothing jumped out as Cor! so I never arranged any meets. I just didn't find it helpful for me as most just looked vanilla and that 'pervy sex addict nympho swinger' convo' isn't for the faint hearted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on Match. Tried eharmony but I didn't think much of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on Match. Tried eharmony but I didn't think much of it. "

Why was that if you don't mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes fab is better and more peeps here.. been on pof for 2 years and only got 3 emails lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Match affinity was the best site I used when I was single, that's if you are looking for a partner.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Match affinity was the best site I used when I was single, that's if you are looking for a partner."

Even one who swings? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have a profile on Pof. Don't go on it as much as I'm not looking for a relationship. The last time I met someone off Pof was 7 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Match affinity was the best site I used when I was single, that's if you are looking for a partner.

Even one who swings? X"

Didn't then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on Match. Tried eharmony but I didn't think much of it.

Why was that if you don't mind me asking?"

Their 'matching' algorithms didn't seem able to match me with anyone who I had anything in common with. In a couple of cases, it tried to match me up with women I didn't even share a language with.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The thing is how many people on here would accept a monogamous lifestyle if they found someone on POF?

The last guy I talked to on POF was excited by the idea of being faithful to one woman who could meet as many men as she liked!! Cake, eat!!

I tried eHarmony once and it was utterly useless - they kept throwing up totally unsuitable, unfuckable men from the other end of the country. Never got in contact with anyone.

It will refuse your application if you are too moderate in your answers - if you come out 'neither fish nor fowl' their system cannot match you. If you state stronger opinions and preferences it will go through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The kinkiest woman i ever met was from POF, she got me into strap on's, dressing and being a sub. Sadly i moved away so it ended, but was a lot of fun while it lasted"

Mmmmmm sounds like my type of bloke.

Not on POF or any other dating sites - can't be arsed with it all - just fab for me!!!

I've a few male friends I can call upon for drinks, meal and sex - suits me!!!

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By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"Ok well feel free to find me on Pof

Be interesting to see who's on there

Why do they need to go to the trouble of finding you on POF when they could PM you on here?!

Quite nice to read there profile on three too see what other interests we share other than on here

But they could still make contact on here and then you could swap details regarding profiles on other sites if you felt so inclined!! "

If they get in touch on here that's great

All the better chances of me finding a women who wants to settle is slim

Off here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a profile on pof too although i'm never on there. It's a load of shite in my opinion

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By *pice of life 79 OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"I have a profile on pof too although i'm never on there. It's a load of shite in my opinion"

Delete your profile then lol

It's what ever you make of it

I've had a few dates off site but nothing come of it but dates were enjoyable and made good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually did find and date another swinger from POF. It didn't work out long term but proof that that it can happen.

Saying that I'd still prefer to date someone from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on pof as well.. I'm

Looking for a relationship with a mr right and mr wrong- someone who understands me x

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm on POF ... although sometimes I wonder if I stink of fish as no - one seems to even leave me the slightest message ! ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on OKC, Pof and Match lol

Would rather meet someone here though tbh, seems those dating sites are full of people who want total monogamy. "

that's what I worry about hun ... not sure I was ever ment to be a one man woman :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad this thread came up, was thinking of going on e-harmony, not sure I will now!! Might give match a go but failing that, anyone fancy a date!!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF, OKC, lots of others.

I love sex (more of lifestyle than a pastime) and I am hoping to find somebody filthy as well as a partnership.

Still not sure about threesomes and moresomes, but I think it might just be the right person who I trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad this thread came up, was thinking of going on e-harmony, not sure I will now!! Might give match a go but failing that, anyone fancy a date!!?!"

I tried Match... Never again. Yes there are less timewasters and cheaters, but you have a word limit on your profile, and the damn site tries to get you to upgrade, and upgrade and join its sister site. It's just interested in your money.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"I broke pof.

I put a profile on, stating what I was looking for, in 3 hours I had 700 odd messages, then my account got closed! "

That happened to me too! Rather snotty message from the owners telling me I may be better joining a more adult site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting post and people being honest

In a community they like here one of the

Great things about fab when Its a good Post different views and outlooks helps To make this site what It Is ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof a few years ago and found it a complete waste of time. Can anyone recommend a good dating site (if there is such a thing!) Has anyone on here tried e-harmony or know anyone who has?

My friend met her hubby on e-harmony. A friend of a friend met her fiancé on there.

E-harmony refused my application tho lol

Oh dear, I won't ask why! I kind of like the idea that you don't have to trawl through loads of profiles."

Haha I was refused because I'm separated. You need to be single, divorced or widowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad this thread came up, was thinking of going on e-harmony, not sure I will now!! Might give match a go but failing that, anyone fancy a date!!?!

Oh bollocks, don't know what site to try now lol. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on pof and match. Like people say it can be worse than here. But I rarely get emails on either now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OKC is my favourite. I love their question matching system - it asks you about loads of relationship stuff so that you can check your compatibility beforehand. I love the fact I can put I'm bi on there too, on other sites you're only allowed to state one gender you're seeking.

Only downside is it's not as well populated as Pof, but it is growing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OKC is my favourite. I love their question matching system - it asks you about loads of relationship stuff so that you can check your compatibility beforehand. I love the fact I can put I'm bi on there too, on other sites you're only allowed to state one gender you're seeking.

Only downside is it's not as well populated as Pof, but it is growing."

Good to see a positive post, about OKC. Seems to work - apart from actually getting responses.... Perhaps it has a lot of the not very well connected types on it...?

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