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By *jfkew OP   Man
over a year ago

From Sheffield

Ok, so you arrange a meet somewhere, you arrive at the hotel they're at and you let them know. They say they're 10 mins away and they just need to get changed, then.......SILENCE!

An hour and three unread messages later you're still there.

How long do you wait before you decide 'time waster' and go home???

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

10 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One drink, no chasing and gone

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 to 14 hours then I'm off . I don't mess about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're taking the piss, especially if you've been waiting an hour. Go home, don't waste anymore of your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be well pissed off ! I would have one drink then go

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About 30 mins - about the time it takes to drink a coffee.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

If they told you 10 mins then I would finish my drink and leave.

As to kot responding I'm guessing they saw you and thought you nit for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 30 mins - about the time it takes to drink a coffee. "

Does it take you 30 minutes to drink a coffee??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they told you 10 mins then I would finish my drink and leave.

As to kot responding I'm guessing they saw you and thought you nit for them."

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By *jfkew OP   Man
over a year ago

From Sheffield

Funnily enough they're now no longer on site. Bloody time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funnily enough they're now no longer on site. Bloody time waster."

I bet they'll be back on a new profile soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been stood up but I'd wait for as long as it took me to finish my drink then leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half hour

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Ok, so you arrange a meet somewhere, you arrive at the hotel they're at and you let them know. They say they're 10 mins away and they just need to get changed, then.......SILENCE!

An hour and three unread messages later you're still there.

How long do you wait before you decide 'time waster' and go home???"

I'm a tad confused.

You arrive at the hotel they're at and they're ten minutes away?

Had they gone for a stroll or a drive?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so you arrange a meet somewhere, you arrive at the hotel they're at and you let them know. They say they're 10 mins away and they just need to get changed, then.......SILENCE!

An hour and three unread messages later you're still there.

How long do you wait before you decide 'time waster' and go home???

I'm a tad confused.

You arrive at the hotel they're at and they're ten minutes away?

Had they gone for a stroll or a drive?

A"

Maybe they hadn't booked in, running late or maybe they were just full of bullshit and had no intention of ever going??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been stood up but I'd wait for as long as it took me to finish my drink then leave. "
we waited longer that that for you. I nearly caught some crabs while waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just time to finish my drink then see ya

Block and shout. Next !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing happened to me in Blackpool last year. Kept me waiting for hours and kept saying she was on her way but in the end never bloody turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been stood up but I'd wait for as long as it took me to finish my drink then leave. we waited longer that that for you. I nearly caught some crabs while waiting "

Hmmm yes, you did shout it out VERY loudly that you'd caught crabs I've only been back once and had to go in disguise.

Did they clear up by the way? rolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been stood up but I'd wait for as long as it took me to finish my drink then leave. we waited longer that that for you. I nearly caught some crabs while waiting

Hmmm yes, you did shout it out VERY loudly that you'd caught crabs I've only been back once and had to go in disguise.

Did they clear up by the way? rolf"
yeah. 2lb of sugar down yer pants. Does not kill em but it rots there teeth and stops em nipping

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By *jfkew OP   Man
over a year ago

From Sheffield


"Ok, so you arrange a meet somewhere, you arrive at the hotel they're at and you let them know. They say they're 10 mins away and they just need to get changed, then.......SILENCE!

An hour and three unread messages later you're still there.

How long do you wait before you decide 'time waster' and go home???

I'm a tad confused.

You arrive at the hotel they're at and they're ten minutes away?

Had they gone for a stroll or a drive?

A"

She was supposedly stopping at the hotel as she was in the area for work. She was on her way back to the hotel from wherever she was working that day (apparently) and was 10 mins away.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Ok, so you arrange a meet somewhere, you arrive at the hotel they're at and you let them know. They say they're 10 mins away and they just need to get changed, then.......SILENCE!

An hour and three unread messages later you're still there.

How long do you wait before you decide 'time waster' and go home???

I'm a tad confused.

You arrive at the hotel they're at and they're ten minutes away?

Had they gone for a stroll or a drive?

A

She was supposedly stopping at the hotel as she was in the area for work. She was on her way back to the hotel from wherever she was working that day (apparently) and was 10 mins away."

Thanks for coming back!

Was it a well verified 'she' that you'd spoken to or was it all arranged via messages on here?

The latter will sadly leave you open to these things happening - the former doesn't guarantee anything but will reduce the likelihood.

Hopefully you hadn't travelled far and at least you weren't paying for the room.

Better luck next time!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 30 mins - about the time it takes to drink a coffee. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get really d*unk, invite over loads of people and have a great night

Joking aside, I'd just wait around half an hour or have a slow pint while I'm waiting. Guessing you didn't swap numbers?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"One drink "

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By *jfkew OP   Man
over a year ago

From Sheffield


"I'd get really d*unk, invite over loads of people and have a great night

Joking aside, I'd just wait around half an hour or have a slow pint while I'm waiting. Guessing you didn't swap numbers? "

Yep, we had a pint and a bit of food while waiting. We didn't have to travel far so it wasn't that bad.

She had my number, never reciprocated though. Ah well, her loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a real shame people have to do that, I understand no one like confrontation but if you aren't interested just say no

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