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"I'd class TS as women. They have the mindset of being a woman and have changed their body to become one physically. My own personal thoughts on gender is that it means nothing unless you want to create a baby, because you need a man and woman to make one. As for anything else, we have created stereotypes and given gender roles but they make no sense. You are who are by how you feel, no-one can define you and your body parts do not define or limit you in any way. " I was about to query something similar although not as eloquently as you have, There was a thread on here yesterday about the best looking TV/TS girls and some mentioned were breathtakingly beautiful, with better boobs than I will ever have, now with that in mind I could see why a guy would still consider himself straight if he was attracted to them, apart from the obvious penis attached everything else is screaming hot lady. | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A" So with that in mind do you think the person who wanted to meet tv's/ts's just wanted to go for a drink, and nothing more.....on a swingers site | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A So with that in mind do you think the person who wanted to meet tv's/ts's just wanted to go for a drink, and nothing more.....on a swingers site " It could have been a fab social. You you chat with a bi guy you cant catch it | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A So with that in mind do you think the person who wanted to meet tv's/ts's just wanted to go for a drink, and nothing more.....on a swingers site It could have been a fab social. You you chat with a bi guy you cant catch it " Agreed, but I'm on about the fact it was on their profile that they want to meet tv's/ts's, surely they don't come to a swingers site to make friends!!! | |||
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"I'd class TS as women. They have the mindset of being a woman and have changed their body to become one physically. My own personal thoughts on gender is that it means nothing unless you want to create a baby, because you need a man and woman to make one. As for anything else, we have created stereotypes and given gender roles but they make no sense. You are who are by how you feel, no-one can define you and your body parts do not define or limit you in any way. I was about to query something similar although not as eloquently as you have, There was a thread on here yesterday about the best looking TV/TS girls and some mentioned were breathtakingly beautiful, with better boobs than I will ever have, now with that in mind I could see why a guy would still consider himself straight if he was attracted to them, apart from the obvious penis attached everything else is screaming hot lady. " I suppose if i wanted to be pedantic then being female is basically down to your chromosomes. But yeah, your chromosomes do not define how you feel about yourself and how your personality or looks should be. | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A So with that in mind do you think the person who wanted to meet tv's/ts's just wanted to go for a drink, and nothing more.....on a swingers site " Exactly, this is a swingers site which means for me and a lot of people, the social side is as important as the sex side and like I said earlier, a straight guy camming or social, fine, sex with a guy, then he's not straight. What I don't like is them hiding the veris so people can't make an informed choice. A lot of people say they only meet straight men - don't count on it! | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A So with that in mind do you think the person who wanted to meet tv's/ts's just wanted to go for a drink, and nothing more.....on a swingers site It could have been a fab social. You you chat with a bi guy you cant catch it Agreed, but I'm on about the fact it was on their profile that they want to meet tv's/ts's, surely they don't come to a swingers site to make friends!!!" If there was a way of saying we'd happily meet anyone at a club for a drink/chat - but not play? We'd gladly list all options. I know what you're saying though - many won't be open about their sexuality primarily because they think it will work against them when looking to meet women and couples. Why they don't realise listing TV/TS will have the same effect I'm not sure. But it doesn't worry us. Everything on a profile can be changed/adjusted to suit a target audience at a specific time. It's why most of our interactions are in clubs - you approach people with an open mind as there's no labels, written details or info to go on - just what you can see and talk to them about. We've met many in clubs that on checking later have had 'no smokers', 'no bi/curious guys' and 'no tattoos' in their details. People often write things that aren't always the case in face to face interactions. A | |||
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"I'm never entirely sure why people get so angry or 'irritated' by this. The person has verifications and friends for example who are not hidden so they aren't trying to trick anyone into anything. It seems a little odd on something as allegedly open and liberal as a swinging site to desperately want to label everyone and to then get annoyed by the way someone else labels them self For some, sexuality is cut and dry, black and white. For others it's much more complex and harder to define. If I'm totally honest, in 'real life' and 99% of the time I'm totally straight. But I come on here sometimes because I also have an attraction to tv/ts girls. Now that's a complex thing - for some it's unacceptable, for some it's natural, for some it makes you as gay as can be etc. I find it much more complicated than that. I changed my profile from straight to bi a while ago because the label police made me feel I had to relabel. It probably instantly excluded me from being attractive to the women of most fancy a lot of the time, but had to accept that unfortunately much as I wish it wasn't the case! Women are amazing! Ha. But I don't really ever feel I have the right to get angry or dictate someone else's self labelling or profile. As long as you're honest when you chat to people and give them info they feel they need to communicate with you then so be it. " The person I was on about, as the op had no Veris and I didn't say that had. Also I've not been angry about it, or dictated anything, just asked a question was all! We don't label anyone, but we wanted to meet a straight man, not one who removes who he wants to meet after I've pointed it out, in the hope that it makes everything ok | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A So with that in mind do you think the person who wanted to meet tv's/ts's just wanted to go for a drink, and nothing more.....on a swingers site It could have been a fab social. You you chat with a bi guy you cant catch it Agreed, but I'm on about the fact it was on their profile that they want to meet tv's/ts's, surely they don't come to a swingers site to make friends!!! If there was a way of saying we'd happily meet anyone at a club for a drink/chat - but not play? We'd gladly list all options. I know what you're saying though - many won't be open about their sexuality primarily because they think it will work against them when looking to meet women and couples. Why they don't realise listing TV/TS will have the same effect I'm not sure. But it doesn't worry us. Everything on a profile can be changed/adjusted to suit a target audience at a specific time. It's why most of our interactions are in clubs - you approach people with an open mind as there's no labels, written details or info to go on - just what you can see and talk to them about. We've met many in clubs that on checking later have had 'no smokers', 'no bi/curious guys' and 'no tattoos' in their details. People often write things that aren't always the case in face to face interactions. A" | |||
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"who cares,people can call themselves what they want,perhaps if society was more open minded no one would notice nor care." If "straight" guys didn't write so often offering to suck my cock then maybe it wouldn't be an issue. Its got bugger all to do with being open minded and everything to do with preferences. | |||
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"I am straight but enjoy shemale porn but wouldn't do anything sexual, what does that make me? lol." A bloody horny bugger lol | |||
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"I am straight but enjoy shemale porn but wouldn't do anything sexual, what does that make me? lol. A bloody horny bugger lol " Yes I agree there to with that diagnosis lol | |||
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" I decided it's best to be honest, but I can understand when guys aren't - being turned down by a bi woman because being a bi guy is disgusting or 'not just my thing' is just as hypocritical, if not more, as sleeping with a TV while claiming to be straight." Well sign me up to the hypocrites club please. I'm a bi woman, I fancy men and women, but the thought of 2 men playing does not appeal to me at all. Its my health and my decision who to sleep with, and to me bi men are prone to risky behaviours (speaking from experience and the ones I do know) And as for fab straight, some guys think it will get them more meets as if lying is an attractive trait as its usually more see through than 10 denier stockings! | |||
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"I questioned A guy only last night on this ! two veri,s up both from tv,s And I'm like your not straight it's clearly stating you f....d him In his defence he did answer and not block And just said oh I must be bi then duh like most I must be missing something And I'm also not against anyone bi or anything else I've met bi but just don't say your straight !! " surely you can fuck a tv and be straight, its the tv taking the cock, so he is the bi one | |||
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"I am straight but enjoy shemale porn but wouldn't do anything sexual, what does that make me? lol." Curious, methinks. | |||
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"who cares,people can call themselves what they want,perhaps if society was more open minded no one would notice nor care. If "straight" guys didn't write so often offering to suck my cock then maybe it wouldn't be an issue. Its got bugger all to do with being open minded and everything to do with preferences." It is shocking the amount of offers I get from STRAIGHT guys who want to suck my cock. Somebody went as far as to suggest that my profile name was misleading. Straight my chin chin chin! | |||
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"Straight . Isn't that guys who fab erect cocks and say they want a guy to suck them because they are only letting it happen and not them doing the sucking " Yes but my alter ego gets guys wanting to suck 'her' cock and for 'her' to fuck them up the bum, 'she's' happy let them make 'her' cum | |||
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"I am straight but enjoy shemale porn but wouldn't do anything sexual, what does that make me? lol. Curious, methinks. " Yes if ever it would be with a convincing one | |||
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"My new TGirl profile Rebekah Brown is getting lots of mails from straight men who want to suck my cock. Also a few who want me to fuck them " I won't | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A" the Content of the veri was sexual and I never assume if I'm curious I'll message as I did and ask !! | |||
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"I really don't get it either. I'm very black & white when it comes to. sexuality on here. There's an awful lot of openness and the like nowadays, with people not wanting to 'classify' their sexuality. I often think it's just -too- much. (Pansexual vs Bisexual etc...) I totally respect someone who goes by that rule of thumb, even if I do find it a little too much, myself. ...back to Fab. I don't get it. Straight men fab my cock pics. Odd. No problem with a guy fabbing it (even if I don't swing that way) but if they tell me there straight but curious... I correct them You are BI-CURIOUS.. Change your details. It's more annoying than anything. Nobody wins - they're only denying it to themselves, too." | |||
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"who cares,people can call themselves what they want,perhaps if society was more open minded no one would notice nor care. If "straight" guys didn't write so often offering to suck my cock then maybe it wouldn't be an issue. Its got bugger all to do with being open minded and everything to do with preferences." oh just lie back n let them suck you off ffs | |||
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"A TS can be a woman born into a mans body so she would be looking for straight men, not gay men who fancy men but don't like women." gay men don't find ts's sexually attractive,thats a fact. bi guys n straight guys do,thats my experience | |||
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"labels are for jam.... some more fruity than others..." indeedy, the only labels I like are designer ones | |||
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"A TS can be a woman born into a mans body so she would be looking for straight men, not gay men who fancy men but don't like women. gay men don't find ts's sexually attractive,thats a fact. bi guys n straight guys do,thats my experience " Amen xxxx | |||
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"labels are for jam.... some more fruity than others..." Does it really matter how people do/don't label themselves. If you want to play with them do, if you don't want to play with them don't - it really is that simple!! | |||
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"I absolutely would have sex with, date, whateer with someone transgendered, and I consider myself straight. For me, I'd use the word straight as a definition because I'm masculine and I'm attracted to femininity, not out of some homophobic insecurity about 'oh no! not the cock, I might catch the gay!!!' Well said. Also people on here need to educate themselves and stop putting tvs and ts's into the same category (yes fabs fault I know). If a guy meets a tv then yes hes probably considered bi because a tv is somone that still lives part of their life as a male. Ts on the other hand are people that from very young age always felt they was born in wrong body and feel their soul is female and they take measures to become more feminine I.e hormones, operations ect and live their lifes asa female 24/7. So if a guy has met a TS and says hes straight on his profile its because he IS straight. not his fault that fab make it so if somones met a TS that they also get the tv/ts tag with it, which just confuses everyone. fab needs to give them seperate labels because TS I would class as women. So, yeah, I'd argue it's absolutely possible to have fun with someone who identifies as feminine and be straight. Gender is much, much more than just what's between your legs. " | |||
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"labels are for jam.... some more fruity than others... Does it really matter how people do/don't label themselves. If you want to play with them do, if you don't want to play with them don't - it really is that simple!! " probably, as there are a million threads on this subject, so I think how others label themselves seems to be important to many.... | |||
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"labels are for jam.... some more fruity than others..." Mikki ponders what kind of fruit she would be | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. " And what if he doesn't "penetrate" the TV but does everything else apart from penetrative sex? | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. " Good grief would one not electrocute ones self penetrating a television | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. Good grief would one not electrocute ones self penetrating a television " Haha x | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. And what if he doesn't "penetrate" the TV but does everything else apart from penetrative sex?" In my eyes... He's still bi. | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. " you mention TV'S but what of TS'S there totally different from TV's? | |||
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"I'd class TS as women. They have the mindset of being a woman and have changed their body to become one physically. My own personal thoughts on gender is that it means nothing unless you want to create a baby, because you need a man and woman to make one. As for anything else, we have created stereotypes and given gender roles but they make no sense. You are who are by how you feel, no-one can define you and your body parts do not define or limit you in any way. " ^^^^ THIS !! ^^^^ You are who you are, labels are for the paranoid | |||
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"I have always liked both men and women, and have had happy relationships and NSA sex with both - it took me a while to come to terms with it but now I happily admit that I enjoy both, but... This is mostly a site for meeting straight people (there are better sites for gay men) and so, on here, it tends just to put off girls in my experience. I'd say a majority of girls. (Thank you those who accept it) I decided it's best to be honest, but I can understand when guys aren't - being turned down by a bi woman because being a bi guy is disgusting or 'not just my thing' is just as hypocritical, if not more, as sleeping with a TV while claiming to be straight." | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. you mention TV'S but what of TS'S there totally different from TV's?" A TV is usually a man dressed as a woman... A TS can be of 2 things... Pre op is still a man. Often op I would class as a woman. Again only my _iew. I have no issue with men being bi..although it's not for me... Just be honest and don't be scared of admitting it. | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. you mention TV'S but what of TS'S there totally different from TV's? A TV is usually a man dressed as a woman... A TS can be of 2 things... Pre op is still a man. Often op I would class as a woman. Again only my _iew. I have no issue with men being bi..although it's not for me... Just be honest and don't be scared of admitting it." *after op* ..... Not often. Stupid iPad. | |||
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"I know this topic has been flogged to death on the forums but when is straight straight! Had a message from a nice guy, with a nice profile, nice pics, looking to meet women, couples and TS's/TV's!!! Am I missing something!!! Consequently he removed it after I replied saying only looking for straight guys and not men who meet TV's/TS's!!! " I used to dislike mushrooms now I love 'em. | |||
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"I have always liked both men and women, and have had happy relationships and NSA sex with both - it took me a while to come to terms with it but now I happily admit that I enjoy both, but... This is mostly a site for meeting straight people (there are better sites for gay men) and so, on here, it tends just to put off girls in my experience. I'd say a majority of girls. (Thank you those who accept it) I decided it's best to be honest, but I can understand when guys aren't - being turned down by a bi woman because being a bi guy is disgusting or 'not just my thing' is just as hypocritical, if not more, as sleeping with a TV while claiming to be straight." I like women and am bi But dont like two guys together and its my CHOICE to reject such people | |||
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"labels are for jam.... some more fruity than others... Does it really matter how people do/don't label themselves. If you want to play with them do, if you don't want to play with them don't - it really is that simple!! probably, as there are a million threads on this subject, so I think how others label themselves seems to be important to many...." Then I'm glad I'm not one of the many | |||
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"It's something I've never understood. Why guys can't accept they are BI sexual if they play with a guy. I have seen hundreds of profiles on here saying 'straight' but have many verifications from TV's stating what a wonderful time they had and so on. In my eyes.. If a man meets and plays with a man = BI sexual A TV is a guy... So if a man penetrates a TV = BI sexual. This site is full of openness but just be honest with your self.... And for gods sake respect those who are not interested in bi men...but that's another thread I guess. you mention TV'S but what of TS'S there totally different from TV's? A TV is usually a man dressed as a woman... A TS can be of 2 things... Pre op is still a man. Often op I would class as a woman. Again only my _iew. I have no issue with men being bi..although it's not for me... Just be honest and don't be scared of admitting it." If yer talkin to me I can asure you im very open n honest bout who n what I am | |||
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"I know this topic has been flogged to death on the forums but when is straight straight! Had a message from a nice guy, with a nice profile, nice pics, looking to meet women, couples and TS's/TV's!!! Am I missing something!!! Consequently he removed it after I replied saying only looking for straight guys and not men who meet TV's/TS's!!! " probably did not read your profile properly. That seems to happen alot. | |||
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"I'm straight and i've got veris from all sorts of people (i think). And to be honest - it's not my problem. To me that just demonstrates that someone is so closed minded that they jump to conclusions even before they got to know someone. And in all fairness. You'd have thought that on a swinging site people would have been much more openminded and non judgemental but that just hasn't been the case (from what i've seen with many). If someone has a problem with who met who with total disregard to whether it could have been a sexual or a social meet. That's just ignorance. ..and now to go off on a rant I'd speak to anybody regardless of their gender or sexuality. Just because i'm speaking to someone doesn't necessarily mean i want to fuck 'em. You see a lot of that in the chatrooms - at socials or parties i'd speak to anyone too. Now that may lead to them writing me a verification. How will people perceive those before reading them? " | |||
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"of couyrse some of us do...do some married men know what straight is....I've known a few that werent so open about it. STOP MAKING SINGLE MEN A FOCUS ON ANYTHING THATS UNLIKED oops..felt I should shout that..." I agree with that Paddy Not so much now, but when I was here on my own, I got quite a few offers from the male half of (meet verified) couples who fancied a bit of cock whilst the other half wasn't looking. Some were listed as bi, the majority weren't. I even had one guy say he'd love to touch some of the guys they played with as a couple, but he couldn't cos his wife was so homophobic. | |||
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"of couyrse some of us do...do some married men know what straight is....I've known a few that werent so open about it. STOP MAKING SINGLE MEN A FOCUS ON ANYTHING THATS UNLIKED oops..felt I should shout that... I agree with that Paddy Not so much now, but when I was here on my own, I got quite a few offers from the male half of (meet verified) couples who fancied a bit of cock whilst the other half wasn't looking. Some were listed as bi, the majority weren't. I even had one guy say he'd love to touch some of the guys they played with as a couple, but he couldn't cos his wife was so homophobic." Just out of interest, do you reckon it happens much the other way round? Gay couples that have one half that's more bi than anything, try it on with a woman? Personally, I don't think so Sarah x | |||
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"of couyrse some of us do...do some married men know what straight is....I've known a few that werent so open about it. STOP MAKING SINGLE MEN A FOCUS ON ANYTHING THATS UNLIKED oops..felt I should shout that... I agree with that Paddy Not so much now, but when I was here on my own, I got quite a few offers from the male half of (meet verified) couples who fancied a bit of cock whilst the other half wasn't looking. Some were listed as bi, the majority weren't. I even had one guy say he'd love to touch some of the guys they played with as a couple, but he couldn't cos his wife was so homophobic.Just out of interest, do you reckon it happens much the other way round? Gay couples that have one half that's more bi than anything, try it on with a woman? Personally, I don't think so Sarah x" Maybe. Anything is possible. I can only speak from my experience though. We have kind of discussed this as whilst I recognise I'm gay, my sexual history is somewhat diverse and I am one of those gays who isn't repulsed by the thought of touching a fanny (just some of them ) If at some point, we do decide to go down this road though, then it will be with both our knowledge and consent and, more importantly, with the understanding of those we were meeting. | |||
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"of couyrse some of us do...do some married men know what straight is....I've known a few that werent so open about it. STOP MAKING SINGLE MEN A FOCUS ON ANYTHING THATS UNLIKED oops..felt I should shout that... I agree with that Paddy Not so much now, but when I was here on my own, I got quite a few offers from the male half of (meet verified) couples who fancied a bit of cock whilst the other half wasn't looking. Some were listed as bi, the majority weren't. I even had one guy say he'd love to touch some of the guys they played with as a couple, but he couldn't cos his wife was so homophobic.Just out of interest, do you reckon it happens much the other way round? Gay couples that have one half that's more bi than anything, try it on with a woman? Personally, I don't think so Sarah x Maybe. Anything is possible. I can only speak from my experience though. We have kind of discussed this as whilst I recognise I'm gay, my sexual history is somewhat diverse and I am one of those gays who isn't repulsed by the thought of touching a fanny (just some of them ) If at some point, we do decide to go down this road though, then it will be with both our knowledge and consent and, more importantly, with the understanding of those we were meeting." Yes, sexuality (I think) is so transient. I, for one, am glad it is, because I've the best times ever, whilst involved in mmf with 'straight' guys. Seeing them do very not straight things. It's true what you say, things so much easier when open and above board. Sarah x | |||
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"I think a lot of bi/tv/ts see it as a challenge to turn a straight guy. Some kind of ego trip. But im sorry your never truely turn a straight guy. Even if there married or straight etc on profile. Keep dreaming guys " I've talked to a lot of bi guys and not met one who gets a kick out of turning straight guys. | |||
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"..... We have kind of discussed this as whilst I recognise I'm gay, my sexual history is somewhat diverse and I am one of those gays who isn't repulsed by the thought of touching a fanny (just some of them ) ..... " Oh come on; come clean; you are a closet heterosexual | |||
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"..... We have kind of discussed this as whilst I recognise I'm gay, my sexual history is somewhat diverse and I am one of those gays who isn't repulsed by the thought of touching a fanny (just some of them ) ..... Oh come on; come clean; you are a closet heterosexual " ah aha | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A" I agree as i am straight but have veris from TinaTitz who i have met at several of the group socials on here. The written part of my profile text clearly says i'm only looking to meet women and couples for sex, but i may have non sexual veris from group socials i go to. There is a lot of moaning on this site that single men don't read profiles but i have had several couples mail me obvious they have not read my profile as they jump to wrong conclusions about my veris. | |||
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"Yup, I know what straight is and I'm 100% it. " But you said you loved me | |||
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" I decided it's best to be honest, but I can understand when guys aren't - being turned down by a bi woman because being a bi guy is disgusting or 'not just my thing' is just as hypocritical, if not more, as sleeping with a TV while claiming to be straight. Well sign me up to the hypocrites club please. I'm a bi woman, I fancy men and women, but the thought of 2 men playing does not appeal to me at all. Its my health and my decision who to sleep with, and to me bi men are prone to risky behaviours (speaking from experience and the ones I do know) And as for fab straight, some guys think it will get them more meets as if lying is an attractive trait as its usually more see through than 10 denier stockings! " I prefer pretty poly on a Woman that Is... | |||
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"Yup, I know what straight is and I'm 100% it. But you said you loved me " Can I love you instead?! x | |||
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"Yup, I know what straight is and I'm 100% it. But you said you loved me Can I love you instead?! x " I can cope with more than one at a time | |||
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"I know this topic has been flogged to death on the forums but when is straight straight! Had a message from a nice guy, with a nice profile, nice pics, looking to meet women, couples and TS's/TV's!!! Am I missing something!!! Consequently he removed it after I replied saying only looking for straight guys and not men who meet TV's/TS's!!! " Whilst I get your point I think there are exceptions. I don't meet at the moment but though I'm straight and would only meet women I am happy for anyone to talk to me, so my profile is open to anyone to see and contact me. I also do photography and have done shoots for men, women, TV and ts. So assuming a person's sexual orientation based on who the profile days they will "meet" is completely understandable but not always right. | |||
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"Imagine if whenever someone emailed someone that wasnt' for them for one reason or another we all came to the forums histrionic style I've found focusing on those that appeal over dwelling on those that dont or wont works well " Gold star to that man | |||
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"Mmmm straight is straight simple ??" Yep, totally agree; you are simple | |||
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"Mmmm straight is straight simple ?? Yep, totally agree; you are simple " Bit harsh | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A I agree as i am straight but have veris from TinaTitz who i have met at several of the group socials on here. The written part of my profile text clearly says i'm only looking to meet women and couples for sex, but i may have non sexual veris from group socials i go to. There is a lot of moaning on this site that single men don't read profiles but i have had several couples mail me obvious they have not read my profile as they jump to wrong conclusions about my veris. " Yes and if the people had read the actual verification, they'd see that it was just at a social, with no fuckery involved, as I always go out of my way to say this on non-sexual verifications. | |||
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"Veri's from TV/TS or men don't necessarily mean a guy is bi - the content has to be taken into account. We know plenty who have met both socially and are happy to be verified by them - and why not? Obviously if the content describes sex then that's different. But don't assume every very is a play veri ! A I agree as i am straight but have veris from TinaTitz who i have met at several of the group socials on here. The written part of my profile text clearly says i'm only looking to meet women and couples for sex, but i may have non sexual veris from group socials i go to. There is a lot of moaning on this site that single men don't read profiles but i have had several couples mail me obvious they have not read my profile as they jump to wrong conclusions about my veris. Yes and if the people had read the actual verification, they'd see that it was just at a social, with no fuckery involved, as I always go out of my way to say this on non-sexual verifications. " Lots of people don't even bother reading your status properly never mind your profile. | |||
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" Lots of people don't even bother reading your status properly never mind your profile." I wish they did, because I try to be entertaining on my status updates | |||
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