FabSwingers.com forum: 'Ruining' women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't think about what people type on the Internet that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not have anything wrecked or ruined...I'd quite like to use them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not alone as we hate this also.

But by posting this youll soon find there are others that like it so just accept we are all different and get sroused by different things where noone is right or wrong for what they enjoy

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

would be a straight red card for me. Really not my thing at all.

T xx

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"I'd rather not have anything wrecked or ruined...I'd quite like to use them again "

This

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

No you're not.

The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.

Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're not.

The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.

Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're not.

The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.

Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather daft i think.

Why give the Bitches prior warning

Gimp

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Not at all, I love picking up pieces of my vagina after a meet.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Rather daft i think.

Why give the Bitches prior warning

Gimp

ffs i just proper spat me coffee everywhere over this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anybody said that to me - he would ruin them - no we dont like that

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not at all, I love picking up pieces of my vagina after a meet. "

eeewwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the reverse work? Do men want their cocks ruined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just always makes me giggle... And the ones that when I say no thanks say I wouldn't have handled them.... Lee thinks I should at times just say ok and see how far they get but that attitude has already turned me off so it wouldn't be much good for me x although I guess it could be amusing occasionally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come play my 'charm it up' game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, just porn slang. But agree that we wouldn't be interested in anyone who uses it.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Not at all, I love picking up pieces of my vagina after a meet.

eeewwwwwww

I do use gloves ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the reverse work? Do men want their cocks ruined?"

No chance, we value their ability to function too much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the men are holding their willies and praying to the god of banjo strings..

) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be quite a common phrase around her....to "wreck" someone would mean to give them a good fucking....not to cause them any damage. At least I would hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably just wannabe dominant types....and keyboard warriors online...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that sort of language very distasteful and disrespectful, no need for crude immature rubbish like that. I had a message once from a guy saying he wanted to destroy my pussy, I replied saying I'd reported him to the RSPCA and then blocked him!!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"Does the reverse work? Do men want their cocks ruined?"

But it often happens, usually through over enthusiasm, not always on my part either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really distasteful it more an expression of immaturity to us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No you're not.

The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.

Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."

It's the women asking to be 'ruined' that really gets to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really distasteful it more an expression of immaturity to us."

My thoughts exactly .., it's the language of the Geordie Shore crew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it was ever seen on a profile with decent pics of a massive cock, that had several decent verifications from women who'd been left unable to function for a while, then it'd be time to worry that this was a 'thing' that people enjoyed.

As it is, the only times I've seen it, and in fact had someone offer to ruin me recently, are on very thinly filled out and dodgy profiles.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I've had a few messages like that. Block and delete for me

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

"anybody said that to me - he would ruin them - no we dont like that"

der der der,der der de,de der der der........

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this"

Who are about 16 and if you called their bluff they'd cum in their pants and run of home shouting for their mummy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this"

Speaking from experience are we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some comments a little odd, I never understand guys who use their ability to lick you dry as a selling point, mate if I'm dry after you have been down there your doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
That is a straight block and move on for us. As someone else noted, we consider our genitals to me reusable, not disposable...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find some comments a little odd, I never understand guys who use their ability to lick you dry as a selling point, mate if I'm dry after you have been down there your doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like how everyone blames porn. Being ruined was around way before we even had video cassette recorders. As an aside,I quite like being ruined even though it can take a week to get over it

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this

Speaking from experience are we?

Yes.

Thats yes to your post and the one above.

Safe as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mate if I'm dry after you have been down there your doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the reverse work? Do men want their cocks ruined?"
i,ve ruined my cock all by myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one persons got away with saying that to me. But it was the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who says this to me. I just laugh at him but it's fun to let him try

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By *he Master JMan
over a year ago

Southall

"I find that sort of language very distasteful and disrespectful, no need for crude immature rubbish like that. I had a message once from a guy saying he wanted to destroy my pussy, I replied saying I'd reported him to the RSPCA and then blocked him!!"

my dogs would bite anyone who abused my pussycat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather daft i think.

Why give the Bitches prior warning

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha your minge is now ground zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get messages telling me they would love to ruin,destroy or fuck me til I beg them to stop I just think...awww bless,you havn't met me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hahahaha your minge is now ground zero

Somewhat distasteful comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this

Speaking from experience are we?

Yes.

Thats yes to your post and the one above.

Safe as fuck"

Have you grown out of it now?

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

The grey trackie bottom thing is a little harsh .... Everyone has their own turn on's .... And stereotypes not kind.....we like the sensual intimacy of sex but also the edgy side too..... And manage both very well

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this

Speaking from experience are we?

Yes.

Thats yes to your post and the one above.

Safe as fuck

Have you grown out of it now?

No.

1 - I own grey tracky bottoms and first thing I do after my 5.35 shit when I get in is put them on.

2 - Its big and clever that kind of language, chicks dig it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message like that earlier and no it doesn't impress me at all. I would hate to be ruined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its on their profile fine I just avoid but winds me up when they say it in a message there's really no.need and I find it disgusting

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

"I'd rather not have anything wrecked or ruined...I'd quite like to use them again

This

And me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the language. Would like to ruin her pussie and arse regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree we should all be respectful , hope that don't make me boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this

Speaking from experience are we?

Yes.

Thats yes to your post and the one above.

Safe as fuck

Have you grown out of it now?

No.

1 - I own grey tracky bottoms and first thing I do after my 5.35 shit when I get in is put them on.

2 - Its big and clever that kind of language, chicks dig it

Chicks and birds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion."

Then who would we laugh at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion."
We all like to do it, if a woman said can u ruin my pussie, sure everyone would wanna do it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I should put unruin in my profile. Might get more meets that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's shocking! Some women's profiles on here ask to be ruined. Puts me off straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have known ladies who at times wanted to be 'ruined'.......its not so much that I find that kind of sex distasteful...it has it's place from time to time, its more the language i find a little cringeworthy if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I should put unruin in my profile. Might get more meets that way"

I've heard of healing hands but a healing penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion.We all like to do it, if a woman said can u ruin my pussie, sure everyone would wanna do it lol."

No, we don't "all like to do it". Some of us are more respectful and prefer not to act or speak like teenage boys wanking over the Kays catalogue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will update my profile and say I wanna ruin your pussie and see how it goes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! I want you to leave my vag looking like a tin of spam that's been shot with a shotgun lol....maybe....who knows?

Maybe you can open a six pack of whoop ass on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! I want you to leave my vag looking like a tin of spam that's been shot with a shotgun lol....maybe....who knows?

Maybe you can open a six pack of whoop ass on them?

"
loll yes I could of crack one open with my sharp abs, cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me."

That would be an instant block from me

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion."

Some women enjoy being spoken about in those terms, I'm not one of them and tend to agree about the misogyny, but nevertheless it is what some women like.

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

lol just sounds such a chav line to me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on! Nobody told me about this radio feature! This another platinum membership thing? I'm missing out here.......

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion.

Some women enjoy being spoken about in those terms, I'm not one of them and tend to agree about the misogyny, but nevertheless it is what some women like."

True, but there's dirty talk and there's unsolicited misogyny which is what I feel this is.

It's this rubbish and idiots like Dapper Laughs that need removing from the world. Women have enough to deal with, without having men like this around them. I agree, it's also chavvy as mentioned above.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not interested in ruining. Much rather fulfill and please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's horrible and very abusive. I hate it when people start talking like that when you start talking to them and they get more and more coarse and obscene. Yuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being 'ruined'

Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.

I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.

Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it's horrible and very abusive. I hate it when people start talking like that when you start talking to them and they get more and more coarse and obscene. Yuck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love being 'ruined'

Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.

I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.

Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on

I think the point here is that when you say it to a.total stranger with no ideas of their likes and dislikes, it kinda says something about you as a person, I've had guys call me their little sub slut and I've never even talked to them before let alone met them. of course people like dirty chat, love it myself but not really keen on total strangers talkin to me like that, call me crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love being 'ruined'

Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.

I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.

Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're not.

The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.

Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other

So we're agreed? Good.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So we're agreed? Good."

I thought we sort of agreed before.

Mind you I find being called a girl intensely annoying so if someone said they were going to ruin me I'd probably implode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take all sorts out there but not for me, cant see the pleasure on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we're agreed? Good.

I thought we sort of agreed before.

Mind you I find being called a girl intensely annoying so if someone said they were going to ruin me I'd probably implode

We're dancing a dance of agreement/disagreement! It's a bit like a love/hate relationship without any love or hate!....although I do love your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the silent types who keep their cards close to their chest you have to worry about

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So we're agreed? Good.

I thought we sort of agreed before.

Mind you I find being called a girl intensely annoying so if someone said they were going to ruin me I'd probably implode

We're dancing a dance of agreement/disagreement! It's a bit like a love/hate relationship without any love or hate!....although I do love your photos

Thank you

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

They'll generally be the kinds of guys incapable of doing anything of the sort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the silent types who keep their cards close to their chest you have to worry about "

Is it now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its what the lady wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll generally be the kinds of guys incapable of doing anything of the sort!

He's talking about women who are looking for this, though.

You are right, but that's not the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the silent types who keep their cards close to their chest you have to worry about

Is it now x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love being 'ruined'

Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.

I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.

Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on

Very valid point!. I think I would also be put off in that case too. I was thinking more between us than a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy I find that sort of language to a woman disrespectful and shows the kind of Man who writes that has no respect for a woman or just has no sense in my opinion. I agree with you OP that language is distasteful and just wrong

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm not horrified, shocked or insulted by such language. I'm just bored.

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