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By *ain n Mable OP   Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!"

what makes you think it's the women who are hiding it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, at least send a private pic of you both! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!"

both on shown on ours

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we tend nowadays to pass a profile by where both partners aren't shown.

No problem with people not showing both partners though, it's entirely up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we generally send face pics of us both to profiles we like or to people we are messaging!

we do like to keep our face pics in our friends only

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We keep face photo's for friends only and usually it is his photo on the profile.

However, he's not here at the mo', soooooo going to be punished for putting mine up - tee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its woman that sells the profile, as they know they got greater chance maibe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a face pic in private pics but nothing else because I dont play on our meets so cant see why anybody needs to see me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its woman that sells the profile, as they know they got greater chance maibe lol "

Not if it's a straight couple looking to meet another straight or willing to play straight couple. If a man isn't willing to show me himself on the same basis his partner shows A I'm not willing to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its woman that sells the profile, as they know they got greater chance maibe lol

Not if it's a straight couple looking to meet another straight or willing to play straight couple. If a man isn't willing to show me himself on the same basis his partner shows A I'm not willing to meet."
That's right as you need to be attracted to both

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its woman that sells the profile, as they know they got greater chance maibe lol

Not if it's a straight couple looking to meet another straight or willing to play straight couple. If a man isn't willing to show me himself on the same basis his partner shows A I'm not willing to meet.That's right as you need to be

attracted to both "

Are we agreeing? Steady

Yes attraction needs to be there and if someone makes it necessary for me to ask to see them (not necessarily faces) then I'm not going to even start making the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its woman that sells the profile, as they know they got greater chance maibe lol

Not if it's a straight couple looking to meet another straight or willing to play straight couple. If a man isn't willing to show me himself on the same basis his partner shows A I'm not willing to meet.That's right as you need to be

attracted to both

Are we agreeing? Steady

Yes attraction needs to be there and if someone makes it necessary for me to ask to see them (not necessarily faces) then I'm not going to even start making the effort."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its woman that sells the profile, as they know they got greater chance maibe lol

Not if it's a straight couple looking to meet another straight or willing to play straight couple. If a man isn't willing to show me himself on the same basis his partner shows A I'm not willing to meet.That's right as you need to be

attracted to both

Are we agreeing? Steady

Yes attraction needs to be there and if someone makes it necessary for me to ask to see them (not necessarily faces) then I'm not going to even start making the effort."
Yes we are agree there lol and yes, nicely put there as well

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!"

If a couple are not prepared to send clear face pics of them both in a private message, we move on. It doesn't annoy us and we don't think they are wrong, we just accept they have a different approach.

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

i (Bunny) do all the internet stuff, so I choose what pics go up. I think ours are OK, yes, there are more of me but thats because I never seem to get around to taking pics of him and lets be honest ladies, we have better outfits usually...

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By *ain n Mable OP   Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

what makes you think it's the women who are hiding it?"
I'm not saying the women are hiding the face pics, I'm just asking them to encourage there men to show. x

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Plenty of both of us on our profile

Not that it does any good lol xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

what makes you think it's the women who are hiding it? I'm not saying the women are hiding the face pics, I'm just asking them to encourage there men to show. x"

It's been our experience that men who are reluctant to show their face are reluctant to meet. It isn't a case of their partner encouraging them it's a case of them not wanting to do it.

I'm not saying this is true of all profiles where the man doesn't want his face picture sent only in our experience. Its why we stay clear now.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

what makes you think it's the women who are hiding it? I'm not saying the women are hiding the face pics, I'm just asking them to encourage there men to show. x"

But you are saying it...your title is "don't hide your man"

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We'll send our faces with a message, and keep the remainder for friends only.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

What I find interesting is people so willing to put face pictures along with fully naked pictures on a public profile on the internet.

As we gave up on couple meets through FAB long ago and concentrate on men I have no need to put pics up of myself, obviously they are available to be sent to those who interest us but putting a public face picture up ? uh no thanks rather not have them end up on some porn site/family see them/people we work with.

This outside of the tapped up weirdos who have threatened to kill Mrs C if they ever saw her around and the others who think they can identify her around town from her pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also . .sometimes i see couple profiles where it's clearly two different women in the gallery. . Very disconcerting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also . .sometimes i see couple profiles where it's clearly two different women in the gallery. . Very disconcerting "

And group shots where you never know who the heck the profile belongs to. Very weird.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We keep face pics to friends only but once we start chatting to someone we send both our mugshots with the messages.

Its only right as we're a couple after all...

We've never received just a pic of the female of a couple either. Usually of both....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also . .sometimes i see couple profiles where it's clearly two different women in the gallery. . Very disconcerting

And group shots where you never know who the heck the profile belongs to. Very weird. "
Maibe its a gang bang meet profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thing I've recently noticed since doing a couples profile. Why have pictures of the female but none of the male..isn't he attractive enough to display ...If both are meeting/playing then don't both need to be visible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put face pic's in public but ww have some in friends only

We are guilty of one or two coxl shots tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If two people meet, (play or watch) two people should have photos, private or public, that's your choice,

If only one person meets from the Cpl, then get a single profile and simply state your married/attached with partners consent.

We would not consider any "cpl" that couldn't provide us with a picture of both of them.

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By *ain n Mable OP   Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Well i guess there is no right or wrong, as it seems to have a split decision, its just a personal issue i suppose. But thankyou all for your contributions. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have body shots of both of us public but no public face pics of either of us we will always send them privately after chatting and expect the same back before setting up a meet x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both ours are in friends only, but will be shown.

Her

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like to see face pics of both before a meet. I suppose I could be considered shallow for that but there has to be an attraction for me.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!"

can i play devils advocate...

If it is truely something like an equal partnership....... then shouldn't the male half be in something like half the photo's.......

just putting that thought out there..........

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

can i play devils advocate...

If it is truely something like an equal partnership....... then shouldn't the male half be in something like half the photo's.......

just putting that thought out there.........."

You have a point but I can't answer that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

can i play devils advocate...

If it is truely something like an equal partnership....... then shouldn't the male half be in something like half the photo's.......

just putting that thought out there.........."

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

can i play devils advocate...

If it is truely something like an equal partnership....... then shouldn't the male half be in something like half the photo's.......

just putting that thought out there.........."

I suppose it would depend very much on who they're looking to appeal to...

...or they may have very good reasons that are none of any body else's business...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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I suppose it would depend very much on who they're looking to appeal to...

"

well the OP specifically said couples looking for couples.....

so thats why i asked.......

so is have 10 pics of women.. and 1 cock of man........ really any better than lets say.... 50 pics of woman and 5 of the mans face....

aren't they both primarily using the womans pictures in essence as "bait".......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I suppose it would depend very much on who they're looking to appeal to...

well the OP specifically said couples looking for couples.....

so thats why i asked.......

so is have 10 pics of women.. and 1 cock of man........ really any better than lets say.... 50 pics of woman and 5 of the mans face....

aren't they both primarily using the womans pictures in essence as "bait"......."

I think you assume that pictures on a profile are bait, we don't use them that way although they do serve to attract people of course, we put them there because we actively enjoy people looking at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I suppose it would depend very much on who they're looking to appeal to...

well the OP specifically said couples looking for couples.....

so thats why i asked.......

so is have 10 pics of women.. and 1 cock of man........ really any better than lets say.... 50 pics of woman and 5 of the mans face....

aren't they both primarily using the womans pictures in essence as "bait"......."

I will say yes, Maybe "Bait" is the wrong word but as a couple we do find that Nettes form is more often appreciated by both the Male and Female of Couples its the way to go for us, And i get a kick out of people lusting after Her

Gimp

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"We keep face photo's for friends only and usually it is his photo on the profile.

However, he's not here at the mo', soooooo going to be punished for putting mine up - tee hee "

That looks more like an arse than a face to me Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, at least send a private pic of you both! X"

We always send a face pic of mr f when we contact another profile just because his face isn't on our public profile is our choice and we have never had a problem so far! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got full body and face pics on our profile for friends - nothing to hide from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We posted something very similar a while back, whilst we agree its foolish to post face pics on a public profile, why not body shots of the male?

If you are a couple looking to meet a couple, then in our opinion, pics of both parties should be shown.

Or it looks like you have something to hide!

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By *ain n Mable OP   Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"We posted something very similar a while back, whilst we agree its foolish to post face pics on a public profile, why not body shots of the male?

If you are a couple looking to meet a couple, then in our opinion, pics of both parties should be shown.

Or it looks like you have something to hide!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have face photos of both of us in our friends only gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face no way

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

can i play devils advocate...

If it is truely something like an equal partnership....... then shouldn't the male half be in something like half the photo's.......

just putting that thought out there.........."

You haven't seen me take photo's, i can build walls better then compose photographs.... (Her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 of just me --

8 just him

1 of us

the rest me and a fem -

not too bad i dont think

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By *ain n Mable OP   Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"18 of just me --

8 just him

1 of us

the rest me and a fem -

not too bad i dont think "
Not to bad at all, quite gorgeous in fact!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!

can i play devils advocate...

If it is truely something like an equal partnership....... then shouldn't the male half be in something like half the photo's.......

just putting that thought out there.........."

It's that way on ours.. we're a couple, and show ourselves as a couple.

we have nothing to hide (apart from our identities)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We posted something very similar a while back, whilst we agree its foolish to post face pics on a public profile, why not body shots of the male?

If you are a couple looking to meet a couple, then in our opinion, pics of both parties should be shown.

Or it looks like you have something to hide!"

That's what I was thinking as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a full frontal of both of us face pics of both of us sent privately when we want a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!"
I expect it is generally the male who is making the profile and doesn't want to post his face, but is clearly happy to show the lady ...

personally I can't see the point. That's why our pics are all face shots and we are both clearly visible. Nothing to hide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as a lot of couples here, face pics and pics of us together are in friends gallery and sent in messages if there's an interest.

As a guy, even as part of a couple. If you're not showing your face and cock pics are somewhat frowned upon, there are only so many body shots (leg shots) that you can put up. Hence why we have a 2 to 1 split on ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!I expect it is generally the male who is making the profile and doesn't want to post his face, but is clearly happy to show the lady ...

personally I can't see the point. That's why our pics are all face shots and we are both clearly visible. Nothing to hide!

"
Family..friends..colleagues.. your choice entirely

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are getting pretty annoyed about couples seeking couples who show the female face, and only the males cock. We need an attraction and im afraid a big cock is not it. Get his face up girls!!!!I expect it is generally the male who is making the profile and doesn't want to post his face, but is clearly happy to show the lady ...

personally I can't see the point. That's why our pics are all face shots and we are both clearly visible. Nothing to hide!

"

Its personal choice and nothing to do with having anything to hide.

Some people have jobs from which they could be sacked if they were outed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we mostkly have pics of the fem on our profile as she is the hottest but have a pic of my cock and body AND pic of us both together The face pic is of us both together which gets sent out.

it annoys us too whenw e ask for face pics and we get the fem, 'ok wheres your male'?? know what you mean lol

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By *ain n Mable OP   Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"we mostkly have pics of the fem on our profile as she is the hottest but have a pic of my cock and body AND pic of us both together The face pic is of us both together which gets sent out.

it annoys us too whenw e ask for face pics and we get the fem, 'ok wheres your male'?? know what you mean lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide, plenty of pics of me in private. Not to many public ones as I'm usually the cameraman or not that bothered about being in shots. Besides, Mrs N looks way hotter than I do and suspect most would prefer to see her instead

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