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has any body had a bad exp with swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we met a couple on her profile she said she was bifem but when we did get it on she wasnt plus after we swing she was trying to chase my bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there with something the same but met single fem with my fb now she is chasing him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met what we thought was a couple, the female thought they were a couple too.

She was extremely nervous and he was constantly pushing her to get naked and play, we ended the evening and told them that we should get together again when she felt more comfortable about it.

We were called by them the next day to arrange a meet for that evening because "she was really up for it now"

We met again a few nights later and the situation was the same, him pushing her and her shaking in her boots, again we ended the evening telling him straight we would not play as she wasn't comfortable with it.

I was then plaqued by text messages for months by her, she had found he had a single profile on here, they didn't live together and he only contacted her when he had arranged a meet, he was trying to arrange a meet for 3some with her sister and much more, her wanting to arrange another meet for the 4 of us because he wouldn't speak to her otherwise.

Eventually got her to stop pestering me and we don't meet FB's anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad? no. Lacklustre, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that sounds like the guy I ended up meeting he had a cpls profile up but I will hold my hands up after a lot of pushing from him I ended up meeting him was ment to be just for a coffee but did not end up that way then he tried to talk me into emailing other females on here to arange threesomes

In the end I got so pissed off I put a verification on there profile he then del the profile told her I made all the moves now they have a new cpls profile up same pic same stuff and I can bet he is still up to the same tricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo i worry about this type of things, I hope i dont get messaged by a guy like that, or have a meet like that.

Right at the beginning I had a bad experience. It was me though, I just wasnt ready and thought I was. It was only the third time of going to a swingers club, the previous two visits we had just played together.

We were in the jacuzzi and another couple started touching us. I basically just wasnt ready and my guy, being the first time he had ever experienced this, was like a kid in a candy store and got into it no problem. he was touching her and then she got on the side of the jacuzzi and he started to lick her. I couldnt hack it - put a stop to it and we went home, but we argued very badly and things werent great between us. I also didnt sleep for 4 nights afterwards as I kept imagining that scene. My guy was upset about it really, he had been ok with it, but obviously he felt bad cos i reacted in that way and then he felt he'd done something wrong.

We took a break from swinging and it was me that wanted to try again because I do love the club scene. We went again and just kept to ourselves and after a while we were going in the jacuzzi and couples were touching us and i found it ok. My guy wouldnt touch women but I just wanted him to have the experience too. When he eventually did, he was so sweet, kept stopping what he was doing and checking I was ok - poor woman he was pleasuring must have been annoyed with him constantly stopping and starting. he made me feel good and desirable though and now im totally fine. In fact I absolutely love to watch him and love it when he makes women cum. We still havent full swapped but i know i would like to, and id also like to have a ffm experience, so ive come a long way from that bad experience.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I will bet most have! I remember a horrible meet going back 13 months! Very unpleasant and a huge turn off but hey we all get over these things.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" When he eventually did, he was so sweet, kept stopping what he was doing and checking I was ok - poor woman he was pleasuring must have been annoyed with him constantly stopping and starting. "

Im sure she wouldnt have been annoyed if she had anything about her. Id rather a guy did that than totally forget his partner was there...

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