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Holy Moly .. wasn't expecting that !

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By *amBam minus Pebbles21p3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampton Court/Belfast

Anyone else thought ...bugger it... nothing ventured ..nothing gained... and messaged someone on here that you thought would never message back as you though they were well out of your league?

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By *icple123Couple
over a year ago

st albans

Most of our messages we feel like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else thought ...bugger it... nothing ventured ..nothing gained... and messaged someone on here that you thought would never message back as you though they were well out of your league? "

Every time I send a message. And funnily enough they never message back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. Part of being a bloke on this site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes usually surprised to get a response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do also send the odd wink too and get message back.

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By *amBam minus Pebbles21p3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampton Court/Belfast

Oh I love a good wink... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan for the worst hope for the best x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anyone else thought ...bugger it... nothing ventured ..nothing gained... and messaged someone on here that you thought would never message back as you though they were well out of your league?

Every time I send a message. And funnily enough they never message back "

We don't believe in this league stuff but some people do reply to messages

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Can't help wondering what puts people "out of your league"

Just think, they might be thinking the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scatter gun effect!! Send out 20 messages one will reply!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plan for the worst hope for the best x"

Expect to get lots of messages from this thread then. I might try and hope for the best

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day."

well that's made all the people you contact feel very special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plan for the worst hope for the best x

Expect to get lots of messages from this thread then. I might try and hope for the best"

God loves a tryer persistence pays off! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day.

well that's made all the people you contact feel very special "

Did you get my message by the way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

expect nothing - never gonna be disappointed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"expect nothing - never gonna be disappointed then"

I say that all the time xx

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By *ubybabyCouple
over a year ago

lincoln ish

I get no replys to mine xx

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day."

Guaranteed to makes those verifying you feel really great!..unless of course you played them in the FA cup..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plan for the worst hope for the best x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flipside being recieving messages you never thought you would.

There's a lady who comes up on my local updates, stunning! Never messaged as I was thinking she was a wee bit classy for me...she messaged me so it does kinda work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try to respond but find messages like "hi, how r u?" Just too banal to waste time on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day.

well that's made all the people you contact feel very special

Did you get my message by the way?

"

yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day."

"Accrington Stanley!...Who are they"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always try to respond but find messages like "hi, how r u?" Just too banal to waste time on."

Don't you just hate it when someone messages you and is polite lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse, imagine the amount of rejects I get. As homer once said if you don't try you can't fail. But he did pull marge I suppose lol

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By *amBam minus Pebbles21p3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampton Court/Belfast

Lol some witty comments love it lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Actually, no, as I don't often initiate messages. I also don't think people are out of my league - they might think they are though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do this often......never get replies....in fact no one ever replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel like that all the time. We very rarely get messaged back from genuine people unfortunately.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

You will find that most people you think are 'out of your league' simply aren't, they are normal down to earth people. The downside for them is a lot of people won't contact them because of fear of rejection.

I never consider anyone to be out of my league unless I don't fit their criteria in someway. For everyone else where I do fit the criteria, if I like the look of them and they are not 100s of miles away, I will always message.

Been here long enough not to always expect an answer, but some do

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My very first meet on here happened that way when I just thought 'sod it' and messaged someone I thought was way hotter than me. Turns out he'd been trying to get my attention for ages but couldn't message me first due to filters. Bit of an eye opener for me so I now have a nothing ventured, nothing gained approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My very first meet on here happened that way when I just thought 'sod it' and messaged someone I thought was way hotter than me. Turns out he'd been trying to get my attention for ages but couldn't message me first due to filters. Bit of an eye opener for me so I now have a nothing ventured, nothing gained approach. "

Funny enough....I was holding out sending you a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we are all victim of this and feeling someone is unobtainable and I have been lucky enough to meet people I thought I had no chance with but thats the beauty of this place. Happy for you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely realised its personality that counts and the good thing about the forums is that can shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely realised its personality that counts and the good thing about the forums is that can shine through "

Very true that why the forums are the best place on fabs for me as you can get a feel for the person before you get to feel of the person

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