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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

after two long years finally GF mentioned if i would try 3way. she was extremely conservative, and wouldnt engage in even talking about my swing fantasies. she mentioned a couple, husband is apparently "former porn star and doesnt look that great". so should i take it slow and hit the jackpot? or quickly push her into it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to get lost. Say when you wanted to she wouldn't. Now she wants to but you won't on principle. She is just gonna have to sit it out for two years like you did.

Why you asking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after two long years finally GF mentioned if i would try 3way. she was extremely conservative, and wouldnt engage in even talking about my swing fantasies. she mentioned a couple, husband is apparently "former porn star and doesnt look that great". so should i take it slow and hit the jackpot? or quickly push her into it?"

You cant "quickly push" her into anything and surely you should be talking to her about it instead of asking strangers for advice!

Does she know you swing without her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well, if she has come into terms with it, why take it away from her? and in fact i'd absolute love her to be ravaged by a porn star. thn again, her choice seems to be "hardcore", is she really cracking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

she consented into me meeting others as i did swing before meeting her. but she "doesnt" want to know if i meet someone. i'll definitely not push, but wandering what this really mean? couples might know better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I'm feeling a bit thick this morning...

Who's to be involved in the proposed threesome? You, girlfriend and one of the couple, or the couple and girlfriend?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I agree with Jack - it's a husband who's the "former porn star", who would be "ravaging" you...? What's the "hardcore" reference - is she proposing to be DAP'd followed by ATM first time out?

What's the actual query here?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I agree with Jack - it's a husband who's the "former porn star", who would be "ravaging" you...? What's the "hardcore" reference - is she proposing to be DAP'd followed by ATM first time out?

What's the actual query here?"

Dont bring cash machines into this ya dirty perv

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


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Dont bring cash machines into this ya dirty perv "

hahaha !!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

ex porn star mmmmmmmmmm ive never heard that one before lol.

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton


"after two long years finally GF mentioned if i would try 3way. she was extremely conservative, and wouldnt engage in even talking about my swing fantasies. she mentioned a couple, husband is apparently "former porn star and doesnt look that great". so should i take it slow and hit the jackpot? or quickly push her into it?"

I'm a bit confused - 3 way with a couple? Why would she go for someone who doesn't look that great? Wouldn't engage in your swing 'fantasies' ? does she really know you swing? Take it slow? What do you mean - she should dictate how things go and you def shouldn't 'push' her into anything. I think a good dose of honesty might be a very good start! Good luck.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Former Porn star...is he retired or was he laid off??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he is laid off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

she did mention she is thinking about a threeway and how good or bad that might be. is that a sign of her wnating to do it? i wondered. since the guy she spoke about was a former pornstar, might it be tht she wants a good professional fuck? confused there.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Pornstar fucking isn't necessarily good.

The ladies have been known to fake orgasm, apparently, so there's no guarantee the ex-pornstar can "hit the spot"...plus he may have been laid off for no longer being able to "stay" long enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you shouldnt ever push anyone into doing something like this. If it is not for her and she is only doing it to please you, she will end up regretting and suffering from it. I just dont like the sound of it all - sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she did mention she is thinking about a threeway and how good or bad that might be. ...................... i wondered. since the guy she spoke about was a former pornstar, might it be tht she wants a good professional fuck? confused there. "

hang on a min here - right let me get an angle here. She's spoken to some ugly bloke who used the 'i used to be a porn star' line about having a three way?

To me by telling you this she's either saying I'm bored with the sex she's getting & wants some excitment. Or I'm jelous & will ask / talk to any ugly tucker to get your attention & show you she really doesn't like it

You really need to ask some serious questions here? My GF escorts all sorts but it's her choice. I'm cool with it - she wants me to have freedom so we talk about both of our experiences. If you don't talk to her about. Your swinging she's obviously uncomfortable with it so putting 2 & 2 together I think the later, rhat she's not happy is more likely. Pushing will probably push her away.

Fuck mate she wants commitment from you hahaha

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central

utterly confused

I think this should start again and made clear who what why and when... for anyone to give you sensible feedback

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Am also confused.

She is looking for a 3 some?

Has she specified if that is MMF or FFM?

Has she said anyone particualr in thsi meet?

Are you to be involved?

Is she bi?

Are you bi?

Would it be a straight meet or a bi meet?

Looking forward to getting some clarity on these questions so we all can hopefully help with your very not clear question.

Just realsised if you cant write it on here clear and precise then maybe you can speak the words in the same way so your chances of having the avility to have a frank and honest discussion with her are not good. Unless you are dyslexic or something and that stops you writing clearly what the problem/question is?

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