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By *hane001 OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

My friend likes to give me oral and is really very good!!, but she has never particularly enjoyed receiving oral. I always like it to be a shared experience to do together!

Any tips on positions and techiques? I always enjoy using my fingers just looking for ideas, of what I can do with my lips and tongue to make it a throughly enjoyable experience for us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend likes to give me oral and is really very good!!, but she has never particularly enjoyed receiving oral. I always like it to be a shared experience to do together!

Any tips on positions and techiques? I always enjoy using my fingers just looking for ideas, of what I can do with my lips and tongue to make it a throughly enjoyable experience for us both.

"

ask her?? what works on one lady doesnt necessarily work on another??

and dont do it porn styllleeeee bitin the clit hard and stretching it does not make it a pleasent experience in my view anyway! x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"ask her?? what works on one lady doesnt necessarily work on another??

and dont do it porn styllleeeee bitin the clit hard and stretching it does not make it a pleasent experience in my view anyway! x"

Depends...if you get it right you can actually pluck notes off it.

Admittedly Flight Of The Bumble Bee is tricky, but I'm getting there.

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By *hane001 OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton


"My friend likes to give me oral and is really very good!!, but she has never particularly enjoyed receiving oral. I always like it to be a shared experience to do together!

Any tips on positions and techiques? I always enjoy using my fingers just looking for ideas, of what I can do with my lips and tongue to make it a throughly enjoyable experience for us both.

ask her?? what works on one lady doesnt necessarily work on another??

and dont do it porn styllleeeee bitin the clit hard and stretching it does not make it a pleasent experience in my view anyway! x"

Thanks for responding I have asked but dont get any Positive or Negative answers. Thanks for the tip on Pornstyllle will avoid slapping the Clit and then biting it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some girls just no into it no matter how enjoyable it is! iv had discussions with my vanilla friends about it some think its amazin others its a total turn off and wont let anyones gob near there!

there loads of other things you can do for her pleasure so just take the blow jobs and find ways that make her happy that she is comfortable with xx

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By *hane001 OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

Just to settle my curiousity what I a Vanilla Friend? tried searching it just came up as a dating websites!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to settle my curiousity what I a Vanilla Friend? tried searching it just came up as a dating websites!! "

normal real life friends who arent swingers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I aint sharing my technique with anyone !!!!

Apparently I am pretty good !!

And it is so much finding out for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I aint sharing my technique with anyone !!!!

Apparently I am pretty good !!

And it is so much finding out for yourself.

"

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal tip, use your mouth and tongue together as if you are enjoying an ice cream cone - slowly - making it last - catching the drips with your tongue now and again!

If that works your mouth and chin will end up sticky the same way as just having had the ice cream!

There is an excellent book on the subject:

- She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman -

If you already have good oral skills, you will find yourself nodding in agreement with many of the guidlines.

If not, I don't think you could go far wrong by following a few of the tips.

The only part of the book I'm not so sure about is that it encourages the use of fingers inside her at the same time. Personally, I think oral sex is about oral. Asking a man to do two things at once is never a good idea! We're always better at doing one thing well at a time.

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By *hane001 OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

Cheers for the tips with the Ice cream style! Will see If I can find the book! sure it will be on Amazon lol

I can just about manage two things at once nowadays Mouth and a Tongue, the Hand would be a step to far!! lol

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal tip, use your mouth and tongue together as if you are enjoying an ice cream cone - slowly - making it last - catching the drips with your tongue now and again!

If that works your mouth and chin will end up sticky the same way as just having had the ice cream!

There is an excellent book on the subject:

- She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman -

If you already have good oral skills, you will find yourself nodding in agreement with many of the guidlines.

If not, I don't think you could go far wrong by following a few of the tips.

The only part of the book I'm not so sure about is that it encourages the use of fingers inside her at the same time. Personally, I think oral sex is about oral. Asking a man to do two things at once is never a good idea! We're always better at doing one thing well at a time.

"

typical of a man with a manual...only concurs with the bits he can manage...otherwise the writer is an ignorant pleb

both is good! for me anyhow....and some men can multi task...as stated on another thread

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The only part of the book I'm not so sure about is that it encourages the use of fingers inside her at the same time. Personally, I think oral sex is about oral. Asking a man to do two things at once is never a good idea! We're always better at doing one thing well at a time

Thats what works best for me, having said that its quiet hard to explain. SOme men can hit the spot and some cant, but it again is up to communication the woman should tell a guy when hes doing it right or what he could do to improve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice eating a walnut whip or creme egg by using your tongue to lick out the filling before eating the chocolate.

It helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I think the best way to pleasure a woman orally is to eat her like a woman would. I love watching my gf eat pussy and vice versa, and I watch closely to see how they do it!

But being a man I doubt I'll ever eat pussy quite like a woman but my tips are -

remember to shave closely (your face) and apply nice moisturiser

take it nice and slowly and gently - this is not like eating pizza!

don't attack her clitoris directly (unless she asks - remember Monty Python) but work around and under her clit as you get closer to taking her clit gently in your lips, remember to suck her labia particularly if she has large ones, and licking up and down the mouth of her vagina from her perineum to her clit

try the "nose trick" - gently bury your face in her pussy pressing your nose up and down against hor pubis and if she's turned on she will press her clit against your nose

better still get her to sit on your face so she can control how she is stimulated - remember to practice breathing through your ears otherwise its a wonderful way to depart this life!!

Good luck

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've heard that if the man traces the all the letters of the alphabet with his tongue that will vary the sensation. Tried it a few times but neither of us think it's any better than the normal licking. Try sucking too, that's nice!

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

it's different strokes for different folks,got to be a bit of variety i reckon and a bit of mood music does help.

i am not an expert but bloody enjoy practicing!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is allsorts you can do as cunnilingus foreplay but for the finale, find the clit and keep on licking. breath out the side of your mouth and just dont stop till she squirts. thats what i do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally I think the best way to pleasure a woman orally is to eat her like a woman would. I love watching my gf eat pussy and vice versa, and I watch closely to see how they do it!

But being a man I doubt I'll ever eat pussy quite like a woman but my tips are -

remember to shave closely (your face) and apply nice moisturiser

take it nice and slowly and gently - this is not like eating pizza!

don't attack her clitoris directly (unless she asks - remember Monty Python) but work around and under her clit as you get closer to taking her clit gently in your lips, remember to suck her labia particularly if she has large ones, and licking up and down the mouth of her vagina from her perineum to her clit

try the "nose trick" - gently bury your face in her pussy pressing your nose up and down against hor pubis and if she's turned on she will press her clit against your nose

better still get her to sit on your face so she can control how she is stimulated - remember to practice breathing through your ears otherwise its a wonderful way to depart this life!!

Good luck "

this would have me gushing without a doubt, particularly the burying face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an ex-girlfriend who also didn't like receiving. Which is a shame because I love giving oral.

We didn't find a way around, we tried it a few times but she couldn't relax and enjoy it. So I don't think it's a question of trying new techniques, she just might not be into it.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Same here, my ex-wife was too sensitive there. However she couldn't have enough of fingering (I ended up with forearms like Popeye!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are lots of different ways and the same as all men like different sorts of technique with blow jobs, different women like different things..

however..do NOT..attack it like...

1. You are mining for gold

2. Its a dirty mark that you realllly need to rub out

3. You are trying to give it more suction that a dyson

4. You want to rub it smooth with the sandpaper known as your beard

5. Attempt to find the watch you lost last week..with both hands and a wrench

6. You are trying to complete the job in 2 mins as your fave programme is comming on/you want it to be your turn..

remember in the same way a man has a cock and balls and likes them to be noticed and enjoyed and licked and sucked and guzzled and caressed and....whatever else you like....a woman is not just a clitoris or a hole to be mined lol

...or you may just find the next blow or hand job you get is like trying to shake and slap the last of the tomato ketchup out of a glass bottle!

vol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like licking an ice lolly.

nowt too complicated really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guy is amazing at oral - im not being conceited or trying to show off, he really is good - but then hes good for me, maybe other women wouldnt like it, but i have to admit that every women hes given oral to at the club has come.

I cant describe what he does exactly but he does bury his face into my pussy, and it feels like hes sucking the whole of my pussy, labia the lot into his mouth, then he kinda flicks my clit, i know it sounds a crap explanation and i cant fully describe but its out of this world.

then he will alternate to licking up the whole of my pussy from perineum to clit and then when im really really turned on he will push fingers inside and just press firmly on my gspot, not pushing fingers in and out but holding them inside and pressing and well this makes me come like nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal tip, use your mouth and tongue together as if you are enjoying an ice cream cone - slowly - making it last - catching the drips with your tongue now and again!

If that works your mouth and chin will end up sticky the same way as just having had the ice cream!

There is an excellent book on the subject:

- She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman -

If you already have good oral skills, you will find yourself nodding in agreement with many of the guidlines.

If not, I don't think you could go far wrong by following a few of the tips.

The only part of the book I'm not so sure about is that it encourages the use of fingers inside her at the same time. Personally, I think oral sex is about oral. Asking a man to do two things at once is never a good idea! We're always better at doing one thing well at a time.

"

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are lots of different ways and the same as all men like different sorts of technique with blow jobs, different women like different things..

however..do NOT..attack it like...

1. You are mining for gold

2. Its a dirty mark that you realllly need to rub out

3. You are trying to give it more suction that a dyson

4. You want to rub it smooth with the sandpaper known as your beard

5. Attempt to find the watch you lost last week..with both hands and a wrench

6. You are trying to complete the job in 2 mins as your fave programme is comming on/you want it to be your turn..

remember in the same way a man has a cock and balls and likes them to be noticed and enjoyed and licked and sucked and guzzled and caressed and....whatever else you like....a woman is not just a clitoris or a hole to be mined lol

...or you may just find the next blow or hand job you get is like trying to shake and slap the last of the tomato ketchup out of a glass bottle!

vol

xx"

especially no 4 guaranteed to make me cringe.

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