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By *iking.beard OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

As a single guy I find it hard to brake the ice in sending a first message as I dont wanna seam boring and just send the same message over and over but then I feel like im trying to sell my self to much.

As couple's of single ladys what would catch your eye in a first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no magic formula to composing a message, what will be right for one, will be hated by another.

Be true to yourself. Introduce, describe and show what you can offer a woman/couple

It's pretty much that simple

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Don't start it with .."Hey, wanna fuck" or "Your Missus would get it mate." And yes we've had both of those.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I was told ladies like a guy with a sense of humour....

So I send them a picture of my cock... Normally causes fits of hysterics

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By *occosboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

How about a profile pic with you holding your cock - number one turn off for everyone apart from yourself

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By *om Tom 1969Man
over a year ago

liverpool

There are some profiles that say don't ask about this, this, this, this, this and this, to the point that you are left with only asking for directions to the nearest apothocary, so I am now able to find one in lots of Uk cities!!

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Make sure you have read all their profile (twice lol) be polite and honest usually helps .

A cock pick and "wunna f**k ?" Doesn't quite do it for me ,but some must have some success with it I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best ice breaker has to be the Titanic...hold on wrong post..doh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start it with .."Hey, wanna fuck" or "Your Missus would get it mate." And yes we've had both of those."

Well she would though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a simple hi how are you two ?

Add your name & face pic

We will respond if we are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple hi how are you two ?

Add your name & face pic

We will respond if we are interested"

Thats as sensible a suggestion as you can get polite and a way to tell if there is visual attraction from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple hi how are you two ?

Add your name & face pic

We will respond if we are interested

Thats as sensible a suggestion as you can get polite and a way to tell if there is visual attraction from the start."

Thanks that's all a ice breaker is to see if there is any interest.

If we see profiles that demand more or to jump through hoops like ( add this in your message) we just pass them by as they must think they are something special lol

Don't think singles need to do any different but we've never been in there shoe's so can't really say much apart from if you have to jump through hoops on a first message what is the meet going to be like ? Patronising id guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who has read my profile and meets what I'm looking for is a good start.

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By *xxjamCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Don't start it with .."Hey, wanna fuck" or "Your Missus would get it mate." And yes we've had both of those."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned read the profile, if they can't accomodate it means you need to be able to, also send a face photo, and thirdly if it's a couple don't just address the woman!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles. Tailor the message to the profile. Don't make the message too long, bit of humour and recent face pic. If they are interested you may get a reply. However the usual one liners, cock pic rubbish will get the delete they deserve.

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