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Make an impression on your first message!

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By *essi87 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby

Women and couples, I need help on making a good impression on my first messages to get a response.

Finding it very hard to get responses, it's hard to stand out and I'm interested to know what you like to hear in your first message. Maybe share the best first messages you have received.

Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's against forum rules to copy n paste messages in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Hey i'm mikey and i like crayons'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say as a woman, the first message def makes an impression. Id go with

* banter

* compliment

*what you're looking for

* don't be arrogant

Ohh its like an ingredients list lol.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Hey i'm mikey and i like crayons' "

blue ones taste best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Hey i'm mikey and i like crayons'

blue ones taste best"

Nah ah! Yellow is the besterist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say as a woman, the first message def makes an impression. Id go with

* banter

* compliment

*what you're looking for

* don't be arrogant

Ohh its like an ingredients list lol.

Hope this helps "

And demonstrate a sense of humour somewhere. I once told a guy I like guys who can make me laugh and he sent me a knock knock joke. Which he then had to explain.

Totally killed it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Hey i'm mikey and i like crayons'

blue ones taste best

Nah ah! Yellow is the besterist!"

philistine!!!!

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By *essi87 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby


"I'd say as a woman, the first message def makes an impression. Id go with

* banter

* compliment

*what you're looking for

* don't be arrogant

Ohh its like an ingredients list lol.

Hope this helps

And demonstrate a sense of humour somewhere. I once told a guy I like guys who can make me laugh and he sent me a knock knock joke. Which he then had to explain.

Totally killed it.."

Thanks guys how about this one. I saw somewhere that made me laugh.

"I would drag my balls over 2 miles of broken glass to just hear you queef over a walkie talkie"

How do you think that will go down? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal one is ...

HEY LADY ...ever had your ass licked by a fat man in a overcoat

If she don't get the reference then you know we don't click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two elephants walk off a cliff...

Boom, Boom!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Alwight Darlin', fancy a fuck??

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

(hey, its not worked for me, but you never know..........)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need help talking to people........

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"If you need help talking to people........"

Alwight Darlin', fancy a fuck??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you need help talking to people........

Alwight Darlin', fancy a fuck?? "

Oi Oi! Crackin' set o' tits love!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"If you need help talking to people........

Alwight Darlin', fancy a fuck??

Oi Oi! Crackin' set o' tits love! "

See.. it works!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you need help talking to people........

Alwight Darlin', fancy a fuck??

Oi Oi! Crackin' set o' tits love!

See.. it works!!"

I've been wasting time trying to actually talk to people! ffs......

You mind if I copy and paste that to all the ladies on here? I have alot of catching up to do!

Oh, while i'm here....you fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually dread to think what some messages are like that people send - we send a polite introduction that prompts a response - we often get a ''thanks for the lovely message so many dont bother '' - we always try and make it personal to them with reference to a status or something in a pic or their profile -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that a polite message usually gets a polite response.

It may not be the response I would like but it is rarely if ever abusive.

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