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Cannot accommodate, Cannot travel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does this mean you come to her home town and get a room basically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have we dont accomate as we have kids but do when they are not around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the way I would read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bus stop there is a recession on you know!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally people who have this on thier profile can only travel in thier local area, they may be able to accommodate in Hotels.

We have "can't travel" but our written profile elaborates that we can travel in the local area, most wise profiles have an elaboration even in the case of Can Accommodate and Can Travel giving distance they are willing to travel and if accommodation includes overnight or not - ours does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally people who have this on thier profile can only travel in thier local area, they may be able to accommodate in Hotels.

We have "can't travel" but our written profile elaborates that we can travel in the local area, most wise profiles have an elaboration even in the case of Can Accommodate and Can Travel giving distance they are willing to travel and if accommodation includes overnight or not - ours does "

chuck in a good fry up and its a deal!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of bad points, almost all my points are bad, but my breakfasts are known the world over and hard to beat, check my verifications, nobody ever mentions my willy or my sexual abilities (unless it's my ability to last the FULL 2 minutes) but my breakfasts get a mention

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean."

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted?

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yep Jed yer brekkies are amazin ...

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted? "

If they can't drive, don't have a car or lost their licence. They can't travel far and rely on taxi's. If they have children or lodge with people. They can't accomodate maybe ??

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted?

If they can't drive, don't have a car or lost their licence. They can't travel far and rely on taxi's. If they have children or lodge with people. They can't accomodate maybe ??"

*Spelling mistake in previous version*

I wasn't asking why they can't do either, I was asking the previous poster why he thought the profiles with both on couldn't be trusted.

I know all the reasons why some can't already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't travel and can't accommodate? I have a friend who doesn't drive and she has a child, so she only meets at clubs. It's a good option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted?

If they can't drive, don't have a car or lost their licence. They can't travel far and rely on taxi's. If they have children or lodge with people. They can't accomodate maybe ??

*Spelling mistake in previous version*

I wasn't asking why they can't do either, I was asking the previous poster why he thought the profiles with both on couldn't be trusted.

I know all the reasons why some can't already "

Ooohhh, pardon me for replying, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted?

If they can't drive, don't have a car or lost their licence. They can't travel far and rely on taxi's. If they have children or lodge with people. They can't accomodate maybe ??

*Spelling mistake in previous version*

I wasn't asking why they can't do either, I was asking the previous poster why he thought the profiles with both on couldn't be trusted.

I know all the reasons why some can't already "

I couldn't understand why someone telling the truth made the rest of their profile suspect either!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think we all need to go to jeds to try out his breakfast.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted?

If they can't drive, don't have a car or lost their licence. They can't travel far and rely on taxi's. If they have children or lodge with people. They can't accomodate maybe ??

*Spelling mistake in previous version*

I wasn't asking why they can't do either, I was asking the previous poster why he thought the profiles with both on couldn't be trusted.

I know all the reasons why some can't already

Ooohhh, pardon me for replying, lol."

Reply anytime you want to, it's what I did too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean.

Why does it look inconsistent?

If they can't accommodate or can't travel then they can't and they are telling the truth on their profile so why would the rest of their profile not be trusted?

If they can't drive, don't have a car or lost their licence. They can't travel far and rely on taxi's. If they have children or lodge with people. They can't accomodate maybe ??

*Spelling mistake in previous version*

I wasn't asking why they can't do either, I was asking the previous poster why he thought the profiles with both on couldn't be trusted.

I know all the reasons why some can't already

Ooohhh, pardon me for replying, lol.

Reply anytime you want to, it's what I did too! "

There is a rumour that breakfasts are available aswell.Are they 'all day breakfasts", lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean you come to her home town and get a room basically?"

It means don't expect me to travel miles and don't expect me to accommodate. Always remember if someone likes what they see there is room for movement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have can't accomodate because i have my son living with me. so i can't always accomodate. it also means i get to be selective over who i give me address to.

i also put i don't drive, because i don't fancy travelling all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i pretty much cant accommodate or travel, as i have kids so dont give out my address but also i dont drive, so yes basically for me i use local clubs, visit local guys who can accommodate or hotels in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant accommodate as ive a son living with me however, as he works, i can book the day off to meet someone if necessary.

When i registered on here last October, i couldnt travel far at all as my finances stopped me from going further than Stroud. Now though im getting them sorted, i can travel a bit further afield like Bristol, but thats as far as i can manage.

Means people do have to come to me most of the time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have cant travel as i dont drive but in theory i can use public transport. But the long and short of it is i wouldnt travel to meet anyone, i can accomodate so im damn sure im not catching a train to meet someone(plus im a lazy cow)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have cant travel as i dont drive but in theory i can use public transport. But the long and short of it is i wouldnt travel to meet anyone, i can accomodate so im damn sure im not catching a train to meet someone(plus im a lazy cow)"

a gorgeous one though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I prefer catching the train - often less hassle, hotels are always nearby them and you can have a friendly drink beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you consider travel/accommodate.

Ok,say we can travel to towns around our home town kinda thing.

And say we can accommodate for a play but not overnight stay.

This could be read several ways.....

Can't travel because people may assume you can travel to the next city or beyond.

Can travel because you can travel a few short miles.

Can't accommodate because you don't have a spare bed for visitors to stay in overnight.

Can accommodate because you can have people over for a meet.

Simple really, it's open to perception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way of saying "in your dreams only" lol

Seriously though, it's points like this that look inconsistent that ask questions as to the reliability of other parts of the profile...and people wonder why they get unwanted approaches when their profiles can't be trusted to mean what they are intended to mean."

wow, negative thinking.

As been touched on.....

There's Hotels, Clubs, Swing Hotels, Dogging, and if someone is generous enough to offer a lift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lot of bad points, almost all my points are bad, but my breakfasts are known the world over and hard to beat, check my verifications, nobody ever mentions my willy or my sexual abilities (unless it's my ability to last the FULL 2 minutes) but my breakfasts get a mention "

No mushrooms with mine please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lot of bad points, almost all my points are bad, but my breakfasts are known the world over and hard to beat, check my verifications, nobody ever mentions my willy or my sexual abilities (unless it's my ability to last the FULL 2 minutes) but my breakfasts get a mention

No mushrooms with mine please "

i'll have yours as i love em

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have a lot of bad points, almost all my points are bad, but my breakfasts are known the world over and hard to beat, check my verifications, nobody ever mentions my willy or my sexual abilities (unless it's my ability to last the FULL 2 minutes) but my breakfasts get a mention

No mushrooms with mine please "

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have a lot of bad points, almost all my points are bad, but my breakfasts are known the world over and hard to beat, check my verifications, nobody ever mentions my willy or my sexual abilities (unless it's my ability to last the FULL 2 minutes) but my breakfasts get a mention

No mushrooms with mine please

i'll have yours as i love em "

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Why does it look inconsistent?"

I guess it's because the profile is set out in such a way that you expect one or the other option to be in the affirmative, if someone wants to meet up.

"Can't travel" taken literally, reads that you cannot get away from your home, maybe for very good reasons. And if you can't accommodate in your home either, how are you ever going to get a meet? Maybe if there were radius of travel options it may be a bit clearer. Putting both into the negative can give the impression that either the options have been forgotten about, or that there is no way to get a meet with the person/people in the profile, or that they don't mean quite what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I don't take anything written on a profile literally

For the can't travel can't accommodate people I would just think well they can only play in their home town,if im that interested I would ask them,I would'nt think they were inconsistant

I say I can travel,that does'nt mean Im going to trek across the other side of the country for a meet though

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Why does it look inconsistent?

I guess it's because the profile is set out in such a way that you expect one or the other option to be in the affirmative, if someone wants to meet up.

"Can't travel" taken literally, reads that you cannot get away from your home, maybe for very good reasons. And if you can't accommodate in your home either, how are you ever going to get a meet? Maybe if there were radius of travel options it may be a bit clearer. Putting both into the negative can give the impression that either the options have been forgotten about, or that there is no way to get a meet with the person/people in the profile, or that they don't mean quite what they say. "

Totally disagree with your explanation, the people themselves will know what they mean and what they can do with accommodating and travelling for their own reasons so it still doesn't mean the rest of their profile is inconsistent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lot of bad points, almost all my points are bad, but my breakfasts are known the world over and hard to beat, check my verifications, nobody ever mentions my willy or my sexual abilities (unless it's my ability to last the FULL 2 minutes) but my breakfasts get a mention "

Having experienced one of your reknowned breakfasts Jed I can vouch for how awesome they are. I haven't sampled anything else you have to offer but I'm sure that's just as awesome

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

My eggs sunnyside please Jed.

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By *ustforusMan
over a year ago

cambridge

i can travel by road and sea if your by a river am i unique ha-ha...mal

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