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First meet on fab - good or bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here a while now on and off

So first meet on here was it good or a disaster

We're you nervous or just soooo excited that someone agreed to actually meet you from a swinging site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good - very nervous and no need to have been - but we still get nervous for no reason now

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not sure it counts......

Arranged to meet a girl from this site who had been verified and when I turned up at her house there was no sign of life and no answer from her phone!

On reflection it was probably just a random address!

I lived to tell the tale though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"good - very nervous and no need to have been - but we still get nervous for no reason now "

Is it nervous excitement?

Or pure anticipation of what you think or hope is gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet started well, met in a local pub, had a few drinks, got on really well. He invited me back to his, had an awkward fumble on the sofa, he couldn't get it up, he apologised and I left!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for my first meet off this site. But my first meet before went fine as we went for a drink first to steady both our nerves.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

First meet was best ever meet a girl off here we went to party and we were the main attraction. We fk all night and she was with 4 women to they all played dont think wil ever get one like that again. Second meet off here met a lady and within 5 min we were at it in loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was great, shame he's not on here to play anymore. Became a regular fb for a while and had some fantastic filthy fun... Opened my eyes to this wonderfull world.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

we arranged to meet a couple at a club , we have been best friends ever since ,,,,, best thing to off ever happened to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was a disaster. He was so not what I expected. He was rude and spent 30 mins texting and ignoring me before I got up and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet in this site was ok, was supposed to be a gangbang but I was the only one to turn up!

So had 1 on 1 with the lady while her fella watched, it was functional and enjoyable - I think they were disappointed as they had hoped for a GB though (I did offer to leave bit they were happy to proceed with just me). Sadly the meet was unverified though despite them saying they would (I had no veri's at the time)

Second and third meets were both awesome though! This is a great site and I've met more on here in 3 months than years on other sites

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Was pretty damn good, if I recall (and I do).

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It was lovely. Enough said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It went really good, was last year, she came to my place, we had sex and a great time

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Was about 8 yrs ago and was very good, we met a few times before they had to leave the area due to work commitments

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Well my first meet on here was as a single guy and it clearly was very good as that was a year ago and have been on here together as a couple for a while now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet as a couple was with two lovely forumites, so Fab !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was great. First time i'd fucked a woman while her fella watched. And took pictures and video. Was a little nervous before they arrived but was soon put at ease and we all had a great time. Enjoyed it so much we met again within the week. Lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was pretty good. Didn't end up managing to meet again, for various reasons, but I would have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a while now on and off

So first meet on here was it good or a disaster

We're you nervous or just soooo excited that someone agreed to actually meet you from a swinging site lol "

A horny hell of a first meet was had. I do however have some fecking awful meets under my belt.

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"My first was a disaster. He was so not what I expected. He was rude and spent 30 mins texting and ignoring me before I got up and left. "

You have to be kidding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male- ended up meeting someone I didn't fancy but ended up fucking and regretting it, never again !!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Great first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to have my 1st meet very soon any advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How weird I don't understand why you'd want to waste someone's time maybe that's what gets her off?

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

It was good. Met in a pub first and then went back to her place for some unhurried fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a great guy a couple of weeks ago, and I'm so pleased I did, he's lovely. I did get the pre meet nerves though, so much so I couldnt sleep the night before!!! He looked like his photos, and was a total gent, very happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First one I had I carried on seeing for the next three years !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Very good saw him almost every Monday for over four years until he moved to the other side of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous as hell! Though shouldn't have been.....its almost two years now and she's still an amazing friend. We don't play any more, life has moved on but we remain close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a great guy a couple of weeks ago, and I'm so pleased I did, he's lovely. I did get the pre meet nerves though, so much so I couldnt sleep the night before!!! He looked like his photos, and was a total gent, very happy! "

Eeek! Your talking about meeeee! Hiya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great, although there was a sudden change of plans just before I was meant to arrive that had I been told about in advance I might not have gone through with but very glad I did.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

Is it bad that I can't remember?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to have my 1st meet very soon any advice x "

Be yourself fella really and don't go in with any expectations.....also, embrace the nerves, I think a lot of people get them...I know I still do but they pass and I'm sure you'll have a good time! Have fun and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers few drinks will help lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a bag of nerves. Absolutely no need: she was a nurse, so was a great talker, calm, self-assured, confident and kept things relaxed and friendly.

An ideal first meet really!

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Must be lucky, as never had a bad meet - a few that weren't as good as others but never bad .

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

It was good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a bag of nerves ad shaking like a leaf. He was a sweetheart who got into my car and held my hand till I calmed down lol we met a few times after that so it didn't put him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet became my FB for quite a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was somewhat good and funny

Met for a drink got on well left after about an hr of chatting and calming me down

So invited him in for coffee

He's in the living room I'm in kitchen making coffee

I say hang on can't hear you sorry

As i turn with the coffee in

Hand he's stood naked

Lmao with a massive hard on

lol

Mouth fell open the rest is well you know awesome haha

Great ice breaker xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet was somewhat good and funny

Met for a drink got on well left after about an hr of chatting and calming me down

So invited him in for coffee

He's in the living room I'm in kitchen making coffee

I say hang on can't hear you sorry

As i turn with the coffee in

Hand he's stood naked

Lmao with a massive hard on

lol

Mouth fell open the rest is well you know awesome haha

Great ice breaker xx "
makes notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so nervous I nearly peed myself on the train going . It was a awesome meet though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a first meet (on here - I had been active on another site previously) it was excellent.

What was arranged as a glass of wine, a chat and "just an hour" turned into an overnight stay and several hours of fuckathon.

Several other meets followed...then the usual!

She decided to come off the site and be exclusive. Said she was ok with me staying on site....but actually she wasn't. The green eyed monster came out.......Exit stage left!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my first social meet within 2 hours of joining the site. Was a really nice guy but after meeting two more times he decided he wanted us to have a relationship and be exclusive.

I ran....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was beyond awful, with a very horribly natured, selfish and cruel man.

Wish I never met him, but hey ho, we live and learn.

Thankfully I've had much much much better meets with lovely men since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet was beyond awful, with a very horribly natured, selfish and cruel man.

Wish I never met him, but hey ho, we live and learn.

Thankfully I've had much much much better meets with lovely men since. "

Blimey! Surprised it didn't put you off. But glad it didn't x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Like so many of you I was nervous. So nervous I pulled up at the wrong house where a large group of men where having drinks. Petrified thought I had been invited to a gangbang. Didn't get out the car and just text that I was going home.

However we worked out it was the wrong address. Meet was good but functional. No flirting. Just should be retire to the bedroom? However that was just what I needed that night. (Not a gangband though). We only met one more time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first meet was very good, I was nervous because I had some not so good experiences on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a single guy and all went well, the excitement and nervousness when the door chapped was amazing

After a chat , it all started

Met 1 more time so must have been good lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to tell you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first experience was at a club and was amazing !

Our first private meet was absolutely incredible

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

My first meet on fab.... as far as I can remember lasted 5 months.... and she was 1 of only 2 women to ever give me an amazing bj. ...

Who'll be the third?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent time saw two people in a club where one had some distinctive body art they luckily had posted a review of the night and after some messaging ended up going back and having a lovely little six some together after a newbie couple wanted in.

Great times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet on here was great. I was really nervous but was alright after I met up with her.

We chatted in a café for a while and then head straight to her flat and as soon as we got in, we started kissing, took our clothes off and had some really good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabulous, very nervous but soon got into th 'swing'

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