FabSwingers.com forum: yes, i must be fake!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all see couples wanting a single female ... But cant find any.

They contact you, see your picture and then comes the usual reply "your just a single guy"

Maybe you cant get a female to play with because you don't believe we are real, but that's your problem, right?

So there you have it, I'm fake.

I show my picture in public as I have nothing to hide, not ashamed of what I like to do ... Or is it that I really am just a sad single guy?

Don't be fooled by the fact I am meet and photo verified though ... Obviously its all fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think your lovely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest it's them that's fake,

I mean, I'd say that probably 85% of all female and Cpls profiles on here state that the fem is Bi.

Is this reality? Are 85% of woman in real life Bi? I think not, Im certain most just put it there to come across as extra sexy, and as soon as someone calls their bluff their get out claws is to turn it round on you!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I suppose someone could reverse image your main photo I suppose. That's one way several wannabes have been caught out, then they remove their photo, then hid their profile and usually a bit later, are UNLOS. To be back next day with another faked up profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh ive had that as well. So my 40 odd (many forum regulars) veris are slso fake, and their vetis are fake. In fact we are all fake im going to block myself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd suggest it's them that's fake,

I mean, I'd say that probably 85% of all female and Cpls profiles on here state that the fem is Bi.

I don't think that it's an entirely representative sample...but am in agreement broadly...many, we find claim to be because of the make attention it gets you or because they are trying to please a male partner...you can usually tell very quickly which they are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, maybe it's because you mention face pics at least four times in your short profile, and are very pushy, almost aggressive, on the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have a couples profile when you play alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why have a couples profile when you play alone?"

Alarm bells when it says 'male plays alone' not saying that it's always just a guy but makes you wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems to be all about the face

Nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all see couples wanting a single female ... But cant find any.

They contact you, see your picture and then comes the usual reply "your just a single guy"

Maybe you cant get a female to play with because you don't believe we are real, but that's your problem, right?

So there you have it, I'm fake.

I show my picture in public as I have nothing to hide, not ashamed of what I like to do ... Or is it that I really am just a sad single guy?

Don't be fooled by the fact I am meet and photo verified though ... Obviously its all fake

Why are you so preoccupied with the old dial?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile seems to be all about the face

Nothing more"

Oh oops...you just typed that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile seems to be all about the face

Nothing more"

No treble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl how many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile seems to be all about the face

Nothing more

No treble?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, I'd say that probably 85% of all female and Cpls profiles on here state that the fem is Bi.

Is this reality?"

85% of women on Fab might be Bi...?????

Oh, dear god, I so wish...!!!!!!!

Quietly turning into a quivering wreck here at the mere thoughts.....

Oh, and I do think that the OP looks cute!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op, maybe it's because you mention face pics at least four times in your short profile, and are very pushy, almost aggressive, on the subject."

In defence of the op theirs is quite sedate compared to some that I've seen. Especially when it comes to the subject of single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading your profile (op) is making me question my own. Could people have a quick read through my profile and tell me if I come across as a cunt as well. "

You want what you want but I can't see how you could turn down a guy with say...7 inches if he were otherwise agreeable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, I'd say that probably 85% of all female and Cpls profiles on here state that the fem is Bi.

Is this reality?

85% of women on Fab might be Bi...?????

Oh, dear god, I so wish...!!!!!!!

Quietly turning into a quivering wreck here at the mere thoughts.....

Oh, and I do think that the OP looks cute!!!

I think that should be 85% of women are expected to be bi, it's odd that most couples that message us always talk about how Mo would enjoy the girl on girl play yet Mo is straight on our profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all see couples wanting a single female ... But cant find any.

They contact you, see your picture and then comes the usual reply "your just a single guy"

Maybe you cant get a female to play with because you don't believe we are real, but that's your problem, right?

So there you have it, I'm fake.

I show my picture in public as I have nothing to hide, not ashamed of what I like to do ... Or is it that I really am just a sad single guy?

Don't be fooled by the fact I am meet and photo verified though ... Obviously its all fake

Your profile text comes across as potentially a single entity with lots of I's than we's and assuming one verification or photo verification makes someone genuine is naive as both are so easily faked.

If people don't want to meet you then live with it not everyone appeals ot everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its because ur a knockout

some people see things as too good to be true or too good for you(you being them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all see couples wanting a single female ... But cant find any.

They contact you, see your picture and then comes the usual reply "your just a single guy"

Maybe you cant get a female to play with because you don't believe we are real, but that's your problem, right?

So there you have it, I'm fake.

I show my picture in public as I have nothing to hide, not ashamed of what I like to do ... Or is it that I really am just a sad single guy?

Don't be fooled by the fact I am meet and photo verified though ... Obviously its all fake

If people don't want to meet you then live with it not everyone appeals ot everyone. "

To be fair it does read like a single persons profile and does not really say what is on offer but before anyone else says it, they didn't ask for a profile critique but just wanted a moan about other users

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

People thought I was fake with 1 veri...and even with 10 veris

same people now kicking themselves

To OP though, I refuse to send face pic without some contact first whether the other person is young/hot/verified or not, so you might be putting a lot of people off. Great that you show your face pic but not everyone is so comfortable doing so

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Stealth look at me thread?

Stealth look at me thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same, although, I wouls think single guy looking at the profile

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We all see couples wanting a single female ... But cant find any.

They contact you, see your picture and then comes the usual reply "your just a single guy"

Maybe you cant get a female to play with because you don't believe we are real, but that's your problem, right?

So there you have it, I'm fake.

I show my picture in public as I have nothing to hide, not ashamed of what I like to do ... Or is it that I really am just a sad single guy?

Don't be fooled by the fact I am meet and photo verified though ... Obviously its all fake

If people don't want to meet you then live with it not everyone appeals ot everyone.

I suppose the only way to respond to the OP's question involves referring to the profile though - otherwise how can you make suggestions as to why people may think as they do?

As others have said - there's a lot of 'I's' rather than 'we's'.

Add in a few oddities - stating a face pic will only be sent if one is received, when one is already visible for starters.

We all make our own minds up on whether someone is for real based on our own perceptions and judgements.

If there's a pattern emerging - the only way to change that is to do something different. But that's the choice of the profile owner alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same like here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always demand face pics, otherwise the editor won't take the story....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often people who start threads about being fake , tend to be fake .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The esiest way is to put up a pic of u 2 toghether in one pic.. easy, job done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often people who start threads about being fake , tend to be fake .

True, it's perfect cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often people who start threads about being fake , tend to be fake .

True, it's perfect cover.

Plus I like the green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often people who start threads about being fake , tend to be fake .

True, it's perfect cover.

Plus I like the green arrow "

My favourite super hero!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd suggest it's them that's fake,

I mean, I'd say that probably 85% of all female and Cpls profiles on here state that the fem is Bi.

Prob right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile seems to be all about the face

Nothing more

No treble?

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The esiest way is to put up a pic of u 2 toghether in one pic.. easy, job done! "

Yes I was thinking that too at least it shows your a couple then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The reason we have a couples profile is that we had started out by playing as a couple.

We later discovered that he finds it a turn on that I play alone and to give him the details later ... But he is available should the right people request a couple.

So having updated the profile myself, I do talk more like I'm single as its about me playing more than anything.

I don't mind that people don't like to send face pics right away, I mention it a few times as most people on here need to read it more than once for it to actually sink in.

Its important to me as I'm here for sex, I like to see that ill find you attractive and then take it from there ... Kind of helps to avoid conversations I don't need.

But my point is, why deem me as fake just because I show my face?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The reason we have a couples profile is that we had started out by playing as a couple.

We later discovered that he finds it a turn on that I play alone and to give him the details later ... But he is available should the right people request a couple.

So having updated the profile myself, I do talk more like I'm single as its about me playing more than anything.

I don't mind that people don't like to send face pics right away, I mention it a few times as most people on here need to read it more than once for it to actually sink in.

Its important to me as I'm here for sex, I like to see that ill find you attractive and then take it from there ... Kind of helps to avoid conversations I don't need.

But my point is, why deem me as fake just because I show my face?

As has been said - it's probably nothing to do with you showing your face. Plenty choose to do so. Any decisions people make will be based on the whole profile and any subsequent contact.

There are people we've never met before that if we saw a verification from somebody we had met, a long standing well verified site member or who has multiple visible verifications including club/social visits - we would have high confidence in them being 100% who they say they are.

Other profiles? We will maintain the right to be more cautious.

Right or wrong this is how we choose to interact on here. Others may do the same. Other may do things differently.

But as I said before - if there is a pattern emerging that the majority are suspicious then the onus is on the profile owner to change that mindset - not the rest of the sites members. the only people that can change someone's perceptions are the profile owners themselves.

Fab (and life) give many helpful tools to enable this.

The choice to use them is down to the individual.

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