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When does Bi-curious become bi and how did you try for the first time?

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By *t.Should.Be.Fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

As the title really?

My partner has recently decided that she isn't bi-curious anymore she just loves sex with women so she's bi lol!

She had been really curious and wanted to experiment with other women for ages but just felt nervous every time we tried to make it happen (before we found this site or swingers clubs btw) so for all the girls out there (and guys I suppose lol) where you nervous and how did you get over it and do you now consider yourself curious or just plain bi ?

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your bi-curious if you wanna do it

your bisexual if u did it and you wanna do it again

your straight if you dont do it and dont want to do it

your straight if you try it but dont wanna do it again

thats what i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my profile says bi curious, but im waaayy past the curious stage, i just love men too much to say im completely bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your bi when you realise you want to try it, I am straight, not homophobic but know that it is not for me, if I ever thought I wanted to try it I would class myself not as Bi-curious but as Bi but damn I haven't had a chance to try it yet.

Oh and anyone thinking "don't knock it till you try it", have you ever put your head in a fire ? and anyway I don't knock it I just know myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my profile says bi curious, but im waaayy past the curious stage, i just love men too much to say im completely bisexual."

errr bi-sexual means you love both sexes lol, it doesn't matter if it's 70% men and 30% women

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling


"my profile says bi curious, but im waaayy past the curious stage, i just love men too much to say im completely bisexual.

errr bi-sexual means you love both sexes lol, it doesn't matter if it's 70% men and 30% women "

I don't think i could ever have a full blown relationship with a female which is why i have 'labelled' myself as bi-curious but i prefer the term bi-playful

xAx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"your bi-curious if you wanna do it

your bisexual if u did it and you wanna do it again

your straight if you dont do it and dont want to do it

your straight if you try it but dont wanna do it again

thats what i thought "

I agree although I would add that I don't think im emotional bi in that I don't think I could have a full on relationship with another woman,but I love having sex with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your bi-curious if you wanna do it

your bisexual if u did it and you wanna do it again

your straight if you dont do it and dont want to do it

your straight if you try it but dont wanna do it again

thats what i thought

I agree although I would add that I don't think im emotional bi in that I don't think I could have a full on relationship with another woman,but I love having sex with women "

thats wher my favourite term hetro flexible comes in it means you only have relationships with the opposite sex but dont mind playing with the same sex from time to time for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comments should be interesting as I dared to ask a "straight" man who wrote about his first bi meet whether he should have straight on his profile.

He then changed it to bi-curious, and being an inquisitive sole simply asked how many encounters would he need to be simply bi! He replied good humouredly about three or four - but others thought I shouldn't have asked, and why did I need to know as I wasn't interest in bi-men!

Nowt as queer as folk...(pun intended?!!...

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

First bi experience at 15 so class myself as fully bi as i've never looked back. However i've always had male relationships and wouldn't do without them. Love my hubby as much as any woman could just fortunate enough that we both love swinging so i get the best of both worlds

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By *t.Should.Be.Fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

The first time for her to play with another girl was something of a turning point for her and both of us really and just thought we'd share it with you guys in case it gives someone any ideas and we'd love to hear youe stories too.

Like I said she was nervous but we'd talked about it so I booked a hotel room then ran her a bath with lots of bubbles some rose petals floating and a few glasses of champagne and nice music.

We'd booked an escort (because she didn't want it to be someone she knew and felt more comfortable with it being all about her and what she wanted) and I told her exactly what we wanted (nothing with me and her at all just about Sarah). She came in and got dressed in some sexy lingerie then I took her into the bathroom where she stripped for Sarah and got into the bath with her. We (me and the escort) washed her all over with sponges gently her then stood her up and had her stand there while we dried her off slowly before I blindfolded her and we walked her into the bedroom and layed her on the bed and gently tied her hands loosely to either side of the bed. I'd got some body lotions and strawberry's and ice etc and we (me and the other girl spent at least an hour just massaging her all over slowly so she couldnt see who's hands where doing what, then we started licking and kissing her all over teasing her with the fruit and ice and spent ages on her neck and breasts before we even started on anything else. We put a Dido Cd on and took turns to (very gently)go down on her (I'd told the girl she was very sensitive and to be ultra gentle)and kept swapping after every song so one would be kissing her and playing with her body while the other was going down on her and kept swapping, it ended with both of us licking her at the same time until she came and almost screamed the place down.

We then took the blindfold off and she was that turned on that things got really really naughty after that but thats another story! (the girl was booked for an hour and a half but stayed all afternoon for nothing and has met us a few times since for free too lol) It ended with Sarah on top of the girl in a 69 with me taking her from behind and the girl licking her at the same time until she came and squirted all over her face and that just turned them both on even more !

Since then there's been no stopping her but it was the first time that decided for her in the words of Katty Perry that when "SHe kissed a girl she liked it" a lot lol xx

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"my profile says bi curious, but im waaayy past the curious stage, i just love men too much to say im completely bisexual.

errr bi-sexual means you love both sexes lol, it doesn't matter if it's 70% men and 30% women

I don't think i could ever have a full blown relationship with a female which is why i have 'labelled' myself as bi-curious but i prefer the term bi-playful

xAx"

bi playful is also how I classify myself...I enjoy playing with women, but has always been in a 3some/moresome situation...I don't think I would ever meet a woman one on one and I don't see a good looking woman walking down the street and think phoarrr I gotta have here(when I see good looking men on the other hand,....he he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i 1st tried it when i was single and young and I didnt regret it

I haven't played with a lady for over 9 years but I still class myself as bi

and if i met that lady i liked yes i would play again x

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

I would say im still bui cuirous as have only played lightly and not done the whole giving oral thing though have received it, i like playing but do like my men to much for it to be a full time full on thing, but enjoy playing and touching .... whats that make me ? ( aparat from a naughty little slut on occsion lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Bisexual, as in I've been in relationships with Men and Women.

To me, Bi-Curious is someone who is turned on by the thought of it but not actually played with a Women.

On the other hand, I hate labelling, maybe I should just be called greedy lol.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Well I'd always been straight...never curious about having a sexual encounter with a woman...had been approached several times when I was younger but always said it wasn't for me. I can honestly say I'd never even wondered what it would be like to play with a woman.......and then....last September I went to the very first Barnsley social and met a woman who I was aware of from the forums (and always found her quite scary). She, being a total exhibitionist, kept getting her tits out to show off her sparkly nipple jewellery. I couldn't take my eyes off her breasts....and in a very short space of time was wondering what it would feel like to have her nipples in my mouth. I took a lot of stick that evening because I'd been asked early in the evening if I was bisexual and I'd said no............but by the end of the evening (having had a suck of her nipples and a few kisses) I said I would be changing my status to bi-curious. A fortnight later I had to change it to bisexual....once we'd played together I knew I wanted to go back for more.

I have occasionally played with other women since - I do like kissing women and have developed a real love of breasts, but I definitely lust after men more than women. The exception to that being my first and best girlie....she is not just a "meet"...she is my friend, my lover and my playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with easteregg01, mine says bi-curious but love sex with men as well as women to much.

Though ive only had women in couple swaps or 3somes yet to meet a woman for a 1 to 1

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Wikipedia says:

The term bi-curious implies that the individual has had no sexual experience—or very little—of that sort, but may continue to self-identify as bi-curious if they do not feel they have adequately explored these feelings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wikipedia says:

The term bi-curious implies that the individual has had no sexual experience—or very little—of that sort, but may continue to self-identify as bi-curious if they do not feel they have adequately explored these feelings!"

i think im bi curious them with the above

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Oh dear - does that mean we are bi-slags?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

For us, my wife has always been open to the possibility of playing with women, mostly because they have always been grabbing her tits (she is very busty). For myself I started by wanking the odd guy off whilst she sucked them, before giving bjs at the side of her. I then tried a buttplug of hers and discovered that I loved receiving anal and the rest is history.

The strange thing is it now feels odd playing with a guy when not dressed up.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

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over a year ago

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